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By *lutwife4young OP Woman over a year ago

Kilmarnock

How would you react if you found someone filming you on their own phone sucking their cock without first asking permission? Knowing that film could and probably would be sent to other people? This happened to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

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By *uietbloke67Man over a year ago

outside your bedroom window ;-)

I'd be informing officer Dibble.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!"

This after leaving a lasting impression (size 6) on his bawsack.

That's shit OP. Do you know if he's circulated it?

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By *earded blossomCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!"

This!! I’d also probably slap him with the phone

K x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My you are a violent lot

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

This!! I’d also probably slap him with the phone

K x"

Followed by flushing it down to loo!! What a dick

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

This!! I’d also probably slap him with the phone

K x

Followed by flushing it down to loo!! What a dick"

*the

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

I would do all of the above.

What did you do about it?

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By *ortland51Man over a year ago

Glasgow

He would have shat himself if you took your own phone out and threatened to call the police unless he deleted it immediately.

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By *lutwife4young OP Woman over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Believe it or not my master walked in and saw him filming and told him to delete it then took his phone and deleted it for him. There are numerous meets recorded on his phone, some of which were sent to me without my request with peoples faces in so I’m sure mine would have been circulated to others. But according to him I was wrong and should have clearly stated “no filming” before any meet started?!?!?! Let’s just say he was asked to leave there and then!

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By *ab femWoman over a year ago

Ayrshire

The cheek of him!

Lucky he was spotted and stopped

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Believe it or not my master walked in and saw him filming and told him to delete it then took his phone and deleted it for him. There are numerous meets recorded on his phone, some of which were sent to me without my request with peoples faces in so I’m sure mine would have been circulated to others. But according to him I was wrong and should have clearly stated “no filming” before any meet started?!?!?! Let’s just say he was asked to leave there and then! "

What happened was wrong but if he'd sent others folks videos to you without consent you knew what he was capable of.

Chalk it up to experience and hope his next shite is a hedgehog

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What happened was wrong but if he'd sent others folks videos to you without consent you knew what he was capable of.

Chalk it up to experience and hope his next shite is a hedgehog

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman over a year ago

edinburgh

All of above also if it was someone from here I’d be reporting that to admin! What a creep

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By *ane DTV/TS over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Just wrong, oh so wrong.

Glad it was deleted.

Guy sounds a right tosser.

Maybe a lesson fo us all? Phones on the windowsill or nearby table? Not in hands or pockets?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A phone call to the police, I think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!"

I'd make him delete it too then I'd grab his phone and smash it with my high heels!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

I'd make him delete it too then I'd grab his phone and smash it with my high heels!

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By *lutwife4young OP Woman over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I have been on the scene for a good number of years and have never experienced such rudeness and disrespect from a guy. If or when I do videos they are on my own phone and no faces and I ask permission. Valuable lesson learned! Just glad it was spotted in time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What did you say to him tho?

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By *earded blossomCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

I'd make him delete it too then I'd grab his phone and smash it with my high heels!

Fuck I thought you were quiet

K x

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By *atureshywifeWoman over a year ago

glasgow

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

This after leaving a lasting impression (size 6) on his bawsack.

That's shit OP. Do you know if he's circulated it?"

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By *lutwife4young OP Woman over a year ago

Kilmarnock

I told him to delete the videos, get his clothes on and leave! Seems now he has blocked me on fab tho lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes a wee name and shame is no bad thing. A days ban possibly but others prewarned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi I would never do or want that privacy is a must

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!"

This would be a good idea. But beware the new s10 and I imagine any latest Samsung devices now have a recycle bin which it could be retrieved from later on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd make him delete it in front of me then I'd be out the door quicker than you could say knobhead!

I'd make him delete it too then I'd grab his phone and smash it with my high heels!

Fuck I thought you were quiet

K x"

Oh come on K, you should know I'm not that quiet. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned and you know I have been lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was your master he would be walking funny to day and would need a wee trip to AE yo retrieve said phone from me shoving it right up his spinkter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So this guy just assumes he can film you without consent unless u remember to state otherwise? Who really expects to be suckin a dick and bam a fone in your face!

Again if i were ur mistress ect that man wouldnt have left so easily!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was your master he would be walking funny to day and would need a wee trip to AE yo retrieve said phone from me shoving it right up his spinkter"

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was your master he would be walking funny to day and would need a wee trip to AE yo retrieve said phone from me shoving it right up his spinkter

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?"

He's got previous for circulating videos. It could have ended up on Pornhub or the likes. Maybe needing to retrieve his Iphone from his balloon knot would make him think twice about trying the same shit with the next person he meets.

