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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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Do any women actually have any interest in larger guys? Seem to get on well with people and all of a sudden they see I'm large and sorry not for me. I get that people have tastes but surely there be some women out there like guys for who they are not what they are. |
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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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I did have a photo up until I was recognised at work and it caused a bit of a problem so don't anymore and I always a attach photo of myself with my first message. Yes I suppose I am flabby think john candy I suppose but twice as funny  |
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"You should have a picture up so people can get an idea of what you look like before a conversation starts. It saves you the hassle of talking then realising you're not compatible "
Couldn’t agree more with this! 
Especially useful for those of us that need a visual attraction prior to considering a meet.
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over a year ago
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"You should have a picture up so people can get an idea of what you look like before a conversation starts. It saves you the hassle of talking then realising you're not compatible "
this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is actually very important to me, it's obvious (I think) from my profile pics that I'm a big lad. Genetically I'll always have a big frame, despite the well known meme that shows everyone has the same size of skeleton which is actually a fallacy. I broke my back 9 years ago and ballooned to be morbidly obese at best. I'm diabetic and losing weight is much more difficult than it is for non diabetics . I describe myself as curvy on my profile but there's no muscular option which would apply to me. I'm not a gym freak or fitness fanatic but I've spent a minimum of 5 days a week in the gym and pool for almost 4 years exactly, it's now a lifestyle but more importantly I've shed 10 stone and without a doubt saved my own life into the bargain. I have to say tho that I've always thought "big girls they are beautiful" as the song goes. Even very big girls take pride in their general hygiene than many guys who are big. |
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"This is actually very important to me, it's obvious (I think) from my profile pics that I'm a big lad. Genetically I'll always have a big frame, despite the well known meme that shows everyone has the same size of skeleton which is actually a fallacy. I broke my back 9 years ago and ballooned to be morbidly obese at best. I'm diabetic and losing weight is much more difficult than it is for non diabetics . I describe myself as curvy on my profile but there's no muscular option which would apply to me. I'm not a gym freak or fitness fanatic but I've spent a minimum of 5 days a week in the gym and pool for almost 4 years exactly, it's now a lifestyle but more importantly I've shed 10 stone and without a doubt saved my own life into the bargain. I have to say tho that I've always thought "big girls they are beautiful" as the song goes. Even very big girls take pride in their general hygiene than many guys who are big. "
why turn it on guys?
This is something you see quite a bit not saying you but ........look how lovely i am im soòooooo gentlemanly not like the other neanderthals.
Sorry theres just as many females with major issues hygenic and personality as there are men.folk need to put their big boy pants on a stand on their own feet instead of climbing across the backs of other.
trying to divide and conquer is like glass ya can see straight through it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I’m not instantly attracted to larger guys and when I was single and looking for guys to be potential fwb physical attraction is my first point of call and I would rule out larger guys, in my vanilla world my last partner and former ex husband was more than ample my current bf is rugby built with an increasing beer belly as well but we met as friends initially and I was instantly attracted to him and his broad shoulders xx so I’d say your best bet is to try and meet ladies socially first to let your personality get your foot in the door as on here it’s hard to let that shine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you think my tits are huge then wait till you get a glimpse of my personality !
My ass is no where near as big as the smile on your face when I’m finished with you
My tummy not only shows my tiger stripes but it helps keep the momentum going when I’m on top !
