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over a year ago
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"They’ve all left because it’s so difficult to get a meet over 50. Many age limits are set at 50. "
True i did meet a woman in her 50's from here think she left a while back dunno why some older woman are just as good in bed as younger |
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over a year ago
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I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age. |
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"They’ve all left because it’s so difficult to get a meet over 50. Many age limits are set at 50.
I dont find it difficult to meet people. I joined Fab when i was 52"
You're a girl, and judging by your pics, one who looks fantastic.
You were never going to find it difficult to meet anyone on here. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"I like an older couple to have fun with. There is a distinct lack of that age bracket in and around my area. Any suggestions where everyone is hiding?"
Having the same problem in the same location, good luck ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age. "
The fact that women can wear make up, grow and style their hair and wear a variety of bright coloured clothes gives them an advantage at looking better. |
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Developed into a bit of a game i play while browsing. The seeing someones profile i like then betting whether or not the age limit is not too low.
I get it though, its a preference and message limiting measure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"50 is my leaving fab age.
I'm 51 and seen quite a few over 50s couples and ladies.
And aye right ..we shall see" we shall because it's true.always said 50 and it's hang up my stockings time lol.
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over a year ago
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"I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age.
The fact that women can wear make up, grow and style their hair and wear a variety of bright coloured clothes gives them an advantage at looking better."
Nothing stopping a guy to any of that should he choose. I think in general women invest more in "maintaining" themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's be honest... 58 is what 40 was a few decades ago. The film Shirley Valentine, if made in 2019, would have Shirley at age 60. Women our age are having spray tans, getting our eyelashes done, our legs waxed, buying sex toys, running races and experiencing much better orgasms.... Even though our free bus pass is just around the corner! |
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over a year ago
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"I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age.
The fact that women can wear make up, grow and style their hair and wear a variety of bright coloured clothes gives them an advantage at looking better."
As the saying goes, you cannot polish a turd. Still loads men can do to improve or maintain their appearance. Most of Mr's mates have big beer bellies and terrible complexions cause they stopped trying years ago and gave in to curries and the pub every weekend.
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"I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age.
The fact that women can wear make up, grow and style their hair and wear a variety of bright coloured clothes gives them an advantage at looking better.
As the saying goes, you cannot polish a turd. Still loads men can do to improve or maintain their appearance. Most of Mr's mates have big beer bellies and terrible complexions cause they stopped trying years ago and gave in to curries and the pub every weekend.
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"I think an attractive woman remains an attractive woman no matter what her age. I think that a lot of 50 something year old guys are probably less appealing to women as they don't keep themselves in shape and because an alternative younger guy in shape is easier to come by. I'm 41 and I'm now outside a lot of users preferences. Doesn't bother me at all. People want what they want. There's not much you can do about it unless like some users you lie about your age.
The fact that women can wear make up, grow and style their hair and wear a variety of bright coloured clothes gives them an advantage at looking better.
As the saying goes, you cannot polish a turd. Still loads men can do to improve or maintain their appearance. Most of Mr's mates have big beer bellies and terrible complexions cause they stopped trying years ago and gave in to curries and the pub every weekend.
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It is all about keeping fit. You can’t help a few wrinkles or grey hair but you can try to stay reasonably slim although you have to work harder at it as you get older. That applies to men and women over 50. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Moisturising
Plucking (nose and ears)
Exercising
Stretching
And get some nice clothes not loungewear and trainers.
Over 50 is not over the hill if you make a little effort.
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"Maybe you need to venture out your area to fund what you are looking for "
so true ,get out n about I go to folk festivals from april till oct meet nice new peeps and try and fit some socials in between . its just life , ha ha |
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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"Perhaps you’re out with over 50’s preferences making it difficult for you to find them
Was that message for us ? "
No it was a reply to the OP on his question of where we were all hiding lol x |
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"Perhaps you’re out with over 50’s preferences making it difficult for you to find them
Was that message for us ?
