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By *rjaffa33 OP   Man  over a year ago

Edinburgh

We have all heard people complain about getting no replies to messages or about the content of the messages they receive. But enough about what not to do. We all have our own things that make us click...... but what is the thing that is most likely to make you reply......

You can only pick 2 at most from the list below.

A face pic

A classy pic

A big dick pic

Locality

A funny blurb on profile

A funny first message

A hot and steamy first message

A polite first message showing they have clearly read your profile

A question about you

A one liner ... lets f*ck now (lol)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Face pic

Funny message.

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Classy picture

Funny first message

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By *rjaffa33 OP   Man  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Face pic

Funny message."

Thats what I would have expected but interested to see if it is a widely held view or if others are out there.

Now will spend rest of day trying to think of suitably amusing message to send later....

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By *assy LassieWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Funny first message

Locality

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny message

Classy pic.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Face pic

Funny message.

Thats what I would have expected but interested to see if it is a widely held view or if others are out there.

Now will spend rest of day trying to think of suitably amusing message to send later.... "

funny messages are a bit hit and miss tho.what you find funny some might not?

Had a few crude messages where the guy thought he was being hilarious where I thought he was just crude.

Minefeid lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny profile and nice message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definately locality and funny first message

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By *rjaffa33 OP   Man  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Face pic

Funny message.

Thats what I would have expected but interested to see if it is a widely held view or if others are out there.

Now will spend rest of day trying to think of suitably amusing message to send later.... funny messages are a bit hit and miss tho.what you find funny some might not?

Had a few crude messages where the guy thought he was being hilarious where I thought he was just crude.

Minefeid lol"

Could be a thread in its own right.... what makes a first message funny and appealing?

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By *adbury girlWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Face pic

Funny message."

Same

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like a funny blurb on a profile along with some classy pics.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny blurb and polite first message showing they’ve clearly read profile

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By *unseekers87Couple  over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Nice photo and good profile txt, be it funny or someone that you can tell is genuine .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Classy picture

Funny blurb

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By *rjaffa33 OP   Man  over a year ago

Edinburgh

Interesting to hear that to some its not about the message but more the profile. I always thought the message was what persuaded people to look at the profile...

On a side issue..... is it just a time of the day thing? Or are there masses more ladies and couples from the Glasgow and Lanarkshire on here than from the East (or anywhere else for that matter)...... or are West Coast girls just more fun with their chat on here.

**opens can and swiftly retreats**

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A sarcastic profile and an easy going message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Funny Message and a Classy pic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me personally look at the profile before iv opened the message.

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Me personally look at the profile before iv opened the message. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Me personally look at the profile before iv opened the message.

Same here"

That’s what we do

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By *tew008Man  over a year ago

edinburgh


"Interesting to hear that to some its not about the message but more the profile. I always thought the message was what persuaded people to look at the profile...

On a side issue..... is it just a time of the day thing? Or are there masses more ladies and couples from the Glasgow and Lanarkshire on here than from the East (or anywhere else for that matter)...... or are West Coast girls just more fun with their chat on here.

**opens can and swiftly retreats**"

I’d agree,

Never made an effort with the profile really. There is definitely more west coast forumites anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!

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By *earded blossomCouple  over a year ago

Glasgow

Funny message with a classy pic

K x

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By *tew008Man  over a year ago

edinburgh


"Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!"

“Youse”, I thought it was “yous”. Reads almost like an insult “youse”.

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!

“Youse”, I thought it was “yous”. Reads almost like an insult “youse”."

Youse is right too

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By *tew008Man  over a year ago

edinburgh


"Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!

“Youse”, I thought it was “yous”. Reads almost like an insult “youse”.

Youse is right too "

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!

“Youse”, I thought it was “yous”. Reads almost like an insult “youse”.

Youse is right too

"

Something in your eye?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A face pic and a question always piques my interest.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple  over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Classy pic,bit of witty sarcasm and decent spelling with no use of text speak such as “youse”!

“Youse”, I thought it was “yous”. Reads almost like an insult “youse”.

Youse is right too "

We get “use” a lot in that context. Now that’s definitely not right...!

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman  over a year ago

Midlothian


"Funny blurb and polite first message showing they’ve clearly read profile "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

An intelligent message demonstrating other interests and depth.

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By *ortland51Man  over a year ago

Glasgow

Wit and sarcasm usually does it for me.

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

A simple message that starts off the banter and a pic.

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By *evilsAdvocate94Woman  over a year ago

edinburgh

A classy pic and a funny first message

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By *assy LassieWoman  over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Face pic

Funny message.

Thats what I would have expected but interested to see if it is a widely held view or if others are out there.

Now will spend rest of day trying to think of suitably amusing message to send later.... funny messages are a bit hit and miss tho.what you find funny some might not?

Had a few crude messages where the guy thought he was being hilarious where I thought he was just crude.

Minefeid lol"

Exactly. but if the person receiving the message finds it funny it's a good start. If not then you can use as a filter if you have different sense of humour. I love a bit of banter but not everyone will get my humour. Hope that makes sense

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