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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys, first topic from me.
So having setup a profile where I hope to take and edit some pics for people I got to thinking... How important are the pics to you? Your pics or the pics of others?
Ultimately most people seem to go for 'personality' or chat but I'm interested in the importance of the quality of pics from a couple/person contacting you for the first time?
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Pictures are very important. Lack of effort with the picture itself and mess in the background etc puts me off. Ours aren't great but it's not a strong point for either of us.
If someone has a couple of rushed pics in the bathroom then I'm not even reading their profile blurb. Actually, they're usually the ones that have 'will fill in later' or 'looking for burds, nae men, nae fatties' so aren't worth reading anyway 
Having read yours... Red head with a few tattoos here but I'm sure we've chatted on your couples profile and it was a no from you two so we'll leave things there 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It can take a while to get FAB confident though and start taking pics that you're happy with and not just what you think people wanna see.
Is my opinion. |
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"It can take a while to get FAB confident though and start taking pics that you're happy with and not just what you think people wanna see.
Is my opinion."
I'll agree with that. It's taken us a bit of time to realise what we prefer to show and I'd say my sexy selfie skills have improved 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unless you're full of confidence man or women it's a tricky thing to get right.
Best advice I've had which applies to the whole of FAB is only do what you feed confident with.
Nerves are fine but if it makes you anxious, why bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think photos are an important part of the puzzle. Well for me anyway. I am never happy having pictures taken and anyone who has seen them can guess why!
In my opinion the three important things are looks, sexual and relationship compatibility. Not in any order, they are all part of a puzzle.
Did I go off on a tangent again.
Photos can be old, photoshopped or with loads of makeup. So they aren't to be trusted 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t mean heew haw to me I’d be a hypocrite if it did, I generally don’t have any normally in a wee shadow figure creeping about. I’ll chat to anyone and their granny if the conversation is decent  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd say it's finding an angle or pose that you can look at and say, fuck I feel sexy.
We all have one. I'm a bigger guy too and being a guy and bigger on fab isn't exactly a confidence booster. So you kinda need to come to the party with confidence from elsewhere. Don't get the affirmative feedback from FAB but bring your own |
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Photos are important and profiles with crotch only photos really don't do anything for me.
I like to see the person and see if they have a nice face as I don't want to have to wear a blindfold if we were ever to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t mean heew haw to me I’d be a hypocrite if it did, I generally don’t have any normally in a wee shadow figure creeping about. I’ll chat to anyone and their granny if the conversation is decent
You have chatted to me, so I think you will just chat to anyone!  "
I have no recollection of posting this! A bit concerning. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Photos are important to us, it is the first thing that catches our interest.... not looks but what and how the photos are taken.
Xxx
Nessa"
Your photos standout!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What people choose to have on THEIR profile is THEIR bussiness and no one elses so Op just post what pics you like on your profile  "
I totally get that. But this was just meant to be a conversation about what people think/value about their own pics and the pics of others. Which has been so far  |
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"What people choose to have on THEIR profile is THEIR bussiness and no one elses so Op just post what pics you like on your profile
I totally get that. But this was just meant to be a conversation about what people think/value about their own pics and the pics of others. Which has been so far "
yes and my point is you decide what pics you want on your prifile whether people like them or not is irrelevant .
Pics dont always show people in their true light some are better than their profile pics some are not but its a good starting tool I guess |
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"Pics are very important. Mine aree bland and not imaginative but I may add more. "
You obviously value your legs as a sexy asset. I imagine they give you great confidence, plus they offer a certain amount of discretion. It's a pic but people won't recognise you.
I'd build from there if I was taking more pics. |
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Pics are pretty important to us but I would say it's difficult as we understand some people might not be confident or like having pics of them selfs up. Jbg is only in a few of our pics as he doesn't feel comfortable at the mo, I guess it's between putting your self out there or playing things a bit closer and both choices can be equally as good for some people xhwgx |
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"Pics are very important. Mine aree bland and not imaginative but I may add more.
You obviously value your legs as a sexy asset. I imagine they give you great confidence, plus they offer a certain amount of discretion. It's a pic but people won't recognise you.
I'd build from there if I was taking more pics."
Truthfully? Not really. It was the only pic I thought about taking which was simplest and had a leather skirt to hand |
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