A few dodgy icebreakers but I’ve found they’ve warranted a giggle from guys and lets them see from the offset that my weight doesn’t get me down and I love love love my body so much that I was happy to strip down to my sussies and parade myself at the social handing out shots ! A few years ago I’d have hid myself away, the words we use and the things we say are what makes us attractive and if we talk confident we look confident and that’s attractive |
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"Do any women actually have any interest in larger guys? Seem to get on well with people and all of a sudden they see I'm large and sorry not for me. I get that people have tastes but surely there be some women out there like guys for who they are not what they are. "
Some see Fab in my opinion as a bit of an escape from reality , a wonderous world away from what is perceived as 'normal' when it comes to relationships and meeting people to have sexy fun with . Most women whether large or small tall or short sexy or dog have come to realise that they do have the advantage when it comes to the numbers games and are finding themselves out numbered probabably 5 or 6 to 1 at least. They know they will be able to select a better specimen of a man from Fab world for fun only than they might normally choose or be chosen from real world guys, rather than when looking for a long term partners or thinking about futures. Its good that the women in this forum have been honest with their advice and preferences but im afraid thats the reality of it OP. Stay on Fab for the social side of things if you want but if you want fun POF and Tinder was always way more lucrative for that sort of thing in my opinion. Sorry to burst yer bubble but thats the reality of Fab mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is actually very important to me, it's obvious (I think) from my profile pics that I'm a big lad. Genetically I'll always have a big frame, despite the well known meme that shows everyone has the same size of skeleton which is actually a fallacy. I broke my back 9 years ago and ballooned to be morbidly obese at best. I'm diabetic and losing weight is much more difficult than it is for non diabetics . I describe myself as curvy on my profile but there's no muscular option which would apply to me. I'm not a gym freak or fitness fanatic but I've spent a minimum of 5 days a week in the gym and pool for almost 4 years exactly, it's now a lifestyle but more importantly I've shed 10 stone and without a doubt saved my own life into the bargain. I have to say tho that I've always thought "big girls they are beautiful" as the song goes. Even very big girls take pride in their general hygiene than many guys who are big. why turn it on guys?
This is something you see quite a bit not saying you but ........look how lovely i am im soòooooo gentlemanly not like the other neanderthals.
Sorry theres just as many females with major issues hygenic and personality as there are men.folk need to put their big boy pants on a stand on their own feet instead of climbing across the backs of other.
trying to divide and conquer is like glass ya can see straight through it. "
"Than many guys who are big" isn't a sweeping statement so I haven't turned it on guys, I stick by what I said and believe that it's true.
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By *odiceaWoman
over a year ago
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From a new persons perspective there seems to be a lot of women who describe themselves as ‘curvy’ which is clearly a euphemism for fat/overweight and they are still highly coveted. So in this respect there must be women who like larger men.
A lot of ladies on here are clearly punching above their weight and can do so by the amount of quite frankly, desperate men who would sleep with anything.
It would seem the same cannot be said for the gentlemen on here, ignored in a sea of false flattery emails.
I’m in no way bashing larger people, just stating what I have noticed in my limited time on here.
I would have no problem meeting a larger guy if we hit it off via chatting
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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone for commenting. This wasn't meant to start debate, merely asking a genuine question. I try involve myself with the social side of things as much as possible as this is more important to me than shaghing my way through a website. I like to think I have a good personality and can get along and have a laugh with most folk, as I like to chat with most in the chatrooms. I think a way forward for me will be a pic of my neck down thus eliminating any chance of being recognised. But being more upfront of my size. Thanks to all contributors to the thread. Bandit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone for commenting. This wasn't meant to start debate, merely asking a genuine question. I try involve myself with the social side of things as much as possible as this is more important to me than shaghing my way through a website. I like to think I have a good personality and can get along and have a laugh with most folk, as I like to chat with most in the chatrooms. I think a way forward for me will be a pic of my neck down thus eliminating any chance of being recognised. But being more upfront of my size. Thanks to all contributors to the thread. Bandit. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can talk all they like about personality but on Fab it’s all about toned bodies and big cocks. For single guys our experience is that you have to be in the top 10% to 20% to get a good number of meets. Just compare the profiles to the number of veris for single guys. Large guys really don’t stand a chance in our opinion.
It’s harsh but it’s true in our experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually have any interest in larger guys? Seem to get on well with people and all of a sudden they see I'm large and sorry not for me. I get that people have tastes but surely there be some women out there like guys for who they are not what they are. "
You're on a sex site, this is not a dating site. No one is going to meet anyone they aren't attracted to whatever they base attraction on.
I don't get whinging posts like this. What are your expectations here?? What are your expectations with women in real life? What have been your expectations and experiences with woman your whole adult life to date? Did you think coming on here would guarantee sex because you don't get it elsewhere?
People can be as fickle as they choose on here, it's their right.
Sorry to be blunt pal, but if you think certain women don't go for you because of your weight either lose weight or adjust your expectations accordingly. |
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"People can talk all they like about personality but on Fab it’s all about toned bodies and big cocks. For single guys our experience is that you have to be in the top 10% to 20% to get a good number of meets. Just compare the profiles to the number of veris for single guys. Large guys really don’t stand a chance in our opinion.
