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Married People on Site Why just not say
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"Have you considered the amount of married women on the site also. Secondly how do you know someone is married? " | |||
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"very true and i agree with you it is easy to find out if single or married .. The married guys usually trip them self's up not wanting to meet in public place xxx" We're very married, we both meet singles and we have no problem meeting in a public place 
We'll assume this is aimed at married people who are posing as single people.
We get more than our fair share of those too, both male and female. | |||
"why don't you block guys and then you do the work and select the ones you want, if you can spot them.... should be easy." you talk so much sence these days  | |||
"why don't you block guys and then you do the work and select the ones you want, if you can spot them.... should be easy. you talk so much sence these days "it's only fleeting, never lasts long  | |||
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"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x "What about those that dont want to use thier home for privacy....so dont and wont accom at home what about those who cant accom as they have flatmates what about those who have kids at home so cant accom the list is enless..... | |||
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"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x " snap xx
We politely ask why they can't accom and there's never a simple explanation, instead it's some big story along the lines of a dinosaur ate my house Psml
I think you can find out by the conversations, I find married guys playing away to be more pushy, and married girls to be more open and honest (Only my opinion though, not fact) xx | |||
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"not on High horse just so fed up with crap on Fab x I got targeted the other nite on Fab for a lot of abuse from someone i think was married that i rightly knocked back there problem not mine but still felt the need to be so nasty x "in cases like this report profile and block them...let admin deal with them...keyboard warriers amazing how hard ppl become behind a pc.... | |||
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"i named and shamed them right away i sayed they where nasty bit of an understatement to be honest .. And you know what Fab blocked me from the Forum for 48hrs very good of them i think x " of course as every site has a name n shame policy....its in the site rules....but the report button and letting admin deal with these ppl is the only way to deal with the issue.... | |||
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"How many married people are there on Fab pretending to be single.. It just makes it really boring having to say no all the time because no matter what you put on your Profile as in No Married Men you still have to field all messages you get cozz 70% are from Married guy's pushing there Luck .. Please tell me im not the only one getting fed up with it Mistery Girl x "hey yep i agree i had 1 guy who was married i found out frm a fem friend and asked him he sayd yea then found out whilst hes been playing on site his wife is pregnant!! was very disgustd needless to say hes now joined my block list!! | |||
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"I am married and play on my own, but then again my wife knows i do... Greig" really Grieg and i thought this was our secret | |||
"i named and shamed them right away i sayed they where nasty bit of an understatement to be honest .. And you know what Fab blocked me from the Forum for 48hrs very good of them i think x " yeah unforunatly blockd fr tellin the truth eh xxx | |||
"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x "this from a person who can't accomodate either so does that mean that you and i are both attached as well ??? | |||
"i named and shamed them right away i sayed they where nasty bit of an understatement to be honest .. And you know what Fab blocked me from the Forum for 48hrs very good of them i think x yeah unforunatly blockd fr tellin the truth eh xxx "not evryone tells the truth thou....he says she says...ppl in the huff....bitchyness....3 sides to every story....sorry laura....its not about the truth....its about sticking to the rules and naming and shaming will never work..... | |||
"i named and shamed them right away i sayed they where nasty bit of an understatement to be honest .. And you know what Fab blocked me from the Forum for 48hrs very good of them i think x yeah unforunatly blockd fr tellin the truth eh xxx "The truth as told by who tho ? always remember 3 sides to a story your side their side and somewhere in the middle lies the truth ...naming and shaming is one rule of the site and every one knows that | |||
"i named and shamed them right away i sayed they where nasty bit of an understatement to be honest .. And you know what Fab blocked me from the Forum for 48hrs very good of them i think x yeah unforunatly blockd fr tellin the truth eh xxx
The truth as told by who tho ? always remember 3 sides to a story your side their side and somewhere in the middle lies the truth ...naming and shaming is one rule of the site and every one knows that "exactly jacs !! | |||
