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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Been on and off here now more a year now how hard is it to meet anyone all I keep getting messages from guys why can’t I just get one lady to be interested. What am I doing wrong lol

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By *irky_coupleCouple  over a year ago

kirky

Block guys for a start is what we would and have done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. "
didn’t think of that thank you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you"

....cause you secretly love da boabie

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie "

lol so funny blocked now

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now "

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

I’ve not blocked doggy lol blocked guy x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I looked at your profile and I would move on quickly you have no public pics other than your profile and your profile looks and sounds like many others on here, nothing to make it stand out or get my interest

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I looked at your profile and I would move on quickly you have no public pics other than your profile and your profile looks and sounds like many others on here, nothing to make it stand out or get my interest

I’m very shy just don’t no what to say x

Just my thoughts "

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think it's because you are from London

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think it's because you are from London "
yeah I definitely think that too x if someone gave me a chance they would see I’m a nice guy and London guys not all that bad lol

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I think it's because you are from London yeah I definitely think that too x if someone gave me a chance they would see I’m a nice guy and London guys not all that bad lol"

I was joking, I wouldn't have even known you were from London if you hadn't said in the last thread. Why aren't you trying one of the socials?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think it's because you are from London yeah I definitely think that too x if someone gave me a chance they would see I’m a nice guy and London guys not all that bad lol

I was joking, I wouldn't have even known you were from London if you hadn't said in the last thread. Why aren't you trying one of the socials? "

I don’t know anyone up here not been up here long would rather meet someone one on one also bit shy to go to one of them social meetings not knowing anyone x

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

Nothing wrong youve made the pity post a flood will be upon you shortly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No pics

No interest

Harsh but true.

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"No pics

No interest

Harsh but true."

ffs wheres the love all and accept everyone mentality with you my god you would think you know what your after or something

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No pics

No interest

Harsh but true.ffs wheres the love all and accept everyone mentality with you my god you would think you know what your after or something "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pics are a draw for me too x

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

I’ve not blocked doggy lol blocked guy x

"

That makes more sense, right enough.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple  over a year ago

Central Scotland


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

I’ve not blocked doggy lol blocked guy x

That makes more sense, right enough. "

No one puts Doggy in the corner! Mainly because she'll chew the laminate if you don't leave enough curly wurlys

Seriously OP, there's nothing wrong with your profile, there's just not anything that's going to stand out. Better pictures and profile blurb required if you want more luck.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

I’ve not blocked doggy lol blocked guy x

That makes more sense, right enough.

No one puts Doggy in the corner! Mainly because she'll chew the laminate if you don't leave enough curly wurlys

Seriously OP, there's nothing wrong with your profile, there's just not anything that's going to stand out. Better pictures and profile blurb required if you want more luck.

V x"

As long as she doesn't piss on the carpet!

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By *tew008Man  over a year ago

edinburgh


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie "

Or just enjoy seeing a message notification, even if it is a guy again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No pics,boreing profile.

So def not for us.

Although the "genuine honest guy" part had us pmsl.

Is that instead of the "fake dishonest guy"

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By *mumaWoman  over a year ago

Livingston


"Block guys for a start is what we would and have done. didn’t think of that thank you

....cause you secretly love da boabie lol so funny blocked now

Not the first time Doggy has been blocked!!

I’ve not blocked doggy lol blocked guy x

That makes more sense, right enough.

No one puts Doggy in the corner! Mainly because she'll chew the laminate if you don't leave enough curly wurlys

Seriously OP, there's nothing wrong with your profile, there's just not anything that's going to stand out. Better pictures and profile blurb required if you want more luck.

V x

As long as she doesn't piss on the carpet AGAIN"

Sorted that for you

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By *lbie6Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Hi it's hard on here for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys"

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics".

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics". "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics".

