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At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? |
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Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
In theory.
In practice emotions and more can alter that."
if they have an emotional attatchment to that person fair enough but when its nothing more than jealousy thats a different matter !! |
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I would never give someone grief for being with someone else on here.
Whilst I prefer not to juggle several women at once, to me the whole point of this site is to allow everyone to be who and what they want to be.
If someone is uncomfortable with someone elses actions.... then just back off from them... dont give them a hard time for it. |
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In regard to Fab, there should be no problem with who meets who. I’m not sure about the word “sharing” but I think I get what you mean in that if you’re here you must surely be aware it’s highly likely whoever you meet also meets others.
There are lots of reasons the theory doesn’t work, feelings can enter into it perhaps and then there’s the infamous being “judged” on who or how many someone’s met by the other party... ideally though sharing shouldn’t be a problem.
A side note here is I once had someone go off at me to the degree he threatened physical violence on someone else I had met. It pays to be selective...  |
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We had a fairly regular guy we met up with once a month or so as we prefer That to one off meets. We ended up meeting someone on a night out, no sex just a flirty d*unken social type thing as we were in the pub. The regular guy got very huffy that if we were going to meet why didn’t we meet him an gave tons of abuse |
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Had a guy be huffy yes.
I Wouldn't meet again after that.
Not a jealous person if I can let my hubby go off have sex with someone on here I'm sure not gonna loose any sleep over a guy on here lol.
I'm here for the sex..why would I be 2 faced and get jealous if a guy I met met someone else? |
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"Had a guy be huffy yes.
I Wouldn't meet again after that.
Not a jealous person if I can let my hubby go off have sex with someone on here I'm sure not gonna loose any sleep over a guy on here lol.
I'm here for the sex..why would I be 2 faced and get jealous if a guy I met met someone else?"
Aaahh the perfect Fab member.... 
Guys behaviour on here has been a real eye opener for me. I could understand a woman not liking a guy sleeping with others (disgraceful generalisation about what women expect from a guy I know).
The idea that guys go around being huffy and downright insulting just doesnt make sense to me. It just isnt in my DNA to be like that and its hard enough to get a womans attention without putting them off by being a d***head. |
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This site is all about having fun without any pressure, if you take the huff because someone you have met is meeting others then you need to question your intentions why you are here, equally if someone cannot meet when you want to meet you should not take the huff with them |
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My lover is married and sometimes sees other fbs he's known for years. The only person that should be jealous is his wife! I don't have sex with anyone else out of choice but I'm still emotionally close to my ex-dom.
I've had poly/open relationships before and not been jealous. If any niggling feelings crop up then you should talk or get to the root of why. If someone gets possessive then that's a warning sign. A little passing jealousy can be normal/nice depending on their characters and behaviour. Most people lack self awareness or the ability to deeply process.
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? "
Hear it quite regular that folk get grief, personally I’ve pimped a few former fwb out (with their permission of course )when other ladies have been getting disheartened with genuine guys and some of those ladies still give them a call years later and think that’s how the site should be, but I think everyone is a little jealous by nature but it’s more about how you’ve been brought up to deal with your emotions. It can certainly cause tensions especially when you go to clubs or social events, sometimes it’s better not knowing about people’s history because everyone changes and we never know the background or how the relationship was at the time, there’s always more than one side to a story |
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"I like when people I have met tell me about there meets its kinda a turn on  "
Totally agree! It’s all about fun on here and hearing what others get up to opens my mind to other things. Even if I’m seeing someone on a regular basis I encourage them to find out what else there is out there. It’s all about fun |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? "
Possessiveness is a common human trait. Look at some of the veries people write!
We can all meet people we’re attracted to. I met someone who was on here a short while and wow, did I not fall head over heels, sexy as hell, funny, intelligent, but you have to slap yourself and appreciate that this is not a dating site. I suspect that there are many who struggle with that concept.
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"I like when people I have met tell me about there meets its kinda a turn on "
This
Plus am happy that a fab friend is having fun. It is why we are here.
Though does not always work vice versa, have had one who was unhappy with me when she cancelled and I put up an available to meet. |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? "
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye. |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye."
You been patched again doggy?
Need a hug in the vagina?  |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye."
honestly say my nose has never been put out of joint by someone meeting someone else? |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye.honestly say my nose has never been put out of joint by someone meeting someone else?"
There's always an exception oldie  |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye.honestly say my nose has never been put out of joint by someone meeting someone else?"
That's cause you don't really like anyone!!
You're just here for the sex! |
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"This site is all about having fun without any pressure, if you take the huff because someone you have met is meeting others then you need to question your intentions why you are here, equally if someone cannot meet when you want to meet you should not take the huff with them"
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye.honestly say my nose has never been put out of joint by someone meeting someone else?
That's cause you don't really like anyone!!
You're just here for the sex! "
this is true |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye.
You been patched again doggy?
Need a hug in the vagina? "
Always the "patcher". Never the "patchee".
And my vag says thanks but she's fine......for now |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ?
It should be.
But folk are prone to jealousy and insecurity. All part of human nature.
And if you really like someone, even just as a sexual partner, your nose will always be a bit out of joint if someone else catches their eye.
You been patched again doggy?
Need a hug in the vagina?
Always the "patcher". Never the "patchee".
