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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Apart from 2018 i avidly went to most socials in my first 7 years here but i feel there are too many now and it kinda splits the crowd as they are so close together -they will make the choice to go to one or the other rather than everyone at same one? i appreciate for a lot of folk here it involves hotels, childcare, hotels , time off work and most cant get to them all , used to be there were about 4 or 5 a year around the country and always such a good night as they werent every month and something to look forward to. Now before everyone starts hating on me im not saying any of the recent socials have been bad,in fact far from it! - always a great nigt and ive never been to a bad one yet - whats your views fellow forumers? less or more |
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Until the past few years there were no socials going on in Dundee at all, they all were either Glasgow or Edinburgh. So I’m glad there are more happening in Dundee and Aberdeen "
funnily enough the dundee ones are my finest memories of my 1st few years( and also my 1st social) here so its interesting you say that isnt happening now so much |
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"Think it's great there's so many socials happening now.
More people taking charge it gives a bit of variety for everyone. "
also true - theres a shit pile of organisation goes into theser things and im sure like you you know the people that do it - they do a great job but i still feel its getting diluted |
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
seems harsh - aftyer everyone ive been to and beforehand they have announced the charity and proclaimed the resultand donation - even if it wasnt for charity its generally about a tennerto go so cheapo night when u consider the benefits and a great oppurtunity to meet fellow fabbers - esp id suggest for the needy and entitled who think its just sign up and get shagged :P |
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"Think it's great there's so many socials happening now.
More people taking charge it gives a bit of variety for everyone. "
I agree with this... means people have a choice of dates and areas to choose from.
Personally for me it was only ever gonna be the one a year hosting but since joining forces with pinup another 2 have been included, the January blues one and the summer (her birthday) as she’s done these both on her own for a few years now.
I enjoy them as I like socialising with likeminded people and love a wee road trip
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false? "
Definately not, at both Xmas ones we’ve done apart from venue, dj and food the rest has gone on raffle prizes, some pretty good ones at that. At the smaller drinks night they paid a fiver and everyone that came through the door got bought a drink... some got 2.
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
signed up for the summer one - i know u guys always put on a great night but for me thats brill - and you are lovely peeps - i have something to look forward to in june - but persionally i dont want to be going to one every month - it kinda spoil;s the excitement and anticipation for me - and that is just me - its a forum and im loving all your views - its interesting :0 |
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"I sometimes wonder how folks manage to fit in a social life that doesn't include fab "
Your the last person i would ever have thought would give a thought to whether people have time to fit in socials a non Fab social life.
Your on Fab almost day in day out asking people questions like , why does this or that bother you ? . |
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over a year ago
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"Apart from 2018 i avidly went to most socials in my first 7 years here but i feel there are too many now and it kinda splits the crowd as they are so close together -they will make the choice to go to one or the other rather than everyone at same one? i appreciate for a lot of folk here it involves hotels, childcare, hotels , time off work and most cant get to them all , used to be there were about 4 or 5 a year around the country and always such a good night as they werent every month and something to look forward to. Now before everyone starts hating on me im not saying any of the recent socials have been bad,in fact far from it! - always a great nigt and ive never been to a bad one yet - whats your views fellow forumers? less or more"
Personally I’d prefer more, I reckon one a month would be ideal and I’m gutted about the ones I’ve missed because I’ve had something else on I’ve already got my hotels booked for summer, the birthday bash in nov and Christmas ones  |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false?
Absolutely true but not a scam, many charities have benefited from Fab socials.  "
Well I heard that too, the last donation I heard was something like a hundred quid. Paltry. But maybe not many people went. |
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I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
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"I sometimes wonder how folks manage to fit in a social life that doesn't include fab
Your the last person i would ever have thought would give a thought to whether people have time to fit in socials a non Fab social life.
Your on Fab almost day in day out asking people questions like , why does this or that bother you ? . "
I wonder about lots of things
Most of them don't bother me |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false?
Definately not, at both Xmas ones we’ve done apart from venue, dj and food the rest has gone on raffle prizes, some pretty good ones at that. At the smaller drinks night they paid a fiver and everyone that came through the door got bought a drink... some got 2.
