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By *londe82 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse"
Haha yes ignoring until you take the hint is a good one.
I once had a guy tell me after months of chatting maybe it's not meant to be and posted meets looking for slim girls only |
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Had to cancel a couple of times in the past with genuine health reasons ie cold etc.
I actually had to cancel a meet last week with a lady I’ve been chatting too due to a medical issue I’ve been suffering with lately. She knows who she is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night "
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs |
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By *londe82 OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs"
You can always tell the genuine ones though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs
You can always tell the genuine ones though "
I've yet to see a death certificate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs
You can always tell the genuine ones though
I've yet to see a death certificate "
I did have someone cancel on me because their dad died then 5 minutes later post a meet hoping for a gang bang |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..  "
Thought that had only happened to me lol. No second chance. Onto the block list they went |
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By *londe82 OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs
You can always tell the genuine ones though
I've yet to see a death certificate
I did have someone cancel on me because their dad died then 5 minutes later post a meet hoping for a gang bang "
Ooft that is bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..
Thought that had only happened to me lol. No second chance. Onto the block list they went "
Nah.. I was kinda stupid and gave a few more chances. Finally took the hint though. |
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"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs
You can always tell the genuine ones though
I've yet to see a death certificate "
It in the post ha ha |
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..
Thought that had only happened to me lol. No second chance. Onto the block list they went
Nah.. I was kinda stupid and gave a few more chances. Finally took the hint though. "
Had a couple who cancelled on me while I was almost at their front door. she even gave me the address .. Clearly I knew it was lies right away first of all i knew who the lassie was/work. Use to talk to her when I see her locally but she wasn't going to say till I tell her. it because I knew who she was and she went yes.. Like I was going to walk into a shop and say aye I met her on fab and shag her |
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we canceled a meet due to her Monthly's arriving a week early then found out the couple was bad mouthing us saying we made it up it was a group meet so it never mattered if we showed up or not as a few did... if the couple read this they will know who they are! It was a genuine reason. |
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"A morning meet and he messaged about 7am to say he had been up with a stomach bug all night
I had to do this today genuinely but i knew it must have sounded like bs
You can always tell the genuine ones though
I've yet to see a death certificate
I did have someone cancel on me because their dad died then 5 minutes later post a meet hoping for a gang bang
Ooft that is bad "
That's a terrible thing to say |
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On of the sad things on here is people using excuses rather than just saying they are not interested or have chickened out.
It means if you do have a genuine reason for cancelling you get put down as a timewaster.
This happened to me with a couple.... we had a social...got on really well.... all looking good then I had to cancel at 2 full days notice due to a change in arrangements for that day... was very apologetic... but nope...chance gone
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"On of the sad things on here is people using excuses rather than just saying they are not interested or have chickened out.
It means if you do have a genuine reason for cancelling you get put down as a timewaster.
This happened to me with a couple.... we had a social...got on really well.... all looking good then I had to cancel at 2 full days notice due to a change in arrangements for that day... was very apologetic... but nope...chance gone
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Some either don’t believe or are so far up their arses they don’t care tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a social meet that went really well and we made arrangements for that weekend. He messaged me 2 days later to tell me he wouldn't make it because he was giving things another shot with his ex. It happens so I wished him well.
4 weeks later he's still on here several times a day.
I'd rather he'd just said he changed his mind or that he wasn't interested instead of feeding me a load of bull.
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"On of the sad things on here is people using excuses rather than just saying they are not interested or have chickened out.
It means if you do have a genuine reason for cancelling you get put down as a timewaster.
This happened to me with a couple.... we had a social...got on really well.... all looking good then I had to cancel at 2 full days notice due to a change in arrangements for that day... was very apologetic... but nope...chance gone
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So with you someone can’t cancel at all
Wow ! |
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"On of the sad things on here is people using excuses rather than just saying they are not interested or have chickened out.
It means if you do have a genuine reason for cancelling you get put down as a timewaster.
This happened to me with a couple.... we had a social...got on really well.... all looking good then I had to cancel at 2 full days notice due to a change in arrangements for that day... was very apologetic... but nope...chance gone
Some either don’t believe or are so far up their arses they don’t care tbh "
Sorry I completely misread that
I thought they cancelled you with 2 days notice and you then bombed them out
I need sleep |
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"On of the sad things on here is people using excuses rather than just saying they are not interested or have chickened out.
It means if you do have a genuine reason for cancelling you get put down as a timewaster.
This happened to me with a couple.... we had a social...got on really well.... all looking good then I had to cancel at 2 full days notice due to a change in arrangements for that day... was very apologetic... but nope...chance gone
Some either don’t believe or are so far up their arses they don’t care tbh
Sorry I completely misread that
I thought they cancelled you with 2 days notice and you then bombed them out
I need sleep "
Phew....
Glad you picked up on your misread...... was wondering how yo put you right without sounding like a dickhead  |
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting.. "
That really boils my piss. And then when they try to re arrange and you say nope they wonder why!! |
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..
