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By *atti Jo OP Woman
over a year ago
Kemnay |
Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? |
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over a year ago
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog? 
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
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No you said you met some one blind. |
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog?
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
No you said you met some one blind."
I was trying to be funny |
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog?
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
No you said you met some one blind.
I was trying to be funny "
So was I. |
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog?
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
No you said you met some one blind.
I was trying to be funny
So was I."
Ffs guys leave the funny stuff to me ehhh!
Anyways, no I wouldn't meet unless I knew what the person looked like and actually if I met and they were nothing like their pic, then I'd just leave.  |
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I would not meet a girl if I hadn't seen her face but I care more about the personality of the girl so the face pic for me ain't that important if we can't have a laugh who cares what she looks like |
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over a year ago
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog?
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
No you said you met some one blind.
I was trying to be funny
So was I.
Ffs guys leave the funny stuff to me ehhh!
Anyways, no I wouldn't meet unless I knew what the person looked like and actually if I met and they were nothing like their pic, then I'd just leave. "
I think I'll leave everything to someone else. Everybody seems to know better than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met someone blind once. I was lucky. Wouldn't do it again
Did he have a white stick or a guide dog?
Are u trying to imply that I'm ugly ?
No you said you met some one blind.
I was trying to be funny
So was I.
Ffs guys leave the funny stuff to me ehhh!
Anyways, no I wouldn't meet unless I knew what the person looked like and actually if I met and they were nothing like their pic, then I'd just leave.
I think I'll leave everything to someone else. Everybody seems to know better than me."
Pmsl if that way a funny it had me smiling.
Tons of people's know things better than you and tons of people know things better than me and the same for others.
It's the person who know things better than everyone on here, that's the person we either like to know or stay away from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know bugger all.   I did meet someone without seeing a face pic but had been chatting for a while I enjoyed their personality through messages. It can work. |
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over a year ago
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I have met someone from here who didn’t have any pics on the site
However, after a short conversation we swapped face pics and met in a regular basis for about 18 months |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to use kik,whatsapp,or Skype for a video chat flirt to authenticate the person and build up some sexual tension.
Don't mind a social but prefer video chat. |
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By *atti Jo OP Woman
over a year ago
Kemnay |
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Tons of people's know things better than you and tons of people know things better than me and the same for others.
It's the person who know things better than everyone on here, that's the person we either like to know or stay away from. "
True wisdom is knowing what you don’t know!!! |
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Obviously you gotta see pics of eachother, that's just odd if no pics are available, and to agree to meet a faceless stranger is either desperate or suspicious. Usually if I send a couple a face pic then im likely to get one in return, but singles though tend not to and disappear afterwards so for this reason I'm always wary about sending the first pic, unfortunately it seems most women on here refuse to be the first one to send the first face pic and claim to send one back only after receiving one, which is usually untrue |
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By *atti Jo OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Obviously you gotta see pics of eachother, that's just odd if no pics are available, and to agree to meet a faceless stranger is either desperate or suspicious. Usually if I send a couple a face pic then im likely to get one in return, but singles though tend not to and disappear afterwards so for this reason I'm always wary about sending the first pic, unfortunately it seems most women on here refuse to be the first one to send the first face pic and claim to send one back only after receiving one, which is usually untrue"
I always send one back regardless if i am attracted to them or not.. i said i would and i do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? "
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've previously met people without seeing photos and been pleasantly surprised. Have also met some who don't look exactly like the photos they send (not recent photos etc).
Not that we all look like we do on our best photos all the time. |
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? "
in that case why are you not displaying a face pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic"
Cos every one and their granny would be able to see it x |
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By *atti Jo OP Woman
over a year ago
Kemnay |
"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic"
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x"
Met a couple for mmf where she was blindfolded, was her birthday and her hubby wanted to give her a surprise
However, the 3 of us met for a coffee/drink first a couple of days before event.
Prior to that coffee I had no idea what she looked like as profile was a silhouette |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x
Met a couple for mmf where she was blindfolded, was her birthday and her hubby wanted to give her a surprise
However, the 3 of us met for a coffee/drink first a couple of days before event.
Prior to that coffee I had no idea what she looked like as profile was a silhouette "
Funnily enough that happened on my birthday too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x
Met a couple for mmf where she was blindfolded, was her birthday and her hubby wanted to give her a surprise
However, the 3 of us met for a coffee/drink first a couple of days before event.