K x"
I stand corrected then! Only asking as that's what i heard. I was under the impression the venue at these events was usaully free. Should prob look around to places that are, even places that will lay on a free DJ too, maximise the raffle prizes then and charity benefit. |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false? "
Tbh when I’ve gone to a few and knowing how much it is to organise events from plenty experience over the years with work and voluntary groups I’m
Surprised some of them haven’t ended up being out of pocket, either that or they’ve managed to get some great discounts somewhere in their planning but if you’ve never been to one then you wouldn’t see how much goes into these nights |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out "
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked. |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false?
Definately not, at both Xmas ones we’ve done apart from venue, dj and food the rest has gone on raffle prizes, some pretty good ones at that. At the smaller drinks night they paid a fiver and everyone that came through the door got bought a drink... some got 2.
K x
I stand corrected then! Only asking as that's what i heard. I was under the impression the venue at these events was usaully free. Should prob look around to places that are, even places that will lay on a free DJ too, maximise the raffle prizes then and charity benefit. "
Some venues are free but the catch is you have to take their buffet or guarantee a certain amount behind the bar, the January one we got the venue half price, the rest of the money went on me standing at the bar buying everyone a drink so that what their fiver got spent on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most arent socials imo for a few reasons cheifly most are just folk meeting in a pub.
Theres other reasons also which i dont fancy the cold step for airing  "
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If there were only a handful then we would be lucky to make it to one in a year. But of variety and more options means there's better chances of a couple matching up with dates we're free and have babysitters.
Just because they're on, it doesn't mean you need to go...
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false?
Definately not, at both Xmas ones we’ve done apart from venue, dj and food the rest has gone on raffle prizes, some pretty good ones at that. At the smaller drinks night they paid a fiver and everyone that came through the door got bought a drink... some got 2.
K x
I stand corrected then! Only asking as that's what i heard. I was under the impression the venue at these events was usaully free. Should prob look around to places that are, even places that will lay on a free DJ too, maximise the raffle prizes then and charity benefit. "
Well such venues do exist but they’re usually places that aren’t very central near hotels, bars restaurants etc so folk can go along for pre drinks etc and usually require a minimum number, or stink of stale piss in the loos lol
Separates the fabbers who prefer quality over quantity |
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked. "
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up |
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"Until the past few years there were no socials going on in Dundee at all, they all were either Glasgow or Edinburgh. So I’m glad there are more happening in Dundee and Aberdeen "
There’s not that many socials in Dundee , I’ve been looking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love going to socials, wish I could go to more. My early journey on fab didn’t involve socials for years so now it does and I wonder why I didn’t do it earlier, they are always great nights x |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked. "
I heard Elvis aint dead so if the organisers could book him for the next social plz.
Td i really thought you had more common sense than to believe the Fab rumour mill. Your really not doing your phd any favours. |
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"general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
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Most folk who moan about them moan about everything and anything and gossip and tell tales often which are very tall tales at that, he said she said I heard this I heard that without any facts, these types of people I’m glad don’t appear at the socials as I’m there to enjoy myself with likeminded folk who just want to have fun that isn’t restricted to the bedroom but can choose to head there afterwards if the feeling takes, lots of great event organisers have gave up or worse left fab over the years because of the nastiness of the folk who spread gossip and lies and throw about accusations. |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up"
Hmmmm a four week old profile just happened to be online in forums at the right time lol yeah ok we believe you  |
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"general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
Most folk who moan about them moan about everything and anything and gossip and tell tales often which are very tall tales at that, he said she said I heard this I heard that without any facts, these types of people I’m glad don’t appear at the socials as I’m there to enjoy myself with likeminded folk who just want to have fun that isn’t restricted to the bedroom but can choose to head there afterwards if the feeling takes, lots of great event organisers have gave up or worse left fab over the years because of the nastiness of the folk who spread gossip and lies and throw about accusations. "
I get people will tell lies but I SAW IT FIRST HAND with my own eyes so I’m not carrying stories I’m making people aware that the money was not spent as advertised.
Yeah a lot of work goes into organising them and if people want to profit from it they should say that otherwise it’s essentially theft |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up"
Any of the socials I have attended, the venue has clearly provided the buffet, & there has always been more than enough food, both hot & cold choices. It certainly didn't look cheap by any means.