It’s harsh but it’s true in our experience. "
sorry but I dont agree with you some women prefer avarage built guys with avarage cocks so your theory is way wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People can talk all they like about personality but on Fab it’s all about toned bodies and big cocks. For single guys our experience is that you have to be in the top 10% to 20% to get a good number of meets. Just compare the profiles to the number of veris for single guys. Large guys really don’t stand a chance in our opinion.
It’s harsh but it’s true in our experience. "
Top 10 to 20% of what? So you saying the same guys are doing all the shagging on here?
Should prob come with a health warning of they're being passed around everyone on here!  |
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"This is actually very important to me, it's obvious (I think) from my profile pics that I'm a big lad. Genetically I'll always have a big frame, despite the well known meme that shows everyone has the same size of skeleton which is actually a fallacy. I broke my back 9 years ago and ballooned to be morbidly obese at best. I'm diabetic and losing weight is much more difficult than it is for non diabetics . I describe myself as curvy on my profile but there's no muscular option which would apply to me. I'm not a gym freak or fitness fanatic but I've spent a minimum of 5 days a week in the gym and pool for almost 4 years exactly, it's now a lifestyle but more importantly I've shed 10 stone and without a doubt saved my own life into the bargain. I have to say tho that I've always thought "big girls they are beautiful" as the song goes. Even very big girls take pride in their general hygiene than many guys who are big. why turn it on guys?
This is something you see quite a bit not saying you but ........look how lovely i am im soòooooo gentlemanly not like the other neanderthals.
Sorry theres just as many females with major issues hygenic and personality as there are men.folk need to put their big boy pants on a stand on their own feet instead of climbing across the backs of other.
trying to divide and conquer is like glass ya can see straight through it.
"Than many guys who are big" isn't a sweeping statement so I haven't turned it on guys, I stick by what I said and believe that it's true.
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wasnt going to say it but you called my cards......yes you did whoever these guys are your placing yourself as a top trump over them quit that and be genuine it works in the long run |
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"People can talk all they like about personality but on Fab it’s all about toned bodies and big cocks. For single guys our experience is that you have to be in the top 10% to 20% to get a good number of meets. Just compare the profiles to the number of veris for single guys. Large guys really don’t stand a chance in our opinion.
It’s harsh but it’s true in our experience. "
veris mean little i ask folk not to veri me as its our buisness nobody elses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People can talk all they like about personality but on Fab it’s all about toned bodies and big cocks. For single guys our experience is that you have to be in the top 10% to 20% to get a good number of meets. Just compare the profiles to the number of veris for single guys. Large guys really don’t stand a chance in our opinion.
It’s harsh but it’s true in our experience.
Top 10 to 20% of what? So you saying the same guys are doing all the shagging on here?
Should prob come with a health warning of they're being passed around everyone on here! "
Top 10% to 20% of guys. If there are 5 or 10 guys to every couple/woman then all those guys aren’t getting a meet.
Check out the guys with lots of meets. Generally they’re not ample or curvy. Count the number of veris the lean muscle guys have compared to fat guys. Count the veris the hung guys have compared to the average guys.
Everyone has slightly different tastes but the stats on veris tell a story. Just our opinion from what we have observed. |
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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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Not at all G I simply asked if there was ladies on here who like the larger guy. Those who want to come on and do that are showing themselves to be the narrow minded pompous narcicits they pretend not to be. Now I know I'm not skinny or even average and I'm happily working to resolve that, I know I have a great personality and when meet in person that can over shadow my weight, as my last several partners have all been what people would class out of my league. I get that people on here want to experience " a big cock" or "sexy model type", but personally I couldnt give a toss bout all that. If I can have a laugh enjoy the person's company and have some amazing fun sex at the end of it that's all that matters. Just the double standards at play are ridiculous. |
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"Not at all G I simply asked if there was ladies on here who like the larger guy. Those who want to come on and do that are showing themselves to be the narrow minded pompous narcicits they pretend not to be. Now I know I'm not skinny or even average and I'm happily working to resolve that, I know I have a great personality and when meet in person that can over shadow my weight, as my last several partners have all been what people would class out of my league. I get that people on here want to experience " a big cock" or "sexy model type", but personally I couldnt give a toss bout all that. If I can have a laugh enjoy the person's company and have some amazing fun sex at the end of it that's all that matters. Just the double standards at play are ridiculous. "
what double standards?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs they should ban posts like these because most end up as body shaming threads."
