After a long and lengthy discussion on mon and more through the week and finally after sis in law put her bit in on everything the ex and me are going to take things slow but. Get back together starting now and will be doing everything possible to get help for my stepdaughter and her violence toward me or any of her moms Male friends but mainly me ..
She is now 19 with her own flat but used her universal credit to do with what she wants and not paying anything !!!
I have never given up on our marriage and love for each other and hoped eventually it would shine bright and she would see, how my wife is treated by Daughter is criminal and only way to describe it is abisive and the fact my dkcter describes her actions towards us has left us with PTSD or me having been battered over the years reaching double digits,
Not without blame I also had problems with alcohol and we clashed many times but never when I was d*unk ,
Professional help and support from friends and family will be there and whatever happens my home will never be opened to her again and not for many a year ...
I’ve been of booze nearly a year and feeling more rejuvenated than ever with support going both ways , and I’m sure ot won’t be long until we’re back as a couple on here and hopefully abroad for holidays
The Mrs took a lot of stick and has been drained 50%of life , stoped using make up or dressing and she will be back as fit as ever,, and mostly I’m looking forward to seeing my families faces when a fit and healthy worshiped wife of mine can put her zip into her step ‘!!!!
She said if this what I want why am I so scared ,I replied everything in the last year has been ripped from you by her and a man you met that makes my drink problems seem like to much at the tea party and his control over you mad then after what he promised to just kick you to the kirb ??And your convinced when you let your hands down around hear it will be taken again , but your strong now and my support we can live our lives agajn ??????xxx |
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