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up
Hmmmm a four week old profile just happened to be online in forums at the right time lol yeah ok we believe you "
Cool hen believe what you want. I’ve been on and off here for five years so 4 week profile shit doesn’t carry any weight
Maybe I should jus show the receipts for the night in question then? That make me more credible to ye? |
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"general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
Most folk who moan about them moan about everything and anything and gossip and tell tales often which are very tall tales at that, he said she said I heard this I heard that without any facts, these types of people I’m glad don’t appear at the socials as I’m there to enjoy myself with likeminded folk who just want to have fun that isn’t restricted to the bedroom but can choose to head there afterwards if the feeling takes, lots of great event organisers have gave up or worse left fab over the years because of the nastiness of the folk who spread gossip and lies and throw about accusations.
I get people will tell lies but I SAW IT FIRST HAND with my own eyes so I’m not carrying stories I’m making people aware that the money was not spent as advertised.
Yeah a lot of work goes into organising them and if people want to profit from it they should say that otherwise it’s essentially theft"
So your on Fab , have YOU confronted the person or people , i bet not. Have you messaged 1 person that went to this alleged social and said you got ripped off , again i bet not. You say plenty without saying anything. |
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By *andj65Couple
over a year ago
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We do one big one a year and find that takes enough of our time to organise....we keep the cost to a minimum and we cover venue costs, entertainment and we do our own buffet..we also throw a few extras into the mix and I haven't had any complaints yet from folks not having value for there money.
It's good for folks to have variety in the socials they attend and we support the others who take there time to also organise them as its not easy....we do it as we enjoy it, not for the glory as some may think but really just to get people mixing and networking in the scene in a social environment...all good I say
We've been busy since our social at the start of February...family stuff took over but I did post the proceeds from our night....the total was with gift aid included was £1006.52 which was split between Macmillan Cancer and Headway....i have receipts but havent got round to posting on our social profile yet but ill get this done ....just had other things on our mind that have took over lately...
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By *loobook OP Man
over a year ago
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"We do one big one a year and find that takes enough of our time to organise....we keep the cost to a minimum and we cover venue costs, entertainment and we do our own buffet..we also throw a few extras into the mix and I haven't had any complaints yet from folks not having value for there money.
It's good for folks to have variety in the socials they attend and we support the others who take there time to also organise them as its not easy....we do it as we enjoy it, not for the glory as some may think but really just to get people mixing and networking in the scene in a social environment...all good I say
We've been busy since our social at the start of February...family stuff took over but I did post the proceeds from our night....the total was with gift aid included was £1006.52 which was split between Macmillan Cancer and Headway....i have receipts but havent got round to posting on our social profile yet but ill get this done ....just had other things on our mind that have took over lately...
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out "
Oh dear all is not as it seems with the good and righteous. Well said Ramsey the truth will out .... |
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"general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
Most folk who moan about them moan about everything and anything and gossip and tell tales often which are very tall tales at that, he said she said I heard this I heard that without any facts, these types of people I’m glad don’t appear at the socials as I’m there to enjoy myself with likeminded folk who just want to have fun that isn’t restricted to the bedroom but can choose to head there afterwards if the feeling takes, lots of great event organisers have gave up or worse left fab over the years because of the nastiness of the folk who spread gossip and lies and throw about accusations.
I get people will tell lies but I SAW IT FIRST HAND with my own eyes so I’m not carrying stories I’m making people aware that the money was not spent as advertised.
Yeah a lot of work goes into organising them and if people want to profit from it they should say that otherwise it’s essentially theft
So your on Fab , have YOU confronted the person or people , i bet not. Have you messaged 1 person that went to this alleged social and said you got ripped off , again i bet not. You say plenty without saying anything. "
For your info yes I have. Several people have complained about it and been refunded. I’ve mailed the organiser and got no reply but now cannot contact them again (use your brain)
I never said I got ripped off pal. D*unk people talk loudly and when you’re in amongst it you’d surprised what they are willing to freely say. Discretion goes out the window.
You don’t half make a lot of assumptions for a wee man |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up
Hmmmm a four week old profile just happened to be online in forums at the right time lol yeah ok we believe you
Cool hen believe what you want. I’ve been on and off here for five years so 4 week profile shit doesn’t carry any weight
Maybe I should jus show the receipts for the night in question then? That make me more credible to ye?"
