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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Here is the scenario.....You arrange a meet ,possibly after sending a fair amount of messages (well single guys do lol) When another 'offer' pops into your in box. The 2nd offer is nearer to home,better looking and been on your 'hotlist'.
Do you politely refuse second offer ,explaining you have made plans. OR make your excuses to the first ?
Personally,i think i'd keep my word and go with the first arranged meeting but not had that dilemma (yet)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"never had the scenario but if you made arrangements you should stick to them as you will only be called a time waister"
I concur, those plans have already been made where as the second offer can always be taken up at a later date. |
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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago
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Well i spent time getting to know my first meet for over a month, even though i was constantly asked to meet others as well, but to me i was interested in getting to to know my first more, and so i always promised to meet my next meet once i met, in which i did...and to me it makes it much nicer that you have hopefully gained friendships in the process and then fulfil the promises of those you hope to meet next.
But then thats just me i dont like pushy folk as well and if you wish to meet then please have the patience as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would keep to my word and stick to the first one. at the end of the day you treat people how you want to be treated back, in real life and swinging life still the same |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Here is the scenario.....You arrange a meet ,possibly after sending a fair amount of messages (well single guys do lol) When another 'offer' pops into your in box. The 2nd offer is nearer to home,better looking and been on your 'hotlist'.
Do you politely refuse second offer ,explaining you have made plans. OR make your excuses to the first ?
Personally,i think i'd keep my word and go with the first arranged meeting but not had that dilemma (yet) "
jk rowling,could not have come up with this outlandish scenario.
well done.  |
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The phrase one in the hand is worth two in the bush springs to mind.
Take the first offer, its probably more reliable, and you can still go back to the second couple and explain that you are seeing someone else.
This is a swinger site, no one expects you to be monogamous, but you are expected to keep your word. |
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