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I would never ask or expect to be wined and dined or taken away for the weekend with anyone I’ve not met before or that I’m not already good friends with.
If I was asked (by a good friend) then I would certainly offer to go Dutch or they pay for one thing and I pay for another.  |
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"I would never ask or expect to be wined and dined or taken away for the weekend with anyone I’ve not met before or that I’m not already good friends with.
If I was asked (by a good friend) then I would certainly offer to go Dutch or they pay for one thing and I pay for another. "
I have alot of good friends on here and would never go away with somebody i did not know |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
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I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
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"I would never ask or expect to be wined and dined or taken away for the weekend with anyone I’ve not met before or that I’m not already good friends with.
If I was asked (by a good friend) then I would certainly offer to go Dutch or they pay for one thing and I pay for another.
I have alot of good friends on here and would never go away with somebody i did not know"
I need to get to know you blue ,I would gladly wine and dine you just for the intelligent conversation I believe we could engage in (based purely on your many thread comments and odd message we have exchanged over the years ) you could be thick as mince in real life though ha  |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
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its not just new girls been going on a long time with some members from lifts to cjs ,dinner ,alcohol & lingerie you name it some will ask for it jesus heard of one just recently asking for an easter egg lol |
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My weekends away have bn spent with Fab friends from down south who have driven for several hrs to spend time with me or male friends from here who i have travelled down south with to attend a clubs or parties with. Everybody is different in what they choose to do and should never be judged for doing so. |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
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This.
Too many men seem to think this is some sort of free escorting service. Sending messages with demands of instant meets and wondering why we say no |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
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so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing  |
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"I'd like to do log cabin get away with fellow fabbers
How about a wooden shed
Does it have a hot tub ?
I have a paddling pool , any good "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing "
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing "
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Doesn't have to be a shag, could be a social. You make it sound like it's a meal in return for a shag. . That wouldn't be a given in my book at all.
So if I had a nice meal and some banter and a laugh and there was no shagging agreed at the end of it it'd still offer to pay, but that's just me. I get not all women would be comfortable with that and some would rather pay their way. But if she saw my ugly mug in real life and couldn't stand my "banter" and said not a chance in hell to a further meet I'd still pay for her meal and not demand she pays for what she ate!!
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing .
Doesn't have to be a shag, could be a social. You make it sound like it's a meal in return for a shag. . That wouldn't be a given in my book at all.
So if I had a nice meal and some banter and a laugh and there was no shagging agreed at the end of it it'd still offer to pay, but that's just me. I get not all women would be comfortable with that and some would rather pay their way. But if she saw my ugly mug in real life and couldn't stand my "banter" and said not a chance in hell to a further meet I'd still pay for her meal and not demand she pays for what she ate!!
Disclaimer ....... this message should not be interpreted that I am a meal ticket! "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. that wasn't aimed at anyone it was a sweeping comment.if your going for lunch or dinner it should be halved "
Ok, no worries Oldie! Halfers on a day use hotel this week?
Failing that Nando's!! |
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. that wasn't aimed at anyone it was a sweeping comment.if your going for lunch or dinner it should be halved
Ok, no worries Oldie! Halfers on a day use hotel this week?
Failing that Nando's!! "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. that wasn't aimed at anyone it was a sweeping comment.if your going for lunch or dinner it should be halved
Ok, no worries Oldie! Halfers on a day use hotel this week?
Failing that Nando's!! nandos is for teenagers TD40 "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. that wasn't aimed at anyone it was a sweeping comment.if your going for lunch or dinner it should be halved
Ok, no worries Oldie! Halfers on a day use hotel this week?
Failing that Nando's!! nandos is for teenagers TD40
Ok soup and a roll for granny oldie! "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
so your happy to pay for a meal for a chick on here to get a shag?what's up with the fem paying? She's getting the sex also?2 way thing
Hey that is a totally unfair comment to make. I have never let anyone spend money on me for sex. Any costs are always halved. Once someone bought me perfume as a gift but that was under £20 and he never bought it for me to get sex in return he bought it for me as he was kind hearted. that wasn't aimed at anyone it was a sweeping comment.if your going for lunch or dinner it should be halved
Ok, no worries Oldie! Halfers on a day use hotel this week?
Failing that Nando's!! nandos is for teenagers TD40
Ok soup and a roll for granny oldie!
Is not a fish tea for the oldies "
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I have met ladies for meals, I have taken a lady with me on work trips but payed her meals,yes we have had fun after, I have bought gifts for people I have long term meetings with, I have been offered services for money from people on this site which I have declined,as if I want to give a gift I will not give one if I have been asked to. I like to be nice for the sake of it not for what I can get out of it . |
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I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent  yup a weirdo lol |
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol "
You can always give it to me. |
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol "
there's a difference to a kinder egg to a bottle of perfume or something like that tho.
