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over a year ago
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Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem? |
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem? "
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where. |
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where."
You won't get any better advice than this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
You won't get any better advice than this. "
Sounds good to me aswell. Think I will take this advice myself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where."
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I totally agree about the running,running always makes me feel so much better if I'm having a bad day,it releases natural endorphins which gives the body a positive feeling,you can find lots of groups such as jog Scotland which is also a good way for the original poster to meet new people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !"
Find a hobby where you can make new friends and it will, help boast your confidence aswell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
Find a hobby where you can make new friends and it will, help boast your confidence aswell."
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !"
You dont need a "nice lady". Spend time finding yourself again first. Talk to work
colleagues or join a group of some kind to make new friends. Diving into another relationship is no good until you are mentally strong again |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
You dont need a "nice lady". Spend time finding yourself again first. Talk to work
colleagues or join a group of some kind to make new friends. Diving into another relationship is no good until you are mentally strong again "
I didnt mean a relationship lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
Find a hobby where you can make new friends and it will, help boast your confidence aswell."
Its not the hobby i need just personal confidence boost on here. My life is major hectic haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
Find a hobby where you can make new friends and it will, help boast your confidence aswell.
Its not the hobby i need just personal confidence boost on here. My life is major hectic haha"
At the risk of sounding harsh, if you came here for a confidence boost I'd make a flask of tea and pull up a chair. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
Find a hobby where you can make new friends and it will, help boast your confidence aswell.
Its not the hobby i need just personal confidence boost on here. My life is major hectic haha
At the risk of sounding harsh, if you came here for a confidence boost I'd make a flask of tea and pull up a chair."
Your probably very right indeed.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !"
Should never rely on anyone else to build your confidence it’s something you can only truly do for yourself tbh if you rely on others to make you feel good about yourself then you’re doing yourself a disservice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all. Not new here but new in the sense of having not met anyone.
Just out of a crazy ass relationship, she well and truly screwed my head. Ive forgotten how to 'get out there' so to speak. Its really getting me down.
Anyone else have this problem?
Sorry to hear you are feeling this way as i have been there and its no joy. I started running, sounds daft but it cleared my head and made my body stronger. Exercise and being supported by friends and family should help over time but always believe in yourself and never forget who you once where.
Your advice is good to be fair, what happens if you have no family nearby and friendships have dissolved!
Hoping a nice lady will come and put my mind at ease !
Should never rely on anyone else to build your confidence it’s something you can only truly do for yourself tbh if you rely on others to make you feel good about yourself then you’re doing yourself a disservice "
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