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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate half a story...gies a clue"
He had serious chat at the end of his set about rxxe and how he'd met up with a female friend and 2 Male friends they all got d*unk and he left
Bumped into his female friend and it transpired that one of the guys taped her. He said looking back could I have done something to prevent it or did he ignore all the warning signs.
To cut a long story short what can we do to prevent it happening. The stats show that rxxe is more common that is let on. Apart from beating the living shit out of every rxxxxt which just turns them into a victim what can we actually do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd never heard of him.....some of his stuff is on Netflix so will have a look."
Hes really good but as I said he made the point of talking about a very serious thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's just in some men to be capable of this behaviour and no amount of education or threats of jail time will change that.
But I do think that education plays a huge part. Teaching kids, boys and girls, from a young age about respecting their bodies and other people's boundaries too. Raising them with the confidence to say "no" in any situation where they don't feel comfortable without apology or explanation. |
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"I think it's just in some men to be capable of this behaviour and no amount of education or threats of jail time will change that.
But I do think that education plays a huge part. Teaching kids, boys and girls, from a young age about respecting their bodies and other people's boundaries too. Raising them with the confidence to say "no" in any situation where they don't feel comfortable without apology or explanation. "
So true. But it's more about looking out for the signs in everyday life as well. We all have it in us to stop things like this happening. The thing Daniel was getting at was that did he see the signs and choose to ignore them because the guy was a friend. And if he did act could he have saved his friend from something very unpleasant.
The biggest question is how many of us have seen something untoward and just ignored it.
All ot takes are one or two moments in life to be a hero, but how many times have we turned a blind eye. Not only that the police and the judiciary system need to take a firm hand treat survivors of this with proper respect. |
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