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PUCK .... The last Gentleman ...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think its been left long enough and those who needed to know ... know ... Wether you knew him as puck or grots a gentleman he was . Kind hearted loving caring and the best friend a guy or lass could wish for . Tam (Puck) has died he was found on monday 11th of march . My best friend my tour traveller many many great nights with him . So many nights with him from socials going away for sioux n tam tours at a weekend . With friends who became family Huny , Queef (boo) scot random cheesy on the gouch couch a fav place of us all . from days and nights with the jaspers and hotbitch welove and dinners n drinks . Dinner at me mam n dads _at n michael . Drink nights and cjs club . He was life and soul of any party . So please dont put condolances if you knew him please share a time with him . Let us all keep a legend alive . You were a legend in my life my kids lives and that will never change . You were more to us than you will ever know tam . love you . Miss you, your couch gouchers Queef , Huny, and me . ?? |
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so saddend to hear of this lovely guys passing .
Met him many years ago on another site our first meet sharing a bottle of Rioja.
Hadnt seen him in years until I bumped into him again at the Christmas social 
He was as mad as a bag of frogs but boy he had a good heart and was a lovely guy.
Rip Tam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really sad to hear this, for myself and no doubt bubbly as well it has to be the doomed masquerade ball in Edinburgh, we flat shared or at least we were supposed to but as usual puck and friends ended up finding an after party once the Frankenstein’s shenanigans were over for the night, his highlight apparently when I dropped the towel after coming out the shower and loved making me blush and generally jut giving us all something to laugh about, over the years coming on and off fab he was one of the real gents who always remembered you and made you feel so welcome to be back RIP tam and enjoy the party up there xx |
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By *ana_MWoman
over a year ago
Over the hills and far away |
Tam was one of the first folk from Fab I met, socially or otherwise, became a fast friend and sort of took me under his wing for a bit, including arranging for me to go to my first social without me knowing until I signed into chat and got told he was watching my dogs and I was sent off with the lovely Sioux and Huny to Dundee. If it weren't for him doing that I'd probably still never of been to a social and met any of the other awesome folk I have from here that have become friends 3 |
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By *ee-diddyCouple (FF)
over a year ago
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First met Puck and Lil at Dana's and spent most of my time hiding behind Dana shy as anything and also a bit scared of puck without his teeth  Met him other times at socials etc and he could pull off the grandad moves on the dancefloor what a legend |
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I first met Puck over 8 years ago. He was as some say as mad as a box of frogs but he also had a good heart. He picked me up with his kindness when I was in not a good place, such a shame you never let anyone do that for you. RIP Puck you wont be forgotten and your memory will live on with the Fab Family you had.
Jan aka Princess Pussy xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Puck was always in charge of the firewood at camping trips once you showed him what wood was actually suitable 
Plenty laughs with the fella over the years.  |
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Forgot to say how I met him. Back in 2011 a weekend with friends in Glasgow. Met him at CJ's and left him without telling him my name. He stalked me and found me in the Northern Chat room. Our friendship went on from there and continued to this day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im heartbroken for lil and the family, the two of them seemed made for each other.
RIP Puckster
I met you once at the xmas social you were one of the decent nutters out there lol |
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So shocked to hear this. I knew grots from way back on the other site. Never met a man so generous. Opening his home last minute to host a dear friends surprise birthday, never able to prize him off the dance floor, and always keeping an eye out for everyone. His loss is sorely felt by many. I'll raise my beer to you buddy. |
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Like some I knew on monday when he was found, but seeing there was nothing mentioned in forum etc.. I kept quiet out of respect, like Sioux said i assumed people that needed to know still didn't so refrained. I put my status up today because i noticed the other updates appearing, but held back from naming...
Though I know Lil better than puck, he was nothing but a gent to Me. He had absolutely no understanding of transgenderism, leading to many an amusing Pm in chat though he didn't get it, He was always respectful...
My most vivid memory of the man i suppose was his repeated thanking Me for looking after the girls on Lils hen night in Newcastle... He said one night "JoJo I cant thank you enough, i'll shake yer hand next time i see ye, but am no kissing you".... I just replied "Dinnae worry cunto trust Me am no wanting a kiss, especially fae you ya bawbag" ....
