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Does it make him “gay”?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say bi/ bi curious.
He's definitely not straight. A straight guy getting aroused and turned on enough to get sucked off by another guy?? Nah don't think so. |
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over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous "
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x |
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over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x"
I like that  |
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"I would say bii leading towards gay ,here is another one if a straight guy fuckes a TV I would say that makes him gay Also"
Actually that's more leading towards 'pansexual' as a the binary terms of bisexual don't fit. Maybe pan-curious
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"Your 'mate' isn't 100% hetero but I don't think most people are. There's curiosity there but if you're not ready to label yourself something else then don't.
V x"
Very much this and I’m chuckling at some of the Neanderthal posts from others |
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"Hate how everything has to be put into boxes gay bi straight etc it's about what works for you at that given moment call it being fruity "
And so many nice juicy fruits to be enjoyed
Happy picking |
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Bisexual or doesn't give a fuck who sucks him 
I was chatting to someone who swapped mutual wanking with another guy.
I asked so does that turn you on, he said yes but swore he was straight.
Ah another fab straight guy  |
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"Bisexual or doesn't give a fuck who sucks him
I was chatting to someone who swapped mutual wanking with another guy.
I asked so does that turn you on, he said yes but swore he was straight.
Ah another fab straight guy "
Bi curious at the very least lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just don't get why guys are scared of admitting their bi
If you like it great! No shame
Just admit it and stop trying to justify your preference by saying your just adventurous? |
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As a straight, (not fab straight) guy, It seems to me quite a common thing, men who have sex with men, but don’t see themselves as gay as they’d never want a ‘relationship’ with a guy.
It’s only labels, but it would be best to say bisexual in this case.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's definitely bi curious. This brings me back to a previous thread not that long ago. I have a friend who likes TV'S, says he's straight but likes sucking cock. Never asked him about it but to me I think he's definitely bi sexual. Who cares really anyway? Each to their own, as long as you're having fun and playing safe x |
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No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person."
I hope your day gets better for you |
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person."
We are all human |
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person.
We are all human "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person."
defo loads of post have been started as to why chicks say avarage when they are clearly not?
But back to what the OP was asking.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x"
I like vegetarian sausage |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous "
see this is where the world makes no sense if your willing to have a sexual encounter with both sexes you are bisexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous see this is where the world makes no sense if your willing to have a sexual encounter with both sexes you are bisexual "
Skydiving makes you adventurous.
Sucking a cock if you're a man makes you bi-curious or bisexual in my mind. And no I don't give a fuck about labels before anyone jumps down my throat but the question was asked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x
I like vegetarian sausage "
Oh no. It needs to be meat for me.
Wait are we still talking about sausages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous "
Why does it matter? It's his business if he is or not, why do ppl have to be labelled all the time? If he's happy then fair play to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just had a similar conversation with a friend and she highlighted this thread funnily enough ,
Personally the curiosity has left town if you’ve cascaded a guys face ,but there’s a strange voyeur element in forum nowadays where there’s more interest in other people’s orgasms than their own , labels are for jars , if their playing safe and being upfront it’s absolutely nobody’s concern unless your planning to meet said person , , so if you play with someone and not 100% sure Keep it covered ..
Safe Danger Everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say bi/ bi curious.
He's definitely not straight. A straight guy getting aroused and turned on enough to get sucked off by another guy?? Nah don't think so. "
Never seen "Police Academy"? |
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Really don't understand why people feel that in 2018 people can't be honest in what sexuality they are!!
I've got gay/ transsexual/ bi/ TV.
Definitely don't put a label on them as they are my friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person.
I hope your day gets better for you "
I agree totally. And my days been fine |
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"My view is... Do we need to put a label on everyone?!
As long as 'He' knows what he likes and what he is looking for and is happy, so go him!
Not my place to label him  "
I dont think its labelling its fine for the person to seethemselves as they please the problem arises when they want folk to participate in an activity with them like it or lump it some dont want enxounters with folk who swing both ways |
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By *arahtvTV/TS
over a year ago
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i have to say tho a lot of guys have straight on their profile so they potentially can meet partners who say they’re not into bi
but the amount of mail, winks, friends invites etc i get from straight guys is unbelievable
we are all people
let’s just enjoy life to the fullest |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x"
This wins!
