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Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that! |
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over a year ago
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I sort of agree with bluebell, if you’re looking for feedback... well, be prepared for the Scottish forum... male or female you won’t be spared. What I will say is I need my mind to be sparked before anything else is (perhaps there’s a nerve goes from the brain to the clitoris  ) I’ve always found a better sexual connection with younger men. Your profile seeks excitement but offers none??!!? Just an observation and you did ask  . Good luck in your search OP  |
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over a year ago
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"Up to a point but don’t you think that older men show their appreciation more of a woman’s body?"
I'd like to think anyone I get naked with would appreciate me no matter what age.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Up to a point but don’t you think that older men show their appreciation more of a woman’s body?I'd like to think anyone I get naked with would appreciate me no matter what age."
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"It’s good to talk and listen. Like me the profile is a bit old and I am not really looking as I have a nice lady friend who I meet regularly. My post is more of an observation."
If I was looking for a single guy I wouldn't automatically rule out meeting someone outwith my age preferences if I'd spoke to them on here or in the chat room. But nearly 20yrs older is like 20yrs younger for me though....too big a jump. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd be worried an older guy would need viagra.... 
What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...  "
Then she'd be on him quicker than you can say "ello, ello, ello!" |
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"It’s good to talk and listen. Like me the profile is a bit old and I am not really looking as I have a nice lady friend who I meet regularly. My post is more of an observation.
If I was looking for a single guy I wouldn't automatically rule out meeting someone outwith my age preferences if I'd spoke to them on here or in the chat room. But nearly 20yrs older is like 20yrs younger for me though....too big a jump. "
I agree with Doggy in a sense... I am older, very much so and although I have general preferences set out I’d always make exceptions for someone that sparked interest, isn’t that what it’s all about here... the spark?!?! It might just be me and I might be wrong (it had to happen one day ) but I think Fab is just like real life with some social restrictions removed, it’s social as well as sexual though it can be used however you wish... hang on in there OP I’m sure there are lots of ladies you’ll appeal too |
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"I'd be worried an older guy would need viagra....
What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...
Then she'd be on him quicker than you can say "ello, ello, ello!""
He wouldn’t even get to utter “l will say this only wance” ( that sounded mair Glesga that Francais”  |
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"I'd be worried an older guy would need viagra....
What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...
Then she'd be on him quicker than you can say "ello, ello, ello!""
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over a year ago
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What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...
Ive never been in the police force!!
Ill get my coat"
Get yer bike leathers instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...
Ive never been in the police force!!
Ill get my coat
Get yer bike leathers instead "
that would also work.... In a few weeks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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What if he was an ex cop that still had his truncheon and cuffs...
Ive never been in the police force!!
Ill get my coat
Get yer bike leathers instead that would also work.... In a few weeks "
Motorbikecop/paramedic??? Ya dinna want much do ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Get yer bike leathers instead that would also work.... In a few weeks
Fugy in leathers?
Ye’d only want tae marry me"
Sakes that’s the engaged bird dumped - story of ma life |
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By *ugyukMan
over a year ago
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Get yer bike leathers instead that would also work.... In a few weeks
Fugy in leathers?
Ye’d only want tae marry me
Sakes that’s the engaged bird dumped - story of ma life "
That was tae abody that wants tae marry me |
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"For me i find younger men have more strength and stanima and move about better.
Quote of the day "move about better" "
Everyone is now challenged to work that into a conversation within the next 24 hrs |
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By *innettMan
over a year ago
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I would also just like to put out there. Just because your older that does not automatically mean you appreciate a woman's body more and have more "experience".
It entirely depends on the person you will get older lads who don't give a fuck just as much as a younger one.
And as to experience. Practise only makes perfect if your practising it perfectly. Just because someone is 20 years or more older than someone else does not mean they as always necessarily better at something.
Also... I don't need viagra |
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!"
Feel your pain ! Very difficult to thought about lying but that so wrong ! Seems when you go 50 up written off as weak and grey haired but as you know not the truth , fitter than some of the younger ones are ! I don’t judge either with older ladies though as had a brilliant social meet with the lady and certainly does not look her age to so maybe look higher up the scale you never know may meet a beautiful lady ! Hope you do ! Wishing you well |
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"For me i find younger men have more strength and stanima and move about better.
