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over a year ago
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after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts?? |
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??"
id say your right moat guys dont have much self value they just run around trying to be likeable |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??id say your right moat guys dont have much self value they just run around trying to be likeable"
Kola, as always, your input is invaluable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yup guys are just as down on themselves if not more so cause they can’t buy sexy underwear like we can or make up to make them feel better ! Well they can but that’s a whole different ball game |
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!"
Sorry but this is my go to type however I rarely pull my type lol these days I’m all about the comfort factor in and out the bedroom |
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!
Janet ya wee beauty I'm glad to be back
I’ve been laying low too! Good to see you here x"
I've been creeping about
Still here |
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!
Sorry but this is my go to type however I rarely pull my type lol these days I’m all about the comfort factor in and out the bedroom "
My tastes have adapted as I’ve got older. It’s not just about the body. I like the whole package. And yes, feeling so comfortable with someone that you lose all inhibitions is the best scenario. |
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"Yup guys are just as down on themselves if not more so cause they can’t buy sexy underwear like we can or make up to make them feel better ! Well they can but that’s a whole different ball game "
Bigger guys . Slightly rougher is the way to go!!! |
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!
Sorry but this is my go to type however I rarely pull my type lol these days I’m all about the comfort factor in and out the bedroom
My tastes have adapted as I’ve got older. It’s not just about the body. I like the whole package. And yes, feeling so comfortable with someone that you lose all inhibitions is the best scenario."
Yup agree and person I'm question hasn't got a clue how good I'll be to him haha  |
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!
Sorry but this is my go to type however I rarely pull my type lol these days I’m all about the comfort factor in and out the bedroom
My tastes have adapted as I’ve got older. It’s not just about the body. I like the whole package. And yes, feeling so comfortable with someone that you lose all inhibitions is the best scenario.
Yup agree and person I'm question hasn't got a clue how good I'll be to him haha "
The man is a fool!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Welcome back Ann x
Dad bods all the way!!!
Buff with muscles and no hair is just wrong to me!
Sorry but this is my go to type however I rarely pull my type lol these days I’m all about the comfort factor in and out the bedroom
My tastes have adapted as I’ve got older. It’s not just about the body. I like the whole package. And yes, feeling so comfortable with someone that you lose all inhibitions is the best scenario.
Yup agree and person I'm question hasn't got a clue how good I'll be to him haha
The man is a fool!!!"
He won't be much longer  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont want to sound shallow but i prefer toned men. Tall, big shoulders and a flatter chest than mine. "
Blue he is
But just has that look
And I love the toned guys but this ones a beauty lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??"
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??"
Like women we have body issues as well.lol
Personally I keep getting told I have a good body I'm not muscular in anyway even though I do train a lot. But I still find it hard to accept women find me good looking |
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
Like women we have body issues as well.lol
Personally I keep getting told I have a good body I'm not muscular in anyway even though I do train a lot. But I still find it hard to accept women find me good looking"
You certainly look mighty fine to me.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
Like women we have body issues as well.lol
Personally I keep getting told I have a good body I'm not muscular in anyway even though I do train a lot. But I still find it hard to accept women find me good looking
You certainly look mighty fine to me.x"
Well it's amazing what a good suit does. Xx
And thanks for the compliment. |
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Horrible to say but I'm glad to hear that men can feel just as self conscious  it's reassuring actually.
I still love a dad bod. Looking forward to snuggling up to mine without the kids getting in the way soon 
V x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally."
It will sound easy for me to say as a female on here but someone only has the power if you give It to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive. |
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive. "
Women have insecurities too though & also receive disgusting messages!
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally."
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And vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive. "
Yeah Jack to be fair u have no idea and probably never will
The stuff I receive is horrendous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive.
Women have insecurities too though & also receive disgusting messages!
R "
I apologise, Reading back my comment maybe didn't make this clear I meant the difference is that woman receive more disgusting emails than men, this implication wasn't as clear as it could have been. I wasn't saying that woman don't have insecurities either.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive.