Don’t think people are body shaming.
It’s very difficult for single guys to get a meet because the numbers are stacked against them but from what we’ve seen the ones that do get meets are generally the ones in better shape or have the equipment to fulfil a fantasy. Women have all the power on Fab.
The OP should get along to some clubs and see how he gets on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you should ask cj if she fancies trying a curvy guys appreciation night because she’s done it for the women, gauge an idea then the women who like something more to cosy up with
As per a previous comment about big cocks ! Sorry big cocoa send me fleeing I’d rather jabs me average any day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not at all G I simply asked if there was ladies on here who like the larger guy. Those who want to come on and do that are showing themselves to be the narrow minded pompous narcicits they pretend not to be. Now I know I'm not skinny or even average and I'm happily working to resolve that, I know I have a great personality and when meet in person that can over shadow my weight, as my last several partners have all been what people would class out of my league. I get that people on here want to experience " a big cock" or "sexy model type", but personally I couldnt give a toss bout all that. If I can have a laugh enjoy the person's company and have some amazing fun sex at the end of it that's all that matters. Just the double standards at play are ridiculous. what double standards?"
I agree. What double standards?
It would appear, though I may be wrong, that there are more men than woman who find a bigger partner attractive. Whether that's because the men heavily outweigh (no pun intended) the women on here or because they are less fussy and any hole is a goal, is a matter for another debate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just meant some women have double standards. Some are nothing short of obese (which I don't care) but day fat guys are a turn off that's all I meant"
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"I just meant some women have double standards. Some are nothing short of obese (which I don't care) but day fat guys are a turn off that's all I meant"
Im a bigger woman but Im not into bigger guys thats not double standards its called personal choice |
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By *anon6dMan
over a year ago
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"Not at all G I simply asked if there was ladies on here who like the larger guy. Those who want to come on and do that are showing themselves to be the narrow minded pompous narcicits they pretend not to be. Now I know I'm not skinny or even average and I'm happily working to resolve that, I know I have a great personality and when meet in person that can over shadow my weight, as my last several partners have all been what people would class out of my league. I get that people on here want to experience " a big cock" or "sexy model type", but personally I couldnt give a toss bout all that. If I can have a laugh enjoy the person's company and have some amazing fun sex at the end of it that's all that matters. Just the double standards at play are ridiculous. what double standards?
I agree. What double standards?
It would appear, though I may be wrong, that there are more men than woman who find a bigger partner attractive. Whether that's because the men heavily outweigh (no pun intended) the women on here or because they are less fussy and any hole is a goal, is a matter for another debate."
mmm not to sure about that. But then that's just me so you could be right. |
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"Not at all G I simply asked if there was ladies on here who like the larger guy. Those who want to come on and do that are showing themselves to be the narrow minded pompous narcicits they pretend not to be. Now I know I'm not skinny or even average and I'm happily working to resolve that, I know I have a great personality and when meet in person that can over shadow my weight, as my last several partners have all been what people would class out of my league. I get that people on here want to experience " a big cock" or "sexy model type", but personally I couldnt give a toss bout all that. If I can have a laugh enjoy the person's company and have some amazing fun sex at the end of it that's all that matters. Just the double standards at play are ridiculous. what double standards?
I agree. What double standards?
It would appear, though I may be wrong, that there are more men than woman who find a bigger partner attractive. Whether that's because the men heavily outweigh (no pun intended) the women on here or because they are less fussy and any hole is a goal, is a matter for another debate.mmm not to sure about that. But then that's just me so you could be right. "
Am right.
You're wrong.
