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Arranged Socials - Do You Normally Have Fun Later
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those of you who like and have Arranged Socials - do You Normally Have Fun Later if arranging next meet.
As I'm quite a chatty guy and easy going n like a good giggle so I usually don't end up having fun in the future. I get on that well with most when they meet me that we stay chat friends. I know it's either I'm a munter and boring or just not for them.
Do you find you normally have fun with the same person as the social finishes or find you have fun at a later date or just stay friends  |
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Depends but we are lucky in the fact we know in advance when n where some socials will be so normally book a few apartments/rooms for ourselves and few others plus let a select few know where n when so they can book along with us so always something on afterwards depending how we feel
We either get the chance to kick back and relax or have fun depending on the mood since normally we've been that busy running around after everyone all evening
John  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I rarely have fun from big organised socials although the Ayrshire social was much more fun on that front and I have subsequently met him again. The ice breaker certainly worked for me that night.
My pub quizzes are quite good fun. They have led to fun at another time on several occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm more meaning the one to one socials or Cpl meeting one or cpl meeting cpl etc...,
Think the big socials I never intend to have sexy fun after I just see it as meeting new people or seeing some regular social goers again and having a laugh   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we don’t play on first meet so it’s social. We have met a few couples where the social didn’t lead to anything further. We haven’t managed to play with anyone new for a couple of years but have had quite a few socials which didn’t work out. |
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The majority of my socials have ended up with some pretty good kissing at the very least.
I’ve only had a couple of socials that have remained just that - and that’s been because of location/time.
There is never a firm plan for play, but I spend a lot of time chatting to potential meets so there’s usually a spark already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always just go with the flow and see how both of us get on with each other but I always have a coffee meet first. If both of us are attracted to each other maybe there might be some lovely kisses, then we'll arrange to see each other again x |
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I think even if there has been quite a bit of chat, and a meet isn’t billed as social, you still can’t really assume anything will happen, and both parties can still reserve the right to walk away.
I think all you can do is go with the flow, and also the location might play a part in it going any further. But having that ‘will it won’t it’ anticipation is all part of it I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some off my 1 to 1 socials in the early days used to lead to fun meets at a later date , but these days i only do coffee, chat socials if i get any at all up here , changed days |
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