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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If Going To A Big Social Do You Want People To Know Beforehand?
I have been too quite a few socials in the past and have met some fantastic people during the event but one thing that struck me is there's plenty of people I have met at a social but didn't know they were going or later read the forum post the next day and see people whom I didn't know were going and I missed them at the social.
So is there people who don't want anyone to know they are going?
I don't mind announcing that I'm going so people can write down their favourite post I made up and ask me how did I come up with such amazing posts 
So wits ur thoughts on this to social goers ? Andddddf if your going to the Xmas social yiu can say here   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you d*unk? Like seriously?
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Auch john see you 
There's some who didn't make it known at the Ayrshire and others socials
Maybe they wanna surprise us all except you n the mrs n pinup
Cause you all know whose going |
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I think socials are like every aspect of fab some will advertise they are going some will keep it private.
But if you miss people that is either because they are avoiding you or because you arent socialising enough to get round people and see them.
People treat fab and socials in all different ways there is no wrong or right. X |
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"I think socials are like every aspect of fab some will advertise they are going some will keep it private.
But if you miss people that is either because they are avoiding you or because you arent socialising enough to get round people and see them.
People treat fab and socials in all different ways there is no wrong or right. X"
Totally agree
The Ayrshire one and the last Glasgow one I was at were very busy and it would have been hard to get to be everyone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some people don’t like announcing their every move. I don’t like the way some socials down south publish the guest list on the forums
K x"
Yeah personally that's wrong.
I think the way it's fine here on your thread were people say they cannot wait is way better etc... |
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements."
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John "
I think most socials go well, sometimes there's a wee jealousy spat now and then but most people deal with it quickly and every social I've been at I've genuinely had a fantastic time so john I'll look forward to seeing you post your 39th social event that your organising |
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John "
I guess it must be difficult to keep everyone happy, and separated, if neccessary. Keep up the good work. Who knows, I might inflict myself on you one day! |
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John
I think most socials go well, sometimes there's a wee jealousy spat now and then but most people deal with it quickly and every social I've been at I've genuinely had a fantastic time so john I'll look forward to seeing you post your 39th social event that your organising "
Think I'm way past the 39th now
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John "
As it should be John |
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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John "
I think the way you guys organise these events is spot on - there will always be a few that would like it done differently however one thing you cannot fault you for is maintaining everyone’s privacy so thanks for that and we can’t wait to party with you all on Saturday x |
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"If Going To A Big Social Do You Want People To Know Beforehand?
I have been too quite a few socials in the past and have met some fantastic people during the event but one thing that struck me is there's plenty of people I have met at a social but didn't know they were going or later read the forum post the next day and see people whom I didn't know were going and I missed them at the social.
So is there people who don't want anyone to know they are going?
I don't mind announcing that I'm going so people can write down their favourite post I made up and ask me how did I come up with such amazing posts
So wits ur thoughts on this to social goers ? Andddddf if your going to the Xmas social yiu can say here "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John
I think the way you guys organise these events is spot on - there will always be a few that would like it done differently however one thing you cannot fault you for is maintaining everyone’s privacy so thanks for that and we can’t wait to party with you all on Saturday x"
I don't know if anyone who has complained about the organising or wanted it done differently in fact all the socials that I've been to, _earded blossom, pinup, cherub, jandj, missk to name but a few I'm sure a hope that theirs and all the other socials go well as I see them all at each other's socials so I'm sure they all bounce off experiences of what they went through organising
Tough job and credit to them all.
