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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I am getting on in years and I'm losing the gift off the gab , so any advice on how I can try and seduce females out for socials to see where it leads if anywhere  |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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I’m not really sure what suggestions you are looking for tbh .... if you are struggling to chat to entice folk for a social then what are you going to do if you actually got one, get someone to come along and do the talking for you? |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
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"Maybe invest in some new underwear and take better pics.I thought it was a Swingers site not a fashion parade guess I was wrong "
Dont ask for advice if your not going to take it...
First impressions are important
Take on board suggestions above....
Nicer undies and better camera angles will work wonders!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe invest in some new underwear and take better pics.I thought it was a Swingers site not a fashion parade guess I was wrong "
Well when you’re out and about so you not judge folk on first impressions ? Do you go to an interview suites and booted, go to a wedding with a new clobber ? Even when we think we don’t judge we do it subconsciously without knowing, it’s something we carry from childhood and our own experiences, for me clean smart clothes clean nails nice teeth well groomed and what is in the background makes a big deal, I hate emergency electrician or anyone coming into my home and seeing dishes in the sink or dirty clothes lying on kitchen floor in their colour piles etc or if the kids have left the downstairs loo a mess with toothpaste everywhere etc so I certainly wouldn’t like to see such things in people’s pics ! Getting
The idea ? If we don’t care about making a great first impression then chances are we generally just don’t care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
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Well he asked for advice and then spat the dummy when he was given it, should have responded with thank so what types of pics would you suggest, no point asking for advice if you’ve no intention of taking it, I don’t think anyone was particularly abusive, I was all set to give a few pointers but then he went and shot himself in the foot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe invest in some new underwear and take better pics.I thought it was a Swingers site not a fashion parade guess I was wrong
Dont ask for advice if your not going to take it...
First impressions are important
Take on board suggestions above....
Nicer undies and better camera angles will work wonders!!"
That's where I'm going wrong! I can't do impressions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok so !!!
advice for any guys age irrelevant
Tasteful profile pics are always more likely to get you a profile view, once we’re in snooping a few more well taken photos showing the sort of attire you might wear out on a meet or in the bedroom gives us an idea if you’re the sort of guy we would feel comfortable to be seen out with, facially not all of us are shallow and meet folk based on personality rather than just looks. Make your first impressions count, if I’m fussy then I expect you to be as well so if you’ve basically clicked all age ranges and all boxes then we think you don’t care where you stick it, likewise if you haven’t taken the time to add a bit about yourself in the bio that chances are you won’t take the time to well do anything and want to rush everything and make the least amount of effort possible, first messages ! The all important introduction polite use the persons name, make sure you’ve read their profile if you don’t quite fit their likes make sure you aknowledge this but say why you chose to message anyway, it’s not rocket science. If you wouldn’t do it or say it in a public place why then on here ???!! Oh it’s a sex site ! Actually it’s not it’s just another social media platform that caters for adults who like to share a slightly less normalised lifestyle from the masses but doesn’t mean we’re totally deviant and can be spoken to like gutter trash
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
Well he asked for advice and then spat the dummy when he was given it, should have responded with thank so what types of pics would you suggest, no point asking for advice if you’ve no intention of taking it, I don’t think anyone was particularly abusive, I was all set to give a few pointers but then he went and shot himself in the foot "
I don't think the OP spat out any dummy actually. If you'd prefer I didn't use the word abuse, then it was downright rude.
