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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
It's already creepy that you're not a professional photographer and you're photographing your wife's friends. Wouldn't worry what you say after that.  |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
Curve your back and raise your bottom....was this your wifes friend again? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be honest I would say it the way you have as you didn’t go to her asking to take photos, she asked you so nothing creepy there unless of course you took the photos naked  "
No had mine on lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No one said I sounded creepy but me and if I do this again I want to be able to direct the model without sounding how I felt I sounded if that makes sence |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Curve your back and raise your bottom....was this your wifes friend again?"
Not again for the first time she was great and a good laugh just think if I do this again with someone I don't know as well I might need to change my language |
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Curve your back and raise your bottom....was this your wifes friend again?
Not again for the first time she was great and a good laugh just think if I do this again with someone I don't know as well I might need to change my language "
Actually the best person to ask would be your wife's friend. Ask her for feedback after all she just got a free photo session  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Curve your back and raise your bottom....was this your wifes friend again?
Not again for the first time she was great and a good laugh just think if I do this again with someone I don't know as well I might need to change my language
Actually the best person to ask would be your wife's friend. Ask her for feedback after all she just got a free photo session "
I did ask her she said I sounded fine and made her feel relaxed but she said that might be because she knows me.
Doesn't have to just be on tge photoshoot I have written and deleted messages to ladies on fab or replys to forum post as when I read them back I think creepy bastard |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Don’t really need to say why she’s to move or you could just say it gives a better shape or makes the most of her assets. Most of us already know that wearing heels accentuates our bum and legs. Just remember that corsets restrict movement if your model is wearing one and they aren’t very comfortable to wear at times especially if sitting down. |
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Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera "
tut tut kola..your so cynical |
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera tut tut kola..your so cynical "
someone has to be with the amount of fluff thrown up folks ass |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will ask my tutors but this is a forum on a sex site and thought it would be an interesting discussion but you are free to think what ever you think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera "
I actually told a couple on her the other day that I wasn't ready or at the skill level need to take the pictures they wanted so get you facts straight |
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera
I actually told a couple on her the other day that I wasn't ready or at the skill level need to take the pictures they wanted so get you facts straight "
my facts are straight before leaping on your white charger and you go all magnum pi.
Read whats written and not what you think is written as for your "proof" 99 fems contacted me to say........ my belief is as ive said you dont like it or me voicing it to bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera
I actually told a couple on her the other day that I wasn't ready or at the skill level need to take the pictures they wanted so get you facts straight my facts are straight before leaping on your white charger and you go all magnum pi.
Read whats written and not what you think is written as for your "proof" 99 fems contacted me to say........ my belief is as ive said you dont like it or me voicing it to bad "
Your a popular guy 99 females contacted you about my post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
Dangle a Curly Wurly behind the camera. Works for me |
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Dangle a Curly Wurly behind the camera. Works for me "
That wasn’t a curly wurly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Dangle a Curly Wurly behind the camera. Works for me
That wasn’t a curly wurly "
Didnae belong to you though...it was too big |
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Dangle a Curly Wurly behind the camera. Works for me
That wasn’t a curly wurly
Didnae belong to you though...it was too big "
Everything’s smaller these days  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Dangle a Curly Wurly behind the camera. Works for me "
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"Thats the pics she wants though i dont buy it asking randoms on a swing site instead of your tutors dosnt make sense to me.
Sorry but i see these posts as solicitation to get fems on both sides of your camera "
I gotta agree too. You saying you knocked back a couple the other day i do believe you. But had it been a fab single lady i believe your answer would have been different.
Your photographing women why would anything you say be creepy , the model obviously needs directing, dependant on the pics she wants . Saying things like pout yer ass is simply directing her. Sry JT but in my opinion though your here looking for more single fems, not advice. Good luck with it though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Your all entitled your your opinion only I know what I was thinking when I started the thread
If it was to get single ladies to pose for be it definitely didn't work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction "
Need to? Really? |
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction
Need to? Really? "
Wouldnt say it was ,"needed" but i think it would be expected . Unless the model had lots of experience and could offer tips and ideas to JT |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction
Need to? Really?
Wouldnt say it was ,"needed" but i think it would be expected . Unless the model had lots of experience and could offer tips and ideas to JT"
It was his wife's friend
It was always gonna sound unbelievably creepy |
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"And people wonder why folk post nonsense threads about favourite biscuits!
Think I might start one about eating too much - just had dinner then apple pie m custard and I’m full to burst!! "
Look on the bright side - your ass now 'pops' from your back... |
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction
Need to? Really?
Wouldnt say it was ,"needed" but i think it would be expected . Unless the model had lots of experience and could offer tips and ideas to JT
It was his wife's friend
It was always gonna sound unbelievably creepy "
Ok on this occasion i will concede your point. |
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I cant claim to know much about photography JT but was a 'pose ' necessary?
I thought these modern day cameras could do burst photos taking about 50 pics in the space of a few seconds. Which would allow you more room for error and experimenting. Then you just pick the best photos from the 50. Feel free to say i dont know what im talking about. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop "
Hahahahaha tough job ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And people wonder why folk post nonsense threads about favourite biscuits!