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By *ink-KameraMan over a year ago

Livingston

Should have bitten his dick THEN deleted the video. I'm not sure this site allows you to name and shame but he's not the type that should be on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I was your master he would be walking funny to day and would need a wee trip to AE yo retrieve said phone from me shoving it right up his spinkter

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?"

Cause nothing is ever deleted I can recover deleted files fro phones laptops and cameras very easily and how many people has he done that to without been caught. So yes I kick his arse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're all so hard

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

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By *ess1000Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely name and shame to warn others!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug "

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

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By *lutwife4young OP Woman over a year ago

Kilmarnock

Very good point not sure what to do x

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By *oanne_MacTV/TS over a year ago

Perth

id probably tie him up and film him on his phone sucking mine and WhatsApp it to all his pals

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?"

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very good point not sure what to do x"

You know what OP, despite my earlier comments, it's easy for us to say "I would have done this, or done that". In the heat of the moment anything can happen. It's done. Don't beat yourself up about what you did or didn't do. He's a fucking scumbag.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?"

No.

But if some clown thought it acceptable to film me without my consent and I caught him, there's a good chance I'd completely lose my shit. If Mr, or my master were there, I'd bet money the guy would be leaving the meet minus a few teeth at the very least.

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By *hyfunguy30Man over a year ago

dundee

"How would you react if you found someone filming you on their own phone sucking their cock without first asking permission? Knowing that film could and probably would be sent to other people? This happened to me. "

That is not ok in any shape of form

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sorta agree with wellinever..shocker ehe

Tough 1 as if you tried to grab his phone he could have turned nasty and who knows what could have escalated?

You get anyone else involved yip assault charge.

Tough 1 and hope it never happens again to anyone.

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By *lancheifMan over a year ago

Ayr

BITE DOWN HARD and refuse to let it go until you see him delete it

Once he does that get dressed, kick/punch him in the nuts and leave pronto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?"

Things happen in the heat of the moment and in the above scenario I think instinct could take over. I'm not saying it would be worth an assault charge....I'm talking about what could possibly happen when emotions are running high and someone you care about has been sexually exploited and taken advantage of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?"

Yes 100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Yes 100%"

That's not the response of a a rational man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Yes 100%

That's not the response of a a rational man "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?"

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?"

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

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By *appyDeviantsCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "
. some folks deserve it ,i wouldn't think twice if i met a few of the keyboard warriers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?"

Have you actually read this thread?

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By *appyDeviantsCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

Have you actually read this thread?

Yes I have read the thread, you have said " I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

I then expanded on the point and showed what I think is a fallacy in your point/argument.

Do you concede that there are circumstances that "punching the fuck out of someone" is a perfectly reasonable thing to do?

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By *rjaffa33Man over a year ago

Edinburgh

Completely off the original topic but on the subject of punching / kicking the fuck out of someone, I will be honest and say that I cant think of a situation where that is acceptable. Ok I get it that in the heat of the moment when blood rushes to the head that people might lose control.... but to actually make a concious decision about doing that is just wrong.

Too many people have the view that punching someone or beating them up is a way of teaching a lesson. Fine they might think twice... but one punch can kill a person. You dont know what that punch might actually do.

Thus endeth the serious point.... i am off to look for some happier banter chats....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

Have you actually read this thread?

Yes I have read the thread, you have said " I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

I then expanded on the point and showed what I think is a fallacy in your point/argument.

Do you concede that there are circumstances that "punching the fuck out of someone" is a perfectly reasonable thing to do?"

It's never reasonable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

Have you actually read this thread?

Yes I have read the thread, you have said " I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

I then expanded on the point and showed what I think is a fallacy in your point/argument.

Do you concede that there are circumstances that "punching the fuck out of someone" is a perfectly reasonable thing to do?

It's never reasonable "

3 years ago while I was in my house with my 2 kids someone entered my house without permission, I heard a noise down stairs and when to check it out to find some one ine my kitchen who I asked to leave at this point he tried to attack me, so I punch a kicked that utter shite out him then phone the police, what your saying I should have let him attack me while politely asking him to stop and leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

Have you actually read this thread?

Yes I have read the thread, you have said " I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

I then expanded on the point and showed what I think is a fallacy in your point/argument.

Do you concede that there are circumstances that "punching the fuck out of someone" is a perfectly reasonable thing to do?

It's never reasonable

Yes. Only after you'd made him a cuppa and gave him a foot rub first though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?"

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?"

I'd leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?"

You said the was no situation that you felt punching and kicking was justified

No once I had him undercontrol I managed to get him out the house and called the police the caught him 2 hours later

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?