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over a year ago
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A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways "
Do you have preferences bud or is it a case of , if its got a fanny you will pump it . If you answered yes you do have preferences does that make you a shallow judgemental asshole ? Think about it  |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
Do you have preferences bud or is it a case of , if its got a fanny you will pump it . If you answered yes you do have preferences does that make you a shallow judgemental asshole ? Think about it "
I think I've said before I don't mind what shape or size anyone is , a good personality and a sense of humour is very attractive in women and intelligence |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways "
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn! |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways "
I'm sorry. I know you've had women be rude and basically fucking horrible to you in messages (which is never ok) but what you're saying is nonsense.
Of course people's shape and size is relevant. We all have sexual preferences, kinks and fetishes. It what makes us want to fuck and keeps the species going! Certain physiques have always been and will always be more popular though ....we're programmed to find them attractive as they suggest a potential healthier mate.
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn! "
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES... |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES..."
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique? |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique? "
If that's just your opinion I won't lose any sleep. Btw starting a comment with "I'm going to be totally honest with you " is a dead giveaway that you're gonna say exactly what I expected or you're being economical with the truth |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways "
Of course it's not irrelevant!!
People tend to shag other people who they are physically attracted to, so of course shape and size has a bearing.
And guess what! It's their prerogative!
Dude lose the chip!
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I'm sorry. I know you've had women be rude and basically fucking horrible to you in messages (which is never ok) but what you're saying is nonsense.
Of course people's shape and size is relevant. We all have sexual preferences, kinks and fetishes. It what makes us want to fuck and keeps the species going! Certain physiques have always been and will always be more popular though ....we're programmed to find them attractive as they suggest a potential healthier mate.
I understand that but I really don't see a size or shape when I look at a woman, I know it's not the same for everyone tho .x
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
Of course it's not irrelevant!!
People tend to shag other people who they are physically attracted to, so of course shape and size has a bearing.
And guess what! It's their prerogative!
Dude lose the chip!
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I haven't got a clue what you're on about, "lose the chip" , what about? |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique? "
You can be in my clique if you want as there's only me in it. But then by definition I have to not "readily allow others to join" me otherwise I officially lose clique status and we become a gang!!! |
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A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!! |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
If that's just your opinion I won't lose any sleep. Btw starting a comment with "I'm going to be totally honest with you " is a dead giveaway that you're gonna say exactly what I expected or you're being economical with the truth "
Economical with the truth!! Seriously have a word ... you just said I confirmed what you already knew ... CLIQUES ! How can my opinion be a clique? If you look on another thread I actually agreed there are cliques but if you are going to brand the term around you need to use it in the correct context not just when someone has a difference of opinion. I don’t think you understand that if people don’t find you attractive they don’t want to meet you and that goes for you, me and everyone else on the site! Just because you think size doesn’t matter and class those people as “shallow arseholes” doesn’t mean folk will go you know what he’s right let’s all just meet and shag folk we aren’t attracted to!! |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Do any women actually have any interest in larger guys? Seem to get on well with people and all of a sudden they see I'm large and sorry not for me. I get that people have tastes but surely there be some women out there like guys for who they are not what they are. "
If only I could tell you what I could Hahaha. |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!! "
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply. |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply. "
Do you have absolutely no preferences with regards to the type of women you find attractive? |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
If that's just your opinion I won't lose any sleep. Btw starting a comment with "I'm going to be totally honest with you " is a dead giveaway that you're gonna say exactly what I expected or you're being economical with the truth
Economical with the truth!! Seriously have a word ... you just said I confirmed what you already knew ... CLIQUES ! How can my opinion be a clique? If you look on another thread I actually agreed there are cliques but if you are going to brand the term around you need to use it in the correct context not just when someone has a difference of opinion. I don’t think you understand that if people don’t find you attractive they don’t want to meet you and that goes for you, me and everyone else on the site! Just because you think size doesn’t matter and class those people as “shallow arseholes” doesn’t mean folk will go you know what he’s right let’s all just meet and shag folk we aren’t attracted to!! "
I'm only giving my opinion not telling everyone what theirs should be. Anyone who comes out with shallow judgemental comments, I will always call them out , nothing to do with how I look ,everything to do with the way I've been all my life |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply.
Do you have absolutely no preferences with regards to the type of women you find attractive?"