Think I might start one about eating too much - just had dinner then apple pie m custard and I’m full to burst!! "
Home made apple pie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent time with a very sexy lady yesterday taking pictures and found it very hard to compliment her without sounding like a myself I mean a pure perv.
So what should I say instead of curve your back to make your ass pop
Nothing the matter with that if your taking pics you need to give direction
Need to? Really? "
Maybe not the best choice in words but if your taking pics and you want the best shots for both of you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I cant claim to know much about photography JT but was a 'pose ' necessary?
I thought these modern day cameras could do burst photos taking about 50 pics in the space of a few seconds. Which would allow you more room for error and experimenting. Then you just pick the best photos from the 50. Feel free to say i dont know what im talking about. Lol "
That works if you don't care about lighting, shadows, depth of view and you get lucky and the model moves to the pose you are both happy with.
We all have our own ways of doing things just go with what works for you am bored now see you all later |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it’s good you’re concerned about how you sound to others. Especially if you think you might do more of this type of photography. It is possible to do erotic type photography without any other motivation. It’s quite popular these days in fact. I think Cadbury Girl’s advice was good in asking for feedback and if you’re aware then you’re already refining what you want to sound like.
To all you cynics... aye we all know there’s chancers out there - in everything from fab to second hand cars  |
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"I think it’s good you’re concerned about how you sound to others. Especially if you think you might do more of this type of photography. It is possible to do erotic type photography without any other motivation. It’s quite popular these days in fact. I think Cadbury Girl’s advice was good in asking for feedback and if you’re aware then you’re already refining what you want to sound like.
To all you cynics... aye we all know there’s chancers out there - in everything from fab to second hand cars "
Agreed Jane, theres a couple of things that just fueled my cynicism though. He said he already asked the female how he sounded and she said fine, thats the best feedback possible, well that plus the tutors advice and any training he has already had. Second, i asked a genuine question about how he takes the pics and he gave a very good explanation about lighting etc, things i never thought about. But he spoiled his answer by saying hes bored talking about it now in the thread ? .
Really ?
Does he no longer like the way the thread has gone with a couple of people challenging his motivation for starting the thread ?, has he lost interest in his hobby after answering 1 question on his chosen hobby ?. If your passionate about something you fight for it, not give an answer then say im bored talking about it. IMO only . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it’s good you’re concerned about how you sound to others. Especially if you think you might do more of this type of photography. It is possible to do erotic type photography without any other motivation. It’s quite popular these days in fact. I think Cadbury Girl’s advice was good in asking for feedback and if you’re aware then you’re already refining what you want to sound like.
To all you cynics... aye we all know there’s chancers out there - in everything from fab to second hand cars
Agreed Jane, theres a couple of things that just fueled my cynicism though. He said he already asked the female how he sounded and she said fine, thats the best feedback possible, well that plus the tutors advice and any training he has already had. Second, i asked a genuine question about how he takes the pics and he gave a very good explanation about lighting etc, things i never thought about. But he spoiled his answer by saying hes bored talking about it now in the thread ? .
Really ?
Does he no longer like the way the thread has gone with a couple of people challenging his motivation for starting the thread ?, has he lost interest in his hobby after answering 1 question on his chosen hobby ?. If your passionate about something you fight for it, not give an answer then say im bored talking about it. IMO only . "
Also agreed Mr Devil. However in reading the thread the replies IMO (and likewise it is only mine) were mostly not constructive which is what Jason was looking for. I think he also tried to create a topic for the forum to discuss. An opinion can be voiced without being either accusing or confrontational. Just my opinion of course. Lastly and in MY opinion (anyone can feel free to disagree, my big girl pants are on). I’ve never met Jason but his posts are, as far as I can see always fair, polite with a large dash of banter. I’m sure too going by his last posts he won’t mind me mentioning the fact he has dyslexia so maybe just sounding out opinions on expressing things with fellow fabbers. As I’ve said... constructive over confrontational and of course only my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I think this is just a guy trying to drum up business (the fab kind not financial)."
Why are you sorry? He asked a genuine question, got his answer and now if he gets some traffic to his inbox out of it as a welcome by product then I for one salute you Jason. |
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"Sorry, I think this is just a guy trying to drum up business (the fab kind not financial).
Why are you sorry? He asked a genuine question, got his answer and now if he gets some traffic to his inbox out of it as a welcome by product then I for one salute you Jason. "
Jack dont you dare mention forum by products, ive been humming the tune of ' im the king of the swingers ' all feckin day because you said its a ringtone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I think this is just a guy trying to drum up business (the fab kind not financial).
Why are you sorry? He asked a genuine question, got his answer and now if he gets some traffic to his inbox out of it as a welcome by product then I for one salute you Jason.
Jack dont you dare mention forum by products, ive been humming the tune of ' im the king of the swingers ' all feckin day because you said its a ringtone. "
Aye but did you pick anyone up in asda  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry, I think this is just a guy trying to drum up business (the fab kind not financial).
Why are you sorry? He asked a genuine question, got his answer and now if he gets some traffic to his inbox out of it as a welcome by product then I for one salute you Jason.
Jack dont you dare mention forum by products, ive been humming the tune of ' im the king of the swingers ' all feckin day because you said its a ringtone.
Aye but did you pick anyone up in asda
Na , never had my ankle bracelet in today. "
Sure.. But the pampas grass growing from your nostrils must have helped. |
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