You said the was no situation that you felt punching and kicking was justified

No once I had him undercontrol I managed to get him out the house and called the police the caught him 2 hours later"

That was lucky

And the word I used was reasonable...it's an emotive, hot headed reaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?

You said the was no situation that you felt punching and kicking was justified

No once I had him undercontrol I managed to get him out the house and called the police the caught him 2 hours later

That was lucky

And the word I used was reasonable...it's an emotive, hot headed reaction "

How would you have reacted then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?

You said the was no situation that you felt punching and kicking was justified

No once I had him undercontrol I managed to get him out the house and called the police the caught him 2 hours later

That was lucky

And the word I used was reasonable...it's an emotive, hot headed reaction

How would you have reacted then"

I don't know

It's not a situation I've been in

But I'm not brave enough to just lash out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where did I say that?

Did you tie him to a chair until the police arrived?

You said the was no situation that you felt punching and kicking was justified

No once I had him undercontrol I managed to get him out the house and called the police the caught him 2 hours later

That was lucky

And the word I used was reasonable...it's an emotive, hot headed reaction

How would you have reacted then

I don't know

It's not a situation I've been in

But I'm not brave enough to just lash out "

Tbh I hope you never will, took me a year to sleep a full night after it

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave "

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ? "

Like that would be my fault

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I’d have taken his phone to the police. Distributing porn without consent is breaking the law. He should’ve been charged. No need for violence. If he’s sending it to others, you’ve no idea where it will end up or how many people see it.

It can quickly escalate if 1 person sends it 2 people, they send it to 2 people, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're all so hard

And your so forgiving with the patience of a Saint

No...but I'm not gonna go around acting like a thug

So what would you do to discourage this man from repeating the behaviour? Or is it simply the next unlucky woman's problem?

Well if he'd sent me videos of others I wouldn't have gone to meet him.

Would you?

No.

And if your Mr, or your master, ended up with an assault charge...still worth it?

Is it the violence you are against , getting done for assault or both?

It's not about being 'against ' anything

I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution

So if some one attacks me, I should just stand and not defend myself?

Have you actually read this thread?

Yes I have read the thread, you have said " I don't understand grown adults thinking that punching fuck out of someone is a solution "

I then expanded on the point and showed what I think is a fallacy in your point/argument.

Do you concede that there are circumstances that "punching the fuck out of someone" is a perfectly reasonable thing to do?

It's never reasonable

he would've needed an ambulance first in this case if it were me that's a terrible thing for anyone to go through mate

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Personally i think any behaviour like that towards women should be acted upon , whether by instant justice or reporting it , so as to deter it happening to others. Saying its not your fault what happens to women after you walk away is worse than the people offering instant justice. In my opinion only of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he’s on here you should name him and let admin know what he’s up to. Don’t need that sort of shit on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

Yeah youve said that already, your solution is doing nothing. Just let it happen to all his future female victims. Its not your fault after all .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

Yeah youve said that already, your solution is doing nothing. Just let it happen to all his future female victims. Its not your fault after all .

Nah..all you lone rangers can go tonto on him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong. "

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly"

Thats a bit of a sexist statement, quite a few women have expressed the same viewpoint but you never mentioned any toxic terms to them. ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have probably lost my s*it and skelpt him then deleted it. Shouldn't have to say no filming, it's called courtesy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly

Thats a bit of a sexist statement, quite a few women have expressed the same viewpoint but you never mentioned any toxic terms to them. ??"

We must be reading different comments, because that's not what I see in this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is at least 5 female on this post saying he'd her a slap a kick or some sort o violence maybe you should read again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is at least 5 female on this post saying he'd her a slap a kick or some sort o violence maybe you should read again "

I reckon that just maybe, a woman would think of the possible dangers before lashing out.

And my comment was in response to a guy who reckons a battering is justice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly"

I was talking about the definition of justice and retribution. They are wrong.

Your opinion is not wrong, i don't agree with it, but it's still your opinion.

So to further expand on this topic, what is the correct action to take if someone physically attacks you. In your opinion?

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"There is at least 5 female on this post saying he'd her a slap a kick or some sort o violence maybe you should read again

I reckon that just maybe, a woman would think of the possible dangers before lashing out.

And my comment was in response to a guy who reckons a battering is justice"

A so your saying women are all talk and using a term like toxic femininity is not required just the guys that need toxic masculinity thrown at them . Ahahahaha , priceless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly

I was talking about the definition of justice and retribution. They are wrong.

Your opinion is not wrong, i don't agree with it, but it's still your opinion.

So to further expand on this topic, what is the correct action to take if someone physically attacks you. In your opinion?"

