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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.
3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.
My question why?
Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?
Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?
I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.
Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?. |
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Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.
Whether it be-
Friends requests before chatting
Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now
Sending pics of their dicks
They dont have a clue and cant think of anything else other than their own horniness. Suspect friend requests is a scattergun approach in the hope they might get a brief glimpse of a pic they can get their load off to.
Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere  |
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I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.
It's on my profile that I don't respond to random friend requests, they still do it. Because they either haven't bothered to read the profile, or they think it doesn't apply to them because they're special  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.
It's on my profile that I don't respond to random friend requests, they still do it. Because they either haven't bothered to read the profile, or they think it doesn't apply to them because they're special "
There are a few "special" folk on here to be fair! |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.
3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.
My question why?
Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?
Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?
I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.
Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?."
You not accepting it?
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"Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.
Whether it be-
Friends requests before chatting
Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now
Sending pics of their dicks
They dont have a clue and cant think of anything else other than their own horniness. Suspect friend requests is a scattergun approach in the hope they might get a brief glimpse of a pic they can get their load off to.
Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere "
It certainly does not spoil it for the decent guys , it just helps highlight that they are decent and know how to chat with a female.
Not me though, treat em mean keep em keen works best.
Right bitches who wants ta be ma bestie. Oops sry, quite a few of you are already on my friends list.  |
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"I only accept friend invites from those I have met or those I am likely to meet.
I generally let the other party invite me first. There are exceptions of course.
MHD, wanna be friends?  "
LMFAO Mrs She Devil thought you meant her and got all excited, shes not smiling now though when i pointed out it said MHD lol
You gotta random send me an invite Portland, so i can not accept and block you. |
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"I only accept friend invites from those I have met or those I am likely to meet.
I generally let the other party invite me first. There are exceptions of course.
MHD, wanna be friends?
LMFAO Mrs She Devil thought you meant her and got all excited, shes not smiling now though when i pointed out it said MHD lol
You gotta random send me an invite Portland, so i can not accept and block you. "
She should be so lucky!!
Wait till I'm asleep though, perv my friends only pics first, then block. Standard rules, innit!
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"I think it's a certain type who do it. They send out as many as they can in the hope that someone replies. The same ones who think that 'free now?' is a valid first message.
It's on my profile that I don't respond to random friend requests, they still do it. Because they either haven't bothered to read the profile, or they think it doesn't apply to them because they're special
There are a few "special" folk on here to be fair!"
So true  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.
3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.
My question why?
Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?
Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?
I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.
Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?."
If one of the profiles ticked all your boxes. Had a fantastic profile and you liked the pics. Would you still delete and ignore |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok so been at work all day open fab and have 6 friends requests from total random guys iv never spoken too.
3 of them have no private photos of their own just knobshots others have private pics.
My question why?
Do folk just ping a request in the hope folk oblige?
Do you send random requests? Or do you accept from random?
I accept once their offline to have a nosy but then delete right away lol.
Just seems guys that do this are getting their hopes up to be dashed?.
If one of the profiles ticked all your boxes. Had a fantastic profile and you liked the pics. Would you still delete and ignore "
of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accept random friend invites from people I've never met or spoken to. I do state that in my profile but there are a lot who don't read the profile. I myself have never done that and never would x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm new to this but I should imagine you would need to have a social first after chatting and if that went well you could be friends even if nothing else .. |
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"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?
I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met "
Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.
To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request. |
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My friends list is for people I meet and stay in touch with.
There are a lot of people on here who just collect friends though and will accept them all. They're probably the ones who like their pictures fabbed and keep track on how high they are in the rankings of "hot pics" x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?
I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met
Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.
To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request. "
So you can see theirs but they can't see yours? |
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"So why have them if youv not met them surely you can still chat?"
Simply because I see them as friends, may meet at some point, but as long as we chat that’s cool
Hotlist has some that I don’t chat too very often but they have hot pics and I enjoy a wee look now and again |
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"So...how many folk have friends on their list...they havnt actually met?
I have several, but I do chat with them even if not met
Same i have a few friends that I haven't met before but we chat often so I am comfortable with that.
To be honest my profile is hidden so they don't benefit from being my friend but I tell them before I accept their request. So you can see theirs but they can't see yours?"
Yip but I do tell them this before I accept their request. To be honest I don't have that many on my friends list but I do chat to those that are on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wake up to them . Sometimes I accept to sneak a look at the friends only pics before removing them again.
I think it funny they assume that friends pics are somewhat raunchier. Mine are all my face! |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
I don't even bother looking at the friends invites bit and I've never sent a random friends request without having met or arranged to meet.
I've 2 people on my friends list at the moment, that's more than enough friends for me on here, the anti social bugger that I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the scattergun approach of the desperado lol
We ignore everyone we don't know and only have 4 on ours from actual meets.
Imagine the crap we would all end up in if we accepted them all lol |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
I have friends I haven't met and will probably never meet, good patter is good patter
I've people I've met yet aren't friends too Goody though would consider them friends.
I get your point though Goody, its probably blokes wanting to see random bollock women. I'm sure for every 20 sent 1 accepts. |
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There are only one person on friends list I've never met, but I speak to them pretty much every day.
It would be strange to me using this site daily and spending any reasonable amount of time here and not forming friendships of some degree. I wouldn't waste my time otherwise. |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?
Maybe I'm too cynical lol"
Yeah I'm struggling to believe that one too. I would if I was a guy |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?
Maybe I'm too cynical lol"
Course we accept them
...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?
Maybe I'm too cynical lol
Course we accept them
...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies "
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?
Maybe I'm too cynical lol
Course we accept them
...have an oogle then delete them from friends...anyone who says they dont is telling wee porkies "
Do guys even get them? Well apart from ones from fab straight guys |
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"Simple fact is that there are a huge number of guys on here that dont seem to have a clue how to interact with a lady.
Whether it be-
Friends requests before chatting
Sending one liners saying wanna fuck now
Sending pics of their dicks
They dont have a clue and cant think of anything else other than their own horniness. Suspect friend requests is a scattergun approach in the hope they might get a brief glimpse of a pic they can get their load off to.
Unfortunately it really does spoil things for any decent guys on here. But we persevere "
lol bit of downplay the masses to appear like the golden oneim aure fems wont have seen that one.
Nobody spoils nothing for me im my own person.
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"Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol "
ive got porn in mine choclate pudding carmel cake and maria brizzard |
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"I'm suspicious of guys that are saying they don't accept random friends invites from females tho?
Maybe I'm too cynical lol
Yeah I'm struggling to believe that one too. I would if I was a guy "
i sincerly dont if i get random friend invs i mostly delete them (some i keep so they cant resend as they have priviously) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Iv only more face pics in my private gallery so think some think iv got some naked or porn pics that they are missing out on lol ive got porn in mine choclate pudding carmel cake and maria brizzard "
Carmel cake you say?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh I rarely notice requests or winks I just go in and delete all  I’m fussy about who I add as friends but tbh it’s not like I’ve got any friends only pics  |
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