"I agree but I have been getting many messages in there by ladies who use Fab but no messages from them in here,and with very different profiles, lol "
well im sure the profiles would be very diffrent considering ones a dating site and onew a swinging site  |
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"I agree but I have been getting many messages in there by ladies who use Fab but no messages from them in here,and with very different profiles, lol "
Maybe because what they're looking for on pof is different to what they're looking for here? A swinging site profile should be very different to a dating site profile.... |
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over a year ago
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Good question and I think I know where you are heading with this. The profiles tend to be looking for proper dating, romance and future long term relationships but when I get the messages they are looking for meets which is fine by me.Think its just another way of looking for folk else where or maybe looking for meets until they do find true romance etc . |
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"Oh i agree about the different profiles but at the end of the day they are looking for the same thing as on fab which is ok by me lol"
Are they?
On here they looking for casual meets...
Other site looking for something more than that I would imagine..
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over a year ago
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i use both sites, and generally have better meets from the other. Simply because the guys try to pretend their interested in a bottle of wine / dvd before the sex |
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I see POF as more a dating site, where people hope to meet Mr/Mrs right but some use it just for a leg over.
I see Fabs as a swinging site, where people hope to meet like minded people for sex and friendship but some use it to find their Mr or Mrs right.
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over a year ago
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Yeah I use POF and went out with a girl I met there for a few months. It's great, I find lots of women get in touch with me there, no women ever initiate anything on here with me. |
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I joined POF long before joining here. Sent many messages to men who either ignored me or told me I was a fat/ugly/undatable munter.
When I joined here the same men messaged me and couldnt work out why I said feck off.
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"I see POF as more a dating site, where people hope to meet Mr/Mrs right but some use it just for a leg over.
I see Fabs as a swinging site, where people hope to meet like minded people for sex and friendship but some use it to find their Mr or Mrs right.
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Oh, took the words right out my mouth!  |
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I had more fun on pof and yes a lot of people are just looking for nsa fun.
I met 2 guys on pof, the first one I met a couple of times and is lovely, gave me the address for fab. The second guy I now see and we are a couple on here!
Still have my single profile to keep in touch with friends in case anyone is wondering.
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I got blocked from sending messages to certain females because I mailed a few that were looking for intimate encounters. I wasn't even looking for an intimate encounter, THEY WERE!
Technically I was looking for an intimate encounter, but i was using it for romantic dating, which I also want.
Sorry for being a human being with feelings POF but you can go stick your site and all your fake profiles up your arse. It's not as bad as zoosk though, at least some of the profiles are real and you don't have to give your credit card details out. |
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I too use both sites and find it much easier to talk with the girls on there maybe its because theres a clearer face pic of me on there which was rejected on this site POF is lots of fun but Fab will be far better its difficult to get chatting on here but just makes me more determained to be part of it |
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over a year ago
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nice to see u have learned to post tommt lol.
I to have a profile on both sites , have not had much interaction with people from pof but did date one guy for three months before coming on here the first time, would say many messages i recieve on both sites are very similar, and i think its human nature to want to be loved as well as fucked, in which ever order it comes in. |
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I'm on both as well. Obviously for different reasons. I've actually made some lovely friends from both but the friends I made on pof are not of the sexy times variety. I love chat and I get more of that on pof.
Both have their advantages and disadvantages, both have genuinely lovely people and wasters. But then, you get that anywhere. |
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What pisses me off is that you see many people on both this site and POF and they are obviously looking for casual or else they wouldn't be on here. Yet their POF profiles state not looking for Intimate Encounter or must have not messaged users for sex. I find such deception and hypocritical profiles such a turn off |
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"What pisses me off is that you see many people on both this site and POF and they are obviously looking for casual or else they wouldn't be on here. Yet their POF profiles state not looking for Intimate Encounter or must have not messaged users for sex. I find such deception and hypocritical profiles such a turn off"
actually, it cuts down the
wanna suck my cock, or fancy a fuck messages that you get on POF, just cause your looking for casual sex doesnt mean you want a one line message and for someone to not even want to know your name before whipping it out and shoving it in ya  |
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"I see POF as more a dating site, where people hope to meet Mr/Mrs right but some use it just for a leg over.
I see Fabs as a swinging site, where people hope to meet like minded people for sex and friendship but some use it to find their Mr or Mrs right.
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tbh, i use every free site there is out there, never know where the next meet will be from, hardly ever meet any of them twice either |
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"What pisses me off is that you see many people on both this site and POF and they are obviously looking for casual or else they wouldn't be on here. Yet their POF profiles state not looking for Intimate Encounter or must have not messaged users for sex. I find such deception and hypocritical profiles such a turn off"
It's not deception or hypocrisy it's using the sites in the way they are meant. POF is for finding Mr Right. FAB is for finding Mr Right Now. |
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Those fuckers put up fake profiles when you join and use it to vet you or try and get you to pay. Second time it's happened to me there, first day this woman emails me and we get chatting and arrange a meet on saturday. Then silence, so I'm getting a bit suspicious, and so I message her again today, she replies. An hour later the profile gets deleted..