Thats the banter we had, just the type of guy he was....RIP 'Puckles' x |
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Gonna miss him so much.. tam was part of the family.. mines darrens and the kids.. have so many good memories with him and lil too many to mention on here... Will always be in our hearts and will stay that way forever... RIP puck xxxx |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
I’ve been on a time-out or would have commented much sooner .... so sad to hear this news. He was a great guy, in all the years we have known him never heard him say a bad word about anyone. The life and soul of the socials in years gone by and King of the old chat room. RIP xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Puck was one of the first people to talk to me in the Scottish chat room and made me feel so welcome. Full of banter and so quick witted he had me in stitches many a time. An absolute gentleman. Sleep well Puck xx |
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ive just read this post im utterly shocked and saddened what a lovely guy he was Lil must be shattered my abiding memory was him giving me a skelp on the rear end at a social OUCH did i feel that He allways had a kind word for me I still cant beleive this |
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Found myself in Pucks company a few times over the years,loved the fact he took the time to talk to you in person or in chat and most socials we crossed paths at.
Gettin a familiar,"awrite Aston" in chat after being away from here a good while,was just heartwarming stuff,will miss that terribly. |
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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago
kirkcaldy |
I'd know Tam for what seems forever. Always a gentleman even posted the keys to his flat so I could stay after one of the Glasgow socials. He moaned at me because I'd washed his sheets before I left lol Had many a d*unken night with him. He will be sorely missed xxxx |
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knew tam for many a years n play a big part in my life over the years even with my kid alway there to dig u out a hole or help at every turn great guy n just cant get my head around it all with much sadness i say ull be missed like fuck R I P my big /wee pal tam the bam xxxxxxxx |
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Tam,so many memories,stretchin back to 2010,at a wee party...in the company of a certain bint,sorry hunny lol............since then we had a bond until you you left us.
Over the years you was close to our wean and you done a crackin job for us,AND you only took nothing for doing it.
generous was your middle name,
also,one in a million...........
Cat n Mick............... |
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By *ayna-rWoman
over a year ago
South Shields |
R.I.P Tam hun xxx
me and richy have been chatting to this true gent for years. puck and lil invited us to they house and even came down to newcastle for a night out and had one of the best nights we have had , it was a right laugh.
our thoughts go out to all the family xxx
gayna and richy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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he was alright for a forkie. always a plesuare to chat with this lad. thoughts with his family and close friends. i dont think puck was the kind of guy who would want folk to cry so remember the good times smile and raise your glass for a top bloke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rip tam! Always such a lovely guy who made sure everyone else was sorted before himself a true gent, at a social i had forgot my purse,tam just automatically bought me drinks! I felt embarrassed but he was extremely kind about it, i had him n lil stay at my house n he nearly fell out my bedroom window! Lol his dry humor and banter quick wit was hilarious and many a night in chat enjoying his company, sadly missed he was indeed much loved! |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Rip my friend still cannot believe you're gone ...Our heart prayers and love go out to lil and family ...a true generous to a fault genuinely nice guy lost to this world and will be missed
Spent many a time in Tams company and He was always the life n soul of any gathering and would always go out his way to make anyone feel welcome whether it be at a social or in his home ..we will miss you my friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Puck and lil was one of the first ppl we properly met when we had started to travel further down .me and mr think alot about these 2. Puck always makes me laugh with his banter hes always got some insult to hand out in a good way tho . il remember the stingy ass slap i got last year bastard caught me off guard stung like a bitch hhahahahahha we will never forget u it has hut us pretty bad just totally devistated xxxx
Loads of loves from mr and ur madonna we da big boobies xxxxxxxxx
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I didn’t know Puck well but often enjoyed his banter in the chat and always thought I’d really like to meet this guy in person one day. Sadly not to be the case.
Thoughts to lil family and clearly all those whose lives he clearly touched in such a positive way. RIP mate. |
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Like many I have know Tam for many years he was a man with a heart as big as a mountain and an even bigger personality, he was always there if you needed a shoulder and would do anything in his power to help if needed. We maybe didn’t speak as much as we once did but now there is a huge black hole in my life just knowing he isn’t there .
Sleep tight Tam
Kay xxxxx |
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By *ompip3Couple
over a year ago
Paisley |
Shocked and saddened to hear of Tam's passing.
Many a laugh we had on the old Forums, back in the early days. Again at the Camping BBQ he was life n soul of the day/night.
Never heard him say a bad word about anyone, genuine lovely guy. We didn't speak often but when we did it was like it had only been yesterday.
RIP Buddy! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although most of you won't know me on this profile I just want to say that at one time Tam was like my brother from another mother.. too many crazy stories to know where to start.. any night was a mad night with Tam at the helm...