"

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By *xybumWoman  over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics". "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics". "

I’ve tried everything to get chatting and meet but no takers just can’t see what doing wrong just need someone give me a chance lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Personally pics don’t bother me as I don’t have any and I’m no hypocrite unlike a large majority on here but profile a bit naff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh also the fact you’ve been on over a year and not met anyone makes me think you’re possibly a time waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Personally pics don’t bother me as I don’t have any and I’m no hypocrite unlike a large majority on here but profile a bit naff "
I know just not got clue what to write that’s why put anyone want to know anything ask never been on anything like this just a bit lost to be honest x

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By *xybumWoman  over a year ago

East Kilbride


"Personally pics don’t bother me as I don’t have any and I’m no hypocrite unlike a large majority on here but profile a bit naff I know just not got clue what to write that’s why put anyone want to know anything ask never been on anything like this just a bit lost to be honest x"

Your a big boy at 48 yrs old... I’m sure you can think of something to write about yourself? What you like and what your looking for etc? Ain’t that hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Personally pics don’t bother me as I don’t have any and I’m no hypocrite unlike a large majority on here but profile a bit naff I know just not got clue what to write that’s why put anyone want to know anything ask never been on anything like this just a bit lost to be honest x

Your a big boy at 48 yrs old... I’m sure you can think of something to write about yourself? Ok profile updated What you like and what your looking for etc? Ain’t that hard "

ok profile updated a wee bit lol see what happens x and I joined a year ago but was only on few weeks at start and have come back on few weeks ago so not been on a year and I’m definitely not a time waster x

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Your profile text sounds good, it's explaining a bit more about you and what you are looking for. Good luck to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Your profile text sounds good, it's explaining a bit more about you and what you are looking for. Good luck to you "
awwww thank you gorgeous lady xx

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By *tew008Man  over a year ago

edinburgh


"Your profile text sounds good, it's explaining a bit more about you and what you are looking for. Good luck to you awwww thank you gorgeous lady xx"

You’ll get a more personalized rejection.

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"Hi it's hard on here for single guys

The thing is some guys can make it even harder for themselves with their forum "antics". "

and there was me thinking you were a soft touch

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By *rinthiaMan  over a year ago

dundee

totaly agree with the op here

its just imposible to build up any comunication on here.

ive really been trying hard to find a local woman for a chat and nothing.... is there a secret code im missing?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"totaly agree with the op here

its just imposible to build up any comunication on here.

ive really been trying hard to find a local woman for a chat and nothing.... is there a secret code im missing?"

Aye. The secret code is don't put what looks like a child's toy on your cock and take a picture for your profile.

Are potential interested parties supposed to look at that picture and think 'that green lizard thing looks like he's having a brilliant time, I want that cock'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"totaly agree with the op here

its just imposible to build up any comunication on here.

ive really been trying hard to find a local woman for a chat and nothing.... is there a secret code im missing?

Aye. The secret code is don't put what looks like a child's toy on your cock and take a picture for your profile.

Are potential interested parties supposed to look at that picture and think 'that green lizard thing looks like he's having a brilliant time, I want that cock'?"

I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong just wished someone give me a chance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"just wished someone give me a chance"

You do know, that wishes never come true

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"just wished someone give me a chance

You do know, that wishes never come true "

yeah I know lol what do I need to say then lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As the old saying goes.

"What ever is for you,won't go by you".

Patience is the key word here.

Not desperation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As the old saying goes.

"What ever is for you,won't go by you".

Patience is the key word here.

Not desperation."

ok thank you guess will have to wait and keep everything cross lol

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By *ifeslut90Couple  over a year ago

inverkeithing


"I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong just wished someone give me a chance"

I gave you the chance a guaranteed meet with verification and you knocked me back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong just wished someone give me a chance

I gave you the chance a guaranteed meet with verification and you knocked me back."

I never knocked you back just said I couldn’t do anything with your boyfriend watching as said if meet alone I would have been straight down

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

As a single man, if you are looking to meet only single females, maybe a swingers site isn’t the best place to do this.

