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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This debate will have been done to death but no wonder single guys get a bad rep on here.
Recently set up an account with a female friend looking for a guy to join us. Set out specifically what we want and that we wont be rushing in to meet with first guy who comes along etc.
Doesnt stop whallopers coming along expecting a meet that instance though. Most of them just send 1 line of crap thinking thatll do the trick and get uppety coz theyve no got a reply. If theyre not gonna put any effort in to a PM then why should folk be expected to go to the effort of replying? Especially when they havent taken heed of the fact we're not looking for an immediate meet with just anyone.
I realise how difficult it can be being a single guy on here for god sake lads do yourselves a favour and show a bit more respect and a bit less desperation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm just too shy to message people.
I so wish I had the guts first of all.
Then I'll worry what to say on the message.
maybe summit like "hi, how you doing"
xx
happy new year to you all
peter
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"This debate will have been done to death but no wonder single guys get a bad rep on here.
Recently set up an account with a female friend looking for a guy to join us. Set out specifically what we want and that we wont be rushing in to meet with first guy who comes along etc.
Doesnt stop whallopers coming along expecting a meet that instance though. Most of them just send 1 line of crap thinking thatll do the trick and get uppety coz theyve no got a reply. If theyre not gonna put any effort in to a PM then why should folk be expected to go to the effort of replying? Especially when they havent taken heed of the fact we're not looking for an immediate meet with just anyone.
I realise how difficult it can be being a single guy on here for god sake lads do yourselves a favour and show a bit more respect and a bit less desperation."
why oh why oh why do it if you know its been done to death ..................ahhh i see im now a cpl so look at me.or are you really thinking that your pearls of wisdom are going to change anything????
leave the numptys to act as they will makes them easier to out leaving people with what they want sorry for my post coming across condescending but i am answering in how i find the post!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This debate will have been done to death but no wonder single guys get a bad rep on here.
Recently set up an account with a female friend looking for a guy to join us. Set out specifically what we want and that we wont be rushing in to meet with first guy who comes along etc.
Doesnt stop whallopers coming along expecting a meet that instance though. Most of them just send 1 line of crap thinking thatll do the trick and get uppety coz theyve no got a reply. If theyre not gonna put any effort in to a PM then why should folk be expected to go to the effort of replying? Especially when they havent taken heed of the fact we're not looking for an immediate meet with just anyone.
I realise how difficult it can be being a single guy on here for god sake lads do yourselves a favour and show a bit more respect and a bit less desperation.why oh why oh why do it if you know its been done to death ..................ahhh i see im now a cpl so look at me.or are you really thinking that your pearls of wisdom are going to change anything????
leave the numptys to act as they will makes them easier to out leaving people with what they want sorry for my post coming across condescending but i am answering in how i find the post!!!
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Very condescending |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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must admit,,,i hate the whole,,,i used to be a single guy but now im a cpl,,,single guys are numpty threads,,,pot kettle and all that  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"must admit,,,i hate the whole,,,i used to be a single guy but now im a cpl,,,single guys are numpty threads,,,pot kettle and all that "
Im still here as a single man, theres no used to be a single man about it.
Just now I seen the other side of the fence whilst trying to find a meet for myself and female FB so wrongly assumed the forums were the place to discuss. ill know to keep mi puss shut in future though |
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"must admit,,,i hate the whole,,,i used to be a single guy but now im a cpl,,,single guys are numpty threads,,,pot kettle and all that
Im still here as a single man, theres no used to be a single man about it.
Just now I seen the other side of the fence whilst trying to find a meet for myself and female FB so wrongly assumed the forums were the place to discuss. ill know to keep mi puss shut in future though"
no one is asking you to shut your puss and the forums are the place to discuss not everyone will agree with you.
me i personally hate bash the single male threads i recieve lots of mail from gays transvestites fems cpls not all of which i could say i enjoy but dont feel the need to rattle a post up everytime i get them and if you are as you say you are a single male that dosnt treat people in that manner they should annoy you too
and also you are running two profiles is this not having your cake and eating it along with plenty others cake!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"must admit,,,i hate the whole,,,i used to be a single guy but now im a cpl,,,single guys are numpty threads,,,pot kettle and all that
Im still here as a single man, theres no used to be a single man about it.