It's not fucking on this, playing with peoples lives man, building up peoples hopes.
Nope, still don't like that place. |
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"Those fuckers put up fake profiles when you join and use it to vet you or try and get you to pay. Second time it's happened to me there, first day this woman emails me and we get chatting and arrange a meet on saturday. Then silence, so I'm getting a bit suspicious, and so I message her again today, she replies. An hour later the profile gets deleted..
It's not fucking on this, playing with peoples lives man, building up peoples hopes.
Nope, still don't like that place."
jesus sounds exactly just like here lol |
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"jesus sounds exactly just like here lol
Really?
Haven't experienced that, i think there are lots of fakes but not from the site itself!"
oh give it time your the first man to say they havent had a timewaster on here but im sure u will |
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"jesus sounds exactly just like here lol
Really?
Haven't experienced that, i think there are lots of fakes but not from the site itself!
oh give it time your the first man to say they havent had a timewaster on here but im sure u will "
Oh don't worry still got some time left in my life lol
Just annoyed that they are doing this that's all, if that's what they are doing, which I think they are.
I know zoosk do that. Joined there once and within 5 minutes miss blonde hair and blue eyes was sending me a message, only in order to read it I had to part with my credit card numbers... |
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"jesus sounds exactly just like here lol
Really?
Haven't experienced that, i think there are lots of fakes but not from the site itself!
oh give it time your the first man to say they havent had a timewaster on here but im sure u will
Oh don't worry still got some time left in my life lol
Just annoyed that they are doing this that's all, if that's what they are doing, which I think they are.
I know zoosk do that. Joined there once and within 5 minutes miss blonde hair and blue eyes was sending me a message, only in order to read it I had to part with my credit card numbers..."
well im sure your able to spot them then altho some do slip thro the radar now and again . |
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"Those fuckers put up fake profiles when you join and use it to vet you or try and get you to pay. Second time it's happened to me there, first day this woman emails me and we get chatting and arrange a meet on saturday. Then silence, so I'm getting a bit suspicious, and so I message her again today, she replies. An hour later the profile gets deleted..
It's not fucking on this, playing with peoples lives man, building up peoples hopes.
Nope, still don't like that place."
pof is a free site though? you don't have to pay to read or send mail. |
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"pof is a free site though? you don't have to pay to read or send mail. "
It's the same as here, you get extra privelages if you pay. Maybe not getting spammed by fake accounts is one of them, who knows... |
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over a year ago
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POF is used for allsorts in the choices you can choose ,intimate encounters/hangout /activity partner/friends/ dating with no commitment ect or go for the full blown looking for marriage catagories .Just depends on how people want to seperate their lives I suppose.
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"What pisses me off is that you see many people on both this site and POF and they are obviously looking for casual or else they wouldn't be on here. Yet their POF profiles state not looking for Intimate Encounter or must have not messaged users for sex. I find such deception and hypocritical profiles such a turn off"
Perhaps they are looking - as Laine rightly said - for Mr Right on POF, dont want to use FAB for the wrong reasons but are happy to have casual fun until he comes along - cant see how thats deceptive or hypocritical - unless you think that if you're looking for a relationship you shouldnt have sex in the meantime??  |
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Not at all, just because you're single does not mean you have to take a vow of celibacy, I have a profile on POF and I have met a lady off there, and we did have several casual sexual meets, but neither of our profiles state No Intimate Encounters or must Not Have Messages Users For Sex. Those that do are rather misleading. In my eyes thats double standards |
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Yeah I use Pof. I'm single and would love to be in a relationship. I wouldn't say that I was a full swinger on it cause I think that might put them off or perhaps might turn them on who knows.
If I found someone great on fab then I would be happy but Pof is a dating site of course. |
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"Not at all, just because you're single does not mean you have to take a vow of celibacy, I have a profile on POF and I have met a lady off there, and we did have several casual sexual meets, but neither of our profiles state No Intimate Encounters or must Not Have Messages Users For Sex. Those that do are rather misleading. In my eyes thats double standards"
Then I would say they're obviously using POF for one thing and FAB for another - why not? |
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Well what if you met your ideal partner on POF, how would you explain that you enjoy swinging as a pastime? I wouldn't know how, or would be uncomfortable in case of a bad reaction.
Mind you, it seems a lot of people of POF aren't too fussed about dating, only I have not had a date off there for a while.
But I have had 3 FAB meets in the last couple of months despite the gents outnumbering the ladies by a large margin. Seems that casual is the new thing lol  |
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