What you have the receipts for the Aldi buffet ? I’m sure plenty folk would be interested in proof if it’s available |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up
Hmmmm a four week old profile just happened to be online in forums at the right time lol yeah ok we believe you
Cool hen believe what you want. I’ve been on and off here for five years so 4 week profile shit doesn’t carry any weight
Maybe I should jus show the receipts for the night in question then? That make me more credible to ye?
What you have the receipts for the Aldi buffet ? I’m sure plenty folk would be interested in proof if it’s available "
Receipts for the venue charges which show zero cost.
If anyone wants proof feel free to message me.
Anyway am done I’ve put the factual info out there people can do with it what they like |
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"I know for a fact that at least one big social was charging for a venue that they got for free. That money didn’t go to charity, clearly stated proceeds from the tombola went to charity.
I know I’ll get pure hate from the fab honchos but it really needed said. It’s no cool scamming a bunch of hard up for sex fuglies no matter how you tart it up
Peace out
Yeah I heard something similar!
That's why I asked.
I know it for a fact as i work at the venue in question.
A wee shite aldi buffet didn’t eat all that money up"
Sounds like they are now very well organised by people that have gained good experience on how to organise them.
It’s quite a commitment for the people choosing to organise them I bet, I take it your highlighting one singular bad one,and we all kind of must be very cautious because of one you “heard about”.
I like I said sense it’s all done quite properly now on a regular basis otherwise I’m quite sure organisers would soon get peeved with negative stuff, they have enough to deal with I’m sure. |
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"general consensus seems to be for more which i have to admit surprises me - i put it down to the brill organisers who dont get nearly enough thanks - like i said every social ive been to has brill and i hope you all make a point of thanking those who put them on for us all - i still kinda think for a lot of folks its diluted but there is obv an appetite for them every month - they dont go unfilled - im not going to get into the politics of charity scams etc - the organisers of the ones ive been to are well respected throughout fab and have always went out of their wayu to ensure a good night for all of us on here who come along
Most folk who moan about them moan about everything and anything and gossip and tell tales often which are very tall tales at that, he said she said I heard this I heard that without any facts, these types of people I’m glad don’t appear at the socials as I’m there to enjoy myself with likeminded folk who just want to have fun that isn’t restricted to the bedroom but can choose to head there afterwards if the feeling takes, lots of great event organisers have gave up or worse left fab over the years because of the nastiness of the folk who spread gossip and lies and throw about accusations.
I get people will tell lies but I SAW IT FIRST HAND with my own eyes so I’m not carrying stories I’m making people aware that the money was not spent as advertised.
Yeah a lot of work goes into organising them and if people want to profit from it they should say that otherwise it’s essentially theft
So your on Fab , have YOU confronted the person or people , i bet not. Have you messaged 1 person that went to this alleged social and said you got ripped off , again i bet not. You say plenty without saying anything.
For your info yes I have. Several people have complained about it and been refunded. I’ve mailed the organiser and got no reply but now cannot contact them again (use your brain)
I never said I got ripped off pal. D*unk people talk loudly and when you’re in amongst it you’d surprised what they are willing to freely say. Discretion goes out the window.
You don’t half make a lot of assumptions for a wee man "
Wonder if any of those refunded has shared this with others fabbers because I’m pretty sure if it were me I’d be making a comment on the forum post of the original event asking folk to PM me and sending them a screenshot of my refund and proof as I’d hate anyone being scammed and I know about it and said nothing as it’s not in my nature to keep my mouth shut |
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"Always the same where money is involved...Oh dear oh dear how much we talking as potential skin then? "
Why don't you all sign up for my WAGS show, at least you will all know your getting ripped off lol..... |
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"Always the same where money is involved...Oh dear oh dear how much we talking as potential skin then? "
Easy grand mate.
If they want to be paid fine just say it. If you’re taking in £1500 and spending £500 (I’m being mega generous here) on a buffet then no other overheads, then the question is there. Separate tombola held for charity. Where’s the 1k went then?
Unless they’re Paul fucking Daniels I don’t get how it would vanish |
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Every social Iv been to has been worth the small contribution Iv paid whether that be £5 or £15. The ones at £5 we usually get back. The ones at £15 usually include bottles of wine or a first drink , buffet and raffles etc so I don’t mind as it’s always just been a contribution to a great night X |
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To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs? |
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"Always the same where money is involved.. "
Wrong again bud. Myself and Msd organised a fab xmas party night the last 2 years, as far as im aware the most expensive social night in the last couple of years , why not ask any of the attendees if any of them felt ripped off, or think we made a penny on it. I will make another assumption, you wont find anyone. If you want the guest list you can always jump on the rumour mill train ,
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?"