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"honesty is always the best to go.But i also respect that it eliminates me from a number of people. And yes you do get odd abuse but then again im not going to try and justify myself to strangers. If i got chatting to someone then i may disclose if they wished. Im ot hurting my wife or anyone else as i have been very honest to everyone." if you are honest and up front about it it leaves them with the choice to meet or not - is that not the best way | |||
"I am a single guy, happy to meet in a public place, usually best so the people I am meeting have space to run away, hehe. I had cannot accommodate on my profile for a long time only because there no option of "won't accommdate". Jim "This really annoys me more than married men and thats guys that wont meet at theirs, Ive been given a varity of reasons like, I dont want the neighbours to know, my family might call and I dont want them to know or the kids might just call round. Dont you think we women have the same issues yet if we didnt accomdate where would that leave us. Nothing personal in what I say Jim, I dont know your reason for not accommodating but in general it really annoys | |||
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"not on High horse just so fed up with crap on Fab x x "nobody said you got to use fab, cant take the heat stay out of the kitchen as they say | |||
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"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x "You dont accommodate! Are you married? | |||
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"I REALLY HATE cheating and if you have ever been hurt or cheated on then why on earth would you accept or want to have fun with someone doing that to another person. However i do know two single men who play because there partners are severely disabled and unable to have any sex, 1 knows and the other is late stages of Alzheimers. So i understand there reason's for being here. Id still find it hard to meet them. "The only thing I can control is making the choice over whether I cheat on my partner, in doing that my conscience is clear. We feel it is none of our business to pry into someone's reasons for being on here, male or female. What we won't entertain is meeting someone on their own who have a couples profile regardless of whether they have permission. This might seem like a double standard but we wouldn't be comfortable doing it. We keep our swinging and vanilla worlds totally separate. | |||
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"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x
You dont accommodate!
Are you married?"lol, a very valid point. | |||
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"i must admit since i joined i have always told who ever i msg in my first msg that im married. i know i mite be in the minority but dont see point not saying so far had no luck but mainly because i can only do daytimes be truthful guys "It's on my profile, as long as people read it they should be well aware of my marital status. I'm not particularly proud of it, but I feel I have valid reasons, if anyone doesn't like I will not take any offence. I'd prefer to be honest with anyone I meet, lying is too difficult and complicated. | |||
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"hiya the big give away is can't accommodate usually for me it is any way and have usually been right on it so far x "Thats a little unfair.... some people cant accom for various reasons. I myself share a 3 bedroom house with another guy and a couple and a good friend of mine can't due to her kids! | |||
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"i think for some people the problem is that its cheating they can have fun with someone as long as they are open about it and that there partner has there full consent. the thing is a lot of people have been cheated on and dont like the thought of doing it to others. " It's exactly that Kola and well said. How would you feel if someone did that to you? I have been cheated on multiple time sadly and each time it hurts more and more. I would just hate for any other person to have to go through that. Yes it is a Swinging site but for us personally when we meet b=people we like to have a attraction, chemistry, good fun and chat.I (s) coulg not have that with someone who feels it's acceptable to lie and cheat on there partner. | |||
" never thought of it that way its the principle silly me i understand what you mean but what dif does it make to the sex as that what we are all here for even the ones that say here just to chat never got that too its a SEX site.mibi its just me and i need to rethink what the site is about." Have you ever been lied to and cheated on? | |||
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"Its a good give away when a single guy says he cant accomodate and you ask why , some great excuses lol followed by (blocked)" See above posts as that was discussed.... | |||
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"from someone thats unknowing have met a married man then the wife calls my number wanting to know who the hell i am? Its not nice beleive me.i agree everyones on here for diffrent reasons but let the guy/ woman make that choice to meet you knowing the facts. Auds x "Ive had this done to me too Auds guy told me he was single but it turned out he was very much attatched and i had the Gf text and call me constantly and every now and again she pops on here with a fly by nite profile and has a go here too. | |||
