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Do you ever Delete Unread?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Doesn't go down well, does it?
I did this a few times when guys weren't taking no for an answer and got a pile of abuse back! It seems to not read and delete someone's message is a cardinal sin on here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you read the abuse yet not the original message?"
I don't.. Usually the first few words begin.. 'fuckin.. Cunt, bitch' so I get the general tone of the message before I ever open it! Now these sad folks are blocked.
Much simpler |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would you read the abuse yet not the original message?
I don't.. Usually the first few words begin.. 'fuckin.. Cunt, bitch' so I get the general tone of the message before I ever open it! Now these sad folks are blocked.
Much simpler"
Sounds like some right horrors your way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you read the abuse yet not the original message?
I don't.. Usually the first few words begin.. 'fuckin.. Cunt, bitch' so I get the general tone of the message before I ever open it! Now these sad folks are blocked.
Much simpler
Sounds like some right horrors your way"
Hmm.. I gather from reading forum posts I'm not alone in encountering these horrors! |
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"Why would you read the abuse yet not the original message?
I don't.. Usually the first few words begin.. 'fuckin.. Cunt, bitch' so I get the general tone of the message before I ever open it! Now these sad folks are blocked.
Much simpler
Sounds like some right horrors your way"
Could they not be sending abuse from other areas or do you think there all sent from Tayside lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the time i dont wanna see a pic of their dick afore i even get to know them, and experience has taught me the dick piccers arent here for reasons i am.... |
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If you're deleting messages without reading, even the non abusive ones, the ones who take the time to word them too, then why not just block the user who sends them as well?
You've no intention of interacting with them, so isn't it best just to cut them off completely? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're deleting messages without reading, even the non abusive ones, the ones who take the time to word them too, then why not just block the user who sends them as well?
You've no intention of interacting with them, so isn't it best just to cut them off completely? "
Well the non abusive messages I delete unread are also from guys with dick pics on their profile pics - I state in my profile that messages with dick pics are deleted Unread. I wouldn't block these guys unless they became abusive. However I am not an aggressive person and have never personally felt the need to be abusive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not the world's friendliest gal on here, but by and large, I don't get abusive messages
Neither do I. It's weird that people get loads  "
You pair don't get abuse because I bet all your filters are up xxxx |
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"I'm not the world's friendliest gal on here, but by and large, I don't get abusive messages
Neither do I. It's weird that people get loads "
Why is it weird that some people get abuse? Sending abuse and victim shaming is never ok.
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When it's clear it's a one liner, or less and the profile picture (if there is one at all) doesn't appeal, yeah I'll toss them out straight away.
Not many come back with abuse though and if they do they're on the block list and don't think about them ever again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason is men may use the copy and paste approach, is generally due to this. There’s really no point in wasting time with a long winded first message if - 1) it gets deleted and not read 2) it gets read and no response.
As a man, cast your net far and wide. (Though it shall still receive the same results lol) |
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I know its a Fab rule no reply is a polite no thx, load a rubbish imo. It takes seconds to type "sry not my type" . Job done if they reply back with any questions then delete and block, if they say no probs then delete. Its only manners.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends, I have very few message filters and I tend to post photos semi regularly and update my status often so I honestly get too many messages to even read never mind reply to. If I get a decent one that I'm not interested in then I do message back no thanks but I cant do that will all of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the folk complain that they don't get a reply I take you answer all cold sales call then replay with a no thank you, or stop in the streat an talk to all the charity work listen to what the say fully then say sorry not for me if so I bet there's a lovely place for you in the next life
I get its frustrating but no need to be abusive. Well that me 3ps worth anyway |
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"All the folk complain that they don't get a reply I take you answer all cold sales call then replay with a no thank you, or stop in the streat an talk to all the charity work listen to what the say fully then say sorry not for me if so I bet there's a lovely place for you in the next life
I get its frustrating but no need to be abusive. Well that me 3ps worth anyway "
Yep jason me too, i always answer the phone and always say sry not interested, if the continue the sales patter i hang up just like blocking someone.
