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over a year ago
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Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously |
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously "
given a warning for going to the gym ? |
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"Given a warning because other people feel intimidated by me fuck if a seen a spider I would be the first 1 to burn the place down lol "
Surely this isn’t right and you can put in some sort of grievance? If you’re not doing anything wrong of course
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously "
I'm struggling to believe this post. If it's true are you sure there's nothing more to it?
If not, then straight to HR and file a grievance against whoever issued this warning to you. |
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So let me get this right, your company or direct in line manager has given you a written warning for attending a gym out of working hours and the reason they are giving you is you are intimidating the other employees?
Well if its a large company go straight to HR and ask for a meeting with the HR manager asap.
If they stand by the decision then I would consider legal action.
However I don't know all the facts so I would be wrong to make any direct assumptions regarding your employer. |
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously
I'm struggling to believe this post. If it's true are you sure there's nothing more to it?
If not, then straight to HR and file a grievance against whoever issued this warning to you. "
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Nothing more well I wouldn't count on it as more I'll let you decide
2 month's ago there was a supervisor promotion in work I decided if you don't try you don't get so went for it passed the test ect there were 2 other guys who have been there a while and very popular ( I tend to keep to myself, and get the work done) they never got it and I don't know if that has something
Managment is fine with me so are a few other supervisors but it's mainly the workers |
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously
I'm struggling to believe this post. If it's true are you sure there's nothing more to it?
If not, then straight to HR and file a grievance against whoever issued this warning to you. "
Too far fetched |
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"Nothing more well I wouldn't count on it as more I'll let you decide
2 month's ago there was a supervisor promotion in work I decided if you don't try you don't get so went for it passed the test ect there were 2 other guys who have been there a while and very popular ( I tend to keep to myself, and get the work done) they never got it and I don't know if that has something
Managment is fine with me so are a few other supervisors but it's mainly the workers "
Have you officially been given a written warning from your manager that has been logged with the HR department or have you been told " you will be getting one" if you continue to go to the gym. |
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Can't help feel there is a lot more to this story than meets the eye. 1 post you're saying you keep yourself to yourself then the next you've just become a supervisor. Maybe it isn't your size that folk are intimidated by but rather your new position has gone to your head |
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All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But on your profile you put avarage not athletic?
Confused.com  "
You're also 5 ft 10, slightly above male average height.
Is it the size of your ego is intimidating people in the workplace! Remember with power comes great responsibility!!  |
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back "
I think there is a lot of clues in this post |
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back "
Nowt to do with your muscles or your ability to tear the yellow pages in half then. Folk don't like a grass!
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously
I'm struggling to believe this post. If it's true are you sure there's nothing more to it?
If not, then straight to HR and file a grievance against whoever issued this warning to you. "
Same.. how can anyone be warned about their size?? Nonsense.. and if its true do you even need to ask if its wrong?? |
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back
Nowt to do with your muscles or your ability to tear the yellow pages in half then. Folk don't like a grass!
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You'd be a fuckin nightmare to reign in at work if you decided you weren't in the mood! |
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back
Nowt to do with your muscles or your ability to tear the yellow pages in half then. Folk don't like a grass!
You'd be a fuckin nightmare to reign in at work if you decided you weren't in the mood!"
Who me? Or David Banner here? |
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back
Nowt to do with your muscles or your ability to tear the yellow pages in half then. Folk don't like a grass!
You'd be a fuckin nightmare to reign in at work if you decided you weren't in the mood!
Who me? Or David Banner here?"
Nah you!! Give me Bruce Banner any day!
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"All my new position added on was extra paperwork and to sort shifts out now and again and make sure everyone is doing there job by going to locations when there working making sure there not on there phones and if they are report back
Nowt to do with your muscles or your ability to tear the yellow pages in half then. Folk don't like a grass!
You'd be a fuckin nightmare to reign in at work if you decided you weren't in the mood!
Who me? Or David Banner here?
Nah you!! Give me Bruce Banner any day!
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oofft you wouldn't like her when she's angry  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could it be intimidating people in another way?
Also “verbal warnings” should have paperwork with them as well.... how else would they know if you were on a warning or not |
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So many questions and thoughts on this but I'll be as nice as I can...
You're 5'10 so not an intimidating height and you have your face (I'm assuming) as your profile picture and it's far from intimidating.
I'd say it's more behaviour than anything.
Also, look at me posts generally get you looks in a negative way.
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You dont actuslly say who gave you this warning , what your job is, what industry it is , what you mean by checking out others are doing their jobs lots of ducking and diving and proclaiming of innocence etc. It is a hard story to believe but im not coming out and saying yer telling porkies till i know more facts. You say its a verbal warning, were you taken into a room and with a witness and documented, given a formal verbal warning , or was it a daft we comment warning by a collegue that we all here about at work , "ooh stay away from him hes trouble etc." Give me some facts as requested ay start of my post and will happily give my advice if still interested.  |
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"Just wondering I go to the gym A lot before work, always make work in time and put in more effort than anyone else and been promoted more than most for the time I've been there (1.5 year) now my work is either young (18-23) or older (40+) now I've just been given a warning because I go to the gym before work and my size has started to intimidate some staff, about me I'm one of the most laid back people you could ever meet always help people I often sacrifice myself so other have time off when people call in sick I come in when people are late I stay on
Question is was this justified or is it jealously "
A verbal warning can only be issued following a disciplinary meeting in which you were formally invited to attend and given the opportunity to take a work colleague or trade union representative with you
I think you have just had a little friendly nod to adjust your behaviour not an actual warning
But as I don’t know all the facts I could be well off the mark |
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Discretion, self aware? Its out the window here sometimes,experiencing work problems, i know,i will put my face on a swingers site and tell hundreds of people about it all,aye that'll reduce your stress levels,
What is this? |
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Dark Side of the moon, you been on the mescalin?
The lunatic is on the grass
The lunatic is on the grass
Remembering games and daisy chains and laughs
Got to keep the loonies on the path
The lunatic is in the hall
The lunatics are in my hall
The paper holds their folded faces to the floor
And every day the paper boy brings more
And if the dam breaks open many years too soon
And if there is no room upon the hill
And if your head explodes with dark forebodings too
I'll see you on the dark side of the moon
The lunatic is in my head
The lunatic is in my head
You raise the blade, you make the change
You re-arrange me 'til I'm sane
You lock the door
And throw away the key
There's someone in my head but it's not me
And if the cloud bursts, thunder in your ear
You shout and no one seems to hear
And if the band you're in starts playing different tunes
I'll see you on the dark side of the moon
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In the process you have pissed them off.
