So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends) |
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Well obviously if you have been chatting to a female for an hour and she reads this then she obviously knows who you mean.
I'm not here for drama or hassle, any form of it, I just drop and move away.
Its up to you what you decide to do, depends on you as a person what you decide  |
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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I guess it also means that she knows exactly who you are therefore are you not both in the same boat?
The fact that you had no idea she was on fab tells you therefore this must be private for her the same as it is for most of us.
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Your status says you Love catching out wee dirtys cheating on there bfs...especially when the bfs are your pals! , we already know what your going to do. Im sure you dont need any advice on what to do.
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over a year ago
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So do you ask the good people of fab for their opinion before making most of your life decisions? Someone you know and you're straight on here blagging about it and posting statuses about it.
I hope she realises you're an arsehole before she does anything she regrets. |
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over a year ago
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It's none of your business
So leave it.
I'm sure your status let the chick know and is now sweating buckets for doing exactly what you are doing with being on here. |
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im sure it would trip me up momentarily,stumbling across someone i knew, smile to myself,then mutual respect and discretion kicks in and conclude there is no point in saying anything to anyone. |
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"Very few women would send a face pic first. Especially to someone unverified with no public pics. I think you have been dreaming."
Was thinking the same, but already been on the naughty step recently.
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Disappointed in the forum chatters - all this and there's no comment on the last line of the boy's profile??? 
Just to add another point to the many above I agree with, you've said you're not good friends with the boyfriend so how do you know she's cheating? Maybe they're just not exclusive yet? He might be on here too. Maybe this is where they met! So many things you don't know.
If you want to be a grown up, explain the situation to her and ask for some clarity if you want to. That's if she's not blocked you yet 
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"Disappointed in the forum chatters - all this and there's no comment on the last line of the boy's profile???
Just to add another point to the many above I agree with, you've said you're not good friends with the boyfriend so how do you know she's cheating? Maybe they're just not exclusive yet? He might be on here too. Maybe this is where they met! So many things you don't know.
If you want to be a grown up, explain the situation to her and ask for some clarity if you want to. That's if she's not blocked you yet
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Well said V x |
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"So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends)"
What ever happened to discretion! We have came across people we know and we have just said sorry not for us and left it and that to us is how it should be. you have just let everyone know you are not discreet and cant be trusted to keep your mouth shut! This site is about discretion end off....  |
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"So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends)What ever happened to discretion! We have came across people we know and we have just said sorry not for us and left it and that to us is how it should be. you have just let everyone know you are not discreet and cant be trusted to keep your mouth shut! This site is about discretion end off.... "
There are extremely few who practice discretion  |
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"Well obviously if you have been chatting to a female for an hour and she reads this then she obviously knows who you mean.
I'm not here for drama or hassle, any form of it, I just drop and move away.
Its up to you what you decide to do, depends on you as a person what you decide "
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"Your status says you Love catching out wee dirtys cheating on there bfs...especially when the bfs are your pals! , we already know what your going to do. Im sure you dont need any advice on what to do.
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To be fair , he did remove this status within about 1 minute of this post. Maybe he realised the errors of his ways.
Might be a good idea if he came back in and acknowledged that he had neither shown discretion or respect for the female by starting this thread. In my book everyone deserves a second chance and he is relatively a young guy. Im sure if it were a female she would not have been so harshly treated. To the OP your thread has shown zero discretion bud. Do the right thing and keep schtum with regards this female and maybe think more about what you post on a public forum. |
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"Your status says you Love catching out wee dirtys cheating on there bfs...especially when the bfs are your pals! , we already know what your going to do. Im sure you dont need any advice on what to do.
To be fair , he did remove this status within about 1 minute of this post. Maybe he realised the errors of his ways.
Might be a good idea if he came back in and acknowledged that he had neither shown discretion or respect for the female by starting this thread. In my book everyone deserves a second chance and he is relatively a young guy. Im sure if it were a female she would not have been so harshly treated. To the OP your thread has shown zero discretion bud. Do the right thing and keep schtum with regards this female and maybe think more about what you post on a public forum. "
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"It's none of your business
So leave it.
I'm sure your status let the chick know and is now sweating buckets for doing exactly what you are doing with being on here."
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"So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends)What ever happened to discretion! We have came across people we know and we have just said sorry not for us and left it and that to us is how it should be. you have just let everyone know you are not discreet and cant be trusted to keep your mouth shut! This site is about discretion end off.... "
see this is wrong discretion is about not letting everyone know you participate in sex with multiples or casual sex discretion is not about helping others too cheat and lie to a friend.
Aiding and abetting is not discretion  |
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"So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends)What ever happened to discretion! We have came across people we know and we have just said sorry not for us and left it and that to us is how it should be. you have just let everyone know you are not discreet and cant be trusted to keep your mouth shut! This site is about discretion end off.... see this is wrong discretion is about not letting everyone know you participate in sex with multiples or casual sex discretion is not about helping others too cheat and lie to a friend.
