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By *ill67 OP Man
over a year ago
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sometime ago had loads of hassle and threats from women who can only be described as a lunatic after 1 meet from stealing pictures going to out you for being on the site naming guys on Facebook this was my first experience of this type why join a site to cos hassle and grief I know ladys on here can get lots of hassle which is bang out of order any guys experienced this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you just telling your story now?"
Maybe he was emotionally scared or embarrassed by it and took him a while to have the confidence to speak about  |
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"sometime ago had loads of hassle and threats from women who can only be described as a lunatic after 1 meet from stealing pictures going to out you for being on the site naming guys on Facebook this was my first experience of this type why join a site to cos hassle and grief I know ladys on here can get lots of hassle which is bang out of order any guys experienced this"
Always a risk when meeting someone particularly when it’s a no commitment meet as some people can’t cope with no strings part and may have been hurt before so act erratically. The danger is they rationalize their actions.
Of course I’m not like that- I am a friendly stalker
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We have met lots of people and never experienced this or experienced the accusations on the other thread that's running at the moment. Im wondering as there is lots of friends on here between people , the people that experienced this picture sharing and outing threats etc, did they warn their friends of the people or person responsible. I know if someone threatened MSD or myself with any of this shit id be sending about 30 messages out warning people about it.
OP how many people have you given the heads up to . ? |
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I got a ton of abuse via message on here yesterday from someone I’d never met and who doesn’t know me, the things said meant they definitely didn’t know me personally as they weren’t even accurate.
In that instance I blocked and reported, but if it was some one I had met/knew then I’d be sure to warn others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think because this can be a free site, it can attract the wrong type (sometimes)
Having said that, abuse can and has happened to lots on here from site supporters...
Sorry to hear op, best advice is block and move on as there is more nice folk on here than nasty... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately abuse and just being downright nasty is something that you get on here. I have my messages heavily filtered and I still get it.
Fingers crossed not had a stalker.
But there are also some lovely folks on here that make it worthwhile xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You wouldn’t be the first or last person to experience this, it comes from both sides Male and female, lots of people can’t handle rejection and jealousy, they really shouldn’t be on a site like this but the only thing you can do is block and move on, if they have stole pics and threaten to out you then report it to the police and at the very least report it to fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As much as us chicks get some crazy messages the stories I hear from some males getting so mych hassle from bunny boiler fems is as scary 
Hubby met a chick for a social said after it no thanks was waking up next day with 10/20 messages from her on fab obviously pissed then sober lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody likes to fell rejected or unattractive but people need to have a wee bit of self respect. If somebody doesn't fancy me I've far too much pride to pester them or make a tit of myself hounding them for attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool."
What a tit.
You don't like me or find me attractive so I'm going to stalk you and sit outside your house to intimidate you.
Aye, fair do's hen...won me over now. Faf? |
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool."
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
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And a drone too  |
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
And a drone too "
Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
And a drone too
Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house. "
Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs? |
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
And a drone too
Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.
Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs? "
Would you like me to. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
And a drone too
Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.
Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs?
Would you like me to. ? "
Only if you stick a wee toy gun in a holster too |
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
And a drone too
Ha ha , thats only used for any military strikes on people hanging around outside my house.
Do you wear a camouflage outfit when you're fiddling with the remote control knobs?
Would you like me to. ?
Only if you stick a wee toy gun in a holster too "
Ache youve spoiled the moment, dont do toys, leave those for MSD.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never mind...you'll still be more Don Estelle than Don Corleone
And you more like Mary Whitehouse than Amy Winehouse "
You denied yourself the Mary Whitehouse experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You think it's funny but she's been known to threaten to turn up at guys houses or work..that's not funny.
Only thing that stopped her threatening to do that with jas was because she knew I was on here So no married man playing away leverage for her to use.
Not cool.
Theres a lot of things that aint funny but that dosnt mean you cant find a little light humour in something.
Back to your point though, its said day in day out not to give out to much personal info, so did he give this crazy woman his address or place of work ?. If not then its really a mute point , if he did then hes left himself open if it could become a problem. Out of lots of people ive met from Fab nobody knows where i work , some know where i live but that personal info does not bother me .
Good alarm system and plenty of CCTV covers any probs.
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hell no...jas gave no information out.he only spoke through here.but other guys have more fool them yes but it shouldn't happen at all. |
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"As much as us chicks get some crazy messages the stories I hear from some males getting so mych hassle from bunny boiler fems is as scary
Hubby met a chick for a social said after it no thanks was waking up next day with 10/20 messages from her on fab obviously pissed then sober lol
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Ive heard of similar to this about a female many times,it sounds like the same person if they are told no to meeting again or if u take to long to reply to her messages she goes off on one |
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"It would be helpful to block folk on the forum that are on your personal block list, in my opinion.
Helpful in what way?"
It would make threads confusing if you cannot follow the conversation because you can’t see a blocked persons posts and they can be confusing enough at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s hard to track convos on the chat sometimes because you can’t see what blocked folks are typing and the conversation doesn’t make sense the same would happen with forums |
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Some people have problems, can have a front that shows an hot sexy free spirited swinger but delve deeper and you might have someone with mental health problems, anxiety and feeling let down by someone can trigger some terrible reactions
Did you start a relationship of sorts, how did she know your details to be able to do that?
It’s kinda scary tbh but this can easily happen
I once gave a taxi driver my phone number after a night out and was harassed non stop by phone calls years ago, it wasn’t nice and I didn’t know what to do |
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