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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is nothing worse putting all your energy into typing a message for it to be deleted  
Personally regardless if am not interested I still reply with no thanks but thank you.. wondering if any other males struggle .. surely am not that ugly ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you send shorter messages it might not leave you less knackered if they're ignored  "
yeah but if you send short messages they complain about putting effort in ?? can win . Mayb I need a face lift |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having been part of a couple where my partner also had a single female profile you have to consider the sheer volume of messages that women on here receive. Irrespective of whether they are the bog standard “Crackin pussy doll fancy impaling yerself oan ma throbbin cock” or like yours very well crafted and thought out, women on here would need to employ a PA to answer all the messages they get. Best to roll with it my good fellow and not let it eat you up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you send shorter messages it might not leave you less knackered if they're ignored yeah but if you send short messages they complain about putting effort in ?? can win . Mayb I need a face lift "
Whingeing isn't a good look on anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you send shorter messages it might not leave you less knackered if they're ignored yeah but if you send short messages they complain about putting effort in ?? can win . Mayb I need a face lift
Whingeing isn't a good look on anyone "
not winging am just trying to get another prospective on it ,  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Having been part of a couple where my partner also had a single female profile you have to consider the sheer volume of messages that women on here receive. Irrespective of whether they are the bog standard “Crackin pussy doll fancy impaling yerself oan ma throbbin cock” or like yours very well crafted and thought out, women on here would need to employ a PA to answer all the messages they get. Best to roll with it my good fellow and not let it eat you up! "
yeah mate think al roll with the punches
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile has no public pics. It also says you are only interested in adult parties.
R "
okay mayb I shall upload a few photos , and change my interests , I don’t really want to put a face pic up but don’t mind sending them x |
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"Your profile has no public pics. It also says you are only interested in adult parties.
R okay mayb I shall upload a few photos , and change my interests , I don’t really want to put a face pic up but don’t mind sending them x "
It doesn't have to be a face pic. Your profile text is a little harsh too don't you think?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am sure if you where getting 200-300 messages a day you would replay to them all.
Work on your profile add some pictures as I now a lot of woman just delete messages from profiles with non.
Attend socials or go to CJ.
I have found posting in the forums helps the kast 3 ladies I have spoken to have messaged me because a post I put up interest them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I believe fab rules also state take no reply as a no thanks.
R "
thanks everyone for the advice am currently working on spicing my profile up , al add a few pictures , and take it on the chin if I don’t get a reply x |
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"I believe fab rules also state take no reply as a no thanks.
R thanks everyone for the advice am currently working on spicing my profile up , al add a few pictures , and take it on the chin if I don’t get a reply x"
Much better! Unlike some you have taken advice on board. Good luck.
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Agree with all the reply’s... the site faqs state no reply means no thanks, there’s nothing rude or ignorant about a no thanks. People are under no obligation to reply to you so best bet would be taking on board some of the above suggestions
K x |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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The majority of my messages come from men who don't give a shit and what I am looking for!
They come from blank profiles with no public pics, yet they all message me to say 'I love your profile and pics' when they have obviously neither read it or just disregarded it.
So no, I very rarely answer my messages and why should I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe fab rules also state take no reply as a no thanks.
R thanks everyone for the advice am currently working on spicing my profile up , al add a few pictures , and take it on the chin if I don’t get a reply x"
If you see someine you like has displayed verifications look at the profile that verified them might give you ideas |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The majority of my messages come from men who don't give a shit and what I am looking for!
They come from blank profiles with no public pics, yet they all message me to say 'I love your profile and pics' when they have obviously neither read it or just disregarded it.
So no, I very rarely answer my messages and why should I? "
yes you have a point but I do make sure to read any profile of the woman I am interested in , I’m not being bitter about it , I’m genuinely happy with advice I have received and will work on my profile , than you for taking the time to reply to my forum |
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Doesn't matter if you send a message and be all polite and put comas in where they're supposed to go and put effort into the composition or if you just type a fancy a fuck message (not in those words) , But a lot of women on here will just delete them without reading them
Some because they'll have hundreds of messages and they just bulk delete them and some just cause they are stuck up cunts or just after a ego boost or something like that so it's a common problem for singles guys
Either accept it from this kind of site or find another site that will be more what you're looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I often think both men and women have unrealistic expectations of each other and especially here. I can only speak from a females point of view. I’d like to say first and foremost my experience on whom I’ve met has been excellent, I put that down to good vetting. However... negatively men (not all) seem to think if a female is here all they have to do is ask and she will/should comply with a simple request. Maybe that does happen sometimes. However more often than not, this attitude spoils for the ones with the right attitude. As pointed out many times the ratio of men to women is perhaps 25/1 or thereabouts? So if a female shags one male a day she’d still struggle to meet “demand”... no woman is here to meet a mans demand - she is also not necessarily here to meet hers either. In my experience the best is when two like minded people explore a sensualsexyextravagaza and mutual attraction. If you have an intelligent and sexy personality I think you’ll find what you seek  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Doesn't matter if you send a message and be all polite and put comas in where they're supposed to go and put effort into the composition or if you just type a fancy a fuck message (not in those words) , But a lot of women on here will just delete them without reading them
Some because they'll have hundreds of messages and they just bulk delete them and some just cause they are stuck up cunts or just after a ego boost or something like that so it's a common problem for singles guys
Either accept it from this kind of site or find another site that will be more what you're looking for "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often think both men and women have unrealistic expectations of each other and especially here. I can only speak from a females point of view. I’d like to say first and foremost my experience on whom I’ve met has been excellent, I put that down to good vetting. However... negatively men (not all) seem to think if a female is here all they have to do is ask and she will/should comply with a simple request. Maybe that does happen sometimes. However more often than not, this attitude spoils for the ones with the right attitude. As pointed out many times the ratio of men to women is perhaps 25/1 or thereabouts? So if a female shags one male a day she’d still struggle to meet “demand”... no woman is here to meet a mans demand - she is also not necessarily here to meet hers either. In my experience the best is when two like minded people explore a sensualsexyextravagaza and mutual attraction. If you have an intelligent and sexy personality I think you’ll find what you seek "
I completely agree! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is nothing worse putting all your energy into typing a message for it to be deleted
Personally regardless if am not interested I still reply with no thanks but thank you.. wondering if any other males struggle .. surely am not that ugly ??"
I’m pretty sure there are worse things in life.
Delete your sent box. Then you won’t know if they open it, read it, delete it etc. Stop worrying.
I get maybe 10 messages a day (obviously more of I upload a picture) and if I’m not interested I won’t reply. And I have plenty of time to. |
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