No it was a reply to the OP on his question of where we were all hiding lol x"
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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"Perhaps you’re out with over 50’s preferences making it difficult for you to find them
Was that message for us ?
No it was a reply to the OP on his question of where we were all hiding lol x
Just checking lol because you know we like you guys "
Not at all x see you later ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Perhaps you’re out with over 50’s preferences making it difficult for you to find them
Was that message for us ?
No it was a reply to the OP on his question of where we were all hiding lol x
Just checking lol because you know we like you guys
Not at all x see you later "
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over a year ago
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"There's lots of women over 50. They also seem to be very popular!
Lol "
It's often the reason men in their 30s/40s dont want women my age.
I'm left in no man's land.. literally!
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"There's lots of women over 50. They also seem to be very popular!
Lol
It's often the reason men in their 30s/40s dont want women my age.
I'm left in no man's land.. literally!
I look forward to going wild when it's my turn "
What about meeting a nice couple ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"There's lots of women over 50. They also seem to be very popular!
Lol
It's often the reason men in their 30s/40s dont want women my age.
I'm left in no man's land.. literally!
I look forward to going wild when it's my turn
What about meeting a nice couple "
It's bad enough to disappoint one person , never mind two! |
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over a year ago
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Aberdeen does have a lack off ladies looking for over 50's and that's due to most off the ladies up here being under the big 5 0 , there is a few couples who look for the occasional single gent but again in my experience they usually prefer to meet couples.so best thing to do is head along to your local Social which will be Dundee or further as Aberdeen rarely have Socials these days. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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over a year ago
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I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my most adventurous and extreme lovers was an ex navy guy aged 58. He looked 10 years younger and climbed mountains, went diving etc. Utterly perfect. I nicknamed him 'milk tray man' initially. He was in a league of his own... |
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Our age limits are set "as a guide" - but we would never discount a meet with anyone outwith them if "looks (at the upper level of the age range) and maturity (at the lower level of the age range) were fine ! |
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
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I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im nearly 52 and proud of my body so far and not had any bsd remarks infact been told my pussy is like a female half my age " I'm same well apart from pussy lol ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re only as old as the man you’re feeling!! The older the fiddle the better the tune ... never a truer word spoken "
I identify as an old fiddle then ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down."
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger. |
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger."
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters "
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking. "
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking. "
Weve been caught up in your filter , tried to message you but we were swiftly blocked lol. |
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking.
Weve been caught up in your filter , tried to message you but we were swiftly blocked lol."
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking.
So contact them yourself and you won't have to worry about cradle snatching "
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"I’m 58, I’m an ex boxer/martial artist.
I still keep fit, my knees are fecked so my road running is down to a walk, I still do all the rest of the stuff I used to do
I don’t come in here as often as I used to as I’m now looking for a particular thing.
If I want to meet someone for sex I know a few pubs and clubs I used to work the doors where I’m still welcome.
Seriously those in here over 50 whinging about not getting meets maybe need to up your game and try a bit harder.
Just saying
I'm nowhere near 50, though I'm specifically here due to not wishing to put in any effort. I'm lazy, yet vain.
The over 50's crowd irl always come out with the same - 'my kids are your age'. It's such a let down.
I get that it must be frustrating if you're into 50+ women and meet with this response but it is a bit of a mind fuck, for me at least, even if you're a confident older woman and not comparing yourself to younger women.
An 18yr old contacted me recently as he had a thing for older women. Was waiting on the police kicking in my door after that message! My eldest is only a few years younger.
Filters
Yes, but that blocks the interesting folk who are still worth a chat but you have no intention of fucking. "
That’s so cruel to give them such hope lol. I do understand it. I just don’t like to accept it It’s not even about taboo tbh, I just genuinely don’t find women within my age range to be as attractive. It’s a tough life. |
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"You’re only as old as the man you’re feeling!! The older the fiddle the better the tune ... never a truer word spoken
I identify as an old fiddle then
I like a good fiddle ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) "
That’s what I like to hear you may have a fiddle about with my fiddle whenever your little heart desires ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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