But seriously, definitely makes you 100% bumder |
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"Nice to see the 70s are still alive and kicking in Fab , sadly it’s not all Male, just mainly "
Yes thought we’d all gone back in a time machine. Guess probably a reflection of how far we’ve still goto go as a backward nation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I like honesty from
The people I have sex with I’m straight no bisexual tendencies whatsoever I don’t swing and prefer sexual partners who are also straight so yeah I’d prefer if a guy who enjoyed sucking another guy off or being sucked off by another guy or tv/tan to be honest and say he’s bi because he’s certainly not straight, where I find the only line is rather sketchy is where an individual is in transition and waiting for final stages of surgery and for all intense and purpose is identifying as female, if she’s introduced herself as being female and he isn’t actively looking for trans and is she is only giving him a bj and the genitalia are kept under wraps and not used for sexual attraction/play/curiosity then that’s where I struggle to say a guy would be bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say bii leading towards gay ,here is another one if a straight guy fuckes a TV I would say that makes him gay Also
Actually that's more leading towards 'pansexual' as a the binary terms of bisexual don't fit. Maybe pan-curious
V x"
Pansexual, I draw the line at shagging kitchenware! |
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"I would say bii leading towards gay ,here is another one if a straight guy fuckes a TV I would say that makes him gay Also
Actually that's more leading towards 'pansexual' as a the binary terms of bisexual don't fit. Maybe pan-curious
V x
Pansexual, I draw the line at shagging kitchenware!"
I'll tell the staff in lakeland then and see if they'll lift your ban 
V x |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x
I like vegetarian sausage "
...which is entirely different from a vegetarian’s sausage. Not sure what it means if you nibble on that! |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x
I like vegetarian sausage
...which is entirely different from a vegetarian’s sausage. Not sure what it means if you nibble on that!"
Just that you're very open minded about your sausages. Possibly a cannibal depending on how far the nibbling goes
V x |
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I have always said that you’ll fall in love with the person and not the gender BUT you’ll always have a preference.
I don’t like putting sexuality in a box because I firstly am not sure humans are meant to be monogamous, and secondly that sexuality is fluid.
I think I’m predominantly straight but as an example....
I promised to bring the fb pizza home last weekend but stayed out and missed the chippy so brought pussy home instead.
We all played and had fun. Everyone had something to eat and all was well with the world in the morning.
Not sure the point of r mural of the story other than do what feels good
As long as nobody gets hurt and everyone knows the score
Party on x |
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
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"No wonder this site a load eh shit. Typical scottish people.
If a woman called herself curvy would u all be debating if she's just actually fat lol.
It's funny also how a woman can consider herself str8 but the like the feel of a woman lol.
The site is full of judgemental ppl.
The negativity that's being displayed is outstanding fibbers if someone's gays straight or bi wot the fuck is that got to do with anyone else accept the person."
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"I would say bii leading towards gay ,here is another one if a straight guy fuckes a TV I would say that makes him gay Also
Actually that's more leading towards 'pansexual' as a the binary terms of bisexual don't fit. Maybe pan-curious
V x"
the problem with words like pansexual and omnisexual is everyone would have to agree on there being more than 2 (3 if you wont accept that hamaphrodites have a dominant gender and sex).
Infact when you start to look at these words why would they restrict to one species if they are all encompassing.
The more words you add the more complicated it gets.
The real peoblem is the negative folk seem to place on the words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say bii leading towards gay ,here is another one if a straight guy fuckes a TV I would say that makes him gay Also
Actually that's more leading towards 'pansexual' as a the binary terms of bisexual don't fit. Maybe pan-curious
V xthe problem with words like pansexual and omnisexual is everyone would have to agree on there being more than 2 (3 if you wont accept that hamaphrodites have a dominant gender and sex).
Infact when you start to look at these words why would they restrict to one species if they are all encompassing.
The more words you add the more complicated it gets.
The real peoblem is the negative folk seem to place on the words."
Ffs just say everyone has a preference. It cut all the bs out from the last 2 decades. Everyone like someone. |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
A vegetarian who eats a sausage is no longer a vegetarian x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men? |
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men? "
What is she then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men?
What is she then?"
She's exploring.
The fact that women seem encouraged to do this, yet for men it's almost frowned upon is crazy.
How do you know you like something until you try it?
And why does it even need a label?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men?
What is she then?
She's exploring.
The fact that women seem encouraged to do this, yet for men it's almost frowned upon is crazy.
How do you know you like something until you try it?
And why does it even need a label?
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Encouraged by who? |
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men? "
It's probably a lot to do with the porn industry. |
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men? "
there is a double standard i wouldnt say its the branding though.
Id say the double standard is a fem being bi is a wonderful thing to be encouraged and loved a male being bi seems to get vilified and seen as dirty.
Neither intrest me or bother me so cant understand it. |
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"There's such a double standard between men and women. I don't understand why.
If a girl experiments with another girl she's not instantly branded bi curious. Why are men? there is a double standard i wouldnt say its the branding though.
Id say the double standard is a fem being bi is a wonderful thing to be encouraged and loved a male being bi seems to get vilified and seen as dirty.
Neither intrest me or bother me so cant understand it."