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x"
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x"
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x"
Cant even believe, we are trying to justify ourselves, a couple of people who dont attend socials spreading rumours in a forum. Im actually done with this thread, its not worth any more of my time. Ps Bolton , thx for the wee man comment, is that because youve been following my weight loss thread, nearly 2 stone.
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"Always the same where money is involved..
Wrong again bud. Myself and Msd organised a fab xmas party night the last 2 years, as far as im aware the most expensive social night in the last couple of years , why not ask any of the attendees if any of them felt ripped off, or think we made a penny on it. I will make another assumption, you wont find anyone. If you want the guest list you can always jump on the rumour mill train ,
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Oh dear by what I said I ment that there would always be bickering,arguing,claims and counter claims.
You just assumed fingers were pointing at you. |
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Well personally the way I see it need to have a lot of folk signed up and paid to make any real money, the time and effort organisers put in, the little details make a lot of difference but even with 100 booked people (Hahahaha) going to an event at £15 a pop that’s 1500 dj in Glasgow normally around the 3-500 mark, buffet for 100 easily spend 3-500, decorations, hotel room for organiser(yep of it was a nighttime social is expect the organiser to whip off the cost of a room) 100 if they don’t live local, so even with a free venue there’s still only going to be about 2-300 hardly worth your reputation oh and not forgetting buying any raffle prizes or goodie bags etc |
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x
Cant even believe, we are trying to justify ourselves, a couple of people who dont attend socials spreading rumours in a forum. Im actually done with this thread, its not worth any more of my time. Ps Bolton , thx for the wee man comment, is that because youve been following my weight loss thread, nearly 2 stone.
Thx again dude. "
Take the phrase how you like. You seem to miss the point that it isn’t a rumour as it can be substantiated by evidence.
Again I never said I was ‘ripped off’ I said there is clearly an amount of money not accounted for.
I have been to several socials on previous profiles, j&j and _earded blossom and enjoyed them and you could see what your small entry free covered. Acts, good quality food, free shots etc
Am no saying everyone who ever hosted a social is making money off it, purely this one.
The info is out there with added possibility of seeing proof for people to be aware of what’s happening. If they don’t mind then I’m sure they will still go. Other people might mind and choose not to go again
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x
Cant even believe, we are trying to justify ourselves, a couple of people who dont attend socials spreading rumours in a forum. Im actually done with this thread, its not worth any more of my time. Ps Bolton , thx for the wee man comment, is that because youve been following my weight loss thread, nearly 2 stone.
Thx again dude.
Take the phrase how you like. You seem to miss the point that it isn’t a rumour as it can be substantiated by evidence.
Again I never said I was ‘ripped off’ I said there is clearly an amount of money not accounted for.
I have been to several socials on previous profiles, j&j and _earded blossom and enjoyed them and you could see what your small entry free covered. Acts, good quality food, free shots etc
Am no saying everyone who ever hosted a social is making money off it, purely this one.
The info is out there with added possibility of seeing proof for people to be aware of what’s happening. If they don’t mind then I’m sure they will still go. Other people might mind and choose not to go again
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Don't think if I was you Ramsey I would attend another one there will be a price on your head....... |
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"To be fair this rumour has been going on for yrs.
See the cost of socials going from £5 now to £30-£40 and still a dj and buffet maybe if folk think there getting ripped off organisers should ditch the charity and raffles to save costs?
This is exactly what we’ve done after asking for feed back, summer social is £7 a head, our dj is £150, there’s a room hire charge and you have to take a buffet. The £7 just covers this
K x
Cant even believe, we are trying to justify ourselves, a couple of people who dont attend socials spreading rumours in a forum. Im actually done with this thread, its not worth any more of my time. Ps Bolton , thx for the wee man comment, is that because youve been following my weight loss thread, nearly 2 stone.
Thx again dude.
Take the phrase how you like. You seem to miss the point that it isn’t a rumour as it can be substantiated by evidence.
Again I never said I was ‘ripped off’ I said there is clearly an amount of money not accounted for.