This thread was started just in general views of people not wanting to be known as I'm sure some do and some don't. Next time, if there is a next time, I'm no gonna tell anyone and do my Cilla Black - Suprise. Surprise. |
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John As it should be John "
Yup as with other socials, as you know we attend many others, we started doing them when others dropped the ball and we do it for no other reason than that. Difference socials offer different things, sometimes a quiet drinks night is just perfect for certain times of the year, sometimes something more is required, we end up being that busy making sure everyone is mingling etc that we don't get a moment for ourself and before we know its midnight  if it was upto me I'd keep it as simple as possible as people want to chat n mingle with as little hassle as possible as you are all the entertainment needed once everyone gets to the venue
I preferred when people only spoke to me for my dick and not because I'm part of this amazing social team
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John As it should be John
Yup as with other socials, as you know we attend many others, we started doing them when others dropped the ball and we do it for no other reason than that. Difference socials offer different things, sometimes a quiet drinks night is just perfect for certain times of the year, sometimes something more is required, we end up being that busy making sure everyone is mingling etc that we don't get a moment for ourself and before we know its midnight if it was upto me I'd keep it as simple as possible as people want to chat n mingle with as little hassle as possible as you are all the entertainment needed once everyone gets to the venue
I preferred when people only spoke to me for my dick and not because I'm part of this amazing social team
John "
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John As it should be John
Yup as with other socials, as you know we attend many others, we started doing them when others dropped the ball and we do it for no other reason than that. Difference socials offer different things, sometimes a quiet drinks night is just perfect for certain times of the year, sometimes something more is required, we end up being that busy making sure everyone is mingling etc that we don't get a moment for ourself and before we know its midnight if it was upto me I'd keep it as simple as possible as people want to chat n mingle with as little hassle as possible as you are all the entertainment needed once everyone gets to the venue
I preferred when people only spoke to me for my dick and not because I'm part of this amazing social team
John "
I speak to you for your Blossom |
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"If Going To A Big Social Do You Want People To Know Beforehand?
I have been too quite a few socials in the past and have met some fantastic people during the event but one thing that struck me is there's plenty of people I have met at a social but didn't know they were going or later read the forum post the next day and see people whom I didn't know were going and I missed them at the social.
So is there people who don't want anyone to know they are going?
I don't mind announcing that I'm going so people can write down their favourite post I made up and ask me how did I come up with such amazing posts
So wits ur thoughts on this to social goers ? Andddddf if your going to the Xmas social yiu can say here "
The song
"Your so vain" springs to mind.
OP are you seriously asking people to look you up at a xmas social to discuss your best post and how you thought of it . ??
In my opinion alone , i think this thread will actually make people going think more about avoiding you than looking for you. Anyway
As for your guest list thoughts OP, it can vary from social to social and simply be at the organisers discretion if published. They have took the time and shit load of effort so its up to those guys to decide. We have not revealed our party night guest list but are %100 sure we wont have any disappointed guests. It is also a bit more like meeting people for the first time for quite a few of our guest so hopefully that we butterflies in the belly feelings will kick in on the night. That is our reasoning on NOT revealing the guest list.
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John As it should be John
Yup as with other socials, as you know we attend many others, we started doing them when others dropped the ball and we do it for no other reason than that. Difference socials offer different things, sometimes a quiet drinks night is just perfect for certain times of the year, sometimes something more is required, we end up being that busy making sure everyone is mingling etc that we don't get a moment for ourself and before we know its midnight if it was upto me I'd keep it as simple as possible as people want to chat n mingle with as little hassle as possible as you are all the entertainment needed once everyone gets to the venue
I preferred when people only spoke to me for my dick and not because I'm part of this amazing social team
John
I speak to you for your Blossom "
in fact all the socials that I've been to, _earded blossom, pinup, cherub, jandj, missk to name but a few
Tough job and credit to them all.
Actually think Nawty was one of the organisers at my first big social and that was a brilliant night. |
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"I'd keep quiet. It would make it harder for the hitmen to track my movements.
As much as our socials are open to anyone who is a valid verified member on here we also out the known trouble makers who go out their way to try cause others distress so it's a non hostile venue sometimes they slip through but we just put them on the no-go list for next time round (if we do more socials)
John As it should be John
Yup as with other socials, as you know we attend many others, we started doing them when others dropped the ball and we do it for no other reason than that. Difference socials offer different things, sometimes a quiet drinks night is just perfect for certain times of the year, sometimes something more is required, we end up being that busy making sure everyone is mingling etc that we don't get a moment for ourself and before we know its midnight if it was upto me I'd keep it as simple as possible as people want to chat n mingle with as little hassle as possible as you are all the entertainment needed once everyone gets to the venue
I preferred when people only spoke to me for my dick and not because I'm part of this amazing social team
John "
Haha
But so true John. That is exactly what happens to the organisers. The night disappears so quick you have a 100 chats and cant remember 2 as they were so quick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve had a few people ask if they will see me there, but I’m not making it along 
Would be happy to divulge if I was though! "
Our loss that you won't be there |
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We don't go to socials but if we decided to attend one then we wouldn't let anyone know directly though we would make our interest known on the thread associated with it. Reading how much of a closed shop some socials can be though I dont see us changing our thoughts on them |
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"We don't go to socials but if we decided to attend one then we wouldn't let anyone know directly though we would make our interest known on the thread associated with it. Reading how much of a closed shop some socials can be though I dont see us changing our thoughts on them"
I don't know wit closed shop your talking about as far as I'm aware it's usually first come or first paid is going. In all the years I've only ever known 1 person banned from a social but I'd expect more that I'm not pricey too.