And my vag says thanks but she's fine......for now "
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The whole concept of swinging is swapping/sharing parters if a couple or if single sharing or becoming 3rd member of a relationship
It is all about shared sex with mutually minded people’s
I have no time whatsoever for green eyed monsters or narrow minded narcissistic people |
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"The whole concept of swinging is swapping/sharing parters if a couple or if single sharing or becoming 3rd member of a relationship
It is all about shared sex with mutually minded people’s
I have no time whatsoever for green eyed monsters or narrow minded narcissistic people "
Me either  |
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I think, every relationship is different, if you want that type of relationship it needs to be agreed upon.
Myself I wouldn't have a problem with it, that's what the site is all about or should be all about.
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Only problem I'd have is if he's shagged an undesirable  that meets anything or anyone, then expects to meet me again. Think it's called having self respect and standards |
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"Only problem I'd have is if he's shagged an undesirable that meets anything or anyone, then expects to meet me again. Think it's called having self respect and standards "
Exactly this |
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As long as they come back!!!!
Haha nah why would you get mad at someone seeing another when your going to be do I g the exact same thing!
I understand people can find love on this site but remember this isn't a dating site ! X |
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"Only problem I'd have is if he's shagged an undesirable that meets anything or anyone, then expects to meet me again. Think it's called having self respect and standards "
iv met a guy that after they met me went on to meet loads and if I'm honest yes...it put me off meeting them again.
Rightly or wrongly not because I was jealous more a standard thing. |
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I have felt gutted a few times when people I have met or want to meet say they are looking but by the time I message them they have made other plans. So in a way I was jealous but only cause they where getting some and I was stuck with pam and her 5 sisters.   |
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"Only problem I'd have is if he's shagged an undesirable that meets anything or anyone, then expects to meet me again. Think it's called having self respect and standards iv met a guy that after they met me went on to meet loads and if I'm honest yes...it put me off meeting them again.
Rightly or wrongly not because I was jealous more a standard thing."
Is that because you would prefer to be thought of as one of a select few? |
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"Only problem I'd have is if he's shagged an undesirable that meets anything or anyone, then expects to meet me again. Think it's called having self respect and standards iv met a guy that after they met me went on to meet loads and if I'm honest yes...it put me off meeting them again.
Rightly or wrongly not because I was jealous more a standard thing.
Is that because you would prefer to be thought of as one of a select few? "
hell no..I don't want to be going where 100s have been before me |
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"I don’t share anyone I meet on here as they are not mine to share. I meet who I want when I want "
Agree with this, and don’t ever ask to share my crisps, then you’d see huffy of huge proportions |
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"I don’t share anyone I meet on here as they are not mine to share. I meet who I want when I want
Agree with this, and don’t ever ask to share my crisps, then you’d see huffy of huge proportions "
what flavour and make ? |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do 
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps "
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol "
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do oh me too "
Amazing what pple say on an open forum lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps "
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol "
Better hold on for the ride |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride "
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol "
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps! |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps! "
Ahh damn why did i no think of that ..now which would i prefer ..a brace yerself ride or bag of beef mccoys ...lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps!
Ahh damn why did i no think of that ..now which would i prefer ..a brace yerself ride or bag of beef mccoys ...lol"
You’d probably enjoy the crisps more, they’ll last longer |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps!
Ahh damn why did i no think of that ..now which would i prefer ..a brace yerself ride or bag of beef mccoys ...lol
You’d probably enjoy the crisps more, they’ll last longer "
Aww can i not have both lol |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps!
Ahh damn why did i no think of that ..now which would i prefer ..a brace yerself ride or bag of beef mccoys ...lol
You’d probably enjoy the crisps more, they’ll last longer
Aww can i not have both lol "
You bring the crisps, I’ll bring Mr Costa |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? "
I don’t get jealous or annoyed, that’s just silly.
I’ve been on the receiving end though. I’ve been told of someone I’ve never met or spoken to, as far as I’m aware, spreading lies about me, accusing me of things I’ve never done. I’ve also had someone throw a hissy fit at guys who’ve attended parties I’ve hosted, giving them abuse for spending time in my presence and not hers 
It says more about them than it does about me, tbh. Luckily the people I’ve met are adults who are more than capable of making up their own minds about me |
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"At sharing ?
If you've met someone & they go on to meet someone else do you get jealous/annoyed?
Ive met some really lovely people only to learn after meeting them they have had grief from other people they have met.
Isnt sharing the nature of the site ? "
Done oodles of sharing over the years, parties,group fun and gangbangs |
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"Lol observing this thread and oh my ..when a certain someone done exactly what they said they dont do
Can’t be me, I NEVER share my crisps
Haha ooh and i love crisps Mr C ..go on share lol
I’d share many a thing wi you weemrs, just not my crisps
Ooh do i want to know what you would share ..shall i brace myself lol
Better hold on for the ride
I better get my cowgirl outfit ready then ..lol
Would be a lot easier just to buy your own crisps!
Ahh damn why did i no think of that ..now which would i prefer ..a brace yerself ride or bag of beef mccoys ...lol
You’d probably enjoy the crisps more, they’ll last longer
Aww can i not have both lol
You bring the crisps, I’ll bring Mr Costa "
Crisp crumbs in the bed! Nightmare! |
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