Yeah Jack to be fair u have no idea and probably never will
The stuff I receive is horrendous "
Actually Anne, I think any reasonable man, (and yes I do consider myself to be a reasonable man) can appreciate the amount of shite and abuse woman take on here.. But maybe I misunderstood the premise of your original point, that being do men find it difficult to accept that attractive woman find them desirable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just think again it’s what’s displayed as desirable in the media etc. Guys all think women want buff muscular men.
I’m aiming to get to the toned category some point this year, defo dad bod at the moment!  |
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally.
It will sound easy for me to say as a female on here but someone only has the power if you give It to them. "
you stole my song sheet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??"
I think we can all be a bit like this to be honest though middle aged guys may have it a wee bit harder than most.
I've lost count of the number of messages I've had, perfectly polite, and when I've explained that they're not what I'm looking for they've became overly apologetic, "so sorry for bothering you...." You didn't bother me, you're allowed to send a message to anyone on here assuming you're not blocked or filtered out. It's as though they're apologising for existing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally.
It will sound easy for me to say as a female on here but someone only has the power if you give It to them. you stole my song sheet "
Equal rights for ugly men! (Fist pumps!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
I think we can all be a bit like this to be honest though middle aged guys may have it a wee bit harder than most.
I've lost count of the number of messages I've had, perfectly polite, and when I've explained that they're not what I'm looking for they've became overly apologetic, "so sorry for bothering you...." You didn't bother me, you're allowed to send a message to anyone on here assuming you're not blocked or filtered out. It's as though they're apologising for existing."
Overly apologetic I get... But a sincere sorry for bothering you, surely is better than, "you're a cantankerous auld boot and I didnae want you anyway."... . (not saying you're auld or a boot. Mucker. ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Aye, but what I meant was they're not bothering me....and any one who replied with "go away and don't bother me" after an initial polite message should be told to fucking do one!
Unless of course it's the umpteenth fucking message in which case they're becoming more irritating than my thrush. |
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"Aye, but what I meant was they're not bothering me....and any one who replied with "go away and don't bother me" after an initial polite message should be told to fucking do one!
Unless of course it's the umpteenth fucking message in which case they're becoming more irritating than my thrush. "
On this we are agreed... Now take yer teeth oot my arse and put them back in the glass of steradent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aye, but what I meant was they're not bothering me....and any one who replied with "go away and don't bother me" after an initial polite message should be told to fucking do one!
Unless of course it's the umpteenth fucking message in which case they're becoming more irritating than my thrush.
On this we are agreed... Now take yer teeth oot my arse and put them back in the glass of steradent. "
....next to the Canestan |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think I have a fair idea about the messages women get having read a few. Some guys on here seem to think it's reasonable to talk to women like trash. It's a wonder they get anything outside of here.lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Aye, but what I meant was they're not bothering me....and any one who replied with "go away and don't bother me" after an initial polite message should be told to fucking do one!
Unless of course it's the umpteenth fucking message in which case they're becoming more irritating than my thrush.
On this we are agreed... Now take yer teeth oot my arse and put them back in the glass of steradent.
....next to the Canestan "
Hahahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oooh ladies the guy i work with daily
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Is Jason's momaoas double .and i do mean literally
He's as gay as the day is long but my god what's fine specimen of a man haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oooh ladies the guy i work with daily
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Is Jason's momaoas double .and i do mean literally
He's as gay as the day is long but my god what's fine specimen of a man haha "
Details this I have to see lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some gorgeous men (and the ladies of course) on this thread.
I love a dad bod.
