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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
GLASGOW |
Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
GLASGOW |
"Sounds like it’s someone using pics that aren’t theirs tbh "
Very strange. Why use the same pics as before if they’re not yours? They really sounded lovely and we were happy to Meet then they’re gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s a million reasons people do anything all as individual as each of them... maybe they are unsure they really want to be here, maybe they get their kick through the chase, maybe they are pic hunters, maybe Pinup and Violet are right... as the old saying goes... Nowt like folk (especially Fab folk)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately."
This ^
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately."
It's even worse when the fantasists don't even know they are fantasists 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Newbie couples are the biggest timewasters in my opinion, dipping their toe in, then dissapearing, then back again. Had many a convo dry up on here and kik, then they say hi again weeks later. Tend to avoid now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately.
It's even worse when the fantasists don't even know they are fantasists
John "
Just keep talking about it xx we will get there mr a day at a time xx |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
GLASGOW |
"I wouldn't take it to heart its just the way of the fab.
Looking at your profile its their lose  "
Aw thank you, certainly not taking it to heart. I just remember really enjoying our chats last month too and wee agreed to meet them then too but they deleted everything x |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
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Were they new to the site? We had a message from a couple who joined 4 or 5 days ago. As with all new profiles we left it for a few days before deciding if we should reply and sure enough the message and profile were both gone today. |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
Were they new to the site? We had a message from a couple who joined 4 or 5 days ago. As with all new profiles we left it for a few days before deciding if we should reply and sure enough the message and profile were both gone today."
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
It said joined a year ago so perhaps they resurrected an old one x
Were they new to the site? We had a message from a couple who joined 4 or 5 days ago. As with all new profiles we left it for a few days before deciding if we should reply and sure enough the message and profile were both gone today."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately.
It's even worse when the fantasists don't even know they are fantasists
John "
Fantasist and proud here.. (or. Maybe that word doesn't mean what I think it means.. Bonus fantasy if you name the movie.. I just quoted.) |
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"I wouldn't take it to heart its just the way of the fab.
Looking at your profile its their lose
Aw thank you, certainly not taking it to heart. I just remember really enjoying our chats last month too and wee agreed to meet them then too but they deleted everything x"
Lucky escape I’d say... at least you never went along to meet them. You see in the local updates the same pics being re used again and again, there’s a good number of profiles who resurrect every other week, unfortunately it’s part and parcel of fab along with all the other negatives
K x |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't take it to heart its just the way of the fab.
Looking at your profile its their lose
Aw thank you, certainly not taking it to heart. I just remember really enjoying our chats last month too and wee agreed to meet them then too but they deleted everything x
Lucky escape I’d say... at least you never went along to meet them. You see in the local updates the same pics being re used again and again, there’s a good number of profiles who resurrect every other week, unfortunately it’s part and parcel of fab along with all the other negatives
K x"
Names, profile pic and preferences were slightly different but the couples face pic they sent us was the same couple from last month |
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately."
They love the chase but cant handle the catch. Happens alot to me. |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately.
They love the chase but cant handle the catch. Happens alot to me."
I can imagine. Have you had the same people reappear under new names? X |
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately.
They love the chase but cant handle the catch. Happens alot to me.
I can imagine. Have you had the same people reappear under new names? X"
Not that i remember but had alot of planned meets cancelled or the man just vanished after arrangements were made. Thats why i much prefer going to clubs and parties to meet people. |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Id say fantasists that find the fantasy of it all arousing, but shit themselves at the thought of actually meeting...
Place is full of them unfortunately.
They love the chase but cant handle the catch. Happens alot to me.
I can imagine. Have you had the same people reappear under new names? X
Not that i remember but had alot of planned meets cancelled or the man just vanished after arrangements were made. Thats why i much prefer going to clubs and parties to meet people."
I agree x |
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Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly. "
What exactly did she try? |
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By *MCFUN5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly. "
Great post, thanks x |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly.
What exactly did she try?"
I too am intrigued??? |
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"Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly.
What exactly did she try?
I too am intrigued???"
Attention seeker in my opinion. |
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Very few disappear most just reinvent themselves on another profile with all the hints of how to act and write a profile tips that folk give out id guess 90% of most new profiles are returning dickwads |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
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Just sounds like timewasters to me. I would keep an eye on any other profiles like that who message you and you could report them. Other than that I would just forget about it and move on. This is Fab in a nutshell now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definite timewaster, wouldn't even be convinced its a couple. More likely somebody touting for pics to find someone recognisable. Reason they messaged you again is the fact the person is not recording who was messaged on previous profile. It will happen again but probably with new pics since you challenged the pics this time round. This is where using verified profiles to chat with only comes into play. You simply cannot fake a verification history. Well known regular poster tried it on here with me and she was spotted instantly.
What exactly did she try?
I too am intrigued???
Attention seeker in my opinion. "
Well that didn't really answer the question now, did it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
Just sounds like timewasters to me. I would keep an eye on any other profiles like that who message you and you could report them. Other than that I would just forget about it and move on. This is Fab in a nutshell now x"
Report them for what?
Leaving then rejoining? |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
Just sounds like timewasters to me. I would keep an eye on any other profiles like that who message you and you could report them. Other than that I would just forget about it and move on. This is Fab in a nutshell now x
Report them for what?
Leaving then rejoining?"
It’s offensive to the people that stick it out with their shitty profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woke up to a message from a sexy couple looking to chat. We exchanged a few cordial messages. They posted a Meet too and asked if we were interested in meeting for drinks. Sure, I said as they sounded lovely, they then sent a face pic of them together and I said oh hi, I recognise you from your other profile you chatted to us from last month, how are you, how have you been?
They, their Meet and all messages from our chat this morning have disappeared. Exactly what happened the last time we chatted, their other profile was a different name but the chat, descriptions and face pics are the same
Wtf
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Maybe Thanos made the disappear |
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