I also don't believe he shot himself in the foot. I'm sure plenty of people will see the replies and perhaps choose not to post them on here but message him privately! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so !!!
advice for any guys age irrelevant
Tasteful profile pics are always more likely to get you a profile view, once we’re in snooping a few more well taken photos showing the sort of attire you might wear out on a meet or in the bedroom gives us an idea if you’re the sort of guy we would feel comfortable to be seen out with, facially not all of us are shallow and meet folk based on personality rather than just looks. Make your first impressions count, if I’m fussy then I expect you to be as well so if you’ve basically clicked all age ranges and all boxes then we think you don’t care where you stick it, likewise if you haven’t taken the time to add a bit about yourself in the bio that chances are you won’t take the time to well do anything and want to rush everything and make the least amount of effort possible, first messages ! The all important introduction polite use the persons name, make sure you’ve read their profile if you don’t quite fit their likes make sure you aknowledge this but say why you chose to message anyway, it’s not rocket science. If you wouldn’t do it or say it in a public place why then on here ???!! Oh it’s a sex site ! Actually it’s not it’s just another social media platform that caters for adults who like to share a slightly less normalised lifestyle from the masses but doesn’t mean we’re totally deviant and can be spoken to like gutter trash
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Are you representing your own opinion with that or is that a collaborative opinion and you've carried out a survey of women on fab.
Just clarifying for my own benefit.
If it's yours I'll pass.
If others have been consulted, I might take some of it on board! Thanks |
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"Maybe invest in some new underwear and take better pics.I thought it was a Swingers site not a fashion parade guess I was wrong "
By that comment others could say the same about your OP . I thought it was a swingers site not an information bureau.
Not that im saying that of course.
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
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This is hilarious, younger guys getted ripped apart too.
Have a look at your own comment you directed at a 33 year old guy in the " advice sought" thread.
You gotta make up yer mind if yer for it or against it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
This is hilarious, younger guys getted ripped apart too.
Have a look at your own comment you directed at a 33 year old guy in the " advice sought" thread.
You gotta make up yer mind if yer for it or against it "
Read my comment again!
Then read it really slowly again and think about it!
If you still don't get it, forget it!
Was wondering when Mr Chivalrous the white knight might show up! Yawn! |
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
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It certainly is fickle.
Are you white knighting this OP
surely not ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so !!!
advice for any guys age irrelevant
Tasteful profile pics are always more likely to get you a profile view, once we’re in snooping a few more well taken photos showing the sort of attire you might wear out on a meet or in the bedroom gives us an idea if you’re the sort of guy we would feel comfortable to be seen out with, facially not all of us are shallow and meet folk based on personality rather than just looks. Make your first impressions count, if I’m fussy then I expect you to be as well so if you’ve basically clicked all age ranges and all boxes then we think you don’t care where you stick it, likewise if you haven’t taken the time to add a bit about yourself in the bio that chances are you won’t take the time to well do anything and want to rush everything and make the least amount of effort possible, first messages ! The all important introduction polite use the persons name, make sure you’ve read their profile if you don’t quite fit their likes make sure you aknowledge this but say why you chose to message anyway, it’s not rocket science. If you wouldn’t do it or say it in a public place why then on here ???!! Oh it’s a sex site ! Actually it’s not it’s just another social media platform that caters for adults who like to share a slightly less normalised lifestyle from the masses but doesn’t mean we’re totally deviant and can be spoken to like gutter trash
Are you representing your own opinion with that or is that a collaborative opinion and you've carried out a survey of women on fab.
Just clarifying for my own benefit.
If it's yours I'll pass.
If others have been consulted, I might take some of it on board! Thanks "
Mine and several other females based on previous responses from previous forum posts where this is often asked on a regular occurrence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and I doubt you would consider anyone’s advice or opinion TD you seem to have developed a quite strong persona all by yourself and I imagine being such a prolific poster you’re obviously doing well for yourself and don’t feel need to ask advice anyway 
One mans meat and all that, I suppose it depends on the females you wish to attract |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and I doubt you would consider anyone’s advice or opinion TD you seem to have developed a quite strong persona all by yourself and I imagine being such a prolific poster you’re obviously doing well for yourself and don’t feel need to ask advice anyway
One mans meat and all that, I suppose it depends on the females you wish to attract "
Thanks violet!