I have been to several socials on previous profiles, j&j and _earded blossom and enjoyed them and you could see what your small entry free covered. Acts, good quality food, free shots etc
Am no saying everyone who ever hosted a social is making money off it, purely this one.
The info is out there with added possibility of seeing proof for people to be aware of what’s happening. If they don’t mind then I’m sure they will still go. Other people might mind and choose not to go again
Don't think if I was you Ramsey I would attend another one there will be a price on your head......."
Yer probably right mate
Am big enough and ugly enough to deal with the hate though |
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Im sure folk wouldn’t hold it against him, it’s not always what you say but how it’s said, making accusations in private and Chinese whispers upsets folk, being open and frank and being polite and respectful is a far better way of highlighting these kind of things, acting all cloak and dagger when you’re being truthful doesn’t instill confidence in folk. Anyhoo who’s coming along to my paintballing social ? Promise I’m not skimming anything from the price and I’m not even getting a free organisers place although if I get the numbers I might change my arm  |
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"Last thing you want is a couple of fab munters launching themselves at you.lol.
It’s cool ma man I always carry fab munter repellent, it’s called a bar of soap pmsl "
Excellent Ramsey like your style. |
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I think its good that there are more socials in the sense that Scotland is a large place and transport links are not great for those who do not drive.
I mean last time I checked train fares from Inv/Abz to Edi/Gla -was enough to dry up the wettest of fannies.
So im all in favour of more localised socials - purely selfish but why shouldnt those of us outwith Glasburgh have our own?
Also I think terminology. What is a social?
I remember back in the days of old chatroom (fooked up whispers- taxi for Tiff and all that) socials were big affairs - themed events/ masquerade ball etc whereas there were smaller munches (lunch n drinks etc) also.
Im not saying terminology has changed or morphed nor does it really matter. Just thrpwing my penarth worth.
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Our ayrshire socials are smaller but also come with venue and Dj costs.. along with some fantastic acts which dont come cheaply. our buffet usually comes from myself (chef) and part of the buffet (hot) coming from the venue we buy raffle prizes and all the little extras like decorations and party gift bags cost to, we have put up receipts for money raised. Venues require a certain number of guests and a certain amount taking at the bar.
Its such a shame it comes to this if your going to a basic night out with friends these days it costs.. every organiser hosts different events from huge socials to smaller local ones each different and with a good mix of different people. I know most of the hosts and we all know the work that goes into these socials we take time and effort to put these nights together from being there from 12 in the afternoon decorating to silly oclock in the morning cleaning up afterwards.
I think its a good thing we have a choice of socials and long may they all run . We all just want a good night for everyone some may not enjoy certain socials but others do you cant please everyone but the socials in scotland are great for the scene. |
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Only think there are too many if you go on a mission to try and attend them all really. That kind of sorts itself out really.
I guess then there is a risk of poor numbers attending if too close together dates and location wise.
In answer to your original ask Op, only too many if try to attend them all, nice to have plenty options. |
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"Well personally the way I see it need to have a lot of folk signed up and paid to make any real money, the time and effort organisers put in, the little details make a lot of difference but even with 100 booked people (Hahahaha) going to an event at £15 a pop that’s 1500 dj in Glasgow normally around the 3-500 mark, buffet for 100 easily spend 3-500, decorations, hotel room for organiser(yep of it was a nighttime social is expect the organiser to whip off the cost of a room) 100 if they don’t live local, so even with a free venue there’s still only going to be about 2-300 hardly worth your reputation oh and not forgetting buying any raffle prizes or goodie bags etc "
all sounds fine till you say folk pay for the organiser to have a hotel sorry no social ive been to did the organiser feel they were entitled to be put up for the night.
I wouldnt attend if i thought an organiser was profiting in any way |
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I enjoy the socials and don't mind paying the money for them, as for is their to many, I don't think so, ok people choose which one to go too but that's their choice, it's still a good way for people to meet, and also it mixes it up a bit if the same people don't go to every social, |
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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Personally I think the more the merrier and money wise I’ve always wondered how the hell they cover their costs with the wee treats and extras they include not to mention the charities that benefit. Can’t wait to the next one x |
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"Until the past few years there were no socials going on in Dundee at all, they all were either Glasgow or Edinburgh. So I’m glad there are more happening in Dundee and Aberdeen
There’s not that many socials in Dundee , I’ve been looking "
There was a big one for Halloween, and I imagine there will be another in the next few months.
