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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now, on my profile picture it shows a distinguishing Mark and i wonder how i would feel if someone from the site recongised it and tactfully aprroached me if i was out ,
So how would others feel if this happened to them especially if they where recongised through there pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely by making it so prominent on your profile you're in some way hoping to be recognised?
Personally I don't post anything that makes me recognisable to ensure that never happens. Not everyone is discreet and respectful, my private life and Fab are separate and I'll strive to keep it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now, on my profile picture it shows a distinguishing Mark and i wonder how i would feel if someone from the site recongised it and tactfully aprroached me if i was out ,
So how would others feel if this happened to them especially if they where recongised through there pictures "
Apparently I'm already known. Think I need to take my pic down.lol |
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I know we haven't put our pics up yet but its something we're always careful about when posting/sharing pics with people we don't know.
Twice I've recognised a couple when out and about as they had very prominent pics of tattoos on their profile.
I never said anything to them but if it was the other way about I think we would both be a bit creeped out if someone was pointing over to us saying "their on fab" or worse actually approaching us when out with the kids.
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over a year ago
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To be honest i don't recognise singles as swingers ( well the old definion off the word ) so really i'm not ashamed off being on the site so anything that people see off me is there as i want it to be there be that the pic already on profile or Facial pic ( which others have on so is that bringing attention to them or is that maybe away off saying i don't give a fuck who knows , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd hope if folk recognised me the would keep stoom
As I would them.
My private life is just that.
Private.this I know quite a few folk never felt the need to say anyrhing "
iv no idea why folk would say they recognised you? Other than to make you feel uncomfortable. |
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"To be honest i don't recognise singles as swingers ( well the old definion off the word ) so really i'm not ashamed off being on the site so anything that people see off me is there as i want it to be there be that the pic already on profile or Facial pic ( which others have on so is that bringing attention to them or is that maybe away off saying i don't give a fuck who knows , "
So are you saying that if you were classed as a "swinger" you would be ashamed....or that "swingers" should be ashamed in some way?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd hope if folk recognised me the would keep stoom
As I would them.
My private life is just that.
Private.this I know quite a few folk never felt the need to say anyrhing iv no idea why folk would say they recognised you? Other than to make you feel uncomfortable."
They are hoping you will jump at a quickie round the back of the newsagents.. After all it is a sex site they recognise you from (general you, not you personally)
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"I'd hope if folk recognised me the would keep stoom
As I would them.
My private life is just that.
Private.this I know quite a few folk never felt the need to say anyrhing iv no idea why folk would say they recognised you? Other than to make you feel uncomfortable."
maybe they think you would then think ....Wow your the man I've always wanted in my life ...talk dirty to me ya big 7ft hairy tattood beast...take me here and now on aisle 17 (dried goods and bakery products) of ASDA.
Other supermarkets are available. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd hope if folk recognised me the would keep stoom
As I would them.
My private life is just that.
Private.this I know quite a few folk never felt the need to say anyrhing iv no idea why folk would say they recognised you? Other than to make you feel uncomfortable.
maybe they think you would then think ....Wow your the man I've always wanted in my life ...talk dirty to me ya big 7ft hairy tattood beast...take me here and now on aisle 17 (dried goods and bakery products) of ASDA.
Other supermarkets are available."
youv tried that line on me twice now...it's not gonna work!! Lop |
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By *uietbloke67Man
over a year ago
outside your bedroom window ;-) |
"I'd hope if folk recognised me the would keep stoom
As I would them.
My private life is just that.
Private.this I know quite a few folk never felt the need to say anyrhing iv no idea why folk would say they recognised you? Other than to make you feel uncomfortable.
maybe they think you would then think ....Wow your the man I've always wanted in my life ...talk dirty to me ya big 7ft hairy tattood beast...take me here and now on aisle 17 (dried goods and bakery products) of ASDA.
Other supermarkets are available.youv tried that line on me twice now...it's not gonna work!! Lop"
Just twice  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest i don't recognise singles as swingers ( well the old definion off the word ) so really i'm not ashamed off being on the site so anything that people see off me is there as i want it to be there be that the pic already on profile or Facial pic ( which others have on so is that bringing attention to them or is that maybe away off saying i don't give a fuck who knows ,
So are you saying that if you were classed as a "swinger" you would be ashamed....or that "swingers" should be ashamed in some way? "
Ashamed could maybe to strong a word but what i am trying to get across is people are very defensive towards Swinging now that could consists off being a swinger or accused off being one. But now if you look at the LGBT is now accepted in society so maybe if more csme out off the closet it would be more accepted |
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"To be honest i don't recognise singles as swingers ( well the old definion off the word ) so really i'm not ashamed off being on the site so anything that people see off me is there as i want it to be there be that the pic already on profile or Facial pic ( which others have on so is that bringing attention to them or is that maybe away off saying i don't give a fuck who knows ,
So are you saying that if you were classed as a "swinger" you would be ashamed....or that "swingers" should be ashamed in some way? Ashamed could maybe to strong a word but what i am trying to get across is people are very defensive towards Swinging now that could consists off being a swinger or accused off being one. But now if you look at the LGBT is now accepted in society so maybe if more csme out off the closet it would be more accepted "
I do get your thinking, But there will always be judgmental people.
We recently deleted all our pics and vids off xhamster and are not going to share any naughty pics that we could be identified in.
Our kids are getting older now and the last thing we want is them being teased because theres a pic of there mum doing girl girl getting passed around.
There was a thread on here summer last year about a lady that had to move her children out of a school as her kids where being bullied over some porn clips she done.
So for us its not that we're ashamed at what we do its more just to keep our swinging and family life separate.
Mr
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