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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Taken this from a wider fab discussion but interested in Scottish view.
There is another thread where a guy says he can never cum in a womans mouth or from a bj or handjob generally. Always has to be penetrative sex. Lots of theories kicking about (such as never met the right person) but as someone who doesnt often cum this way I have always put it down to me always wanting to make sure a woman has had fun before I cum. So there is a mental thing for me that I shouldnt have pleasure that way first. Also that most woman dont really like it and so why should i expect them to do something they dont like.
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You could always tell the female in advance that you are about to cum and then she will have the choice whether to continue or stop. I love giving blowjobs but must admit i dont like it when a man explodes in my mouth with no warning. |
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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"You could always tell the female in advance that you are about to cum and then she will have the choice whether to continue or stop. I love giving blowjobs but must admit i dont like it when a man explodes in my mouth with no warning."
True .... but the point is that i sometimes dont get to the point i am going to explode because i might be worrying that she doesnt want me to.... or even that she is bored / put off that it is taking too long.
Maybe it would be different if a woman said she loved it and really wanted to keep sucking me until i explode in her mouth.... but its not often a conversation you have ahead of time (unless with a long term partner...) |
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over a year ago
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I lost interest in getting bjs for many years,but when done properly by a chick who genuinely loves sucking cock then it can be explosive and exhausting lol
69 also just does it  |
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"You could always tell the female in advance that you are about to cum and then she will have the choice whether to continue or stop. I love giving blowjobs but must admit i dont like it when a man explodes in my mouth with no warning.
True .... but the point is that i sometimes dont get to the point i am going to explode because i might be worrying that she doesnt want me to.... or even that she is bored / put off that it is taking too long.
Maybe it would be different if a woman said she loved it and really wanted to keep sucking me until i explode in her mouth.... but its not often a conversation you have ahead of time (unless with a long term partner...)"
Have the conversation before her gub is occupied  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could always tell the female in advance that you are about to cum and then she will have the choice whether to continue or stop. I love giving blowjobs but must admit i dont like it when a man explodes in my mouth with no warning.
True .... but the point is that i sometimes dont get to the point i am going to explode because i might be worrying that she doesnt want me to.... or even that she is bored / put off that it is taking too long.
Maybe it would be different if a woman said she loved it and really wanted to keep sucking me until i explode in her mouth.... but its not often a conversation you have ahead of time (unless with a long term partner...)
Have the conversation before her gub is occupied "
And if you can stop her from talking |
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over a year ago
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This is usually followed up by..are you gonna be the 1st to make me cum?
As us chicks think it's some sort of challenge?.
Like it don't like it all the same to me. |
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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago
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"This is usually followed up by..are you gonna be the 1st to make me cum?
As us chicks think it's some sort of challenge?.
Like it don't like it all the same to me."
Lol.... not in any way what I was looking for but I like the way you jump straight in there.  I have and hopefully will continue to enjoy receiving a BJ and from time to time enjoy it to the stage i cant hold it in any longer.
My point was that often, whilst I enjoy it, I dont cum that way because of some sort of mental block on my part and was wondering if others had the same experiences or thoughts on it.
Perhaps the responses maybe indicate the scottish Psyche of not talking about guy things like that. The general chat on a different thread seems to suggest it is quite widespread both from a guys perspective and from ladies experiences... but maybe we scots just dont like to talk about it.... or maybe we are so manly it never happens up here.... (growls.....downs a beer and smashes the can on his head) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No need to take my comments personally.
I'm only going by the messages I receive and I'm sure many other females do also.
Guys will use any tactic to get a meet.
Not all but some. |
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"You could always tell the female in advance that you are about to cum and then she will have the choice whether to continue or stop. I love giving blowjobs but must admit i dont like it when a man explodes in my mouth with no warning.
True .... but the point is that i sometimes dont get to the point i am going to explode because i might be worrying that she doesnt want me to.... or even that she is bored / put off that it is taking too long.
Maybe it would be different if a woman said she loved it and really wanted to keep sucking me until i explode in her mouth.... but its not often a conversation you have ahead of time (unless with a long term partner...)
Have the conversation before her gub is occupied "
I always forget to have conversation before hand with the lady and it is rude to talk with your mouth full  |
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I'll be the first to say it then. Lots of women aren't very good at sucking cock, only putting the head in, grating their teeth on it and not utilising their tongue around the edges, or not paying attention to the balls, not making the effort.
Not trying to be controversial, it's just the way it is.  |
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"I'll be the first to say it then. Lots of women aren't very good at sucking cock, only putting the head in, grating their teeth on it and not utilising their tongue around the edges, or not paying attention to the balls, not making the effort.
Not trying to be controversial, it's just the way it is. "
So you prefer blowjobs from men? |
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"I'll be the first to say it then. Lots of women aren't very good at sucking cock, only putting the head in, grating their teeth on it and not utilising their tongue around the edges, or not paying attention to the balls, not making the effort.
