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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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im so annoyed at the ammount of timewaisters that are on the site.
why cant people just say things straight instead of getting peoples backs up
its not fair on gen ppl that plan something and only to be dissapointed buy ppl saying they are def coming then never show, worse is the fact that they dont even contact you to say that they cant come
i believe timewaisters should be named and shamed so gen ppl can see that these ppl are timewaisters
horny4u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i total agree with horny4u on this subject, it`s not hard to send an e-mail or a quick call just to say your not coming, it`s time there is a cat for name and shame on here, might make people think twice before arranging meet and then no show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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totally agree but no matter what site you go on you will ALWAYS get time wasters .doesnt cost much even for txt.....been there ...hence we only do home meets ...but def rise above them .....all we can say is their loss xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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all they do is delete and change their name and come back.
there are plenty of ways to narrow it down but never stop it.
are they photo verified, if so, great , if not ... WHY NOT.. its a pic with a card.. of your body or face/
are they verified.. how long they been on for .. if not , why not ?
can you call then.. if not , why not, if it a single guy, ffs, no reason unless something to hide.
do they go to socials, chatroom etc etc..
do they know any other swingers... it really is a small world..
do they have pics? |
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But we've been told time and again that it isn't going to happen (and the reasons why it isn't going to happen) so there's no point in continuing to suggest it.
Given the quantity of complaints about time wasting it's almost as if there are some folks out there deliberately arranging meets they have no intention of keeping simply because they know the effect it'll have on others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah but it`s the ones who are verified with reviews that should be shamed,think thats the ones they are talking about, we wouldn`t arrange meet with anyone who has no verifications in the first place, but thats just our way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yeah but it`s the ones who are verified with reviews that should be shamed,think thats the ones they are talking about, we wouldn`t arrange meet with anyone who has no verifications in the first place, but thats just our way"
oops sorry, didn't realise they meant verified people not showing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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totally agree i have been out of pocket to the tune of nearly £300 because i have booked hotels in my name then people havnt shown up also the damage it does to the reps of genuine folk on here is terrible , |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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a lot of ppl r verified bye phone bye webcam even meeting in person.this proves they r ppl,it doesnt prove they r swingers.maybe there should b another verificatoin symbol,proving ppl actually swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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only ever had 1 no show and actually wasn't a no show as such, she messaged to say she got promoted and was going for beers to celebrate.. I was £80 quid down for hotel room.. but hey..went shopping, out for dinner and enjoyed hotel.
in 5 years on 4 sites.. and a few meets 
I count myself lucky .. |
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By *urioduoCouple
over a year ago
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I agree it is not nice when people let others down by no show on arranged meets but I, without trying to be controversial, am NOT in favour of name and shame, for the reason that it gives some of the timewasters another forum to slag off people in public, for example if you name and shame someone for a no show, they would just reply in kind and then it becomes a public arguement with your word against theirs. I wholeheartedly agree that in an ideal world we could hound the timewasters out but, has been previously said, they would just reappear with new names.
Only my thoughts and if name and shame worked then yes I would be first to promote it but I dont think its the answer and would only create more problems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My two pence for what it's worth.... we know who you are and we tell a friend...who tells a friend..... it soon gets round who not to meet with.... diss one you diss us all.
Laine xxxx |
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