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When should you delete messages

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Puzzled when I message others they may read but don’t respond or respond and chat a bit and then all goes quite .

I generally assume individual not interested so delete messages including the ones read and move on after a few days

Question is am I being to hasty and assuming individual is not interested and deleting my private messages to them or should I wait a bit longer ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's a new or newish contact I send, I delete after they have been online since I sent it. Whether they have read it, not read it or read it and naemrjed it unread. (not that I can ever know the last one.. I assume it happens though)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So if I delete to early individual will still get message knowing I have deleted but they can still respond?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So if I delete to early individual will still get message knowing I have deleted but they can still respond? "

Yes...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I delete all once iv replied to messages even those I'm interested in.

I like to keep things fresh

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you Nekked Jack for clearing that up .Guess she not interested in me then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I delete all once iv replied to messages even those I'm interested in.

I like to keep things fresh"

Heartless wench.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And your point is caller?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So can be a good thing Oldie but goody then , keeps things fresh as such with bogging down in private messages

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By *ola cubesMan over a year ago

coatbridge

You deleting the msgs dosnt remove it from their profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks Kola Cubes I have better understanding now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly kola..whenever I or they message again the conversation is still there.

If someone has read it and not replied take it as as no thanks and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So really If i see someone has read it but don’t reply take it as a no rather than hang about for days waiting for a reply ?

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

I delete as I go

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By *adbury girlWoman over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"So really If i see someone has read it but don’t reply take it as a no rather than hang about for days waiting for a reply ?"

Sometimes I read then get interrupted at home or work and forget to reply when I go back on.

But I wouldn’t message someone again if they didn’t reply unless it’s someone I chat to regular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If somebody doesn't respond even if we have been talking for a while I never reply I just take it they changed there mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Puzzled when I message others they may read but don’t respond or respond and chat a bit and then all goes quite .

I generally assume individual not interested so delete messages including the ones read and move on after a few days

Question is am I being to hasty and assuming individual is not interested and deleting my private messages to them or should I wait a bit longer ? "

Delete when it means nothing to you... end of

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