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To lie or not to lie?, that is the question
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..  |
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Depends on the circumstances. If he was being a twat he wouldn't get a veri. If he's a decent guy, but you just didn't have a connection he would get one.
I'm sure people on here have received some not very nice veris, but wouldn't put them on their profile x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I didn't like him because he turned out to be an arsehole I wouldn't verify him.
If I didn't like him because the sex was shite then I may verify him as genuine. But it would be short and sweet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I didn't like him because he turned out to be an arsehole I wouldn't verify him.
If I didn't like him because the sex was shite then I may verify him as genuine. But it would be short and sweet."
You might as well verify me now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends on the circumstances. If he was being a twat he wouldn't get a veri. If he's a decent guy, but you just didn't have a connection he would get one.
I'm sure people on here have received some not very nice veris, but wouldn't put them on their profile x"
Should it not then be the case that All verifications should be shown, if say someone has 3 verifications and all 3 are bad it would maybe help in the decision making process whether to meet them or not? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the circumstances. If he was being a twat he wouldn't get a veri. If he's a decent guy, but you just didn't have a connection he would get one.
I'm sure people on here have received some not very nice veris, but wouldn't put them on their profile x
Should it not then be the case that All verifications should be shown, if say someone has 3 verifications and all 3 are bad it would maybe help in the decision making process whether to meet them or not? X"
Would you really base your decision to meet someone based only on what others say about them? |
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"Depends on the circumstances. If he was being a twat he wouldn't get a veri. If he's a decent guy, but you just didn't have a connection he would get one.
I'm sure people on here have received some not very nice veris, but wouldn't put them on their profile x
Should it not then be the case that All verifications should be shown, if say someone has 3 verifications and all 3 are bad it would maybe help in the decision making process whether to meet them or not? X"
Too many people can't take rejection, so don't think that's a good idea x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends on the circumstances. If he was being a twat he wouldn't get a veri. If he's a decent guy, but you just didn't have a connection he would get one.
I'm sure people on here have received some not very nice veris, but wouldn't put them on their profile x
Should it not then be the case that All verifications should be shown, if say someone has 3 verifications and all 3 are bad it would maybe help in the decision making process whether to meet them or not? X
Too many people can't take rejection, so don't think that's a good idea x"
Yeah I have to say you're right on that one, I don't really take much notice of verifications as they tend to be the same as all the others.x |
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female.. "
yes I would verify them,just because they werent for me doesnt mean they wouldnt suit someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See just for one day though, would it not be a total riot if Fab displayed all verifications...the goid, the bad and the ugly..?"
Two out of three here...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See just for one day though, would it not be a total riot if Fab displayed all verifications...the goid, the bad and the ugly..?"
That would be fine I'd they didn't show who left the verification, just the text. As so many comments have been made about judgement made on who has been meeting who.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)  "
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it."
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it.
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry. "
Scaredy cat...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it.
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry.
Scaredy cat... "
Too fucking right I am. But then again you haven't seen the size of my assteroids |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it.
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry.
Scaredy cat...
Too fucking right I am. But then again you haven't seen the size of my assteroids "
Assteroids, dangleberries... not my area of expertise!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it.
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry.
Scaredy cat...
Too fucking right I am. But then again you haven't seen the size of my assteroids
Assteroids, dangleberries... not my area of expertise! "
Just a hobby then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who's asking admin for a forum amnesty day?
It doesn't matter. They won't answer. (preparing my ass for an admin kicking)
Bend over, I'll kick it for you. Unless Doggy beats me to it.
I ain't bending over anywhere near you. Sorry not sorry.
Scaredy cat...
Too fucking right I am. But then again you haven't seen the size of my assteroids
Assteroids, dangleberries... not my area of expertise!
Just a hobby then "
Not a jobby hobby! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We once left a veri that read 'turned up on time and looked like his pictures'. It didn't get displayed
Honest at least."
No that honest, he was 5 minutes late |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We once left a veri that read 'turned up on time and looked like his pictures'. It didn't get displayed
Honest at least.
No that honest, he was 5 minutes late "
I have one that mentions I arrived early. (no I didn't go up, just messaged to say I was early. And no it isn't a euphemism for premature either.  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We once left a veri that read 'turned up on time and looked like his pictures'. It didn't get displayed
Honest at least.
No that honest, he was 5 minutes late
I have one that mentions I arrived early. (no I didn't go up, just messaged to say I was early. And no it isn't a euphemism for premature either. ) "
Yeah, yeah, yeah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We once left a veri that read 'turned up on time and looked like his pictures'. It didn't get displayed
Honest at least.