I do like to fancy someone and while looks do obviously come in to it (have to have that spark too) it is a personality thing. Sexy messages can be awful with the wrong tone. |
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"Oooh ladies the guy i work with daily
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Is Jason's momaoas double .and i do mean literally
He's as gay as the day is long but my god what's fine specimen of a man haha "
Can we team up to try and "turn" him over to the dark side |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best dad bod goes to Jason mamoa
Oh, he's delicious
Damn, if he’s classed as dad bod then I’m screwed.  or not as the case may be  "
Are you a Dad? ....and you have a bod....there you go...you have something in common with him. |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Best dad bod goes to Jason mamoa
Oh, he's delicious
Damn, if he’s classed as dad bod then I’m screwed. or not as the case may be
Are you a Dad? ....and you have a bod....there you go...you have something in common with him."
Lol. Yes, that’s where the similarities stop I’m afraid. (Talk about media setting impossible standards. No wonder we’re all prone to insecurities.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best dad bod goes to Jason mamoa
Oh, he's delicious
Damn, if he’s classed as dad bod then I’m screwed. or not as the case may be
Are you a Dad? ....and you have a bod....there you go...you have something in common with him.
Lol. Yes, that’s where the similarities stop I’m afraid. (Talk about media setting impossible standards. No wonder we’re all prone to insecurities.)"
He's a freak of nature. Just something to be admired rather than aspire to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"after a wee break I'm back
Anyway I'm really being pulled to the guys with the "Dad bods"
All the toned guys out there I'm a major fan But the dad bod bowls me over every time
But 1 guy on here has turned my head and he seems to thing I'm "at it "
Are men built this way just assuming they are not desirable???
Thoughts??
If you regularly get rejected then yeah you start assuming people are taking the piss when someone shows an interest. A lot of women on here seem to enjoy having the power to toy with men mentally."
"The power"!! Seriously?
Why would you give a toss what anyone on a sex site whom you don't know personally and has no input in your life thinks of you never mind "toy" with you mentally?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep got the dads bod and granddads age lol Think its about not taking it too seriously and if anything happens then good luck, not so much about putting ourselves down, maybe just more realists |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I have some extra weight
I know I will never be what my recommended weight is supposed to be (although I don't believe in some of those scales andnlogic they use)
I know I'm curvy all I can do is try to lose and keep of a little weight
It's just not easy sometimes
And it and this place and life well it plays with your head sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well another gym sesh done in the eternal battle towards a smaller belly lol
This better be worth it lol"
(Closes eyes)....Aye....you're a dead ringer for big Jason already |
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"Well another gym sesh done in the eternal battle towards a smaller belly lol
This better be worth it lol
(Closes eyes)....Aye....you're a dead ringer for big Jason already "
Seems there is hope after all lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nice to see Anne and Janet posting again x
Hope your target/victim/hottie sees this thread Anne and sees sense to take your advances seriously  "
Me too lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oooh ladies the guy i work with daily
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Is Jason's momaoas double .and i do mean literally
He's as gay as the day is long but my god what's fine specimen of a man haha
Can we team up to try and "turn" him over to the dark side "
I've tried for years ..he isn't having it haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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...it can be intimidating actually, can't it. A guy messaged me recently and he looked like he'd been sculpted from fucking marble. Had to stop myself simply replying "Dafuq?" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"...it can be intimidating actually, can't it. A guy messaged me recently and he looked like he'd been sculpted from fucking marble. Had to stop myself simply replying "Dafuq?""
Yeah I get that....as a very active firm non gym goer yes it can be intimidating lol |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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Is annoying the dad bod thing. As I train every day at least 30 minutes but feck I like a good munch. Also the guys at the gym over at the weights posing and chatting, giving me looks for sweating over everything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is annoying the dad bod thing. As I train every day at least 30 minutes but feck I like a good munch. Also the guys at the gym over at the weights posing and chatting, giving me looks for sweating over everything. "
Och, they do that with everyone. Fuck 'em! |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"Is annoying the dad bod thing. As I train every day at least 30 minutes but feck I like a good munch. Also the guys at the gym over at the weights posing and chatting, giving me looks for sweating over everything.
Och, they do that with everyone. Fuck 'em!"
