Just an observation, so correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems all or almost all meets are focused around going out for drinks, or getting hammered. Especially when you look at the meet posts section.
Does anyone actually meet these days sober? Lol |
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I wouldn't be getting d*unk around someone I didn't really know in a 1 on 1 situation.
Different out in a large group although having said that, it's been over a year since I was hammered. |
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When people organise meeting they may have a cuppa or they may have an alcoholic drink... I’ve never been “hammered” nor have I been with anyone who was (that’s one on one or in a social group). Rarely heard of it either though I’m sure it happens. Are you basing this on experience or what you’re reading? 132% of people exaggerate you know   |
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OP where do you get your information that meets are based on getting hammered.
Apart from the social aspect which normally takes place in a pub or club which is licenced.
We have never experienced a meet where the person or persons has been intoxicated.
I think the overall experience from fab users is limit your alcohol intake before/during social events or meets.
And if it is an issue just walk away. |
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normally I arrange to go for coffee or something if chemistry is right between the both of us arrange to meet few days later for meal and drinks but in a sensible fashion for drinking for both parties |
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There is nothing wrong with a drink or two on a meet.
But I wouldn't go daft and get d*unk
Then again if it's someone I had been seeing for awhile and it's what we decided to do that night because yes sone freinds go out and get pissed together then sure.. just deffintly not on a first meet basis |
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"Just an observation, so correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems all or almost all meets are focused around going out for drinks, or getting hammered. Especially when you look at the meet posts section.
Does anyone actually meet these days sober? Lol"
Me I don’t drink |
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I personally would have a drink on a social maybe just a couple but that's dependent on the meet and could be purely to calm the nerves but definitely wouldn't be getting hammered.
Also after having a browse through the meet section, barely any of them actually say about going for a drink, I think it was all of 6 or 7 over 3 pages of posts. |
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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"Just an observation, so correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems all or almost all meets are focused around going out for drinks, or getting hammered. Especially when you look at the meet posts section.
Does anyone actually meet these days sober? Lol
Me I don’t drink "
And you’re great company x |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Just an observation, so correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems all or almost all meets are focused around going out for drinks, or getting hammered. Especially when you look at the meet posts section.
Does anyone actually meet these days sober? Lol"
Yip me ! |
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My husband and I once went for a social meet and the chick of the cpl was bladdered when we arrived left not long after it then pointed out why and they said she wasn't she was just nervous lol
Aye righto |
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By *ompip3Couple
over a year ago
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At a quick glance of the first 10 posts in Scotland Forum, 3 of them mention or infer alcohol will be consumed in copious amounts!
Cocktails tonight (Friday 17th)
26th May Bank Holiday Afternoon Session
Aberdeen drinks
BUT to be fair theses are "Social Events" and not play events, (Before someone shoots me down in flames!!)
The general consensus on a play date/meet most folks stay sober, or partake in one or two drinks only. |
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"There is nothing wrong with a drink or two on a meet.
But I wouldn't go daft and get d*unk
Then again if it's someone I had been seeing for awhile and it's what we decided to do that night because yes sone freinds go out and get pissed together then sure.. just deffintly not on a first meet basis"
The first meet is mostly just a coffee or juice to chat and get to know if there is a connection
I have got d*unk with a fab friend but it was caused we talked that much and I was staying over as had met for a while so was all good - and it was a good night |
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We have had abit of both,
Have had people over during the day so obviously not drinking then. But if it's a fri or sat night we like having a chat/mini social before taking thing further.
Only had 1 bad experience when guy came in with 15pack of beer, we all had our fun, then afterwards, we thought he would maybe have another 1 then leave but no... he got pretty full on and just kept opening and opening the tins then wanted to go again, at this point was like 3am he had been there since 8pm... ended up having to threaten the police as he wasnt taking no for an answer.
So if the guy comes in with a drink then it's a 4pack lol. |
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"When people organise meeting they may have a cuppa or they may have an alcoholic drink... I’ve never been “hammered” nor have I been with anyone who was (that’s one on one or in a social group). Rarely heard of it either though I’m sure it happens. Are you basing this on experience or what you’re reading? 132% of people exaggerate you know "
Lol very true |
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"OP where do you get your information that meets are based on getting hammered.
Apart from the social aspect which normally takes place in a pub or club which is licenced.
We have never experienced a meet where the person or persons has been intoxicated.
I think the overall experience from fab users is limit your alcohol intake before/during social events or meets.
And if it is an issue just walk away."
Going based on the fab meets section and what ppl type when they are looking for a meet |
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