No that honest, he was 5 minutes late
I have one that mentions I arrived early. (no I didn't go up, just messaged to say I was early. And no it isn't a euphemism for premature either. )
Yeah, yeah, yeah! "
You singing the beatles. Must be thinking about Wade and Vanessa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the other comments the ladies have said. If the sex was shite but he was a nice enough guy, I would just give him a very short but polite verification. If he wasn't for me and there was no attraction then there wouldn't be any sex anyway. I would just verify him for the social but again keeping it short, just to show that he is genuine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female.. "
If I didn't like him or his company I would just say so and wouldn't expect him to ask for a verification!
I did leave someone a veri that fell asleep on cam, he never displayed it Though, he may think I'm one of those creepy wierdos that like sleeping cams |
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By *illnatMan
over a year ago
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..
If I didn't like him or his company I would just say so and wouldn't expect him to ask for a verification!
I did leave someone a veri that fell asleep on cam, he never displayed it Though, he may think I'm one of those creepy wierdos that like sleeping cams "
It wasn’t me again was it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree with the other comments the ladies have said. If the sex was shite but he was a nice enough guy, I would just give him a very short but polite verification. If he wasn't for me and there was no attraction then there wouldn't be any sex anyway. I would just verify him for the social but again keeping it short, just to show that he is genuine x"
Am so relieved that our meets have been verified and on display Cate, i was panicking there haha lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..
If I didn't like him or his company I would just say so and wouldn't expect him to ask for a verification!
I did leave someone a veri that fell asleep on cam, he never displayed it Though, he may think I'm one of those creepy wierdos that like sleeping cams "
OMG Ruby, that could only happen to you lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..
If I didn't like him or his company I would just say so and wouldn't expect him to ask for a verification!
I did leave someone a veri that fell asleep on cam, he never displayed it Though, he may think I'm one of those creepy wierdos that like sleeping cams
It wasn’t me again was it "
Am just glad it wasnt me that fell asleep lol, then again I have only been on cam once xx |
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female.. "
I'd refuse to leave a verification as a bad one would likely just be hidden. I've never lied in a veri. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..
I'd refuse to leave a verification as a bad one would likely just be hidden. I've never lied in a veri."
What would you do if he send you a veri that was total lies,made out you both had the time of your lifes.. would you show it or not? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is one for the females to answer but guys can chip in if they want.
So ladies, if after you had a meet with a guy and you didn't like him or even like being in his company and he then messages you to ask you to verify him,, would you do it for him? and if you did verify him would you lie and say you would recommend him to others to meet up with him?.
For the record it's a hypothetical question as I have yet to come across a bad verification of anyone on fab be it male or female..
If I didn't like him or his company I would just say so and wouldn't expect him to ask for a verification!
I did leave someone a veri that fell asleep on cam, he never displayed it Though, he may think I'm one of those creepy wierdos that like sleeping cams
It wasn’t me again was it "
Lol nope was funny a few people fell asleep that night on cam. D*unken bums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with the other comments the ladies have said. If the sex was shite but he was a nice enough guy, I would just give him a very short but polite verification. If he wasn't for me and there was no attraction then there wouldn't be any sex anyway. I would just verify him for the social but again keeping it short, just to show that he is genuine x
Am so relieved that our meets have been verified and on display Cate, i was panicking there haha lol xx "
Me too honey. Lol no need to panic. You're one of the nicest men I've met T so I wouldn't not display them x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree with the other comments the ladies have said. If the sex was shite but he was a nice enough guy, I would just give him a very short but polite verification. If he wasn't for me and there was no attraction then there wouldn't be any sex anyway. I would just verify him for the social but again keeping it short, just to show that he is genuine x
Am so relieved that our meets have been verified and on display Cate, i was panicking there haha lol xx
Me too honey. Lol no need to panic. You're one of the nicest men I've met T so I wouldn't not display them x"
Aww thank you Cate, that means alot to me especially as it's from you, you are a diamond xx |
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"I agree with the other comments the ladies have said. If the sex was shite but he was a nice enough guy, I would just give him a very short but polite verification. If he wasn't for me and there was no attraction then there wouldn't be any sex anyway. I would just verify him for the social but again keeping it short, just to show that he is genuine x
Am so relieved that our meets have been verified and on display Cate, i was panicking there haha lol xx
Me too honey. Lol no need to panic. You're one of the nicest men I've met T so I wouldn't not display them x
Aww thank you Cate, that means alot to me especially as it's from you, you are a diamond xx "
Aaaw shucks, thank you!! x |
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