That really boils my piss. And then when they try to re arrange and you say nope they wonder why!! "
Boils my piss haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..
Thought that had only happened to me lol. No second chance. Onto the block list they went
Nah.. I was kinda stupid and gave a few more chances. Finally took the hint though.
Had a couple who cancelled on me while I was almost at their front door. she even gave me the address .. Clearly I knew it was lies right away first of all i knew who the lassie was/work. Use to talk to her when I see her locally but she wasn't going to say till I tell her. it because I knew who she was and she went yes.. Like I was going to walk into a shop and say aye I met her on fab and shag her "
I’ve read this twice and still don’t understand it  |
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"worse if you dont even get an excuse
And they then display a veri that is obviously from the same day that you were supposed to be meeting..
That really boils my piss. And then when they try to re arrange and you say nope they wonder why!!
Boils my piss haha "
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Had a couple who cancelled on me while I was almost at their front door. she even gave me the address .. Clearly I knew it was lies right away first of all i knew who the lassie was/work. Use to talk to her when I see her locally but she wasn't going to say till I tell her. it because I knew who she was and she went yes.. Like I was going to walk into a shop and say aye I met her on fab and shag her
I’ve read this twice and still don’t understand it "
I think he means
Couple cancelled on him last minute
He thinks it’s because they knew each other and had spoken to each other outside of fab though she didn’t say this till he asked if that was the reason
He wouldn’t have discussed fab when he met her after the meet or mention their meet to anyone
Does that help |
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"we canceled a meet due to her Monthly's arriving a week early then found out the couple was bad mouthing us saying we made it up it was a group meet so it never mattered if we showed up or not as a few did... if the couple read this they will know who they are! It was a genuine reason. "
I wouldn't have believed you either
To be honest, I don't believe any excuse I hear anymore, because it's just happening too often (hence I mainly go for party and clubs these days, so if my date falls through I won't be sitting by myself).
Would definitely keep it to myself and not moan about it to anyone, on the off chance someone is actually telling the truth and if you make the shower and shave deadline I don't mind people bailing out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we canceled a meet due to her Monthly's arriving a week early then found out the couple was bad mouthing us saying we made it up it was a group meet so it never mattered if we showed up or not as a few did... if the couple read this they will know who they are! It was a genuine reason.
I wouldn't have believed you either
To be honest, I don't believe any excuse I hear anymore, because it's just happening too often (hence I mainly go for party and clubs these days, so if my date falls through I won't be sitting by myself).
Would definitely keep it to myself and not moan about it to anyone, on the off chance someone is actually telling the truth and if you make the shower and shave deadline I don't mind people bailing out x"
I always told folk I can normally meet anytime however o don’t know from one day to the next how my health will affect me and low behold I can sleep through days and not wake up and have missed meets, doctors appointments, kids events you name it unfortunately that’s how my life is |
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got excited, had a wank, jizz hit my phone right on the "delete account" option, then I jumped up and hit my head off the ceiling and had amnesia for 6 months until 5 mins ago now I remember it all so can you blow me tonight kthxbye x |
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"got excited, had a wank, jizz hit my phone right on the "delete account" option, then I jumped up and hit my head off the ceiling and had amnesia for 6 months until 5 mins ago now I remember it all so can you blow me tonight kthxbye x"
Now that's original |
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By *iolet82Woman
over a year ago
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I take cancellations as genuine and just happy they have contacted me to let me know. No point in winding myself up when I will never know whether it’s genuine or not. Although I get annoyed when people just don’t show.
One girl pretended she was outside my house and didn’t get an answer so left. Which was impossible. |
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Had a couple who cancelled on me while I was almost at their front door. she even gave me the address .. Clearly I knew it was lies right away first of all i knew who the lassie was/work. Use to talk to her when I see her locally but she wasn't going to say till I tell her. it because I knew who she was and she went yes.. Like I was going to walk into a shop and say aye I met her on fab and shag her
I’ve read this twice and still don’t understand it
I think he means
Couple cancelled on him last minute
He thinks it’s because they knew each other and had spoken to each other outside of fab though she didn’t say this till he asked if that was the reason
He wouldn’t have discussed fab when he met her after the meet or mention their meet to anyone
Does that help "
Yes that does help thanks lol. trying not to write a novel while explaining.. She was worried coz I knew who she was and get put right off.. Not sure if her man was the only one that sees my face pic when I first sent it...she most have seen it after she sent the address than make the excuse but then she did met a local couple which I found strange if shes not keen on meet local. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a guy cancel with no excuse. Later he told us a girl , he was single, told him she was pregnant with his child so he had to stay with her to support her.
He does now have a child so maybe it was true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree. I often think they were hoping to have lots of meets rather than one regular. Find they get back in touch when they realise they arent getting the meets and are desperate for sex.
Of course the standard excuses come out then, family issues appear to be the favourite? |
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