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I bumped into an ex today, break up was an outside factor, we chatted and went for a quick coffee. I loved her big time when we were together. She says she does not want a relationship but has txt me all night being nice and reminiscing In a nice way its done my head in. What do the fab family say about this? |
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"I bumped into an ex today, break up was an outside factor, we chatted and went for a quick coffee. I loved her big time when we were together. She says she does not want a relationship but has txt me all night being nice and reminiscing In a nice way its done my head in. What do the fab family say about this? "
Do you still have feelings for her? If you do, I would be open and up front and tell her. Be true to yourself and leave it all on the field. You don't want to be thinking what if, when you are on your death bed. Don't play it safe. Thats what I have done and still do and only yesterday life gave me a slap in the face and now I know what I've missed out on, but it's too late for me, I've got to stay the course and keep my word. You have an opportunity, grab it and see what happens. |
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"I bumped into an ex today, break up was an outside factor, we chatted and went for a quick coffee. I loved her big time when we were together. She says she does not want a relationship but has txt me all night being nice and reminiscing In a nice way its done my head in. What do the fab family say about this?
Do you still have feelings for her? If you do, I would be open and up front and tell her. Be true to yourself and leave it all on the field. You don't want to be thinking what if, when you are on your death bed. Don't play it safe. Thats what I have done and still do and only yesterday life gave me a slap in the face and now I know what I've missed out on, but it's too late for me, I've got to stay the course and keep my word. You have an opportunity, grab it and see what happens."
Well my take on that was different to everyone else, maybe I'm transferring. |
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If you loved her and she doesnt want anything from you cut ties and walk away or you are only setting yoursef up to have to mourn the relationship again |
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Tell her the texting is doing your head in and you’ve taken to asking random people on a sex site for advice as to whether you should rekindle the romance. |
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I say tread carefully - sure if you fancy a wee ‘walk’ down memory lane and so does she then great enjoy it!
If you still have feelings for her and she doesn’t for you then it could lead to heart ache all over again
There is a reason she is your ex, remember the reason and if you can overcome it and the feelings mutual then go ahead. |
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I'm sticking with,if you still have feelings for her, tell her and ask her if she has feelings for you. If it's a yes from both, see if you can make it work, if it a no from either then move on before you get hurt again.
In my head I'm hearing, won't be fooled again by the who! |
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"I met an ex I was engaged to as a teenager she was the last person I expected to meet on a beach on holiday. We chatted & went out for a meal & a few drinks. We ended up in bed for 2 days & great time was had by us both. We've kept in touch ever since & agreed to meet again sometime in the future. It's just some horny NSA fun to us both. So it works if you are both on the same wavelength "
Surely the last person you’d expect to meet on a beach holiday would be a dead relative. |
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"I met an ex I was engaged to as a teenager she was the last person I expected to meet on a beach on holiday. We chatted & went out for a meal & a few drinks. We ended up in bed for 2 days & great time was had by us both. We've kept in touch ever since & agreed to meet again sometime in the future. It's just some horny NSA fun to us both. So it works if you are both on the same wavelength
Surely the last person you’d expect to meet on a beach holiday would be a dead relative. "
Think we Might need a new thread to cover this! |
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My son had a white drug problem at the time and the pressure of that broke us. She had 2 kids and was taking no chances, I totally understood why.
He is brand new now and we see it differently now.
She was my last relationship and life was mind blowing |
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"My son had a white drug problem at the time and the pressure of that broke us. She had 2 kids and was taking no chances, I totally understood why.
He is brand new now and we see it differently now.
She was my last relationship and life was mind blowing "
I’d just tred carefully, tbh don’t know enough about the situation or you both to give an opinion as such, but just make sure your both on the same path, her reminiscing could exactly be just that and nothing more, or could just be feeling a bit lonely at min and you remind her of a fun time or could be looking for more..... so many variables. Best thing Is be honest and open without being over the top and see where everyone stands. Good luck xx  |
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"My son had a white drug problem at the time and the pressure of that broke us. She had 2 kids and was taking no chances, I totally understood why.
He is brand new now and we see it differently now.
She was my last relationship and life was mind blowing "
Quite honestly if that’s what broke it last time something else will again
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"My son had a white drug problem at the time and the pressure of that broke us. She had 2 kids and was taking no chances, I totally understood why.
He is brand new now and we see it differently now.
She was my last relationship and life was mind blowing
Quite honestly if that’s what broke it last time something else will again
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Dont go there.. a met up with an ex kept in touch chatted regularly even had sex a couple of times.. i realised i didnt like him in that way and soon saw the reason why he was my ex.. controlling and self centred |
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"I met an ex I was engaged to as a teenager she was the last person I expected to meet on a beach on holiday. We chatted & went out for a meal & a few drinks. We ended up in bed for 2 days & great time was had by us both. We've kept in touch ever since & agreed to meet again sometime in the future. It's just some horny NSA fun to us both. So it works if you are both on the same wavelength
Surely the last person you’d expect to meet on a beach holiday would be a dead relative. "
Mother Teresa I think would be my least expected...
Seriously though OP, assume nothing and just be honest.
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It can be all too easy to start chatting to an ex like nothing ever happened and get caught up in remembering the good times, im not saying it never happens but rarely a second chance at a relationship
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Leave it at that,it's already fucking with your head and that's only after a few texts from her.
You have feelings for her,she's made it clear she doesn't want a relationship, fucking will just scramble your head, and you'll end up worse off in the long run. You have fab for fucking and hopefully meet someone that does want a relationship out in vanilla land. |
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