Lol mr here, i love a blow job, i love mrs watching as i get sucked to completion, yes she enjoys this also, but what we do find is that it is a whole lot easier on the spur to get a blow job from a guy than a girl, turn up where ever , cock out , sucked and away again , its just easier at the moment, blow jobs a blow job, m or f doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Meh either Bi or got caught up in the moment during a mmf and one thing led to another, don’t tell me none of you have never been in a situation like that or closed your eyes and imagined someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All the guys that message offering me this would say/argue it doesn't make me gay or bi lol
But I suspect that's just a marketing technique they are using to try to get me to say yes please
Still not for me, but each to their own I say
If it's not hurting anyone then who cares what it makes you, half fun and enjoy life with or without labels
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Being gay or straight determines who you fall in love with, NOT who you have sexual contact with.
Being a bi-curious gentleman, if I have sex with a guy will I suddenly stop loving my wife? No, no I wont.
It's sad that in this day and age people still don't understand what the difference is between bi-curious, bi-sexual, gay and straight. |
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"I think you are only gay/bi if attracted to the same sex.
It sometimes has nothing to do with attraction it's just any holes a goal "
I agree with this. Someone I know who is constantly horny and sleeping with loads of women used to receive oral from my friend when there wasn’t a woman around he could sleep with.
In that case it was really sad because my friend was in love with him and he just saw it as any way he can get off, he’ll take it.
It was about sexual pleasure for him, not sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous "
What if he wants to identify as a tree??? |
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"Straight guys who get blown by a guy, does it make him gay in your view?
In mine, definitely not- just makes him horny and adventurous
What if he wants to identify as a tree??? "
He is a special snow flake and can be what ever he chooses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being gay or straight determines who you fall in love with, NOT who you have sexual contact with.
Being a bi-curious gentleman, if I have sex with a guy will I suddenly stop loving my wife? No, no I wont.
It's sad that in this day and age people still don't understand what the difference is between bi-curious, bi-sexual, gay and straight."
But that’s just your definition....... for me I have a whole other definition of what I believe bi curious and bisexual means.
For example, I identify as bisexual because I enjoy sex with women and I I’m sexually attracted to both sizes. However, I wouldn’t ever see myself in a relationship with a woman.
However the point I want to make is it doesn’t matter what any of our definitions are. Sexuality is a spectrum and everyone sits on there somewhere and it’s not for any of us to put a label on it.
Just love/suck/fuck whoever you like and enjoy every minute |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A bit off topic but Go Margaret.
‘Gender’s fashionable nonsense. Sex is real. I’ve no reason to feel ashamed of stating the truth. The bloody annoying ones are those who use words like ‘cis’ or ‘terf’ and other BS, and relegate biological women to a ‘subset’. Sorry you believe the mythology.’
https://blogs.spectator.co.uk/2019/02/why-are-the-police-stopping-a-74-year-old-tweeting-about-transgenderism/ |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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"A bit off topic but Go Margaret.
‘Gender’s fashionable nonsense. Sex is real. I’ve no reason to feel ashamed of stating the truth. The bloody annoying ones are those who use words like ‘cis’ or ‘terf’ and other BS, and relegate biological women to a ‘subset’. Sorry you believe the mythology.’
https://blogs.spectator.co.uk/2019/02/why-are-the-police-stopping-a-74-year-old-tweeting-about-transgenderism/"
Yeah you're right that is off topic.... Again |
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"Being gay or straight determines who you fall in love with, NOT who you have sexual contact with.
Being a bi-curious gentleman, if I have sex with a guy will I suddenly stop loving my wife? No, no I wont.
It's sad that in this day and age people still don't understand what the difference is between bi-curious, bi-sexual, gay and straight."
you should perhaps go and find out what the diffrences are because your so far off the mark its unreal.
It has nothing to do with love or the chuech so why you mentuon these ive no idea.
Its all to do with who you find sexually attractive and or stimulating. |
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"A bit off topic but Go Margaret.
‘Gender’s fashionable nonsense. Sex is real. I’ve no reason to feel ashamed of stating the truth. The bloody annoying ones are those who use words like ‘cis’ or ‘terf’ and other BS, and relegate biological women to a ‘subset’. Sorry you believe the mythology.’
https://blogs.spectator.co.uk/2019/02/why-are-the-police-stopping-a-74-year-old-tweeting-about-transgenderism/"
It is off topic, but I can’t let it go without challenge.
The “gender critical” ‘debate’ is little more than an opportunity for veiled transphobia.
As someone who was schooled during the bad old days of Section 28, this is just the same moral panic recycled with a new “baddie”.
Aside from the straw man arguments about access to bathrooms (proposed changes to the gender recognition act will have no impact on existing practice), transwoman using a public toilet is more likely to become a victim of violence than a perpetrator. Similarly in prison they are more likely to be a victim.
The arguments being made by the “gender critical” movement naturally lead to situations such as those reported where non-gender-conforming women are challenged about their “right” to be in female spaces. |
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