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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had a great night last night with a vanilla couple. They( we think) have no idea about our other life. It was just purely a social evening, but we were both really horny today thinking about them and maybe what could have happened. So, has anyone had a night with vanilla friends that has gone further. Or would you? Also, do people find it exciting having there other life separate from there other friends?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been involved on the swinging scene since I was 17 I don't actually have any vanillas friends and wouldn't know how to interact with them even conversationally if I did now xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my best friend is the only one of my friends who swings and is also as into the kink scene as i/we are. as far as i know everyone else is vanilla but you never can tell as i am sure, hopefully, that they think i am vanilla too lol
i am not sure i would try and tempt a percieved vanilla friend over to the dark side, not sure how it would affect our "normal" relationship |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"my best friend is the only one of my friends who swings and is also as into the kink scene as i/we are. as far as i know everyone else is vanilla but you never can tell as i am sure, hopefully, that they think i am vanilla too lol
i am not sure i would try and tempt a percieved vanilla friend over to the dark side, not sure how it would affect our "normal" relationship"
Don't think we would try and tempt them, but just interested in other peoples views/experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The way we got into this lifestyle was by something developing with vanilla friends, neither come had swung before. We played with them for quite a while till things tapered off, unfortunately so did our friendship. If we hadn't had fun with them we're pretty convinced that we would still be friends.
Recently we found our friends of ours swung so we've resolved not to play with each other. We still discuss our swinging lives but won't complicate things by playing. Works for us. |
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