Obviously if people have a distaste for socials then I don't expect them to go and the organisers of any social are aware of anyone who lambasts a social so I wouldn't expect them to go.
I do not go to clubs like cjs or after8 they are most definetly not fir me and I've given my reasons, (only go if it was a big fab none playing event), but I certinally wouldn't slag them off when I haven't been.
Not saying you have but saying a closed shop when I've not known, heard or seen anything like that.
If you ever decide to go to a social then I'm sure you two will have a brilliant time |
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"We don't go to socials but if we decided to attend one then we wouldn't let anyone know directly though we would make our interest known on the thread associated with it. Reading how much of a closed shop some socials can be though I dont see us changing our thoughts on them"
Would you advertise you were having a first coffee meet on the forums ?
Probably not.
Could that also be called a closed shop social, when all the people you wish to attend are by your own personal invite. Ie you and the other couple. |
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Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all. "
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win. "
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...) |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...) "
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise. "
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse."
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum.. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum.. "
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I certainly would not make a big thing about it if i was going to a social. Its usually so busy its impossible to chat to everyone anyway and considering not many folk know what i look like it would be pointless. I just go and have a good time chatting to people i know and new people i meet. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum.. "
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating. "
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. . |
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Or maybe folk that's rubbed certain folk up the wrong way on forums behind keyboards are a bit worried some might seek them out
Alot tend not to announce where there are going and who with.
Socials are a great way of putting faces to names
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating.
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. . "
Oh the naughty step chronicles lol.
I have a reserved seat now , go in , welcome Mr He Devil. Can i take your cape. Your seat is all ready and waiting. Enjoy your stay, sir.
Thats respect Jack. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating.
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. .
Oh the naughty step chronicles lol.
I have a reserved seat now , go in , welcome Mr He Devil. Can i take your cape. Your seat is all ready and waiting. Enjoy your stay, sir.
Thats respect Jack. "
I was shoved in the corner with stale bread and not even a pot to piss in... But enough about my fantasies.  |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating.
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. .
Oh the naughty step chronicles lol.
I have a reserved seat now , go in , welcome Mr He Devil. Can i take your cape. Your seat is all ready and waiting. Enjoy your stay, sir.
Thats respect Jack.
I was shoved in the corner with stale bread and not even a pot to piss in... But enough about my fantasies. "
You were supposed to get mouldy bread, not stale. |
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating.
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. .
Oh the naughty step chronicles lol.
I have a reserved seat now , go in , welcome Mr He Devil. Can i take your cape. Your seat is all ready and waiting. Enjoy your stay, sir.
Thats respect Jack.
I was shoved in the corner with stale bread and not even a pot to piss in... But enough about my fantasies.
You were supposed to get mouldy bread, not stale. "
Ffs I thought it was gorgonzola
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"Sometimes I'd like to go along just to put faces to genitalia and there are a few who I think would be good company. Wouldn't advertise it though on a thread. And I'd need to sneak off the lead as the big Dug isn't into the social side at all.
You go to the social.. I'll. Make the big dug a decent feed and we can moan about everything. Win win.
I think that could swing it ( no pun intended...)
I wouldn't even ask for any payment monetary or otherwise.
Jack's back... I thought you'd OD'd on Night Nurse.
Nah I had an all expenses paid involuntary holiday from the forum..
I always found they were good for putting things into perspective, that and decorating.
Maybe we should. Compare notes then. .
Oh the naughty step chronicles lol.
I have a reserved seat now , go in , welcome Mr He Devil. Can i take your cape. Your seat is all ready and waiting. Enjoy your stay, sir.
Thats respect Jack.
I was shoved in the corner with stale bread and not even a pot to piss in... But enough about my fantasies.
You were supposed to get mouldy bread, not stale.
Ffs I thought it was gorgonzola
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To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. ) |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. ) "
I thought you were just back from your place?  |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place? "
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though. |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though. "
From here? |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though.
From here? "
Yes.. Don't look so shocked. |
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"Happy to tell people I'm going on Saturday, but I don't really go to that many socials. I'm a shy wee thing "
I get the impression only half of that is true! |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though.
From here?
Yes.. Don't look so shocked. "
Shocked. And stunned. Shocked and stunned. |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though.
From here?
Yes.. Don't look so shocked.
