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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre

Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

"

No.

There would be no purpose in life, no goals, nothing to strive for. Self-improvement whether through study, exercise or just general life experience is what makes and keeps life interesting. If you'd already achieved all there was to achieve then what would be the point in anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No...as doggy said.

You always need somethig to aim for.something to get you up in the morning.there is no such thing as perfect anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No... It would be a backward step for me..

I think it's the imperfections that make people interesting..

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"No...as doggy said.

You always need somethig to aim for.something to get you up in the morning.there is no such thing as perfect anyway.

"

Very good point , but , are we not all aiming for perfection in everything we do ? Food for thought maybe. Im offering you the option of achieving this and you say you dont want it. See the conundrum.

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

"

Like Mary Poppins or a Stepford wife?. No thanks. Quite happy to be a dizzy blonde who makes mistakes and learns something new everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No...as doggy said.

You always need somethig to aim for.something to get you up in the morning.there is no such thing as perfect anyway.

Very good point , but , are we not all aiming for perfection in everything we do ? Food for thought maybe. Im offering you the option of achieving this and you say you dont want it. See the conundrum. "

I'm not. Individuality that's what make the world go round.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

"

Define perfect?

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By *ictiiWitchCouple  over a year ago

Helensburgh

Yes, I would like to be perfect, but perfect is subjective.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"No...as doggy said.

You always need somethig to aim for.something to get you up in the morning.there is no such thing as perfect anyway.

Very good point , but , are we not all aiming for perfection in everything we do ? Food for thought maybe. Im offering you the option of achieving this and you say you dont want it. See the conundrum. I'm not. Individuality that's what make the world go round. "

So what are you aiming for, baking a cake as long as the cake tastes ok but a bit dry in the middle it will do. ? Or do you want a great taste and just the right spongy texture. Doing your job or exceeding in your job. ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

Define perfect? "

Not you

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different."

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol. "

Would you want to be?

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge

No because all the fun things in life are in the imperfections

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative."

We never argue, theres no point

MSD already thinks shes feckin perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.

We never argue, theres no point

MSD already thinks shes feckin perfect.

"

She'd fucking have to be putting up with you!

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative."

theres a study been done to prove that folk are predisposed to be rich or poor in most cases folk who start poor and get money still end up poor as they cant handle wealth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.theres a study been done to prove that folk are predisposed to be rich or poor in most cases folk who start poor and get money still end up poor as they cant handle wealth"

I could easily believe that.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol.

Would you want to be?"

Oh feck yeah . To make the right choice every time , make the best cakes, never miss a shot at snooker, golf , tennis. Hell yeah id be feckin loaded , popular as feck , rich and have hot chicks chasing after me all day long. Oh hold on yeah being perfect is a bummer lol.

Unfortunately its just a hypothetical question lol.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.

We never argue, theres no point

MSD already thinks shes feckin perfect.

She'd fucking have to be putting up with you!"

Lmao. Feck you

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.theres a study been done to prove that folk are predisposed to be rich or poor in most cases folk who start poor and get money still end up poor as they cant handle wealth"

Dont think any study would be a reliable outcome. Its like my question , define rich and poor. No money could still be rich in happiness and family, wealthy in money could be miserable in life. Ive came from a poor background but know winning the lottery would set up my family and grandkids for life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

"

Define perfect ? It doesn’t exist there’s no such thing as perfection it doesn’t exist the word perfect is infinite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

Define perfect ? It doesn’t exist there’s no such thing as perfection it doesn’t exist the word perfect is infinite "

Agreed.

perfect

adjective

/'p??f?kt/

1.

having all the required or desirable elements, qualities, or characteristics; as good as it is possible to be.

"life certainly isn't perfect at the moment"

synonyms:ideal, model, without fault, faultless, flawless, consummate, quintessential, exemplary, best, best-example, ultimate, copybook

"there is no such thing as the perfect family"

superb, exquisite, superlative, excellent, wonderful, marvellous, beautiful, sublime, magnificent, idyllic, blissful, utopian;

unrivalled, unequalled, matchless, unparalleled, beyond compare, without equal, second to none, too good to be true, unmatched, incomparable, nonpareil, peerless, inimitable, unexcelled, unsurpassed, unsurpassable;

informalout of this world, terrific, fantastic, fabulous, great, super, heavenly, glorious, gorgeous, stellar, divine, phenomenal, sensational, dreamy, fab, fabby, fantabulous, awesome, to die for, magic, ace;

informalbrilliant, brill, bosting;

rareunexampled, indefectible

"it was a perfect holiday"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol.

