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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chat then swap face pics then a public place social and if we fancy more then it's a sex meet.
Too old for 1st sex meets anymore! Way too many nutters about these days.
Don't like it.dont meet me.
Simple. |
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"Chat then swap face pics then a public place social and if we fancy more then it's a sex meet.
Too old for 1st sex meets anymore! Way too many nutters about these days.
Don't like it.dont meet me.
Simple."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always best to have a social meet first to ensure social and physical attraction, always concerning people who are happy to play immediately"
Agree with this especially safety as a single woman on her own x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand that for some people both meets need to be separated, for me, when I meet, I meet for social but I'm open to make the social become a sexual meet, is not meet-fuck-go thing, is like having a social meet and the sexual meet with no time in-between |
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On 2 occassions my coffee meets have ended up in the bedroom. I am not a child and know within 10mins whether i want to sleep with the person i have met. My coffee meets are planned after weeks of chat so i usually feel as if i know them well before we meet. Spontaneous sex for me is usually more exciting than pre planned sex. |
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"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "
Social meet is a must, even after a face pic!
Got to have a connection on top of attraction! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "
Basicly most guys will shag anything given the chance! You have every right to ask for a social first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with asking for a social first in my eyes. I'd rather have a social, see if the attraction is there before jumping in. I've done it without socials before and it's made for awkward chemistry... Nah! Never again lol - Kitty x |
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"Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind  x
Naked and spin the bottle is good "
Still haven't had a chance for a rematch!! |
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"Never know for sure if I fancy someone until I meet them. So yeah, definitely social first. Might get naked on the same night mind x
Naked and spin the bottle is good
Still haven't had a chance for a rematch!! "
We havent been around much lately but hoping to rectify that, kettles on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I swap face pics then if we're both happy move on to social meet. In this day and age it's also a security thing for me. If I get a bad vibe or there's no click it goes no further but I'm up front about that to the person . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a new member of the site I would definitely want to meet socially and get to know anyone before taking it further. I was supposed to meet a couple last night but from the word go my gut instinct was screaming at me, from the initial contact up until the meet was supposed to happen absolutely nothing felt right. No pics, private or public.From the initial contact up to a message asking me to get a cab very late last night there was total silence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a social meet first makes me feel a little safer
However most men don't care and very often have let me down cause they ain't getting what they want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it impossible to create an impression with a first message and tbh most pictures aren't a true representation of said person, I prefer to meet face to face socially at a location of the females choosing just so they are in control of the situation and can choose to leave without being in a strange place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "
actually prefer a first - no sex meet to be honest, would rather meet for a chat, coffee and laugh and then if both happy, arrange a further meet for fun
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By *rMrsWTFCouple
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong with asking for a social first in my eyes. I'd rather have a social, see if the attraction is there before jumping in. I've done it without socials before and it's made for awkward chemistry... Nah! Never again lol - Kitty x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it impossible to create an impression with a first message and tbh most pictures aren't a true representation of said person, I prefer to meet face to face socially at a location of the females choosing just so they are in control of the situation and can choose to leave without being in a strange place"
Absolutely, that's the way it should always be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually really like social meets first, i think they are important as like said before there needs to a click, an attraction and a social meet is the best way to do this
Not to say a social meet if it goes well can't end in a wee snog lol but first meet social if lucky for a second meet them who knows
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it best to make sure we are both clear on what is expected when a social meet is arranged.. Basically, I expect a good cup/pot of tea, decent conversation and a lot of laughs... No expectation of anything physical... If it happens then great... If not that's good too... |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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I have to admit that many of my 1st Meets ended up in the sack. However I do enjoy a wee Social too. More important these days as the site has a few I wouldn’t let over the moat at Random Towers. |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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Prefer a social... it may turn into something else, but I've been down the road of someone turning up at my door and not being like the pics they sent... who then went in a huff because I turned them down |
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"So is it wrong to ask a fella for one of these 1st if no attraction i would not be doing sex anyone agree.I have had plenty 1st meets and moved to more fun later ongoing but sum not for me no offence but fellas way i c it is if u want me make an effort dont say yes then no show just be honest say no just want sex think there are too many females doing it 1st meet good for you but i know sex site but cum on "
Not wrong at all, I require the same, not all are gonna get motor running, some can say all the right things on here but when you meet there’s nothing there. Not gonna shag cozyouve agreed to meet and I find it frustrating that some (not all) think because your on here the gagging for it by anyone. Sorry for a wee rant x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to everyone for their replies sum fellas get huffy cause i ask for social first. "
social meet is always good to see if there is anything attractive then the playing can progress further x |
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