Yeah actually, if the face doesn't appeal to me the body doesn't matter |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply. "
its only a problem if you make it one. You will get the idiots, trolls, up their own arses, big headed I'm better than you people but that's the same in every walk of life. Why would you want to reply to anyone who comments about your size? It's an argument you won't ever win so laugh, block and move on. FFS we had a lady turn us down because the pic we sent had me with a heavy stubble and she doesn't meet hairy guys.People are a fickle bunch. |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply. its only a problem if you make it one. You will get the idiots, trolls, up their own arses, big headed I'm better than you people but that's the same in every walk of life. Why would you want to reply to anyone who comments about your size? It's an argument you won't ever win so laugh, block and move on. FFS we had a lady turn us down because the pic we sent had me with a heavy stubble and she doesn't meet hairy guys.People are a fickle bunch. "
You're right, the person in question blocked me but can still interact with me on the forums and treats me accordingly. If I said anything I get the boot . |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply. "
Tell us all who it was or else it might as well not have happened! Shame them! Take the hit and the ban, I don't mind doing so when someone is out of order with me.
And what are you on about calling people out? Are you some sort of fab forum enforcer or vigalante?
This isn't even a debate, people are allowed to be atttacted to whatever size or shape they want. So what?? That's how real life works, this should be no different. |
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Here's the thing, this person lives near me and is making things a little bit difficult for me. I'm not making it personal because I've never said anything out of the ordinary to or about her |
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"Here's the thing, this person lives near me and is making things a little bit difficult for me. I'm not making it personal because I've never said anything out of the ordinary to or about her "
Why are they making it difficult for you?
So they're a bully? Even better to out!! There are some prize assholes on here who are totally spineless when confronted. |
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"Here's the thing, this person lives near me and is making things a little bit difficult for me. I'm not making it personal because I've never said anything out of the ordinary to or about her "
report her to admin then.
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply.
Tell us all who it was or else it might as well not have happened! Shame them! Take the hit and the ban, I don't mind doing so when someone is out of order with me.
And what are you on about calling people out? Are you some sort of fab forum enforcer or vigalante?
This isn't even a debate, people are allowed to be atttacted to whatever size or shape they want. So what?? That's how real life works, this should be no different. "
What's the result of naming and shaming? Are people gonna believe it? |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply.
Tell us all who it was or else it might as well not have happened! Shame them! Take the hit and the ban, I don't mind doing so when someone is out of order with me.
And what are you on about calling people out? Are you some sort of fab forum enforcer or vigalante?
This isn't even a debate, people are allowed to be atttacted to whatever size or shape they want. So what?? That's how real life works, this should be no different.
What's the result of naming and shaming? Are people gonna believe it? "
Let's other people know what they're really like. |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes.
And because you're a big guy. That chip!!
I've never had any hangups about my size, this is the only site where it seems to be a problem with some people, one prominent member in particular who messaged me on the first day with a dig about my size. Then immediately blocked me taking away my right to reply.
Tell us all who it was or else it might as well not have happened! Shame them! Take the hit and the ban, I don't mind doing so when someone is out of order with me.
And what are you on about calling people out? Are you some sort of fab forum enforcer or vigalante?
This isn't even a debate, people are allowed to be atttacted to whatever size or shape they want. So what?? That's how real life works, this should be no different.
What's the result of naming and shaming? Are people gonna believe it?
Let's other people know what they're really like. "
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"You described yourself a musclar in an earler post. If you are muscular then why are you bothered what people think about your body? "
I'm not bothered about what people think of my body, I'm bothered about body shaming in general and always have been. Fair enough if the face is enough to put you off regardless of the body. You don't have the option of muscular on here |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
If that's just your opinion I won't lose any sleep. Btw starting a comment with "I'm going to be totally honest with you " is a dead giveaway that you're gonna say exactly what I expected or you're being economical with the truth
Economical with the truth!! Seriously have a word ... you just said I confirmed what you already knew ... CLIQUES ! How can my opinion be a clique? If you look on another thread I actually agreed there are cliques but if you are going to brand the term around you need to use it in the correct context not just when someone has a difference of opinion. I don’t think you understand that if people don’t find you attractive they don’t want to meet you and that goes for you, me and everyone else on the site! Just because you think size doesn’t matter and class those people as “shallow arseholes” doesn’t mean folk will go you know what he’s right let’s all just meet and shag folk we aren’t attracted to!!