Would you want to be?

Oh feck yeah . To make the right choice every time , make the best cakes, never miss a shot at snooker, golf , tennis. Hell yeah id be feckin loaded , popular as feck , rich and have hot chicks chasing after me all day long. Oh hold on yeah being perfect is a bummer lol.

Unfortunately its just a hypothetical question lol. "

why would you be popular tho? Nobody likes a smartass so if you were perfect nobody would like you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In danger of sounding all Zen here but I believe if you can accept you for all that you are then perfection is more a state of mind than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol.

Would you want to be?

Oh feck yeah . To make the right choice every time , make the best cakes, never miss a shot at snooker, golf , tennis. Hell yeah id be feckin loaded , popular as feck , rich and have hot chicks chasing after me all day long. Oh hold on yeah being perfect is a bummer lol.

Unfortunately its just a hypothetical question lol. why would you be popular tho? Nobody likes a smartass so if you were perfect nobody would like you "

The "fekin loaded" and "rich " would almost certainly help with the popularity side I'm sure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think you'd be bloody miserable if you were perfect, no one would be able to live up to your perfect standards.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

Define perfect ? It doesn’t exist there’s no such thing as perfection it doesn’t exist the word perfect is infinite "

Try telling that to MSD lol.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"My great cake prob won't be the same as Mary berry great cake.see what I mean?

Everyone's perfect is different.

I understand , for the sake of debate i had to challenge yer view lol.

Would you want to be?

Oh feck yeah . To make the right choice every time , make the best cakes, never miss a shot at snooker, golf , tennis. Hell yeah id be feckin loaded , popular as feck , rich and have hot chicks chasing after me all day long. Oh hold on yeah being perfect is a bummer lol.

Unfortunately its just a hypothetical question lol. why would you be popular tho? Nobody likes a smartass so if you were perfect nobody would like you "

Who said you need to be perfect for that to happen lol

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"I think you'd be bloody miserable if you were perfect, no one would be able to live up to your perfect standards. "

Have you met my wife ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think you'd be bloody miserable if you were perfect, no one would be able to live up to your perfect standards.

Have you met my wife ? "

Yep, Wednesdays!

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"I think you'd be bloody miserable if you were perfect, no one would be able to live up to your perfect standards.

Have you met my wife ?

Yep, Wednesdays! "

This was discussed in "sas who dares wins" thread , all about your preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

"

In who's eyes!

There is no such think as perfect everyone idea is different. One man/woman's perfect is an others. Just as ones kink is another's norm!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

In who's eyes!

There is no such think as perfect everyone idea is different. One man/woman's perfect is an others. Just as ones kink is another's norm!"

And if you where perfect what would be the point in living

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By *nvercoupleCouple  over a year ago

Inverness

It is impossible to be perfect. Because perfection in itself is flawed.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"It is impossible to be perfect. Because perfection in itself is flawed. "

Plz explain xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lived all my 53 yrs beeing imperfect so doubt id want go change that now lol

Dont think there is such a thing as perfect in every aspect of your life tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think you'd be bloody miserable if you were perfect, no one would be able to live up to your perfect standards.

Have you met my wife ?

Yep, Wednesdays!

This was discussed in "sas who dares wins" thread , all about your preferences. "

Yeah I said. Chocolate hobnobs!

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By *vbride1963TV/TS  over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

Wouldn’t like to be perfect just better at something’s like make up .

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

In who's eyes!

There is no such think as perfect everyone idea is different. One man/woman's perfect is an others. Just as ones kink is another's norm!"

Is a maximum break of 155 in snooker not perfection, ? You cant get higher so has to be perfection.

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.theres a study been done to prove that folk are predisposed to be rich or poor in most cases folk who start poor and get money still end up poor as they cant handle wealth

Dont think any study would be a reliable outcome. Its like my question , define rich and poor. No money could still be rich in happiness and family, wealthy in money could be miserable in life. Ive came from a poor background but know winning the lottery would set up my family and grandkids for life. "

the study was on monetary value.

Rhey looked at familys that always maintain richness and folk from poor backgrounds that get rich quick (lottery winners) most return to poor even though they say pretty much what you have just said.

The point of the studies was there is no rich or poor only can and cant handle money

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Heres a wee fun one , will take a little thought though.

Its a yes or no with reasoning behind your answer.

Would you like to be perfect ?

In who's eyes!

There is no such think as perfect everyone idea is different. One man/woman's perfect is an others. Just as ones kink is another's norm!

Is a maximum break of 155 in snooker not perfection, ? You cant get higher so has to be perfection. "

Ask the opposing player!