Prior to that coffee I had no idea what she looked like as profile was a silhouette
Funnily enough that happened on my birthday too x"
Fuck sake....Mr is needing to up his game....I got a bottle of wine and a box of Maltesers. |
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definitely need to see a face pic before meeting - if they wont send a face pic then no meet. Theres no point meeting, for me, if i dont find them attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x
Met a couple for mmf where she was blindfolded, was her birthday and her hubby wanted to give her a surprise
However, the 3 of us met for a coffee/drink first a couple of days before event.
Prior to that coffee I had no idea what she looked like as profile was a silhouette
Funnily enough that happened on my birthday too x
Fuck sake....Mr is needing to up his game....I got a bottle of wine and a box of Maltesers. "
I never got asked back so wasn’t all great
Saying that he contacted me a couple of months later, he got caught cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x
Met a couple for mmf where she was blindfolded, was her birthday and her hubby wanted to give her a surprise
However, the 3 of us met for a coffee/drink first a couple of days before event.
Prior to that coffee I had no idea what she looked like as profile was a silhouette
Funnily enough that happened on my birthday too x
Fuck sake....Mr is needing to up his game....I got a bottle of wine and a box of Maltesers.
I never got asked back so wasn’t all great
Saying that he contacted me a couple of months later, he got caught cheating.
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Who did he get caught cheating with x |
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? "
No face pic no meet and we state this on profile but guys don't get it lol and wonder why they get ignored. soreeeee guys our rules |
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"I would not meet a girl if I hadn't seen her face but I care more about the personality of the girl so the face pic for me ain't that important if we can't have a laugh who cares what she looks like "
What utter bollox ,if she had one eye ,not teeth ,looked like Zelda you can't seriously be saying you would still take them to bed  |
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"I would not meet a girl if I hadn't seen her face but I care more about the personality of the girl so the face pic for me ain't that important if we can't have a laugh who cares what she looks like
What utter bollox ,if she had one eye ,not teeth ,looked like Zelda you can't seriously be saying you would still take them to bed "
Any hole's a goal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind?
We had an mmf and I was blindfolded when the guy showed up. Only saw him half way through. I would do it again x"
Did he know what you looked like before hand? |
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? "
my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first"
Have you got one on show? |
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For me, a face pic is essential within a message. My first message is always with a face pic attached. It shows you’re genuine.
That doesn’t mean to say you have to display on your profile, but at least have the decency to show your face to someone who you want to show a lot more to. |
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first
Have you got one on show?"
not me claiming ones required |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first
Have you got one on show?not me claiming ones required "
But you are challenging someone for the same thing. Don't you see the irony? |
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"If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
for myself this is where the irony lies
you really like to white knight it up dont you digit"
I just love it. |
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By *atti Jo OP Woman
over a year ago
Kemnay |
"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first
Have you got one on show?"
You have misunderstood my point... i dont demand a face pic but i expect a mutual exchange of a face pic prior to agreeing to meet! I regularly get guys saying they dont want to do that and why does it matter! They might fuck anything, but i have standards. I am not saying people should have one on show this is not a dating site but i expect to share one to ensure there is mutual attraction. Hope this is makes my point clear. But after all this is just my perception and was curious to what others thoughts were. There is certainly no chatising done from me. |
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By *atti Jo OP Woman
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Kemnay |
"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first"
Answered your point below! |
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"Or is it...
Guys think you can just have a social or meet with no face picture to see if there is that initial attraction. This is not gender specific just my experience.
If you’re bold enough to be here, be brave to share your face.
For me i dont want my time wasted or waste anyone elses time if there is not that mutual attraction.
Do people do this blind? in that case why are you not displaying a face pic
Because i dont need to have my face on display, this is not a dating site. I display what i think represents me sexually. However in chat exchange i have no issue in sharing this pretty face lol
Hope that answers your question ? my point was your chastising folk for something your not willing to do yourself imo the person asking for a facepic should send theirs first
Have you got one on show?
You have misunderstood my point... i dont demand a face pic but i expect a mutual exchange of a face pic prior to agreeing to meet! I regularly get guys saying they dont want to do that and why does it matter! They might fuck anything, but i have standards. I am not saying people should have one on show this is not a dating site but i expect to share one to ensure there is mutual attraction. Hope this is makes my point clear. But after all this is just my perception and was curious to what others thoughts were. There is certainly no chatising done from me. "
Don't worry, some people just like to stick a wooden spoon in the manure. |
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