hi, been seeing a woman (non scene) for a few dates and think she wants to get serious. I have explained that I enjoy lifestyle for the social aspect, and if all happy the fun which always feels like the first time. she intrigued and although likes idea of socializing with another couple, does not think she could. I almost need another couple to sell benefits. has anybody else been in this situation? |
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I don't think any one should try to convince a potential partners to try a lifestyle.
Personally I'd be telling you to respect my wishes.
If you like her then maybe time to make a choice. If you don't want to choose then you don't like her enough. Let her go find someone who will |
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"hi, been seeing a woman (non scene) for a few dates and think she wants to get serious. I have explained that I enjoy lifestyle for the social aspect, and if all happy the fun which always feels like the first time. she intrigued and although likes idea of socializing with another couple, does not think she could. I almost need another couple to sell benefits. has anybody else been in this situation?"
My bf isn’t really one for the scene as such but he’s been to a few events but he’s Uber shy |
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So you have met for a few dates and already want to go swinging with her? I personally find it a silly thing to even consider. Swinging as a couple needs to start from a very strong foundation. Something you and her do not have because it is far too early in your own relationship. |
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"So you have met for a few dates and already want to go swinging with her? I personally find it a silly thing to even consider. Swinging as a couple needs to start from a very strong foundation. Something you and her do not have because it is far too early in your own relationship. "
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"I don't think any one should try to convince a potential partners to try a lifestyle.
Personally I'd be telling you to respect my wishes.
If you like her then maybe time to make a choice. If you don't want to choose then you don't like her enough. Let her go find someone who will "
Agreed with this
Don't ever put pressure on anyone to get in into swinging. It's unfair. They have to genuinely want to express an interest. |
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