But there was far more to the man than that.. he was a kind, caring man who would do anyone a good turn.. my biggest regret.. losing touch..
Take it easy Big Fella!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't know this chap, just wanted to pass on my condolences to all of you who knew him.
They have dates on grave stones born and died. But it's the dash in between that's so important. It sounds like he lived his dash to the full.
RIP |
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By *onkers12Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/Manchester/ Newcastle/London |
Saddened to hear of this gents passing. Knew Tam from another site and got chatting again in the old chatroom, he was nutty as hell, but such a gent, went out his way to make people laugh and help out where he could. RIP mate, condolences to his family and friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Known my 'big brov' for many years and was always happy to be his sous chef..a generous man to a fault he will be sadly missed.. many a happy time will never be forgotten |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just wanted to add my condolences to lil and her family, Sadly I never got to meet Puck but often had some real good banter in the Scotland chatroom, his dry sense of humour made him get away with pretty much anything but it was never disrespectful, he was in the truest meaning of the word a real proper gentleman and fab will be a sadder place with him not being around. RIP buddy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still can't quite believe it, we weren't close and had never met but he never failed to put a smile on my face and would have been there if I needed him. Such a sweetheart. No doubt checking all the bums for love bites wherever he is now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Puck where do I start .. from the white van and hockey sticks to the Sunday wae gene Simmons katmandoo and banana man to bringing Mary Baker the cake maker to mine to the time you fell asleep on my floor due to drinking the buckie to countless socials where me and him danced the legs off ourselves to the "boo ya maddie" to the night of a hundred handbags and so much more .. cant believe uve gone and well never get those days back .. will miss you dearly big man ur crazy sense of humour ur arse skelps and ur dead pan hillariousness ..one of the OG gouch couchers rest in peace and fly high safe in the arms of mr jasper ur brother from another mother xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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RIP kind sir.
I recall your chat (in the old chat days of fooked up whispers) you were always a gent to anyone and everyone. Good banter and cheered me up no end.
Keep smiling Puckster
(PS And thanks to OP - as a recently returned oldie, its good to many weel kent faces on this post) |
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It’s taken a while to sign back in to write this, & still not sure I’ll find adequate words.
Today I said a quiet goodbye to Tam who was the first person to speak to my better half online. Sometime later I met Tam (then Grotbag) at a Social from another site. It was our first Social from this particular Scottish Group & we got chatting as you do at these things. From that day on I had no idea our paths would continue to align in that freaky way it does when you’re part of an online group of friends, not only in Glasgow but a few memorable Edinburgh Socials.
Fast forward a bit & again our paths met only this time via a mutual friend, Sioux. As you’ll see from other comments a favourite place was “The Gouch Couch” where I recall too many funny, outrageous, hysterical, intoxicating nights that normally stretched into the next day.
Whilst it’s easy to lose touch online with profile name changes (he was now Puck, I was Random) we somehow always managed to collide & the stars would align yet again for many memorable nights of fun & chaos. But always Tam would be the same fella I knew from those early days, & the magic sparkle would be inevitable.
More recently his circumstances had changed along with his username, & I had taken to hiding my profile when on my breaks from Fab. However, somehow I knew he’d stray into my thoughts & another fun night would not be too far off.
Sadly, today I had to say goodbye to Tam at his packed out funeral & comfort the friends he left behind. Somehow I feel our paths are yet to cross again though it might not be anytime soon. So here’s to you Tam... a good man, a generous heart, & one of those “characters” who won’t be forgotten anytime soon (& certainly not by me).
Keep the tunes blazin’ Buddy till we next hook up & can share a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So sad to hear of pucks passing spent many a great night in the chat room having a laugh with his witty banter and his kind heart went a long way a true gentleman and will be sadly missed by all ....
R.I.P my friend
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m so much in shock at the loss of Tam. Only found out tonight. I have known Tam, Grots, Puck lol he did has some names, for over 10 years, through 2 sites and much of his personal ups and downs. He was a true gent and always did anything for his friends, cooked a mean dinner and ffs had my sides splitting with laughter. He will be sorely missed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m so much in shock at the loss of Tam. Only found out tonight. I have known Tam, Grots, Puck lol he did has some names, for over 10 years, through 2 sites and much of his personal ups and downs. He was a true gent and always did anything for his friends, cooked a mean dinner and ffs had my sides splitting with laughter. He will be sorely missed "
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