You can fuck ‘em. I’ll continue winding them up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And can I please get in on the Jason Mamoa action!
He's a big boy....more than enough to go round
You are talking from experience?"
You think I'd be fannying about on here if I was riding by Jason like a spacehopper??? |
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"And can I please get in on the Jason Mamoa action!
He's a big boy....more than enough to go round
You are talking from experience?
You think I'd be fannying about on here if I was riding by Jason like a spacehopper??? "
Hahahahahahaha
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"And can I please get in on the Nekked Jack action!
Od course.. Anytime you want.
You behave
I always (Mis)behave.. And it was you that said it.  "
Hmmm. Plagiarism. Putting all my comments via turnitin in future! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy I work with is all chuffed wi himself haha....says 10 of us ladies could try and he Wouldn't be for shifting haha
Ffs....geez a shot anyway "
All the guys are changing there profile to "GAY" and are gonna post "ten woman come ands try and shift me".... Not me though... Thought would never enter my head. |
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive. "
I've been cancelled on because my date's found a better option. On more than one occasion (2 to be exact, thankfully it's not the story of my life). Definitely no ego boost, but in the end - they can fuck the fuck off and I'm glad i found out what arseholes they are before wasting more time on them (that's what I keep telling myself anyways to preserve that last little bit of self esteem) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And can I please get in on the Nekked Jack action!
Od course.. Anytime you want.
You behave
I always (Mis)behave.. And it was you that said it.
Hmmm. Plagiarism. Putting all my comments via turnitin in future!"
Aww.. Janet... You're a spoilsport... Plagiarism is another form of flattery... |
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive.
I've been cancelled on because my date's found a better option. On more than one occasion (2 to be exact, thankfully it's not the story of my life). Definitely no ego boost, but in the end - they can fuck the fuck off and I'm glad i found out what arseholes they are before wasting more time on them (that's what I keep telling myself anyways to preserve that last little bit of self esteem) x"
Absolutely.. There are some unbelievable stories on here.. |
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"Guy I work with is all chuffed wi himself haha....says 10 of us ladies could try and he Wouldn't be for shifting haha
Ffs....geez a shot anyway
All the guys are changing there profile to "GAY" and are gonna post "ten woman come ands try and shift me".... Not me though... Thought would never enter my head. "
Aw haha I've just chinned him making sure that's not his angle
Nah he isny havin it
Sorry ladies but my big 6 foot 5 Jason Momoa lookalike colleagues is not taking us on haha |
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"And can I please get in on the Nekked Jack action!
Od course.. Anytime you want.
You behave
I always (Mis)behave.. And it was you that said it.
Hmmm. Plagiarism. Putting all my comments via turnitin in future!
Aww.. Janet... You're a spoilsport... Plagiarism is another form of flattery... "
And you’d know all about flattery  |
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"Guy I work with is all chuffed wi himself haha....says 10 of us ladies could try and he Wouldn't be for shifting haha
Ffs....geez a shot anyway
All the guys are changing there profile to "GAY" and are gonna post "ten woman come ands try and shift me".... Not me though... Thought would never enter my head.
Aw haha I've just chinned him making sure that's not his angle
Nah he isny havin it
Sorry ladies but my big 6 foot 5 Jason Momoa lookalike colleagues is not taking us on haha "
That's pish. I should have asked Santa for a boabie |
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"And can I please get in on the Nekked Jack action!
Od course.. Anytime you want.
You behave
I always (Mis)behave.. And it was you that said it.
Hmmm. Plagiarism. Putting all my comments via turnitin in future!
Aww.. Janet... You're a spoilsport... Plagiarism is another form of flattery...
And you’d know all about flattery "
Well they say flattery and funny will get you anywhere... But that's bullshit... I tried both on a travel agent... I never got to the Bahamas. |
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having a gym fit body on here with a six pack and muscles doesn’t mean to say you’ll have more luck. i think majority of women are also insecure with men like that. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"having a gym fit body on here with a six pack and muscles doesn’t mean to say you’ll have more luck. i think majority of women are also insecure with men like that. "
I think you are prob right |
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive.