Quote of the day "move about better" "
Im quite active and very flexible so always have found younger men fitter in the bedroom. |
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Seems that on Fab women prefer younger men in the same way that, in real life men, prefer younger women and probably for the same reasons; fitter, firmer, etc. |
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Personally, I have found older men to be more clingy and oddly, more entitled. They have been in the “I bought you a drink so snog me” bracket. Not all, but most. I also haven’t fancied a lot of older guys.
I’ve met a few here and other sites where I’ve met for a coffee or drink and it’s been really pleasant but I’ve felt no spark.
The same as I’ve said above also has been the case with younger guys too.
The way I see it is folk are folk and regardless of age, no spark, no jiggy jiggy. |
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It's unlikely I'd be attracted to someone ages 65+. Unless they looked much younger. I'm not really in to the silver fox thing yet.
So it's way more shallow than their actual age for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about 30 something we need love too 
A dont marry guys
 I wasn't asking but I am a pretty guy
For a white guy "
Well that's what all the fab girls say anyways |
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What is it with guys & their age?? It's all down to personal preference (of everyone) in the end. Much younger for me is too close to my kids age, & much older is closer to my parents age. I much prefer to meet people of a similar/closer age range. For those that complain, have a look at your profile. Old/non existent pics, lack of content, ranty/moany status updates & forum posts don't do anyone any favours.
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!"
Your profile says you are 63, not 65+ ....... do you fib about your age on your profile? ......
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!
Your profile says you are 63, not 65+ ....... do you fib about your age on your profile? ......
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!
Your profile says you are 63, not 65+ ....... do you fib about your age on your profile? ......
R "
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Watch this one OP....fuck all gets past her |
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!
Your profile says you are 63, not 65+ ....... do you fib about your age on your profile? ......
R
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Watch this one OP....fuck all gets past her "
I'm trying to behave today too!
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"You’re too close in age to my dad. Likewise I wouldn’t meet anyone close to my sons age. As usual it’s all down to the ladies preference."
This is how I feel Anyone over 65 is too near to being an uncle or dad figure, and anyone near my kids age makes me feel very uncomfortable .. Nothing wrong with older men if it's someone's preference, however likewise men have specific preferences if people didn't moan and complain then they would appear more attractive |
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As I've got older I've found my age preferences shrinking. I don't find twentysomething guys particularly attractive, although there are exceptions but usually no younger than 28. I also don't find men around my dad's age or older attractive. My ideal window at the moment is 30-45, although that will change the older i get. No more than 10 years older than me though |
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"For me i find younger men have more strength and stanima and move about better.
Quote of the day "move about better"
Im quite active and very flexible so always have found younger men fitter in the bedroom."
I just found it an amusing phrase, hope you didn't think I was having a go or anything.
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"Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!
Your profile says you are 63, not 65+ ....... do you fib about your age on your profile? ......
R
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Watch this one OP....fuck all gets past her "
Miss Marple on the case! |
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On the flip side I wouldn’t want to go with a woman in their 20’s because it isn’t my thing.
I like a lady who is sexy and confident and although younger woman are visually attractive they don’t float my boat. |
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"On the flip side I wouldn’t want to go with a woman in their 20’s because it isn’t my thing.
I like a lady who is sexy and confident and although younger woman are visually attractive they don’t float my boat. "
Yep, totally the "visually attractive" thing.
I view younger guys and gals like the gorgeous clothes I see in shop windows and think "aye... maybe if I was still 25, but I'd look like a clown in it at 44". |
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I’ve had long term relationships with older men predominantly and had a great time both sexually and otherwise, but for me it’s about intellectual connection first, and that’s my mind to be stimulated and then sexual attractiveness, some older guys do have way more stamina and experience than some younger guys but then I like to be in control a lot of the time and the younger guys are more adaptable to a woman being in control I’ve found. On paper you don’t have much going for you compared to a lot of the younger guys profiles so perhaps you ought to try socialising in the first instance or upgrade your profile |
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I am 65 but for some reason the site has never kept up with my proper age. I have tried to change it myself but the site does not allow me for some reason.