I used to run drinks nights in a pub every few months, but numbers were dwindling so I stopped. I also arranged parties, the lodge parties each took 5 months of organising, so a lot of work goes into these things.
I started organising drinks nights because nothing was going on, so if it’s quiet perhaps organise one yourself. They’re easy to do - pop up a post, get numbers and book a pub. Be aware that about only half will turn up though.
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we host ladies nights and most of the time out of pocket as we only charge costs to cover the apartment.But who can put a price on an all female orgy.I certainly can't .
Variety is the spice some will make money some won't.
Some socials suit some some don't.
We only attend ones we know that have a variety of folks we know we want to associate with,others we wouldn't dream of ,(and have been slated of late for this) our choice.Others probably have the same opinion on the different socials .
Its so easy nowadays to print off fake receipts for charities (just saying)
You can please some of the people some of the time ,but can't please all of the people all of the time
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"we host ladies nights and most of the time out of pocket as we only charge costs to cover the apartment.But who can put a price on an all female orgy.I certainly can't .
Variety is the spice some will make money some won't.
Some socials suit some some don't.
We only attend ones we know that have a variety of folks we know we want to associate with,others we wouldn't dream of ,(and have been slated of late for this) our choice.Others probably have the same opinion on the different socials .
Its so easy nowadays to print off fake receipts for charities (just saying)
You can please some of the people some of the time ,but can't please all of the people all of the time
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"we host ladies nights and most of the time out of pocket as we only charge costs to cover the apartment.But who can put a price on an all female orgy.I certainly can't .
Variety is the spice some will make money some won't.
Some socials suit some some don't.
We only attend ones we know that have a variety of folks we know we want to associate with,others we wouldn't dream of ,(and have been slated of late for this) our choice.Others probably have the same opinion on the different socials .
Its so easy nowadays to print off fake receipts for charities (just saying)
You can please some of the people some of the time ,but can't please all of the people all of the time
All female orgy now your talking can I come please ."
You probably have just thinking about it |
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"we host ladies nights and most of the time out of pocket as we only charge costs to cover the apartment.But who can put a price on an all female orgy.I certainly can't .
Variety is the spice some will make money some won't.
Some socials suit some some don't.
We only attend ones we know that have a variety of folks we know we want to associate with,others we wouldn't dream of ,(and have been slated of late for this) our choice.Others probably have the same opinion on the different socials .
Its so easy nowadays to print off fake receipts for charities (just saying)
You can please some of the people some of the time ,but can't please all of the people all of the time
All female orgy now your talking can I come please .
You probably have just thinking about it "
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We have attended a few socials over the years. Can honestly say we have never felt ripped off. I think for what we pay we get a great night out and raffle prizes djs, and buffets all have to be paid for. Would we organise one?
Nope. Couldn't deal with the stress or the hassle involved but we appreciate those that do as means we can just turn up and have a great night. |
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"I think its good that there are more socials in the sense that Scotland is a large place and transport links are not great for those who do not drive.
I mean last time I checked train fares from Inv/Abz to Edi/Gla -was enough to dry up the wettest of fannies.
So im all in favour of more localised socials - purely selfish but why shouldnt those of us outwith Glasburgh have our own?
Also I think terminology. What is a social?
I remember back in the days of old chatroom (fooked up whispers- taxi for Tiff and all that) socials were big affairs - themed events/ masquerade ball etc whereas there were smaller munches (lunch n drinks etc) also.
Im not saying terminology has changed or morphed nor does it really matter. Just thrpwing my penarth worth.
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"Well personally the way I see it need to have a lot of folk signed up and paid to make any real money, the time and effort organisers put in, the little details make a lot of difference but even with 100 booked people (Hahahaha) going to an event at £15 a pop that’s 1500 dj in Glasgow normally around the 3-500 mark, buffet for 100 easily spend 3-500, decorations, hotel room for organiser(yep of it was a nighttime social is expect the organiser to whip off the cost of a room) 100 if they don’t live local, so even with a free venue there’s still only going to be about 2-300 hardly worth your reputation oh and not forgetting buying any raffle prizes or goodie bags etc all sounds fine till you say folk pay for the organiser to have a hotel sorry no social ive been to did the organiser feel they were entitled to be put up for the night.
