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Why are single ladies approaching 60 invisible on fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I understand there are a few exceptions to the rule-a few 60 plus seem to have met many and couples seem to do OK when they are mature strangely enough but I find it hard to get many meets and now feeling perhaps my maturity is a factor. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular? "
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe try to go along to socials and clubs to chat to people face to face."
Would be good but I have slight aspergers and social anxiety so these things can be tricky. Thanks for replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve specifically targeted the over 50s crowd on here. Thus, the under 40s crowd are pretty much invisible to me. Don’t worry about anxiety with going to cj’s either, I went for my first time on Saturday; everyone was incredibly nice and accommodating. |
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular?
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age. "
Had a look at your profile lisa and personally i dont think its your age. You have a particular type of play that i think its a bit of a niche market , you prefer bi guys so that rules out a large market, your a dom looking for a sub so your narrowing your field further. Not saying for a second that any of your preferences are wrong just saying that is probably a bigger factor than your age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive not had meets but through choice, i get lots of invites though so im guessing age isnt a factor. Maybe its as suggested by another, its what you are looking for that is the reason x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular?
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age.
Had a look at your profile lisa and personally i dont think its your age. You have a particular type of play that i think its a bit of a niche market , you prefer bi guys so that rules out a large market, your a dom looking for a sub so your narrowing your field further. Not saying for a second that any of your preferences are wrong just saying that is probably a bigger factor than your age. "
I was just about to say the same thing and then read this.  |
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular?
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age.
Had a look at your profile lisa and personally i dont think its your age. You have a particular type of play that i think its a bit of a niche market , you prefer bi guys so that rules out a large market, your a dom looking for a sub so your narrowing your field further. Not saying for a second that any of your preferences are wrong just saying that is probably a bigger factor than your age. "
^^^^ This
I know many approaching their 60's and dont have a problem meeting people myself included  |
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C prefers older women but we find it incredibly difficult to find any that even want to chat on here never mind actually meet!
Socials or clubs like CJ's are definitely the best way to meet new people x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your replies. On reflection I think it IS more my interests and preferences which are putting folk off. I may consider going to clubs and see how it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be totaly fair for you also. Your only looking for people over 42 so your really limiting who your going to meet here.
I for one would love to chat yet can't as your age range blocks that.
Maybe dial your range down to 35+ I'm sure you will see a massive increase xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be totaly fair for you also. Your only looking for people over 42 so your really limiting who your going to meet here.
I for one would love to chat yet can't as your age range blocks that.
Maybe dial your range down to 35+ I'm sure you will see a massive increase xx"
I agree with this also as I would be interested in chatting with you also but am 2 years below your range. |
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"Thanks for your replies. On reflection I think it IS more my interests and preferences which are putting folk off. I may consider going to clubs and see how it goes. "
For some of us, your interests and preferences might be exactly what we are looking for!  |
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By *44bertCouple
over a year ago
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular?
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age.
Had a look at your profile lisa and personally i dont think its your age. You have a particular type of play that i think its a bit of a niche market , you prefer bi guys so that rules out a large market, your a dom looking for a sub so your narrowing your field further. Not saying for a second that any of your preferences are wrong just saying that is probably a bigger factor than your age. "
Very much this. |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
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Me and noshrinkingviolet are organising a social at cjs in Glasgow sunday 26th of month
Theres a thread in the forum about it
No play...just social
Might be a good way to ease yourself into clubs...
Have a look around... meet new people
With no expectations |
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"Me and noshrinkingviolet are organising a social at cjs in Glasgow sunday 26th of month
Theres a thread in the forum about it
No play...just social
Might be a good way to ease yourself into clubs...
Have a look around... meet new people
With no expectations "
I have done many socials. I was meaning I prefer a social meet to start with.
Damn I'm at Glastonbudget that weekend.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With respect... Your verification history contradicts your statement somewhat or is there something you feel you’re missing on the site in particular?
I'm not getting many views or meets. I do feel my age is a factor but prefer to simply be honest about my real age.
Had a look at your profile lisa and personally i dont think its your age. You have a particular type of play that i think its a bit of a niche market , you prefer bi guys so that rules out a large market, your a dom looking for a sub so your narrowing your field further. Not saying for a second that any of your preferences are wrong just saying that is probably a bigger factor than your age.
Very much this. "
Perhaps but 60 is old to many |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Me and noshrinkingviolet are organising a social at cjs in Glasgow sunday 26th of month
Theres a thread in the forum about it
No play...just social
Might be a good way to ease yourself into clubs...
Have a look around... meet new people
With no expectations "
Thank you |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
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"Me and noshrinkingviolet are organising a social at cjs in Glasgow sunday 26th of month
Theres a thread in the forum about it
No play...just social
Might be a good way to ease yourself into clubs...
Have a look around... meet new people
With no expectations
Thank you"
Np
Look forward to meeting you... if you come along
Would be interesting having a wee chat about your interests...
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