I've been cancelled on because my date's found a better option. On more than one occasion (2 to be exact, thankfully it's not the story of my life). Definitely no ego boost, but in the end - they can fuck the fuck off and I'm glad i found out what arseholes they are before wasting more time on them (that's what I keep telling myself anyways to preserve that last little bit of self esteem) x"
You look great in your pics why the he'll would they cancel on you.? |
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"Rejection, arranging meets only to be ditched because "someone better" has become free and finding out because they left each other verifications....
Why does it surprise people that men on here would have insecurities? I'd say the male experience on here only differs in the amount of disgusting messages they receive.
I've been cancelled on because my date's found a better option. On more than one occasion (2 to be exact, thankfully it's not the story of my life). Definitely no ego boost, but in the end - they can fuck the fuck off and I'm glad i found out what arseholes they are before wasting more time on them (that's what I keep telling myself anyways to preserve that last little bit of self esteem) x"
I've been called all the fat names when I've just said hello and I'm promptly told (for want of a better term) #### off ya fat ####er, wouldn't even if last on earth
Sometimes that's even followed my a blocking (probably incase I reply OK no problem lol),
Never gonna change, can mess with your head and it does mine but hey ho just look to the future andshout the magic word..... Next!!!
Lol mind you didn't prevent me for another lunch time spin class sweating like a fat kid in greggs where all the have left is vegan sausage roll |
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So my body is not perfect but hey i will still go to the gym and walks. Also for the people who don't like this that is there opinion. I have only had no thanks not my type. Not much i can do about that but my dad body is a work in progress. I just hope ppl grow up and not be abusive. |
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"So my body is not perfect but hey i will still go to the gym and walks. Also for the people who don't like this that is there opinion. I have only had no thanks not my type. Not much i can do about that but my dad body is a work in progress. I just hope ppl grow up and not be abusive. "
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"The gym fit guys scare me.
If I can get over the fact they actually might fancy me then all is good. "
exactly my point of women like you being incecure. |
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"So my body is not perfect but hey i will still go to the gym and walks. Also for the people who don't like this that is there opinion. I have only had no thanks not my type. Not much i can do about that but my dad body is a work in progress. I just hope ppl grow up and not be abusive. "
i’de have thought your body type would attract most women on here. so they don’t want gym fit, and they don’t want dad bods either, well wtf do they want. i know...bbc hah. save that for another topic shall we. |
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"The gym fit guys scare me.
If I can get over the fact they actually might fancy me then all is good.
exactly my point of women like you being incecure."
Yes I am insecure.
Getting there though. |
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"Tbh i don't think it is down to just body type. Its alot to do with personality aswell and think some guys forget this."
1st impressions are mostly based on looks, not personalities. |
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"Good looking guy, shit chat and crap first message
Vs
Average guy with decent patter and funny, original message
Mr Average wins every time."
are you basing this analogy on an initial introductory message ? |
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"Good looking guy, shit chat and crap first message
Vs
Average guy with decent patter and funny, original message
Mr Average wins every time."
I think that’s where I struggle, I can’t do decent patter on someone I don’t really know, everyone takes patter differently  |
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Yes.
Obviously face to face physical attraction will always be the first thing that registers. But I get bored quite quickly so after that initial "Oooooft!" I'm looking for a wee bit more. |
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"Yes.
Obviously face to face physical attraction will always be the first thing that registers. But I get bored quite quickly so after that initial "Oooooft!" I'm looking for a wee bit more."
Sorry cupidjock that was for you |
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By *argaidMan
over a year ago
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Yup, nice to see Anne back again...
Xmas has seriously added my body this year. Don't think I can get my gear on for the Rocky Horror Night. Still, one of these days (once the tax return is done maybe) I'll find the time to do some exercise again. It's not for what other folk think of me, though, it's just to feel fitter for me. |
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