I totally get the comments about not wanting to jump into bed with a man who is like your dad and I am not looking for anyone anyway. I also get it regarding going with someone young enough to be my daughter.
I am also realistic enough to know that some much younger women would never consider older men and would be suspicious if they were to say otherwise. I was just being curious as to why absolutely no one, not in my limited experience anyway, ever looks at my age group. |
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I’m confused... how do you know no one looks at your age group... I’ve seen quite a few older gents and ladies with very successful profiles... and if you’re not looking why do you say you are on your profile and why ask the question if your not bothered - not having a dig... just feel you’re not making sense but maybe I’ve picked the thread up wrongly. |
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"I am 65 but for some reason the site has never kept up with my proper age. I have tried to change it myself but the site does not allow me for some reason.
I totally get the comments about not wanting to jump into bed with a man who is like your dad and I am not looking for anyone anyway. I also get it regarding going with someone young enough to be my daughter.
I am also realistic enough to know that some much younger women would never consider older men and would be suspicious if they were to say otherwise. I was just being curious as to why absolutely no one, not in my limited experience anyway, ever looks at my age group. "
I just did and noticed your pics are 8yrs old which is quite misleading as your body shape may have changed a great deal since 2011. |
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Bluebell, this is a really valid point too. It’s also not an older man thing either. I’ve met guys my age and younger but the pics haven’t been up to date and I’ve left meeting them feeling very deceived
When I was 25 I was in a relationship with a 47 year old and it was fun as he was younger in both looks and behaviour but as I’ve grown older my tastes have changed and I prefer younger than me. This was not always the case clearly but we all change.
At the end of the day, we should not have to justify our tastes as that’s just what we prefer. And while there will always be exceptions to the rule, it’s our bodies, our choice and our own rules. Male or female x
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I never said no one looks and if people do it shows on my account that someone looked. The profile is quite old and a bit outdated, I am being lazy not updating it. I am not looking to meet anyone but I do enjoy seeing what is happening out there in the Fab world. I met a lovely lady on here a few years back, older but who cares, I am absolutely more than happy with our times together. Nothing to be confused about. |
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"I never said no one looks and if people do it shows on my account that someone looked. The profile is quite old and a bit outdated, I am being lazy not updating it. I am not looking to meet anyone but I do enjoy seeing what is happening out there in the Fab world. I met a lovely lady on here a few years back, older but who cares, I am absolutely more than happy with our times together. Nothing to be confused about."
I've looked at your profile but won't show. If you aren't looking to meet anyone then I'm not sure what your point is then op?
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"I never said no one looks and if people do it shows on my account that someone looked. The profile is quite old and a bit outdated, I am being lazy not updating it. I am not looking to meet anyone but I do enjoy seeing what is happening out there in the Fab world. I met a lovely lady on here a few years back, older but who cares, I am absolutely more than happy with our times together. Nothing to be confused about."
Why mention that your lady friend is older? |
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I think most people with a healthy appetite seek someone of a similar age to themselves. A huge age difference is in my opinion a sign of a deep rooted issue. Daddy didnt love them enough, he got no attention from girls at a younger stage in life.....
I accept this may sound offensive to many but its a genuine belief. My head may be turned by a lady in her early 20s but I wouldnt.
The OPs issue may be a lack of women of his age on here. |
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"Personally, I have found older men to be more clingy and oddly, more entitled. They have been in the “I bought you a drink so snog me” bracket. Not all, but most. I also haven’t fancied a lot of older guys.
I’ve met a few here and other sites where I’ve met for a coffee or drink and it’s been really pleasant but I’ve felt no spark.
The same as I’ve said above also has been the case with younger guys too.
The way I see it is folk are folk and regardless of age, no spark, no jiggy jiggy. "
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Why is it so hard to connect with ladies who would consider meeting up with guys 65 and over. In general we are experienced and usually quite good and considerate in bed but it seems that for some reason the ladies don’t want to know. A great shame and a missed opportunity I would say but then of course I would say that!