Just now I seen the other side of the fence whilst trying to find a meet for myself and female FB so wrongly assumed the forums were the place to discuss. ill know to keep mi puss shut in future though"
what was the question again? Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i do feel single guys do get a hard time on here. I have been on here for a few weeks and not even a sniff of a meet at all. U see some girls they are getting meets within a week. dont know what I am doing wrong?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe cause the only pics on your profile is 1 of your arse and 1 of your knob? Dosnt exactly stand out frow the hundreds of single guy profiles? Sorry you did ask?x auds x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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95% of profiles dont have face pics? We dont? But u can still have decent pics? Everyone has family/jobs they want to keep private? Dsnt mean u have to be boring with ur pics.u want a meet u have to try and stand out from the crowd? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is what it is. I know I'm going tp have a tough time and not get many meets. I took all my pics and info down because some one posted shit about me on line. I am in high profile job and have enough attention, without adding to it. I enjoy the Sven but not willing to risk everything because people demand pics. So I meet who and when I can, I'm always honest and never timewaster. I did go to cjs but got recognised and not been back since. If you want to have more meets you can. Just add more pics, or go to more socials.
All single guys on here are nit all dicks and timewasters some are genuine and honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is what it is. I know I'm going tp have a tough time and not get many meets. I took all my pics and info down because some one posted shit about me on line. I am in high profile job and have enough attention, without adding to it. I enjoy the Sven but not willing to risk everything because people demand pics. So I meet who and when I can, I'm always honest and never timewaster. I did go to cjs but got recognised and not been back since. If you want to have more meets you can. Just add more pics, or go to more socials.
All single guys on here are nit all dicks and timewasters some are genuine and honest. "
Some are genuine,dependable,reliable,wont tread on your toes,busy themselves lookin up your info by way of a fastrack easy meet, yup some are nice,met ohhhh ten in ten years of swinging among the hundreds here. |
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By *hillaxMan
over a year ago
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Life is too short.
If I send an email to anyone on here ( and I don't mean a one liner) and they haven't replied within 24hours after reading (not me sending it) or if they delete it without reply, then I just block them.
That basic lack of courtesy, a simple "thanks, but no thanks" or one I use personally "no thank you, but thank you for asking" just shows me that they're not the kind of person or couple that I would be interested in anyway.
That's how I play, and it works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life is too short.
If I send an email to anyone on here ( and I don't mean a one liner) and they haven't replied within 24hours after reading (not me sending it) or if they delete it without reply, then I just block them.
That basic lack of courtesy, a simple "thanks, but no thanks" or one I use personally "no thank you, but thank you for asking" just shows me that they're not the kind of person or couple that I would be interested in anyway.
That's how I play, and it works for me."
Yep, second that, and never been to a social or party in my life, nor do I bother with the chat rooms either!!
Patience is a virtue on here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i do feel single guys do get a hard time on here. I have been on here for a few weeks and not even a sniff of a meet at all. U see some girls they are getting meets within a week. dont know what I am doing wrong? "
Excuse me? Not a sniff? Not what your veris suggest!!
Besides patience, honesty is a virtue too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is what it is. I know I'm going tp have a tough time and not get many meets. I took all my pics and info down because some one posted shit about me on line. I am in high profile job and have enough attention, without adding to it. I enjoy the Sven but not willing to risk everything because people demand pics. So I meet who and when I can, I'm always honest and never timewaster. I did go to cjs but got recognised and not been back since. If you want to have more meets you can. Just add more pics, or go to more socials.
All single guys on here are nit all dicks and timewasters some are genuine and honest. "
oooo admit it,,,your really tommy sheridan aint you,,lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life is too short.
If I send an email to anyone on here ( and I don't mean a one liner) and they haven't replied within 24hours after reading (not me sending it) or if they delete it without reply, then I just block them.
That basic lack of courtesy, a simple "thanks, but no thanks" or one I use personally "no thank you, but thank you for asking" just shows me that they're not the kind of person or couple that I would be interested in anyway.
That's how I play, and it works for me."
Once messaged a couple i liked, no instant reply,no clinical block from me,weeks later a lovely, "oops sorry we never got back to you" style message, a simple party invite for the future, we partied, now good friends on here,is it this thread mentioning,,,patience?  |
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