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Sugar coat or honesty is best policy.
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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So Mrs She Devil asks about different dresses for another of our xmas party nights , is it a yes or no. Modeling each one for me to decide , i give honest opinions on each in turn. Pointing out the ones that dont flatter her and why and the ones that look good on her, i also say why. After 32 years she still values my opinion as im ALWAYS honest good or bad as it may be .
Guys are you honest when asked, " how do i look in this dress" and ladies do you really want honesty or should we guys just lie through our teeth.
Serious question folks , im very interested in the feedback here.
If you think im wrong in my approach plz tell me and a reason why to help me understand.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being honest goes a long way, if you can lie about trivial things, how can you build trust. Being honest, at least folk will always know where they stand with you. Keep it real, like Ian Beale!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With things like this, honesty. Mr can be fucking brutal but some of the best compliments I've had on nights out over the years has been wearing stuff he preferred over another outfit. |
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Its not only about what it looks like as it needs to feel comfortable too. I go shopping alone so make up my own mind and dont feel as if i need a 2nd opinion. I know myself what looks good and what looks bad on me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say the same..I'd want my husband to be honest with me...well apart from if he ever told me I'd put on weight or anything 
Clothes wise tho yes I always ask his opinion and would hope he's telling me the truth.
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The problem with honesty is that no one likes it  half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John "
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe honesty is always best. Whether or not you have a filter is immaterial, it's about giving an opinion and we're all allowed to have one. I myself like to bring my honesty across in diplomatic and constructive way. It's not just about what you say, it's more about how you say it  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty has got to be Brutal in my opinion as it's better to be Cruel to be kind than lead the person to believe they look good in whatever, but mind in the long run it is only an opinion and these vary from people to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its not only about what it looks like as it needs to feel comfortable too. I go shopping alone so make up my own mind and dont feel as if i need a 2nd opinion. I know myself what looks good and what looks bad on me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some try to pass off honesty and having no filter is so they can get away with basically saying whatever they want to people just dosn't cut it.
I'd never say oh that looks awful more oh I prefare the other outfit or something like that. |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to "
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha.  |
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha. "
Don't get carried away...only a matter of time before you cock up again |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha.
Don't get carried away...only a matter of time before you cock up again "
Haha thx Doggy , now i remember what i like about you.
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha.
Don't get carried away...only a matter of time before you cock up again "
The worst situation is when you have to answer on only one choice . If you’ve seen two outfits you can say one is better than the other . If someone arrives at your door and says “ how do I look ? “ you have to think quickly of a suitable reply . I have a reputation of giving totally crap answers so am usually saved by someone saying it’s no use asking him . |
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"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha.
Don't get carried away...only a matter of time before you cock up again
Haha thx Doggy , now i remember what i like about you.
Nothing !! "
GIRUY xxxxxx |
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By *e Devil OP Man
over a year ago
Blantyre |
"The problem with honesty is that no one likes it half the reason most people hate me is because I've no filter and I'm to direct at the best of times
But I do enjoy watching other people sugar coat it sometimes
John
Choose wisely who you give your honesty to
Im actually surprised that most are saying im doing the right thing being honest. Surprised in a good way. The thing is if another female asked me , ie my sister or say a Fab meet for example i would not tell the truth if it would be a bad answer. I would say you look good no matter what as i would not know how much that person had been through getting their hair done or choosing that outfit etc so no way would i say anything negative , if asked . Thx for all the responses , good to know im doing the right thing for a change haha.
Don't get carried away...only a matter of time before you cock up again
Haha thx Doggy , now i remember what i like about you.
Nothing !!
GIRUY xxxxxx "
Whatever !!!
Ps had to google it. 
Im getting to old for this texting mallarky. |
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"Honestly always, if S tells me I look awful in something I would trust his judgement and change. We are always 100% honest and that’s how it should be."
Likewise. The outfit I had chosen in my mind is actually the one He Devil picked as the most flattering. I always value his honest critique. |
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