Aiding and abetting is not discretion "
Discretion takes all forms kola. For most on here discretion means having fun and or sex and not expecting people to blab about it to others. You would expect discretion from a female messaging your family your on here, thats your expected discretion. Others might be cheating and would expect the same discretion but with a partner. We all have our expectations but we ALL expect others to be discreet at ALL times regardless of our moral stand point. |
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We have said this a few times the diffrence is I didnt/dont tell my family and friends im only with them so it maybe embarresing to get caught but I didnt lie and decieve anyone thats a big diffrence |
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"We have said this a few times the diffrence is I didnt/dont tell my family and friends im only with them so it maybe embarresing to get caught but I didnt lie and decieve anyone thats a big diffrence"
Ok we both know we see that subject differently so lets bring it back on thread. Whats your advice for the OP kola. ? |
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"We have said this a few times the diffrence is I didnt/dont tell my family and friends im only with them so it maybe embarresing to get caught but I didnt lie and decieve anyone thats a big diffrence
Ok we both know we see that subject differently so lets bring it back on thread. Whats your advice for the OP kola. ?"
if its someone who is a friend then live by the sword die by the sword it could be a help to the person may help them correct their behaviour further down the line.
id also expect my friends to tell me if my partner was screwing about behind my back |
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"So, after chatting to a girl on here for an hour, she sent me pics. Imagine just how shocked i was that i know exactly who she is, AND she’s been going out with one of my mates for a few months now...do i tell him and start all that drama or let time tell and let her fuck up by herself?
(hes not my close close mate, we play footy and have the same group of friends)"
This guy isnt your close mate therfore you know very little about his relationship with this girl.
Perhaps they met on fab as singles!
Perhaps shes already told him about fab and hes cool with it !
Perhaps because its a new relationship that not a very serious one and thats why shes stll on here.
Op there could be a million and one reasons why the girl is here but thats none of your business so leave it be .
As for her her fucking it up herself you have no idea what would happen should you not so close mate find out for all you know he might want in on the action who knows but best leave it alone and be discrete at all times after all how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot and someone threatened to out you to family & friends ... food for thought Op |
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"We have said this a few times the diffrence is I didnt/dont tell my family and friends im only with them so it maybe embarresing to get caught but I didnt lie and decieve anyone thats a big diffrence
Ok we both know we see that subject differently so lets bring it back on thread. Whats your advice for the OP kola. ?if its someone who is a friend then live by the sword die by the sword it could be a help to the person may help them correct their behaviour further down the line.
id also expect my friends to tell me if my partner was screwing about behind my back"
Ok lets take this young mans scenario. What if his mate knows and they are in an open relationship, now the mate is stuck in a position where he sticks by his girlfriend as what she is doing is fine but all his mates think hes a doormat putting up with a cheating gf or he now has to dump her to save face and lose what he considers the perfect gf just because some mate had a moral duty to come and stick his nose into a situation he knows feck all about. And thats the key here kola, knowone knows what others are up to in there private lives so should not get involved. |
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How bout this theory, he has blurted it out to the whole football team, "hey lads im on the fabswingers site btw",and his team mate has told his gf to quickly set up a profile with the intention of locating him,just for the complete wind-up,see what he would say etc?
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"How bout this theory, he has blurted it out to the whole football team, "hey lads im on the fabswingers site btw",and his team mate has told his gf to quickly set up a profile with the intention of locating him,just for the complete wind-up,see what he would say etc?
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Laughed so hard I nearly peed little 
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OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
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"OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
UNLOS "
Were you never young and a bit stupid? |
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"OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
UNLOS
Were you never young and a bit stupid?"
Goes beyond stupid though, says the man with his face in his profile pic |
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"OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
UNLOS
Were you never young and a bit stupid?"
Off course I was, I’m not so young now but can’t say the stupidity ever goes away however, I have never broken discretion or trust either online or offline when it comes to something that is none of my business
Trust on here is paramount |
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"OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
UNLOS
Were you never young and a bit stupid?
Off course I was, I’m not so young now but can’t say the stupidity ever goes away however, I have never broken discretion or trust either online or offline when it comes to something that is none of my business
Trust on here is paramount "
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"OP
On posting this thread and highlighting your inability to remain discreet and blow what could be nothing out of the water has been your death knell in this site
Any chance you have of meeting anyone here has now disappeared.
Take some advice
UNLOS
Were you never young and a bit stupid?
Off course I was, I’m not so young now but can’t say the stupidity ever goes away however, I have never broken discretion or trust either online or offline when it comes to something that is none of my business
Trust on here is paramount
We only have your word for that "
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He’s not replied to any of your comments so I think he’s fantasising or doesn’t give a feck. He clearly knows that putting it on here the woman will most likely see it or by seeing his updates will know it’s about her. He seems to like the drama he’s caused or about to cause. It’s kinda like he’s (black-maling) had to spell it that way) her. |
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