Silly gifts yes.expensive gifts no.
But again that's my personal choice if folk are comfortable giving or receiving
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They'll always be someone asking for handouts and people offering them.
Best just ignore and move on O.P
I know my other half ages ago got a message from a guy once offering to take her out for a meal & cocktails with promises of buying her flowers etc after she posted for a meet.
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol there's a difference to a kinder egg to a bottle of perfume or something like that tho.
Silly gifts yes.expensive gifts no.
But again that's my personal choice if folk are comfortable giving or receiving
Crack on lol"
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So am I buying you Nando's? Or booking a room? Your shout next time! |
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol there's a difference to a kinder egg to a bottle of perfume or something like that tho.
Silly gifts yes.expensive gifts no.
But again that's my personal choice if folk are comfortable giving or receiving
Crack on lol"
Its usually me who buys the gifts i was brought up to be kind and pay my own way through life. If somebody picks me up from my house and takes me to and from a club or party i will buy them a gift of some sort as know they wont accept petrol money. Afterall they have saved me train and taxi fares and precious time which is always appreciated. |
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol there's a difference to a kinder egg to a bottle of perfume or something like that tho.
Silly gifts yes.expensive gifts no.
But again that's my personal choice if folk are comfortable giving or receiving
Crack on lol
Its usually me who buys the gifts i was brought up to be kind and pay my own way through life. If somebody picks me up from my house and takes me to and from a club or party i will buy them a gift of some sort as know they wont accept petrol money. Afterall they have saved me train and taxi fares and precious time which is always appreciated. "
Yup this is me too, and I just like giving folk a wee boost and letting them know they’re appreciated and thought about at times, I was always brought up that you never go calling on someone for the first time without a little something ie a pack of biscuits/cake if someone invited you round for a coffee etc I’m also a bit of a feeder lol if I know someone’s feelings bit under weather I’ll pick them up some wee essentials or make them some soup etc |
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"I don’t personally feel comfortable with gifts but then I feel awkward getting gifts from friends family bf etc I’m not used to it yet I’m someone who’s always buying gifts for people, it can even be the silliest of things like kinder eggs or a bottle of bubbles, quirky gifts etc to some really extravagant gifts but then I hate when I’ve got money in the bank lol it makes me nervous and I just want it spent yup a weirdo lol there's a difference to a kinder egg to a bottle of perfume or something like that tho.
Silly gifts yes.expensive gifts no.
But again that's my personal choice if folk are comfortable giving or receiving
Crack on lol
Its usually me who buys the gifts i was brought up to be kind and pay my own way through life. If somebody picks me up from my house and takes me to and from a club or party i will buy them a gift of some sort as know they wont accept petrol money. Afterall they have saved me train and taxi fares and precious time which is always appreciated. "
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"Theyre prostitutes or escorts then or just users who gt an expensive meal and have absolutely no intentions of taking it any further than the guys wallet "
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"I always pay my way at meets whether thats social or otherwise !
A meet recently insisted on paying for the room & said I could pay the next time which I will do no problem  "
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
I don't see the issue with some girls lookin to meet for a nice meal and drinks etc before or in the lead up to an potential shagging. The weekend thing is a bit of a stretch mind.
I think lots of guys expect to make no effort whatsoever and get their leg over or shag in a car on the cheap. Maybe the aforementioned girls respect themselves a little more than that.
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"What is it with a lot of new girls on here who want to be wined and dined and asking to be taken away for a weekend.
its not just new girls been going on a long time with some members from lifts to cjs ,dinner ,alcohol & lingerie you name it some will ask for it jesus heard of one just recently asking for an easter egg lol"
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some think this is some sort of dating site and expect the same rules to apply , wine dine and a peck on the cheek then on the next may be more . POF and other sites are getting lame and now folk are coming here thinking they will get the same .
im all up for a social meet over coffee or whatever, but wine and dine on a first meet they are just looking for a free night out |
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It's always happened on here, it used to just be folks asking for Site Supporter Passes, but recently it has been really OTT.
I've seen people with status updates asking for money towards cars and house deposits, weekends away and other extravagant things.
The thing is there are people out there willing to pay the cash and such, and it's really just an extreme case of "You don't ask, you don't get".
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That’s perfectly fine.
But I had a girl who I met for a social then want me to take her to piperdam for the weekend...
Although I didn’t take her, piperdam was brilliant to which I let her know! |
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