Shocked. And stunned. Shocked and stunned. "
That there are nice people on here or that they talked to me? |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though.
From here?
Yes.. Don't look so shocked.
Shocked. And stunned. Shocked and stunned.
That there are nice people on here or that they talked to me? "
Both, really. |
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"To get things back on track. If I was accepted on the guest list for a social, I don't think I would say so on a thread. I would probably not sit in a corner but definitely not in the centre of things... Like on fab... I'd find my place eventually. (though I'm still looking for my place here. )
I thought you were just back from your place?
Nah... I was just a guest. Met some nice people though.
From here?
Yes.. Don't look so shocked.
Shocked. And stunned. Shocked and stunned.
That there are nice people on here or that they talked to me?
Both, really. "
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"Happy to tell people I'm going on Saturday, but I don't really go to that many socials. I'm a shy wee thing
I get the impression only half of that is true! "
Definitely short |
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over a year ago
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I think some folk would like to keep it quiet to the masses in case stalkers or general arsey type folks turn up because they are going or don’t want to let folk down if said assgoles then say they’re going |
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"We don't go to socials but if we decided to attend one then we wouldn't let anyone know directly though we would make our interest known on the thread associated with it. Reading how much of a closed shop some socials can be though I dont see us changing our thoughts on them"
Omg you’re so wrong about the socials at least when I’m there I talk to everyone even if they don’t want to lol in fact I can walk into any pub etc and talk shite to everyone and anyone and have fun and the social like any night is the same there’s always going to be people who get along and those who don’t but it’s definately not a closed shop by any means |
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"Or maybe folk that's rubbed certain folk up the wrong way on forums behind keyboards are a bit worried some might seek them out
Alot tend not to announce where there are going and who with.
Socials are a great way of putting faces to names
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Oh yeah like _e devil sought me out at cjs one night canny shake him off now he’s like a dug with a stick trying to wrestle it off his master only the master is a wrestler so no getting it |
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I dont believe most are socials to begin with. more akin to a meeting of the usual crowd and a token few others.
of the ones I will attend inc down south I put my name down pay and probably wouldnt say much else |
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"Or maybe folk that's rubbed certain folk up the wrong way on forums behind keyboards are a bit worried some might seek them out
Alot tend not to announce where there are going and who with.
Socials are a great way of putting faces to names
Oh yeah like _e devil sought me out at cjs one night canny shake him off now he’s like a dug with a stick trying to wrestle it off his master only the master is a wrestler so no getting it "
Yeah right!!!
The answers still "no"
Im married.
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"I certainly would not make a big thing about it if i was going to a social. Its usually so busy its impossible to chat to everyone anyway and considering not many folk know what i look like it would be pointless. I just go and have a good time chatting to people i know and new people i meet."
And if i was that interested in meeting someone i would have messaged them weeks ago and met them in a different enviroment |
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! x"
Hey Cate im sure you are and always welcome to sit with me.x |
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! x
Hey Cate im sure you are and always welcome to sit with me.x"
I doubt it honey but it's always nice seeing you x |
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! x
You’ve always been welcome at ours Cate
K x"
Lol I hope you're not just saying that just because I put up that comment! I wasn't looking for an invite, I hope you know that as I wouldn't do that sort of thing. It's not my style. I know you're full up for your social now anyway K x |
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! x
You’ve always been welcome at ours Cate
K x
Lol I hope you're not just saying that just because I put up that comment! I wasn't looking for an invite, I hope you know that as I wouldn't do that sort of thing. It's not my style. I know you're full up for your social now anyway K x"
Yes we are full... I meant in general
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! x
You’ve always been welcome at ours Cate
K x
Lol I hope you're not just saying that just because I put up that comment! I wasn't looking for an invite, I hope you know that as I wouldn't do that sort of thing. It's not my style. I know you're full up for your social now anyway K x
Yes we are full... I meant in general
K x"
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By *ullpa72Man
over a year ago
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This will be my first social ! I do not know anyone and I expect there will be a big turn out.so feeling a bit nervous but looking forward to it .In answer to the op for me yes I am happy to let people know what I am up to. |
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For us we go to socials to meet new ppl and have a good night out and have no issues letting fellow fabsters know.
So on that note.....
We’re heading along to the Xmas social on Saturday night. Woohoo.
J x |
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"I used to enjoy going to the socials but I don't register my interest now as I get the impression I'm not welcome at them. Who knows! xyour always welcome at any of my get togethers "
Thanks honey, much appreciated x |
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