Pof or Tinder maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As a single man, if you are looking to meet only single females, maybe a swingers site isn’t the best place to do this.

Pof or Tinder maybe?"

no it was just didn’t feel completely going to a car with boyfriend sitting there watching

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin


"As a single man, if you are looking to meet only single females, maybe a swingers site isn’t the best place to do this.

Pof or Tinder maybe? no it was just didn’t feel completely going to a car with boyfriend sitting there watching"

I think they were meaning in general. If you are only looking to meet women which your profile implies that’s not swinging ... so maybe be better on another site to find what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As a single man, if you are looking to meet only single females, maybe a swingers site isn’t the best place to do this.

Pof or Tinder maybe? no it was just didn’t feel completely going to a car with boyfriend sitting there watching

I think they were meaning in general. If you are only looking to meet women which your profile implies that’s not swinging ... so maybe be better on another site to find what you are looking for "

maybe meet a woman first then see what happens

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By *nowy and the GruffaloCouple  over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

But as you said, you’ve been trying for a year and had no luck. Could be a thought to try sites for singles to meet other singles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"But as you said, you’ve been trying for a year and had no luck. Could be a thought to try sites for singles to meet other singles. "
signed up a year ago was on for couple weeks then moved up here and back and forward to Spain as mum was ill just come back on couple weeks ago so been signed up a year but not been in here if that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You’re not doing anything wrong. It just so happens that a huge percentage of users simply don’t want to have sex with you. It’s like real life statistically so don’t fret my friend.

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. "
yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx"

Don't be coming on here after a week asking why you aren't getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx

Don't be coming on here after a week asking why you aren't getting a meet "

lol ok but there are so many guys on here ladies have so many to choose from x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx

Don't be coming on here after a week asking why you aren't getting a meet lol ok but there are so many guys on here ladies have so many to choose from x"

there are about 40 guys to one woman so a 40/1 chance you ladies have so many to choose from x

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By *ab femWoman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx

Don't be coming on here after a week asking why you aren't getting a meet lol ok but there are so many guys on here ladies have so many to choose from x"

They do but they don't want to meet them all do they. And they aren't going to meet a moany one so forget about the other guys and consentrate on chatting to the women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sometimes what women say and mean are quite different. An ex once said to me Go away and give me peace. Obviously being Scottish I returned with a jam sandwich for her, which both confused and delighted her in equal measure. We spent the evening having anal sex. Btw the it was Mackays strawberry jam on Mother’s Pride loaf. Anything else I’d probably just have gotten a handjob.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe you'd be better off starting a new profile, if so many people are questioning why you haven't had a meet in a year, people you're trying to meet will wonder too and could put them off. yes I think maybe your right as usual lol xx when get in from work I’ll set a new one up x once again thank you xx

Don't be coming on here after a week asking why you aren't getting a meet lol ok but there are so many guys on here ladies have so many to choose from x

They do but they don't want to meet them all do they. And they aren't going to meet a moany one so forget about the other guys and consentrate on chatting to the women "

ok gorgeous lady thanks for advise xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think a lot of peoples problem is they come on here and expect to get sex. A has been on here as a single Male and had meets with single girls and couples. What are your opening messages like? Are you straight in asking for sex?. A profile isn't they say and be all on here. It's about building up a rapport with who your talking too. People need to feel they can chat and relax with you and if they cant do that on here they won't be able to on here. As said above try tinder, pof ect

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think a lot of peoples problem is they come on here and expect to get sex. A has been on here as a single Male and had meets with single girls and couples. What are your opening messages like? Are you straight in asking for sex?. A profile isn't they say and be all on here. It's about building up a rapport with who your talking too. People need to feel they can chat and relax with you and if they cant do that on here they won't be able to on here. As said above try tinder, pof ect"
hi no not asking for sex just try get a chat I never ask for sex or rude very rarely get a message back and If do they are not interested I get hundreds messages from blokes but have blocked that now I’ve tried everything to get a meet but nothing working run out ideas lol

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