Not trying to be controversial, it's just the way it is.
So you prefer blowjobs from men?"
LOL, never had one and never will, just stating, in my opinion a fact, though you won't get a guy to say it at the time, cos if he did, he won't get another.  |
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"I'll be the first to say it then. Lots of women aren't very good at sucking cock, only putting the head in, grating their teeth on it and not utilising their tongue around the edges, or not paying attention to the balls, not making the effort.
Not trying to be controversial, it's just the way it is.
So you prefer blowjobs from men?
LOL, never had one and never will, just stating, in my opinion a fact, though you won't get a guy to say it at the time, cos if he did, he won't get another. "
Why would you want another if it was not good? |
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Didn't say all women. I should clarify that most times I've had one it's not been exactly mind blowing, but there have been times when it's been great and sometimes been to completion and exhaustive, but that's very seldom.
Just asking, is it always fantastic when someone goes down on you, and if not, would you stop wanting it? |
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"Didn't say all women. I should clarify that most times I've had one it's not been exactly mind blowing, but there have been times when it's been great and sometimes been to completion and exhaustive, but that's very seldom.
Just asking, is it always fantastic when someone goes down on you, and if not, would you stop wanting it? "
If it was not fantastic i would not repeat with that same person or i would tell/show him what exactly needs to be done to make it fantastic. |
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"Didn't say all women. I should clarify that most times I've had one it's not been exactly mind blowing, but there have been times when it's been great and sometimes been to completion and exhaustive, but that's very seldom.
Just asking, is it always fantastic when someone goes down on you, and if not, would you stop wanting it?
If it was not fantastic i would not repeat with that same person or i would tell/show him what exactly needs to be done to make it fantastic."
I have tried to show or encourage someone, praising them to be a little more attentive to certain ways of performing oral on me, as you yourself have said and sometimes it goes fine, but if it doesn't then oral is off the agenda if we meet again. |
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"Didn't say all women. I should clarify that most times I've had one it's not been exactly mind blowing, but there have been times when it's been great and sometimes been to completion and exhaustive, but that's very seldom.
Just asking, is it always fantastic when someone goes down on you, and if not, would you stop wanting it?
If it was not fantastic i would not repeat with that same person or i would tell/show him what exactly needs to be done to make it fantastic."
Exactly this. If it’s not worth doing, it’s not worth doing! |
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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Hey if you get a free Tshirt for winning the challenge then I'd be up for it!
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Hmmmm... are you suggesting that guys give put free t-shirts to any women who make them cum in her mouth?
Do the t-shirts need to be printed.... what would the slogan be.... *runs for cover* |
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"Hey if you get a free Tshirt for winning the challenge then I'd be up for it!
Hmmmm... are you suggesting that guys give put free t-shirts to any women who make them cum in her mouth?
Do the t-shirts need to be printed.... what would the slogan be.... *runs for cover*"
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By *rjaffa33 OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Does nobody just enjoy the journey rather than focussing on the destination?"
I didnt say i didnt enjoy the journey!!!!!!!
Maybe should turn the question around....
Ladies.... if you were giving a guy a bj and bad been at it for a while when he said.... i am not going to be able to cum like this.....
What would you think and do?
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"Does nobody just enjoy the journey rather than focussing on the destination?
I didnt say i didnt enjoy the journey!!!!!!!
Maybe should turn the question around....
Ladies.... if you were giving a guy a bj and bad been at it for a while when he said.... i am not going to be able to cum like this.....
What would you think and do?
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Fuck him! |
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"Does nobody just enjoy the journey rather than focussing on the destination?
I didnt say i didnt enjoy the journey!!!!!!!
Maybe should turn the question around....
Ladies.... if you were giving a guy a bj and bad been at it for a while when he said.... i am not going to be able to cum like this.....
What would you think and do?
Fuck him!"
Is that what you'd think or do? |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Does nobody just enjoy the journey rather than focussing on the destination?
I didnt say i didnt enjoy the journey!!!!!!!
Maybe should turn the question around....
Ladies.... if you were giving a guy a bj and bad been at it for a while when he said.... i am not going to be able to cum like this.....
What would you think and do?
Fuck him!"
Fuck him as in he can get to fuck? |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Hey if you get a free Tshirt for winning the challenge then I'd be up for it!
Hmmmm... are you suggesting that guys give put free t-shirts to any women who make them cum in her mouth?
Do the t-shirts need to be printed.... what would the slogan be.... *runs for cover*
Home Cumming Queen "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Taken this from a wider fab discussion but interested in Scottish view.
There is another thread where a guy says he can never cum in a womans mouth or from a bj or handjob generally. Always has to be penetrative sex. Lots of theories kicking about (such as never met the right person) but as someone who doesnt often cum this way I have always put it down to me always wanting to make sure a woman has had fun before I cum. So there is a mental thing for me that I shouldnt have pleasure that way first. Also that most woman dont really like it and so why should i expect them to do something they dont like.
