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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve read quite a few threads where women comment saying it’s their first time going to cjs by themselves and they’re nervous etc
Or girls who won’t go because they’re too nervous to go alone.
Do you think a kik chat group for single fems attending would be beneficial?
It can be quite daunting going in for the first time, let alone by yourself...maybe if other single fems can chat before hand and meet in the bar or something it’ll ease the nerves a bit? Prevents the whole awkward “where do I go or what do I do” feeling.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve read quite a few threads where women comment saying it’s their first time going to cjs by themselves and they’re nervous etc
Or girls who won’t go because they’re too nervous to go alone.
Do you think a kik chat group for single fems attending would be beneficial?
It can be quite daunting going in for the first time, let alone by yourself...maybe if other single fems can chat before hand and meet in the bar or something it’ll ease the nerves a bit? Prevents the whole awkward “where do I go or what do I do” feeling.
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I Would be more likely to go if I knew I could meet up with people in similar position
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my first visit I arranged to meet up with people and it was much less daunting not sure I’d have been brave enough otherwise 
I’ve been a few times now though and I’d happily go alone as everyone in my experience was friendly and welcoming x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?
I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum 
V x"
Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?
I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum
V x"
Oops didn’t realise that
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?
I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum
V x
Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx"
Cupcake I’ll be your pal haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?
I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum
V x
Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx
Cupcake I’ll be your pal haha "
Ooooh thanks
I'm quite shy at first so need a buddy lol |
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"Why not put a meet on the appropriate section for drinks first before going and you can go in together?
I don't think kik groups are meant to be discussed or set up on the forum
V x
Thanks I hadn't thought of that. That's a good idea xx"
 I think you'll find quite a few ladies all having the same nerves! Strength in numbers and all that haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been a few times myself cupcake and heading along on Saturday again myself, I would be happy to meet you 1 night before hand if you wanted to head along sometime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went on my own for my first (and so far only) time. I would have loved to have gone with a couple of girls, it took me a while to warm up but ended up having a very fun night!
Hope to get back again one day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to always go on my own, first ever time I went I just posted in forum please if anyone sees me come say hi so I’m not sat on my own like a lemon and everyone was so friendly that was 11 years ago and I still go alone even now, there’s actually a lot of single females go alone and usually found in the kitchen, if you’re bi then cpls and single fem night might be good but personally they’re not my cup of tea and the fun for all tend to be the best nights |
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By *oo_BiesWoman
over a year ago
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I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night!   |
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"I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night! "
I don't think cj's does a ladies only night, but there is 1 posted in the forums.
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By *ottieBBWWoman
over a year ago
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Pre club drinks is a great idea x
Ive been a few times but always with friends/ or arranged to meet friends there. But have been a few occasions where they have been unable to make it last minute- I ended up not wanting to go myself…knowing other singles ladies would certainly help with that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I went alone and met lovely people. Since then I've also been to a social and met some lovely people before it. Come say hi on Saturday as ill be heading along x |
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"I used to always go on my own, first ever time I went I just posted in forum please if anyone sees me come say hi so I’m not sat on my own like a lemon and everyone was so friendly that was 11 years ago and I still go alone even now, there’s actually a lot of single females go alone and usually found in the kitchen, if you’re bi then cpls and single fem night might be good but personally they’re not my cup of tea and the fun for all tend to be the best nights "
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By *oo_BiesWoman
over a year ago
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"I would perhaps go if I knew 1 or 2 girls that were going and felt comfortable with them, meeting for drinks beforehand is a good shout. It’d be even better if there was a ladies only night!
I don't think cj's does a ladies only night, but there is 1 posted in the forums.
R "
No it doesn’t but it would be good if they did!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been couple times walking in my self and a few hours alone, does not bother me going here myself, as we all know what we are there for and the people that do go are friendly and always chat with you, next night I am going with a freind as she not been so moral support for both of us x |
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