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Meet then turned off completely
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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Ok so youve finally met someone, either through coffee, party, social ,club or wherever .
You have now decided you really dont like the person, not meaning there not for you as a play mate but actually you really dont like them . Has this happened to you and why.
Definitely not a name and shame thread .
I can think of only 3 or 4 instances we came to this conclusion . |
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Yeah a couple of times, one that stays in my mind is a guy who I asked to leave my house cause he started talking about inviting a friend and being really pushy claiming he was a ‘Dom’ nothing happened but I don’t meet at my house anymore until a social. That was on my singles profile |
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"Ok so youve finally met someone, either through coffee, party, social ,club or wherever .
You have now decided you really dont like the person, not meaning there not for you as a play mate but actually you really dont like them . Has this happened to you and why.
Definitely not a name and shame thread .
I can think of only 3 or 4 instances we came to this conclusion ."
Ive usually made up my mind before meeting whether I like them .
Its usually that once ive met them ive decided they aint for me as a playmate but my instincts about people are usually spot on  |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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For coffee meets most of the above is true, but meeting random people at a club or social or even a party you will be making a decision there and then.
Again i dont mean just a pottential playmate or not playmate material i mean more someone that you actually decided you dont like because they said or done something particularly bad that you thought you c??t.
Met an extremely arrogant couple who also made some smarmy comments , needless to say their on the c??ts list. Another couple cancelled on the morning of a dinner party we had organised after us spending over £100 on food. They made the c??t list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember someone I met last year and had a social with him. He was pleasant enough and easy to talk to but I knew almost right away I didn't want to see him again for fun. He was interested but it was never going to happen as I wasn't attracted to him. Made things worse for himself when he gave me a big full on slobbery kiss. As for in a club, I think we all know right away whether or not we want fun with someone. As I'm a people watcher, I can tell who's for me and who isn't x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Met a couple without face pics. It was short notice on the day thing.
Arrange to meet in Dakota Glasgow city centre in the bar. They’d been before but we hadn’t. Turned out bar had someone on the entrance desk. ‘Can I help’ said waiter. ‘We’re meeting friends’ we said. Waiter then said ‘I’ll show you in’. We then panicked as we’d never seen the couple. Awkwardly we did eventually make eye contact with the couple. Got seated. Smallish bar.
They then talk loudly about swinging all night then as we leave the guy gives L a full on kiss on the lips in the bar !
So much for discretion but that put us off them a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happened a few times, usually because the person in question has been a let down in reality (old pics/good angles/filters etc) and their real life chat isn't as good as their online chat. However, the reverse has also happened, had a social with no intentions whatsoever with someone who sold themselves short online and been amazed in reality. |
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Usually get a feeling before you go to a social, always live in hope your wrong. Only once have I thought that it’s gonna be great then got to a social just to be a bit meh. It’s horrible but you’ve got to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have had a couple of coffee/ lunch meets where the lady decided that I was not her type, no nastyness or anything I just paid the bill and we went our own ways, I don't see why people go off on one, it changes nothing but confirms why she said no in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes he turned up for dinner in a really creased shirt, then started discussing politics, followed by religion. It all went from bad to worse.
I skipped dessert and left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a great looking guy I had exchanged messages with, for dinner. My initial hope was that it would lead to more- however after 15 minutes my eyes were going together. He was excruciatingly boring and the most narcisstic man I have ever met. It was all one way chat about HIS life and achievements.
We parted company after an hour. |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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"Had a a lovely lady ask me to send pictures of my hands as dirty finger nails turned her off. I have never scrubbed so hard in my life  "
I wonder how many people just looked at their fingernails like i just did. Luckily just as i thought , clean as a whistle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh there are lots of people I dislike for one reason or another !
You decided this when meeting them?
Yip at social events "
And had you considered meeting them beforehand? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a a lovely lady ask me to send pictures of my hands as dirty finger nails turned her off. I have never scrubbed so hard in my life
I wonder how many people just looked at their fingernails like i just did. Luckily just as i thought , clean as a whistle. "
I past the test and had lovely evening |
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"Tbh there are lots of people I dislike for one reason or another !
You decided this when meeting them?
Yip at social events "
Agree with this totally....also what’s behind a screen and what’s in front of the screen don’t always match up ....personality and looks  |
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I'd suggest get it out the door straight away, before it gets injured 