Thanks for allowing me an opinion

And for manexplaining that retribution and justice are different things.

The OP wasn't about being physically attacked, neither were my earlier comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is at least 5 female on this post saying he'd her a slap a kick or some sort o violence maybe you should read again

I reckon that just maybe, a woman would think of the possible dangers before lashing out.

And my comment was in response to a guy who reckons a battering is justice

A so your saying women are all talk and using a term like toxic femininity is not required just the guys that need toxic masculinity thrown at them . Ahahahaha , priceless.

Where did I say women are all talk?

Do you know what toxic masculinity is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think the term toxic masculinity is applicable or appropriate in cases where you're talking about an intruder in your home with your children asleep upstairs or your partner being sexually exploited. An innate, primalb human reaction would take over for a lot of men (and women). I think there's a distinction to be made between that reaction and the stereotypical male "toxic" behaviour.

The only example of male toxic behaviour I see on this thread is the entitled prick who thought it acceptable to film a woman without her consent.

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By *ail_forceTV/TS over a year ago

Dundee

This escalated quickly.

Maybe this just needs moved to a "violent fantasies" thread?

Creepy the things people admit to wanting to do to people when they feel it's socially acceptable to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should be deleted asap and you should be allowed to look through phone to ensure its deleted

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By *issxxx73Woman over a year ago

my own world

Sorry but if he sent you videos of previous meets I'd never have met him in the 1st place....

Master doesn't seem to be doing his selection process properly either...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To address the original question - I do believe it's illegal to share pics/vids of others now and the OP should have been asked if it was ok. People are people of course and yes you get arseholes everywhere (no pun intended). The guy was way out of order and he shouldn't have video'd her or she should have been allowed to say to delete.

In regard to violence of any kind, in an ideal world it wouldn't happen but of course we do not live in an ideal world. When we feel our safety compromised (even if it's finding out someone has done something like filming us without our permission) then the body produces adrenalin (known as the "fight or flight" hormone). This readies us for speedier and therefore potentially life saving action (run for your life or fight for it). It's produced at other times too, for instance watching an exciting sport or sex. I think most people could resort to violence of some kind IF THE SITUATION WAS PROVOCATIVE ENOUGH (like Jason's). We all like to think we are civilized but the veneer is very thin...

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

Yeah youve said that already, your solution is doing nothing. Just let it happen to all his future female victims. Its not your fault after all .

It’s not her fault at all if the guy does it to someone else! There are literally hundreds of women have something horrendous happen to them, haven’t reported it and the guy has gone on to do it again .... that is not their fault it is his pure and simple!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

Contact the police, this is illegal."

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police. "

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

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By *aulgeorge212Man over a year ago

Clydebank

"A phone call to the police, I think."

Ha ha and say what? We met on fab that would be a good start lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either "

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly

I was talking about the definition of justice and retribution. They are wrong.

Your opinion is not wrong, i don't agree with it, but it's still your opinion.

So to further expand on this topic, what is the correct action to take if someone physically attacks you. In your opinion?

Thanks for allowing me an opinion

And for manexplaining that retribution and justice are different things.

The OP wasn't about being physically attacked, neither were my earlier comments "

Can you take that back, you have assumed my gender!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A phone call to the police, I think.

Ha ha and say what? We met on fab that would be a good start lol "

cause they met on fab means that the revenge porn laws don't count ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment "

A criminal record is the better outcome...obvs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

No, you're wrong.

Using one form of toxic masculinity ( resorting to fisticuffs) to deal with another ( as per the original post) is nothing short of silly

I was talking about the definition of justice and retribution. They are wrong.

Your opinion is not wrong, i don't agree with it, but it's still your opinion.

So to further expand on this topic, what is the correct action to take if someone physically attacks you. In your opinion?

Thanks for allowing me an opinion

And for manexplaining that retribution and justice are different things.

The OP wasn't about being physically attacked, neither were my earlier comments

Can you take that back, you have assumed my gender!"

Well you claim to be a man at least

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment

A criminal record is the better outcome...obvs

only if the person reports it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment

A criminal record is the better outcome...obvs

only if the person reports it

Of course...they'll be too scared after getting set upon by proper men

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either "

Are you for real?? You would really roll over after someone has videoed you without your consent, leaving you open to go knows what, potentially threatening your private life? Pat him on the head and say 'there there naughty boy don't do it again?' Seriously?!! I'd smash his phone into a million pieces, that would be my natural reaction. Steal his phone?! Hilarious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

There's an awful lot of words put in my mouth right there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment

A criminal record is the better outcome...obvs

only if the person reports it

Of course...they'll be too scared after getting set upon by proper men "

Why do you keep saying proper men, I am saying how I would deal with the situation at no point did I say other people should follow suit we all have a decision to make in the heat of the moment and thats how I think i would react.

