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What attributes in individuals do you find will make someone more attractive ? Character wise and physical ? How big is your tick list of desirable qualities ?
For me nice teeth and a gorgeous smile
Blue eyes
Dimples
Broad shoulders
Strong forearms
Any or all of the above just make me go weak at the knees
Personality wise a guy who can make me laugh, hold a good conversation and has old fashioned values tick my boxes, and loves animals, ambition and confidence without arrogance
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"What attributes in individuals do you find will make someone more attractive ? Character wise and physical ? How big is your tick list of desirable qualities ?
For me nice teeth and a gorgeous smile
Blue eyes
Dimples
Broad shoulders
Strong forearms
Any or all of the above just make me go weak at the knees
Personality wise a guy who can make me laugh, hold a good conversation and has old fashioned values tick my boxes, and loves animals, ambition and confidence without arrogance
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Most definitely the smile first and foremost!
Personality wise someone who genuinely cares but isn't too soppy
Someone who likes to laugh and enjoy life and doesn't go around feeling sorry for themselves all the time. |
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Physically, I’m open to most types of people, and it’s very rare that I don’t find something attractive about a person.
For me, the key to attraction is generally openness and honesty, particularly emotional honesty. Someone who’s able and willing to articulate what they are feeling and what they want will have me melting. |
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Definitely good teeth. If you have good teeth you will probably take care of your appearance too.
Also no neanderthals
Confident with a great sense of humour always |
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Strong jawline
Broad shoulders
Beards are nice...but so is clean shaven if they have good skin.
Big hands.
At least the same height as me if not taller.
Doesn't need a gym bod but big bonus if he looks like he could fire me over his shoulder and chuck me about the bed room.
Not fussy about hair colour...love clear blue eyes.
Ladies, not overly attracted to very slim builds, prefer more athletic and toned or curvy. Love short dark hair. Similar height to me or smaller.
Personality wise, like a partner who is self-deprecating, can slag me and make laugh. |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter " that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol |
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"Strong jawline
Broad shoulders
Beards are nice...but so is clean shaven if they have good skin.
Big hands.
At least the same height as me if not taller.
Doesn't need a gym bod but big bonus if he looks like he could fire me over his shoulder and chuck me about the bed room.
Not fussy about hair colour...love clear blue eyes.
Ladies, not overly attracted to very slim builds, prefer more athletic and toned or curvy. Love short dark hair. Similar height to me or smaller.
Personality wise, like a partner who is self-deprecating, can slag me and make laugh. "
Forgot one for men....good at DIY... ...not just for the obvious reasons but I love to watch men fix things. |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol"
4 out of 5 isn't bad though ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol
4 out of 5 isn't bad though " is a fat ass counted as curvy ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol
4 out of 5 isn't bad though is a fat ass counted as curvy "
Does it a curve to it ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol
4 out of 5 isn't bad though is a fat ass counted as curvy
Does it a curve to it " . No its broke, it splits up the middle ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks wise
Nice eyes
Nice smile
Body hair
Tall (or taller than me)
Good banter
And if he's a naughty cop...
Think I meet 1 of your
Hairy big toe?"
Have we met already ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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"I like a lady with curves
Hair colour not fused
Nice eyes blue/green
Nice smile
Not to much make up
And got to have banter that's me out. Ive brown eyes lol
4 out of 5 isn't bad though is a fat ass counted as curvy
Does it a curve to it . No its broke, it splits up the middle "
I did that to my jeans once ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't have a set thing for what I find attractive ! Because it all depends on the person though at a minimum they Have to take care if there teeth and smelling good never goes amis ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Intelligence , humour and being passionate about something. Seeing someone's eyes light up when they talk about something they care about or are really interested in is so sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dont really have a thung that i go for. In all honesty. I love the banter . Dont get me wrong I wouldn't shag a fugly. But couldn t shag a dull good looking guy either . ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What attributes in individuals do you find will make someone more attractive ? Character wise and physical ? How big is your tick list of desirable qualities ?
For me nice teeth and a gorgeous smile
Blue eyes
Dimples
Broad shoulders
Strong forearms
Any or all of the above just make me go weak at the knees
Personality wise a guy who can make me laugh, hold a good conversation and has old fashioned values tick my boxes, and loves animals, ambition and confidence without arrogance
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Someone who is tall
Teeth are also important!
I may the exception to the rule but I find personality to be far more important than looks. I'm more likely to have a chat with someone and gauge what they're like without even looking at their pictures. Personally, if someone has an amazing personality, it can totally change your perception of their looks.
But I'm weird
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone who is tall
Teeth are also important!
I may the exception to the rule but I find personality to be far more important than looks. I'm more likely to have a chat with someone and gauge what they're like without even looking at their pictures. Personally, if someone has an amazing personality, it can totally change your perception of their looks.
But I'm weird
N.x"
No, I agree completely. I’ve been single for a couple of months now, and have been with a few people in that time, and looks really haven’t been the major factor in deciding who was worth spending time with. It’s all been about how we got on chatting first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Eyes - must have that twinkle
Teeth - must still have them and not crooked or missing.
Smile - killer smile essential
Humour - must make me laugh
Personality - must be confident in who he is. What he wants and how to get it.
It’s not much to ask for is it
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I'm so glad I'm not alone! People have commented on how strange I am that I can't necessarily look at some stranger and be like 'oh yeah, they're hot, I'd love to **** them' or whatever. I just don't have that! Someone could be good looking but have absolutely no personality.. What good is that!? Lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm so glad I'm not alone! People have commented on how strange I am that I can't necessarily look at some stranger and be like 'oh yeah, they're hot, I'd love to **** them' or whatever. I just don't have that! Someone could be good looking but have absolutely no personality.. What good is that!? Lol x
N x"
Yeah, said it before on here....they tick all your boxes then open their gub and sound like Joe Pasquale on helium......."eh....naw....." ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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