Thoughts? Experiences?"
Rarely cum from oral, in fact had some really good oral and still didn't cum.
It's not mindset or anything I think lots of women just think they're better at it than they really are, so it's technique.
It's a medial fact that approx 70% of the sensitivity for a guy is based around the edge of the glans of the penis as the surrounding skin esp on the undersurface. So deep throating a guy is just really an ego thing for a woman and a visual or psychological stimulus for a guy if it does anything.
So for those women that didn't know that you're welcome and for those that already did and I've divulged your secrect I apologise!
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"Taken this from a wider fab discussion but interested in Scottish view.
There is another thread where a guy says he can never cum in a womans mouth or from a bj or handjob generally. Always has to be penetrative sex. Lots of theories kicking about (such as never met the right person) but as someone who doesnt often cum this way I have always put it down to me always wanting to make sure a woman has had fun before I cum. So there is a mental thing for me that I shouldnt have pleasure that way first. Also that most woman dont really like it and so why should i expect them to do something they dont like.
Thoughts? Experiences?
Rarely cum from oral, in fact had some really good oral and still didn't cum.
It's not mindset or anything I think lots of women just think they're better at it than they really are, so it's technique.
It's a medial fact that approx 70% of the sensitivity for a guy is based around the edge of the glans of the penis as the surrounding skin esp on the undersurface. So deep throating a guy is just really an ego thing for a woman and a visual or psychological stimulus for a guy if it does anything.
So for those women that didn't know that you're welcome and for those that already did and I've divulged your secrect I apologise!
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Wheres the other 30% went. ???  |
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"Taken this from a wider fab discussion but interested in Scottish view.
There is another thread where a guy says he can never cum in a womans mouth or from a bj or handjob generally. Always has to be penetrative sex. Lots of theories kicking about (such as never met the right person) but as someone who doesnt often cum this way I have always put it down to me always wanting to make sure a woman has had fun before I cum. So there is a mental thing for me that I shouldnt have pleasure that way first. Also that most woman dont really like it and so why should i expect them to do something they dont like.
Thoughts? Experiences?
Rarely cum from oral, in fact had some really good oral and still didn't cum.
It's not mindset or anything I think lots of women just think they're better at it than they really are, so it's technique.
It's a medial fact that approx 70% of the sensitivity for a guy is based around the edge of the glans of the penis as the surrounding skin esp on the undersurface. So deep throating a guy is just really an ego thing for a woman and a visual or psychological stimulus for a guy if it does anything.
So for those women that didn't know that you're welcome and for those that already did and I've divulged your secrect I apologise!
Wheres the other 30% went. ??? "
In fact next BJ i get , she will be told not to forget about that 30 % area. |
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"Taken this from a wider fab discussion but interested in Scottish view.
There is another thread where a guy says he can never cum in a womans mouth or from a bj or handjob generally. Always has to be penetrative sex. Lots of theories kicking about (such as never met the right person) but as someone who doesnt often cum this way I have always put it down to me always wanting to make sure a woman has had fun before I cum. So there is a mental thing for me that I shouldnt have pleasure that way first. Also that most woman dont really like it and so why should i expect them to do something they dont like.
Thoughts? Experiences?
Rarely cum from oral, in fact had some really good oral and still didn't cum.
It's not mindset or anything I think lots of women just think they're better at it than they really are, so it's technique.
It's a medial fact that approx 70% of the sensitivity for a guy is based around the edge of the glans of the penis as the surrounding skin esp on the undersurface. So deep throating a guy is just really an ego thing for a woman and a visual or psychological stimulus for a guy if it does anything.
So for those women that didn't know that you're welcome and for those that already did and I've divulged your secrect I apologise!
Wheres the other 30% went. ???
In fact next BJ i get , she will be told not to forget about that 30 % area.
You've got a cock I assume. Work it out yourself. If you're that small thah all 100% of yours can be stimulated at once you go for it grandad. 
As usual you jump in with a big belch without thinking. I highlighted a specific area over which 70% of the sensitivity is concentrated. If you can't understand that at least stop trying to confuse others. "
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario! "
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets |
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets "
How selfless of you! |
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!"
I know, I might not even like it |
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!
I know, I might not even like it "
Ha! So generous!
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!
I know, I might not even like it "
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!
I know, I might not even like it
Yeah right lol"
Maybe a little, maybe a lot |
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!
I know, I might not even like it
Yeah right lol
Maybe a little, maybe a lot "
You definitely would Mr. |
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"I’m sure Mrs will be on later but I know this is literally her favourite sex act; she just adores it and literally can’t get enough of it. Which really is a win/win scenario!
When she comes along send her this way, I’m a total gentleman, what a lady wants the lady gets
How selfless of you!
I know, I might not even like it
Yeah right lol
Maybe a little, maybe a lot
You definitely would Mr. "
Makes himself comfortable, this might take a while |
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