I think they wouldn't call the police as they have broken the law as well and would end up getting themselves charged.

I am bored with this one now have a nice night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

Your right just let him keep the video and post it online whats the worse that can happen, am sure it will not lead to any mental health issues or embarrassment

A criminal record is the better outcome...obvs

only if the person reports it

Of course...they'll be too scared after getting set upon by proper men

I think they wouldn't call the police as they have broken the law as well and would end up getting themselves charged.

I am bored with this one now have a nice night

"
why you even giving the troll the time of day.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

There's an awful lot of words put in my mouth right there

"
Think it'll be the only thing in yer mouth tbf

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

There's an awful lot of words put in my mouth right there

So what would you do then? My would be instinctive. He'd need stopping, there and then. So come on ....enlighten us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

There's an awful lot of words put in my mouth right there

So what would you do then? My would be instinctive. He'd need stopping, there and then. So come on ....enlighten us."

Read the thread.

I'd never have been there

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

Contact the police, this is illegal.

I did say they should take his phone to the police.

So, in effect, steal his phone?

I can't see that playing out well either

There's an awful lot of words put in my mouth right there

So what would you do then? My would be instinctive. He'd need stopping, there and then. So come on ....enlighten us.

Read the thread.

I'd never have been there "

Ok so you ARE there. This is a meet that has videoed you, without your consent. What would you do? This could happen to anyone, yes even you. So what is your reaction?

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By *dinburgerMan over a year ago

Perthshire

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

Yeah youve said that already, your solution is doing nothing. Just let it happen to all his future female victims. Its not your fault after all .

You know what. I’ve read plenty of your posts and no doubt I’ll get a ban for this, but you’re passive aggressive wee man that twists arguments. A man who can dish it on here but can’t take it back.

What you’ve done there is straw man the argument by making a point that few could disagree with but isn’t the point being made. ‘Punching fuck’ out of someone isn’t self defence, it’s retribution. But hey, it’s fun to pretend you don’t understand that when you’re trying to get one over on someone you don’t like on here. It seems to be what you do best.

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By *e DevilMan over a year ago

Blantyre

"If

That's a bit violent

What's wrong with just asking the guy to delete it and then just leaving?

And if he declined your request to delete it. ?

I'd leave

Leaving him to do the same to another woman ?

Like that would be my fault

Knocking fuck outta someone is retribution, not justice.

Yeah youve said that already, your solution is doing nothing. Just let it happen to all his future female victims. Its not your fault after all .

1st i dont see this discussion as an argument, clearly you do ??

2nd if ive point a point that cant be disagreed with then hopefully i ve made the point in a way that others might agree, without using terms like wee man lol.

And 3rd and lastly, where have i ever said i dont like wellinever or gave her abuse or slagged her. Yes i disagree with lots of her posts and challenge many of her posts but how can i dislike someone ive never met.

Now onto you my friend. Im nearly 17 stone so terms like " wee man " i take as a compliment

Feel free to have a pop at me , your not the only keyboard warrior on Fab.

Feel free to make any other points that you wish , its always an open forum but using the term " wee man" lol it does nothing to strengthen your point. Honestly lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have read this post fully and can Honestly say the sheer bullying going on against wellinever is shocking!!

I actually agree with her.

1.a woman alone in a room with a guy your gonna grab a phone run away ..yeah righto

2..go to the police? Seriously...yes officer met a guy on a sex site and the bad man videoed me sucking him Off.

3..it's not anyone's fault if he does it again bar his!

Christ this forum is getting worse!

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By *errific_Teddy_BearMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

Simply put it’s a matter for the police.

Capturing anyone on video without their explicit consent and keeping hold of that video is illegal.

I know there’s a taboo about taking such a matter to the police but you’d need to trust their professionalism with this one and let them do their job. The fact that you met on a “sex site” or that you were performing oral of your own free will has no bearing on the issue. Your privacy rights have been breached and you are protected by this in law.

The police could seize his phone, check to see if the video still exists or if it’s been shared and if it has been, the man would be charged with an offence and could be looking at a court appearance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry but.

I'd say 99% would not go to the police from a fab member.

But it is a wake up call to all that bad shit does happen on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry but.

I'd say 99% would not go to the police from a fab member.

But it is a wake up call to all that bad shit does happen on here."

Report him to police-they aren’t bothered how you met.

And to fab. But they’ll not do much

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