I'm only giving my opinion not telling everyone what theirs should be. Anyone who comes out with shallow judgemental comments, I will always call them out , nothing to do with how I look ,everything to do with the way I've been all my life "
Will you be calling yourself out for being judgemental when you called people who prefer more toned bodies judgemental assholes. And another thing , this getting upset and crying 'cliques' when people disagree with you has probably turned more people against you than size could ever have done. You have to respect everyones opinions and preferences on here not turn to bitching and name calling at the slightest disagreements. Thats advice bud, not a dig. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
If that's just your opinion I won't lose any sleep. Btw starting a comment with "I'm going to be totally honest with you " is a dead giveaway that you're gonna say exactly what I expected or you're being economical with the truth
Economical with the truth!! Seriously have a word ... you just said I confirmed what you already knew ... CLIQUES ! How can my opinion be a clique? If you look on another thread I actually agreed there are cliques but if you are going to brand the term around you need to use it in the correct context not just when someone has a difference of opinion. I don’t think you understand that if people don’t find you attractive they don’t want to meet you and that goes for you, me and everyone else on the site! Just because you think size doesn’t matter and class those people as “shallow arseholes” doesn’t mean folk will go you know what he’s right let’s all just meet and shag folk we aren’t attracted to!!
I'm only giving my opinion not telling everyone what theirs should be. Anyone who comes out with shallow judgemental comments, I will always call them out , nothing to do with how I look ,everything to do with the way I've been all my life
Will you be calling yourself out for being judgemental when you called people who prefer more toned bodies judgemental assholes. And another thing , this getting upset and crying 'cliques' when people disagree with you has probably turned more people against you than size could ever have done. You have to respect everyones opinions and preferences on here not turn to bitching and name calling at the slightest disagreements. Thats advice bud, not a dig. "
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
You can be in my clique if you want as there's only me in it. But then by definition I have to not "readily allow others to join" me otherwise I officially lose clique status and we become a gang!!!"
That’s the nicest thing anyone has said to me on here |
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
You can be in my clique if you want as there's only me in it. But then by definition I have to not "readily allow others to join" me otherwise I officially lose clique status and we become a gang!!!
That’s the nicest thing anyone has said to me on here "
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"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways "
no it shouldnt be irrelevent and its not shallow to not want a bodyshape near you that you dont wish this nonsense of accept everyone is utter claptrap you will exclude folk for your reasons if they dont want you cause your overweight suck it up buttercup
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"A person's shape/size should be totally irrelevant but don't hold your breath because the world will always have shallow judgemental assholes. If you're 30 stone and you win the lottery tonight your search for a stunner will be over by the end of the week. That goes both ways
I’m going to be totally honest I could not care if you looked like Brad Pitt your forum contributions are a huge turn off ...... and btw on another thread you said people should not judge folk they don’t know ... is that not what you have just done againnnn!
No ,I make those comments about people who judge me but thanks for confirming what I already knew, CLIQUES...
Cliques ... my comment was from me not anybody else does that make me a one woman clique?
You can be in my clique if you want as there's only me in it. But then by definition I have to not "readily allow others to join" me otherwise I officially lose clique status and we become a gang!!!
That’s the nicest thing anyone has said to me on here
.....you two should skip over to my Valentine thread .... "
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"You described yourself a musclar in an earler post. If you are muscular then why are you bothered what people think about your body?
I'm not bothered about what people think of my body, I'm bothered about body shaming in general and always have been. Fair enough if the face is enough to put you off regardless of the body. You don't have the option of muscular on here "
Hello, first time poster longtime lurker.
I have to say as a self confessed fat bast.......sorry “larger guy” this is BULL. The question was are ladies into bigger guys? It’s a yes/no question, if they say no you shout “body shaming” just because someone has personal tastes of what they find attractive or not does not mean they are shaming anyone just sharing their opinions.....
So people who prefer shaved are hair shaming?
So people who don’t like sea food are fish shaming?
Anyone else starting to see how silly this is getting?
If we use your logic then as a gay man I must go about fanny shaming all women cos I like men and not women(just curious).
