I (Mr) have been on the giving and receiving end. Mostly giving though.
- Done a married women without her husband's knowledge. [True definition of a cuckold]
- Doing a married woman with her husband's knowledge (although he doesn't want to know details).
- Done women with their partners watching.
- Done women with their partners joining in.
All of these are a thrill. But to begin with, I wasn't really turned on by the fact it was another guy's wife. It's only after reading up on this stuff that I found it exciting and a thrill. And one of the first ones was more like an affair than anything adult set/swinger related, so was more complicated.
Anyway, on the receiving end (although technically not cuckold, since we're not married lol):
- Have had my girlfriend visit guys, with my knowledge. Usually this would be when I'm busy with another woman elsewhere having my fun.
- Have had MMF threesomes. (usually arising from the other guy's false promises of bringing a woman along. So better than no meet.)
- Have done couple Swaps.
- Have watched my girlfriend get fucked by another guy(s), with me having zero-to-minimal interference. [cuckold]
I only really consider the last one real cuckold experiences. The others are just swinging/open sexual-relationship things. This was also a thrill. (One or two of these were with my girlfriend just watching - she didn't find it a thrill. So I guess it's a guy thing.)
So I guess that'd make me a Cuck and a Bull. Although I'm not into all the other stuff like dressing like a sissy, being locked up, cleaning up etc.
Maybe I'm odd. But I just find it a turn on, a woman that I know intimately for years enjoying herself with another man, watching it from the 3rd person. A mindfuck at first, the first time we went to an adult party together, and she ended up getting gangbanged, I didn't know what to think, I thought she'd leave me for a 'superior guy'. But as I got to know her, I realised this would never happen. You know what I think, it's the knowing that in the 'real world', something like this would have serious repercussions. In this isolated bubble you can experience something as radical as this, shake hands at the end 'thanks mate, for doing my wife.', then go back into the real world.
I think the cuckold non-active "watching" role is such that the cuck can see that the two lovers are engrossed in each other, as it would be if your partner were having a real affair. If he gets involved in any dominant position (even if just a blow job), then it renders the situation more like any old MMF threesome.
So it's listed as one of our "interests" (to give or receive - can't really see it working out in the giving sense, unless I were to meet a couple on my own). But it's not our raison d'etre, we'd much rather meet another couple, with the comforting knowledge that some guy is doing my girlfriend, while I'm doing his partner.
The other aspect is that it's educational. You can watch and pick up tips from the way other guys treat your lady. So I'm always asking for feedback "Did you like it when he did that? Oh you want me to do more of that..."  |
Jayne x
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