If you read your own post OP, along with the title... what’s WRONG with older guys, it sounds like your seeking reasons you can’t meet rather than just pondering the observation that older folk find it harder on site. No criticism there just trying to clear the confusion and negativity you seem to feel about some of the replies. I think RedRum has a point in saying there are less older people in general so the “pool” of similar age group is less and that’s using a good margin. That and men way outnumber women in any age bracket. |
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Nothing wrong with older guys. Some people have a preference, simple as that. I'm 30, so I wouldn't go with a 65yo, as he's more than double my age. Currently seeing a man 19 years older than me though, so I'm definitely a big advocate of age is just a number xx |
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"Nothing wrong with older guys. Some people have a preference, simple as that. I'm 30, so I wouldn't go with a 65yo, as he's more than double my age. Currently seeing a man 19 years older than me though, so I'm definitely a big advocate of age is just a number xx"
An excellent point |
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"For me i find younger men have more strength and stanima and move about better.
100% "
Most of the ones I've spoke to on here talk pish though. Being bendy can't make up for patter! |
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"In my head, a lot younger would be 20sec chumps Not good at all "
I find that leaves plenty of time for a nice cuppa though. And being a tenner richer. |
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"In my head, a lot younger would be 20sec chumps Not good at all
They might be good to go in another 20 seconds though... just saying "
This is why I prefer younger. There is no off switch
I just don't understand attractive young women on here shagging middle aged lard arses. You can get that down the pub!! |
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"In my head, a lot younger would be 20sec chumps Not good at all
They might be good to go in another 20 seconds though... just saying
This is why I prefer younger. There is no off switch
I just don't understand attractive young women on here shagging middle aged lard arses. You can get that down the pub!!"
There are plenty of younger lard arses around here too, both males and females!
You don't have to understand it though, it doesn't concern you, each to their own and all that! |
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"In my head, a lot younger would be 20sec chumps Not good at all
They might be good to go in another 20 seconds though... just saying
This is why I prefer younger. There is no off switch
I just don't understand attractive young women on here shagging middle aged lard arses. You can get that down the pub!!"
I read plenty of verifications from different folk and think "How the hell did that happen" as they're an unlikely pair. Who knows what goes on in our heads sometimes. |
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Sore back, aching joints, lack of hair on the head,we can go down on a woman but take ages to get back up. But that aside we know how to pleasure a hot woman well thats what we keep telling ourself ???????? |
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"In my head, a lot younger would be 20sec chumps Not good at all
They might be good to go in another 20 seconds though... just saying
This is why I prefer younger. There is no off switch
I just don't understand attractive young women on here shagging middle aged lard arses. You can get that down the pub!!"
we are not all lard arses as you call us ?? |
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"Sore back, aching joints, lack of hair on the head,we can go down on a woman but take ages to get back up. But that aside we know how to pleasure a hot woman well thats what we keep telling ourself ????????"
Suppose you should just stay down longer and keep pleasing her, no point in hurting yourself getting back up |
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"Sore back, aching joints, lack of hair on the head,we can go down on a woman but take ages to get back up. But that aside we know how to pleasure a hot woman well thats what we keep telling ourself ????????
Suppose you should just stay down longer and keep pleasing her, no point in hurting yourself getting back up "
Problem is.. I go down and forget what I'm there for. |
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"Sore back, aching joints, lack of hair on the head,we can go down on a woman but take ages to get back up. But that aside we know how to pleasure a hot woman well thats what we keep telling ourself ????????
Suppose you should just stay down longer and keep pleasing her, no point in hurting yourself getting back up "
true just as well i love oral ???????? |
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"Sore back, aching joints, lack of hair on the head,we can go down on a woman but take ages to get back up. But that aside we know how to pleasure a hot woman well thats what we keep telling ourself ????????
Suppose you should just stay down longer and keep pleasing her, no point in hurting yourself getting back up true just as well i love oral ????????"
That’s handy |
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