So stop shouting about cliques and shaming and just accept that not everyone is going to want to sleep with a chub(even if it is a scientific fact that we are better in bed lol) sounds like someone is trying to push their own insecurities on other people
So to sum up my rant; stop saying people are wrong because of their likes and dislikes...as you said you accept everyone, prove it !! |
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"You described yourself a musclar in an earler post. If you are muscular then why are you bothered what people think about your body?
I'm not bothered about what people think of my body, I'm bothered about body shaming in general and always have been. Fair enough if the face is enough to put you off regardless of the body. You don't have the option of muscular on here
Hello, first time poster longtime lurker.
I have to say as a self confessed fat bast.......sorry “larger guy” this is BULL. The question was are ladies into bigger guys? It’s a yes/no question, if they say no you shout “body shaming” just because someone has personal tastes of what they find attractive or not does not mean they are shaming anyone just sharing their opinions.....
So people who prefer shaved are hair shaming?
So people who don’t like sea food are fish shaming?
Anyone else starting to see how silly this is getting?
If we use your logic then as a gay man I must go about fanny shaming all women cos I like men and not women(just curious).
So stop shouting about cliques and shaming and just accept that not everyone is going to want to sleep with a chub(even if it is a scientific fact that we are better in bed lol) sounds like someone is trying to push their own insecurities on other people
So to sum up my rant; stop saying people are wrong because of their likes and dislikes...as you said you accept everyone, prove it !! "
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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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"How much are you regretting this thread _andit? 
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I've actually had some friendly PM's about the thread and some really nice ones lol. But looking at the latest lot
..... Wish I'd opened a box of chocolates in stead lol
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"How much are you regretting this thread _andit?
I've actually had some friendly PM's about the thread and some really nice ones lol. But looking at the latest lot
..... Wish I'd opened a box of chocolates in stead lol
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By *andit OP Man
over a year ago
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"How much are you regretting this thread _andit?
I've actually had some friendly PM's about the thread and some really nice ones lol. But looking at the latest lot
..... Wish I'd opened a box of chocolates in stead lol
A bloke with a sense of humour x"
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"You described yourself a musclar in an earler post. If you are muscular then why are you bothered what people think about your body?
I'm not bothered about what people think of my body, I'm bothered about body shaming in general and always have been. Fair enough if the face is enough to put you off regardless of the body. You don't have the option of muscular on here
Hello, first time poster longtime lurker.
I have to say as a self confessed fat bast.......sorry “larger guy” this is BULL. The question was are ladies into bigger guys? It’s a yes/no question, if they say no you shout “body shaming” just because someone has personal tastes of what they find attractive or not does not mean they are shaming anyone just sharing their opinions.....
So people who prefer shaved are hair shaming?
So people who don’t like sea food are fish shaming?
Anyone else starting to see how silly this is getting?
If we use your logic then as a gay man I must go about fanny shaming all women cos I like men and not women(just curious).
So stop shouting about cliques and shaming and just accept that not everyone is going to want to sleep with a chub(even if it is a scientific fact that we are better in bed lol) sounds like someone is trying to push their own insecurities on other people
So to sum up my rant; stop saying people are wrong because of their likes and dislikes...as you said you accept everyone, prove it !! "
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over a year ago
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"How much are you regretting this thread _andit?
I've actually had some friendly PM's about the thread and some really nice ones lol. But looking at the latest lot
..... Wish I'd opened a box of chocolates in stead lol
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Result!
Hey sharing is caring, pass the chocolates this way, please |
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"How much are you regretting this thread _andit?
I've actually had some friendly PM's about the thread and some really nice ones lol. But looking at the latest lot
..... Wish I'd opened a box of chocolates in stead lol
Result!
Hey sharing is caring, pass the chocolates this way, please"
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"If you think my tits are huge then wait till you get a glimpse of my personality !
My ass is no where near as big as the smile on your face when I’m finished with you
My tummy not only shows my tiger stripes but it helps keep the momentum going when I’m on top !
A few dodgy icebreakers but I’ve found they’ve warranted a giggle from guys and lets them see from the offset that my weight doesn’t get me down and I love love love my body so much that I was happy to strip down to my sussies and parade myself at the social handing out shots ! A few years ago I’d have hid myself away, the words we use and the things we say are what makes us attractive and if we talk confident we look confident and that’s attractive "
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