Same in the street always say no thx not interested. Your saying you ignore these people Jason ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the folk complain that they don't get a reply I take you answer all cold sales call then replay with a no thank you, or stop in the streat an talk to all the charity work listen to what the say fully then say sorry not for me if so I bet there's a lovely place for you in the next life
I get its frustrating but no need to be abusive. Well that me 3ps worth anyway
Yep jason me too, i always answer the phone and always say sry not interested, if the continue the sales patter i hang up just like blocking someone.
Same in the street always say no thx not interested. Your saying you ignore these people Jason ? "
Folk at the door too? Fuck that, I smile, give them a wee sign to say "gimme a sec" to suggest I'm looking for my keys or similar, then park my arse back on the couch and leave them in the pissing rain.
If I want double glazing, a quote for tar mac or my guttering done, I'll find you. Otherwise you can fuck off from my doorstep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the folk complain that they don't get a reply I take you answer all cold sales call then replay with a no thank you, or stop in the streat an talk to all the charity work listen to what the say fully then say sorry not for me if so I bet there's a lovely place for you in the next life
I get its frustrating but no need to be abusive. Well that me 3ps worth anyway
Yep jason me too, i always answer the phone and always say sry not interested, if the continue the sales patter i hang up just like blocking someone.
Same in the street always say no thx not interested. Your saying you ignore these people Jason ? "
100% yes every day of the week.
My time is precious to me and use it to speak to people I like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the folk complain that they don't get a reply I take you answer all cold sales call then replay with a no thank you, or stop in the streat an talk to all the charity work listen to what the say fully then say sorry not for me if so I bet there's a lovely place for you in the next life
I get its frustrating but no need to be abusive. Well that me 3ps worth anyway
Yep jason me too, i always answer the phone and always say sry not interested, if the continue the sales patter i hang up just like blocking someone.
Same in the street always say no thx not interested. Your saying you ignore these people Jason ?
100% yes every day of the week.
My time is precious to me and use it to speak to people I like "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing I don't get it some times you will get told soz not my type via looking at a pic and you don't get a chance"
So you'd give someone a chance if you found their photos completely unappealing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s rare I have abusive mail, very rare but it has happened. One recently I hadn’t even spoken too was a tirade on my profile. If I can see by the preview it’s crude (I’m all for sexy but not crudity) I’ll delete it unread as I think that gives the right message as to my thoughts about it. Even that’s rare though I’m glad to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s rare I have abusive mail, very rare but it has happened. One recently I hadn’t even spoken too was a tirade on my profile. If I can see by the preview it’s crude (I’m all for sexy but not crudity) I’ll delete it unread as I think that gives the right message as to my thoughts about it. Even that’s rare though I’m glad to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeh if its a dick pic saying wanna meet in headline ....theve clearly not read prf i just block dont evn read message or check prf i know there not what im looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't go down well, does it?
I did this a few times when guys weren't taking no for an answer and got a pile of abuse back! It seems to not read and delete someone's message is a cardinal sin on here! "
Sometimes I get that way and I just go delete all because I’ve taken ages trying to respond to everyone and I get some arsey
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The ones I’ve said thanks but no thanks to do just say fuxk it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't go down well, does it?
I did this a few times when guys weren't taking no for an answer and got a pile of abuse back! It seems to not read and delete someone's message is a cardinal sin on here!
Sometimes I get that way and I just go delete all because I’ve taken ages trying to respond to everyone and I get some arsey
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The ones I’ve said thanks but no thanks to do just say fuxk it lol "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I know its a Fab rule no reply is a polite no thx, load a rubbish imo. It takes seconds to type "sry not my type" . Job done if they reply back with any questions then delete and block, if they say no probs then delete. Its only manners.
Tin hat on "
Reply to all your email spam and junk mail that comes through your letter box with no thanks then. Let me know how you get on after a week
No doubt you'll find it a tiresome and soul destroying task. |
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Lmao .. always XX if they won't put effort into a message they won't put effort into a meet. Deleting message or taking ages to respond after reading is the perfect way of ing out the Psychos xx. I delete hellos and anything from 100s of miles away, anything with Skype, "wish" or "pity" in the first line. I'm sure I've missed out on a few nice meets but dodged 100s of bullets. |
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