I wouldnt attend if i thought an organiser was profiting in any way"
I’m not saying they do but I’ve seen lots of events being organised I work with a lot of big institutions both Scotland and worldwide and things like this are part and parcel at end of day folk doing it aren’t getting paid so what I am saying IF they did then even then I still wouldn’t have a moan because they’re the ones running about organising shopping making phone calls and doing everything they can to ensure everyone else has a great night but as I previously said seeing how mi h goes into these nights I wouldn’t be surprised if the organisers often didn’t end up out of pocket |
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over a year ago
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Having been on the site since it started there are now so many socials than ever before. As stated there used to be around 4 a year and I have to say we went all over for them and they were fantastic nights. There was no goodie bags, no charities just a £5 a head, dj, finger buffet or nibbles and a jam packed venue. Now we are very selective where we go depending on who is organising and who is going. The price has crept up and up over the years and I can honestly say the nights have been no better, I give to two select charities every month and if I’m being very honest don’t want our hard earned money to go to ones we have no interest in therefore don’t want to pay over the odds so a portion can go a charity of someone else’s choice.
In relation to someone saying that they don’t always think the money does go to charity I actually agree and know for a fact that a big night organised many many years ago (we didn’t attend) no money was ever handed over and the reason I know is the charity they “produced a receipt for” would have been written by me had it been sincere!! Also it just so happened this couple left the site days after the event. Just to be clear though we would not attend any social if we felt this was the case in all instances which we don’t. There has also been socials organised, money exchanged and the person(S) have never booked anything in the first instance and kept the cash so it does and can happen.
If people want to go to them all great, if you want to be selective great and equally if you don’t want to attend any great it’s all about the choice
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can only say that the social we attended in Ayrshire last November was fantastic.
the hard work put into it was evident and all the wee treats were lovely thoughtful touches.
our first social and Cherub and her team made such an effort to make us feel welcome.
Think its great to have the socials running and option to attend.
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I'm in the middle of sorting out a fife social since everyone is wanting one.
Anyone who says it's a money maker has clearly never organised one.
Depending on the venue, DJ and buffet cost, you're looking anywhere from £5-10 per person some place I contacted it would have been closer to £15pp.
But on the subject of there being too many, I'd say it all depends on the area and it's up to you to choose what ones to go to. |
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"Well personally the way I see it need to have a lot of folk signed up and paid to make any real money, the time and effort organisers put in, the little details make a lot of difference but even with 100 booked people (Hahahaha) going to an event at £15 a pop that’s 1500 dj in Glasgow normally around the 3-500 mark, buffet for 100 easily spend 3-500, decorations, hotel room for organiser(yep of it was a nighttime social is expect the organiser to whip off the cost of a room) 100 if they don’t live local, so even with a free venue there’s still only going to be about 2-300 hardly worth your reputation oh and not forgetting buying any raffle prizes or goodie bags etc all sounds fine till you say folk pay for the organiser to have a hotel sorry no social ive been to did the organiser feel they were entitled to be put up for the night.
I wouldnt attend if i thought an organiser was profiting in any way
I’m not saying they do but I’ve seen lots of events being organised I work with a lot of big institutions both Scotland and worldwide and things like this are part and parcel at end of day folk doing it aren’t getting paid so what I am saying IF they did then even then I still wouldn’t have a moan because they’re the ones running about organising shopping making phone calls and doing everything they can to ensure everyone else has a great night but as I previously said seeing how mi h goes into these nights I wouldn’t be surprised if the organisers often didn’t end up out of pocket "
theres a big difference bwtween buisness and a social im not against folk setting up a buisness to profit from.
as long as its clear from the outset.
disguising it so you can get fringe benefits or profit isnt right in my book |
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I personally don't mind if people make a bit of a profit on a social. They are putting their time and effort into organising them,and doing the running about for it all, but can't see how they would be making vast amounts. |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false? "
When MissK, Muppet and myself were involved in the Dundee Socials we bought all the decorations, and sundries ourselves and all the profit after paying the venue, buffet etc went to charities. Definitely no money making scam !!!! |
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"No intention of ever going to one. Anyway I heard some were merely money making scams?? True or false?
When MissK, Muppet and myself were involved in the Dundee Socials we bought all the decorations, and sundries ourselves and all the profit after paying the venue, buffet etc went to charities. Definitely no money making scam !!!!"
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