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By *rs She DevilWoman  over a year ago

Blantyre


"It's a bit like the folk who win the lottery and end up more fucking miserable than before.

Also why I'm cynical of folk who say they never argue or have a disagreement with their partner. You need someone who challenges you, questions your decisions occasionally and wants you to be the best version of yourself. Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

And one person's idea of perfect could be another's imperfect. It's all relative.

We never argue, theres no point

MSD already thinks shes feckin perfect.

"

I beg your pardon. I don't think, I KNOW! As you have found out over the last 32 years. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good enough is good enough for me

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin

What’s perfect to one is not to another ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. Imperfections are a part of life and its okay to strive to do better but if we're already perfect then there's no drive to better ourselves, if that makes sense

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By *stonDBS2Man  over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

No, anyone ever worked alongside a perfection,,ist for example? Drive yi nuts !!

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre


"No, anyone ever worked alongside a perfection,,ist for example? Drive yi nuts !! "

You should try decorating a room while living with one, holy crap.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


" ... Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

."

Isn’t that the function the forum mods play (regularly) with you!!

I’m sure they have a cut and paste message for you “calm the fuck down... go and sit on the naughty step!”

Having said that... it’s been a while. You must be due one soon!

A tenner* for anyone brave enough to try to get a rise...!

*ten ‘imaginary’ pounds.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hello people any hot woman about for some fun I have pics in private

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

.

Isn’t that the function the forum mods play (regularly) with you!!

I’m sure they have a cut and paste message for you “calm the fuck down... go and sit on the naughty step!”

Having said that... it’s been a while. You must be due one soon!

A tenner* for anyone brave enough to try to get a rise...!

*ten ‘imaginary’ pounds. "

I'm just sitting here polishing my halo, day dreaming about albie polishing my ring

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By *andsCouple  over a year ago

Edin


"Hello people any hot woman about for some fun I have pics in private"

Random

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Hello people any hot woman about for some fun I have pics in private"

Hi. Congrats on your first post... unfortunately it’s a bit off topic. You could try posting it in the meets/events forum, but to be honest you’re unlikely to stick out there. Try getting involved in some other chats first, and then the ‘hot women’ can find out a bit more about you and what makes you tick.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline


" ... Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

.

Isn’t that the function the forum mods play (regularly) with you!!

I’m sure they have a cut and paste message for you “calm the fuck down... go and sit on the naughty step!”

Having said that... it’s been a while. You must be due one soon!

A tenner* for anyone brave enough to try to get a rise...!

*ten ‘imaginary’ pounds.

I'm just sitting here polishing my halo, day dreaming about albie polishing my ring "

Haha. Your halo is at the wrong end for him!

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By *ola cubesMan  over a year ago

coatbridge


" ... Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

.

Isn’t that the function the forum mods play (regularly) with you!!

I’m sure they have a cut and paste message for you “calm the fuck down... go and sit on the naughty step!”

Having said that... it’s been a while. You must be due one soon!

A tenner* for anyone brave enough to try to get a rise...!

*ten ‘imaginary’ pounds.

I'm just sitting here polishing my halo, day dreaming about albie polishing my ring "

ffs will ya let his sock at least crust up before setting him off again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" ... Or in my case someone who tells me to calm the fuck down

.

Isn’t that the function the forum mods play (regularly) with you!!

I’m sure they have a cut and paste message for you “calm the fuck down... go and sit on the naughty step!”

Having said that... it’s been a while. You must be due one soon!

A tenner* for anyone brave enough to try to get a rise...!

*ten ‘imaginary’ pounds.

I'm just sitting here polishing my halo, day dreaming about albie polishing my ring ffs will ya let his sock at least crust up before setting him off again "

#albiescrustysock

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By *ictiiWitchCouple  over a year ago

Helensburgh

The funny thing is, that imperfection is perfect

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. Pwrfect is for one persons objective view only and that would be a mess of a goal.Ir would be as if someone was pretending to be. You would never know them as genuine.

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By *izzmasterzeroMan  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Wouldn't perfect just be average in all areas of life? not too tall but not too short, average intelligence so not to be too dumb but also nobody likes a know it all. Perfection could only ever be your own personal opinion in which case you would be full of yourself therefore off-putting for everyone else.

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By *e Devil OP   Man  over a year ago

Blantyre

Ok so the votes are in.

98% dont want to be perfect

1% want to be perfect (me)

And 1% think they ARE perfect, MSD

Just a bit of fun thx for all taking part and comments.

Tommorow a very serious topic for discussion and debate. Should provoke lots of differing opinions so have your keyboards at the ready. HD

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