I'm here for the chat!!  |
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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago
Arbroath |
"Ok so !!!
advice for any guys age irrelevant
Tasteful profile pics are always more likely to get you a profile view, once we’re in snooping a few more well taken photos showing the sort of attire you might wear out on a meet or in the bedroom gives us an idea if you’re the sort of guy we would feel comfortable to be seen out with, facially not all of us are shallow and meet folk based on personality rather than just looks. Make your first impressions count, if I’m fussy then I expect you to be as well so if you’ve basically clicked all age ranges and all boxes then we think you don’t care where you stick it, likewise if you haven’t taken the time to add a bit about yourself in the bio that chances are you won’t take the time to well do anything and want to rush everything and make the least amount of effort possible, first messages ! The all important introduction polite use the persons name, make sure you’ve read their profile if you don’t quite fit their likes make sure you aknowledge this but say why you chose to message anyway, it’s not rocket science. If you wouldn’t do it or say it in a public place why then on here ???!! Oh it’s a sex site ! Actually it’s not it’s just another social media platform that caters for adults who like to share a slightly less normalised lifestyle from the masses but doesn’t mean we’re totally deviant and can be spoken to like gutter trash
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This is spot on advice in my opinion this what I look for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe invest in some new underwear and take better pics.I thought it was a Swingers site not a fashion parade guess I was wrong
By that comment others could say the same about your OP . I thought it was a swingers site not an information bureau.
Not that im saying that of course.
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Tbh dude I'm amazed no one has suggested you invest in some new boxers yourself yet! 
And try some clotrimazole for that rash!!
No wonder you're always so prickly |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I’m with noshrinkingviolet on this. Better pics and more flattering underwear wouldn’t go amiss. I’d give the same advice to everyone male or female.
If you attend a social there has to be some connection for anything to go further. Conversation alone may not be enough.
Like everything in life some effort has to be made.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never spat dummy out I asked a sensible question and took the advice given .
But what I have noticed is some people give shit advice or really don't read verifications but no matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m with noshrinkingviolet on this. Better pics and more flattering underwear wouldn’t go amiss. I’d give the same advice to everyone male or female.
If you attend a social there has to be some connection for anything to go further. Conversation alone may not be enough.
Like everything in life some effort has to be made.
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This |
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"Now I am getting on in years and I'm losing the gift off the gab , so any advice on how I can try and seduce females out for socials to see where it leads if anywhere "
Talk to other people who are getting on in years and your chat will still be relevant |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
inver somewhere |
"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
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And full of trolls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
And full of trolls"
Ah troll! An overused word by forum posters who struggle to come up with any other justification for their behaviour |
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
And full of trolls
Ah troll! An overused word by forum posters who struggle to come up with any other justification for their behaviour "
Wish people would stop feeding it, so the troll would fuck off x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
And full of trolls
Ah troll! An overused word by forum posters who struggle to come up with any other justification for their behaviour
Wish people would stop feeding it, so the troll would fuck off x"
Seems the natives get irritated quite easily when not everyone agrees with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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poor guy getting abused for his underwear haha...but if he was asking on tips for profile improvements etc what else was he expecting than people telling the truth! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"poor guy getting abused for his underwear haha...but if he was asking on tips for profile improvements etc what else was he expecting than people telling the truth! "
People should be careful what they wish for!!!
I see he's discarded said underwear now! |
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By *ubbly2012Woman
over a year ago
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"Interesting thread.
Older male asks for advice and gets abuse.
Seen some threads where younger guys have clearly shamelessly started look at me threads and the women are constructive!!
It's a fickle shallow old world is fab!!
And full of trolls
Ah troll! An overused word by forum posters who struggle to come up with any other justification for their behaviour "
I dont have any behaviour to justify... look a little closer to home...
You seem to jump I everyone's posts...with nothing nice to say
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probs not best to post a pic of your cock like that lol havent met/spoke to a woman yet who appreciates it! Thats probs best first move for u"
cheers for advice , will remove |
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